"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

[SoonerFan72]

Man you guys are good, I was talking to her and just saw your post like in fraction of a second. I managed to register, finally with a regular good working card.

I could use some advice on how this thing works. They all seem fake to me. Is there a username search anywhere or I can only access reviewed people if I click on their link provided here?

My number one rule is ALWAYS get a verification pic. Ask them to take a very simple, yet specific photo. Have them hold up a pencil or write your name on a sheet of paper. You will quickly weed out the scammers. Use common sense. If it feels fake, it probably is. And never be afraid to walk away. Oh, and never fucking ever send them money for nothing. They got to play to get paid.

Good luck.

[HugeDell]

Complete fake. Chatted for a bit, said all the right things, but it was too easy. Moved to text, asked for the verification pic, and crickets. She immediately blocked me on SA. But since I'm a SA ninja, I knew to grab the link ahead of time, since I was pretty sure she was fake.

https://www.seeking.com/member/a946c...8-e18925fc3e08

Man you guys are good, I was talking to her and just saw your post like in fraction of a second. I managed to register, finally with a regular good working card.

I could use some advice on how this thing works. They all seem fake to me. Is there a username search anywhere or I can only access reviewed people if I click on their link provided here?

[TooHotForYou]

Don't have link cause I blocked her but she is complete mess. I thought everything was going well until I mentioned how we were going to meet due to her current situation she can't drive herself, won't get picked up, won't Uber like WTF? Anyways she completely went crazzzzy. The usual, name calling, how we SD's are embarrassing and dumb having to pay for the hobby. How she has 2 "other" SD a d wish I was one of them. LOL umm I guess? I did want her cause thought she was a cute little thing would have many fun nights LOL. Her profile says from Hull, GA but she lied she lives somewhere in Comer.

I know her. She'll keep texting you for years after you told her no to what she wanted. She did it to me.

[SoonerFan72]

Complete fake. Chatted for a bit, said all the right things, but it was too easy. Moved to text, asked for the verification pic, and crickets. She immediately blocked me on SA. But since I'm a SA ninja, I knew to grab the link ahead of time, since I was pretty sure she was fake.

https://www.seeking.com/member/a946c...8-e18925fc3e08

[Jims2321]

Don't have link cause I blocked her but she is complete mess. I thought everything was going well until I mentioned how we were going to meet due to her current situation she can't drive herself, won't get picked up, won't Uber like WTF? Anyways she completely went crazzzzy. The usual, name calling, how we SD's are embarrassing and dumb having to pay for the hobby. How she has 2 "other" SD a d wish I was one of them. LOL umm I guess? I did want her cause thought she was a cute little thing would have many fun nights LOL. Her profile says from Hull, GA but she lied she lives somewhere in Comer.

Here ya go on that link.

https://www.seeking.com/member/93d28...a-590e5987dea0

But count your blessings, imagine the shit show that you might have had to deal with post coitus.

[CarmelFight]

Don't have link cause I blocked her but she is complete mess. I thought everything was going well until I mentioned how we were going to meet due to her current situation she can't drive herself, won't get picked up, won't Uber like WTF? Anyways she completely went crazzzzy. The usual, name calling, how we SD's are embarrassing and dumb having to pay for the hobby. How she has 2 "other" SD a d wish I was one of them. LOL umm I guess? I did want her cause thought she was a cute little thing would have many fun nights LOL. Her profile says from Hull, GA but she lied she lives somewhere in Comer.

[Johnny Mapalo]

My account was also suspended yesterday and I originally thought the payment was processed and then I was suspended, but after checking my balance I see the charge never went through. It's still frustrating, but at least I don't feel like I was robbed. I've been paying with a virtual Visa from giftcards.com for a couple of years now and never had an issue. Has anyone else had their account suspended after paying with a virtual gift card? Also, has anyone renewed in the last couple of weeks with a gift card and if so can you please tell me what brand and where it came from. The verbiage on the notice makes it seem like this is a timed suspension so I'm hoping it will be lifted, but I'll still be faced with having to pay.

To answer this question about the risk of using a real credit card. Take a look at some of the articles regarding the Ashley Madison hack several years ago. Lots of people had their identities released for the world to see and it cost people their jobs, friends, and marriages. If you aren't worried about blowback from the world knowing then go for it.

I just renewed last week (4th of July $60 special) with a Visa gift card and it went through flawlessly. I've been suspended from the site at least 5 times and get back on every single time. LOL. I currently have 2 unpaid and 1 paid profile on the site. LOL. Just check my back post on this thread to see what Visa gift card I use.

[GoneForGood97]

I joined SA hoping to find an ongoing sexual relationship with some sort of connection. Not just pay, pump and go. Which seems to be what most are on there for. Both men and women. I have met about 8 so far. 5 I turned down, 2 I did the pump and go, and one that turned me down. That one in my opinion was the best as far as looks and personality. Or maybe we just want what we can't get. I have somewhat followed her social media accounts and found out she was helping a friend with a bar. I went into the bar but was wearing a hat and glasses, she did not recognize me at all and was super friendly. I plan on returning to the bar tomorrow night when she's working. I am wondering should I just continue to be regular bar patron, do you think after a while I could throw her an offer? Should I mention I met her before on SA, or maybe say I saw her profile on SA? I don't even know if her profile is still up on essay or not because she blocked me. Morgan242 or morganna242.

You should not meet her, you shouldn't track her down, and you sure as hell shouldn't go to this woman's place of work and try to get with her.

She told you no. That's the end of the conversation. You keep going down this path, you deserve the restraining order she ends up filing against you.

Move on before you do something stupid that you both regret.

[DrSummer]

I have no way of proving this. But this is my theory. SA is walking on a tight rope to stay in business due to recent legislations regarding prostitution. While they don't want to take a big hit to their income, they want to have some evidence they suspend accounts that don't follow their rules. I use my own credit card (has been using the same card) and my real name is associated (I know the risk, but I am willing to take it). They may suspend people at random, but may check their payment history before suspending. They may not go hard on regular customers. I don't know when you use gift cards if you use the same name over and over or use different names. Regardless they may have a way to figure out the origin of the card. So, they would rather suspend an infrequent member than a routinely paying guy. The issue what I hear is if you get permanently banned (for whatever the reason) getting back is not easy. I have been on the site for about 4 years and renew monthly. Typically I have a week or two gap between but keep the membership going all the time. I message hundreds of girls a month. While I am being careful, I get so many messages about PPM, and explicit talk. I immediately take them offline, but I feel they may so soft on members like me. Once I got a warning about potential "commercial activity", I think due to the volume of the same message I have been sending out. But, didn't get suspended. Just my theory. Anyway, I wouldn't be surprised if they suspend me tomorrow. Just it could be the luck.

Stay Safe.

Dr. S.

My account was also suspended yesterday and I originally thought the payment was processed and then I was suspended, but after checking my balance I see the charge never went through. It's still frustrating, but at least I don't feel like I was robbed. I've been paying with a virtual Visa from giftcards.com for a couple of years now and never had an issue. Has anyone else had their account suspended after paying with a virtual gift card? Also, has anyone renewed in the last couple of weeks with a gift card and if so can you please tell me what brand and where it came from. The verbiage on the notice makes it seem like this is a timed suspension so I'm hoping it will be lifted, but I'll still be faced with having to pay.

To answer this question about the risk of using a real credit card. Take a look at some of the articles regarding the Ashley Madison hack several years ago. Lots of people had their identities released for the world to see and it cost people their jobs, friends, and marriages. If you aren't worried about blowback from the world knowing then go for it.

[Airmantroy]

I joined SA hoping to find an ongoing sexual relationship with some sort of connection. Not just pay, pump and go. Which seems to be what most are on there for. Both men and women. I have met about 8 so far. 5 I turned down, 2 I did the pump and go, and one that turned me down. That one in my opinion was the best as far as looks and personality. Or maybe we just want what we can't get. I have somewhat followed her social media accounts and found out she was helping a friend with a bar. I went into the bar but was wearing a hat and glasses, she did not recognize me at all and was super friendly. I plan on returning to the bar tomorrow night when she's working. I am wondering should I just continue to be regular bar patron, do you think after a while I could throw her an offer? Should I mention I met her before on SA, or maybe say I saw her profile on SA? I don't even know if her profile is still up on essay or not because she blocked me. Morgan242 or morganna242.

I'd say she was smart to turn you down, her spidey senses were on point. You're just one phone call away from spending time behind bars, you seriously need to take a step back. I'm sure someone else here has seen her and has her contact info, it won't be long until they report your behavior to her, and she deals with you in whatever way she sees fit.

[DrSummer]

I have been on SA closer to 4 years now, always paid with my own credit card. I cancel autopayment option right after I pay and take out credit card info. Never had any issue so far (either them mishandling the card (overcharge etc), and no indication someone else stole my info. I am more comfortable using my own card so that I can challenge it if there is unauthorized charge. But, there are reasons why you want to use a prepaid card or something else, not your own card.

1. Your wife (or SO) checks your credit card expenses and question the charge. That doesn't apply to me.

2. A hack like Ashley Madison happens with SA (good possibility) and your personal info become public associated with SA site. I am divorced and don't give a fuck about that. The place where I work doesn't care who I fuck as long as I don't fuck a girl who is reporting to me.

I have no concern whatsoever about LEO. They are not monitoring the site to check who fucks who. You don't have to worry about that unless you are committing a criminal offence such as talking to a girl underage or stalking someone. If LEO wants to find who you are (if you are committing a crime) using a fake credit card is not going to help, they are going to find you. Actually it would be more incriminating that you used a fake name with a prepaid credit card to join in.

I know different people have different level of risk tolerance. But, I will tell you sugar dating is not for the weak-hearted. You have to take some risks to reap rewards. Not to boast, but to give you and idea, I am touching 60, and by any means not Brad Pitt type material. I keep records, I have fucked more than 80 different girls I met from SA for the last 4 years. About a half are college girls. I don't spend a fortune for that either. It can be done. But one thing I know is that it is getting harder. I cast a wide net and message as many as possible. The success rate is going down, but I still mange to find about 3 legit new girls per month. Be respectful to them, but be assertive. Be upfront and clear. Don't play games. The key is to make them feel safe with you, and reliable.

Enjoy the Bowl.

Dr. S.

All seniors on seeking please advise, I tried to register with a visa gift card and it automatically blocked my account.

What am I risking if I pay with my regular card? Is it theft reasons I should not give out info or LEO (site isn't protected) kind of reason?

I am single no wife no kids, I am not really hiding from anyone, I need to be on there as it's life and death situation, I am very depressed and I think a good GFE BBFS and cip would get me back on track. You guys have posted at least 10-15 users who were verified so I think I have the best chance of getting that on seeking.

Thank you for the help.

[2me4Looking2]

I joined SA hoping to find an ongoing sexual relationship with some sort of connection. Not just pay, pump and go. Which seems to be what most are on there for. Both men and women. I have met about 8 so far. 5 I turned down, 2 I did the pump and go, and one that turned me down. That one in my opinion was the best as far as looks and personality. Or maybe we just want what we can't get. I have somewhat followed her social media accounts and found out she was helping a friend with a bar. I went into the bar but was wearing a hat and glasses, she did not recognize me at all and was super friendly. I plan on returning to the bar tomorrow night when she's working. I am wondering should I just continue to be regular bar patron, do you think after a while I could throw her an offer? Should I mention I met her before on SA, or maybe say I saw her profile on SA? I don't even know if her profile is still up on essay or not because she blocked me. Morgan242 or morganna242.

You have definitely crossed the line and become a stalker. This kind of shit makes it harder on the rest of us because it will make her even less trusting. She said no and you need to move on. If I were in her shoes, I would be more than pissed if someone pulled this shit. Nothing good is going to come of this.

[2me4Looking2]

All seniors on seeking please advise, I tried to register with a visa gift card and it automatically blocked my account.

What am I risking if I pay with my regular card? Is it theft reasons I should not give out info or LEO (site isn't protected) kind of reason?

I am single no wife no kids, I am not really hiding from anyone, I need to be on there as it's life and death situation, I am very depressed and I think a good GFE BBFS and cip would get me back on track. You guys have posted at least 10-15 users who were verified so I think I have the best chance of getting that on seeking.

Thank you for the help.

My account was also suspended yesterday and I originally thought the payment was processed and then I was suspended, but after checking my balance I see the charge never went through. It's still frustrating, but at least I don't feel like I was robbed. I've been paying with a virtual Visa from giftcards.com for a couple of years now and never had an issue. Has anyone else had their account suspended after paying with a virtual gift card? Also, has anyone renewed in the last couple of weeks with a gift card and if so can you please tell me what brand and where it came from. The verbiage on the notice makes it seem like this is a timed suspension so I'm hoping it will be lifted, but I'll still be faced with having to pay.

To answer this question about the risk of using a real credit card. Take a look at some of the articles regarding the Ashley Madison hack several years ago. Lots of people had their identities released for the world to see and it cost people their jobs, friends, and marriages. If you aren't worried about blowback from the world knowing then go for it.

[DrSummer]

This is funny. But you are running into a dangerous legal territory of "stalking". She turned you down for a reason (whatever it is), get a clue and move on. Lets think about of situation where roles are reversed. You turned down 5 out of 8 you met. Assume the ugliest of them looked you up found where you work and turn up in disguise at your workplace (or at your house) to talk to you to change your mind. How do you feel about that, and what would your reaction be?

Stay Safe.

Dr. S.

I joined SA hoping to find an ongoing sexual relationship with some sort of connection. Not just pay, pump and go. Which seems to be what most are on there for. Both men and women. I have met about 8 so far. 5 I turned down, 2 I did the pump and go, and one that turned me down. That one in my opinion was the best as far as looks and personality. Or maybe we just want what we can't get. I have somewhat followed her social media accounts and found out she was helping a friend with a bar. I went into the bar but was wearing a hat and glasses, she did not recognize me at all and was super friendly. I plan on returning to the bar tomorrow night when she's working. I am wondering should I just continue to be regular bar patron, do you think after a while I could throw her an offer? Should I mention I met her before on SA, or maybe say I saw her profile on SA? I don't even know if her profile is still up on essay or not because she blocked me. Morgan242 or morganna242.

[MrHobbyist]

I signed up for sugardaddymeet for 90 for 3 months. I have seen a few profiles that are the same as on seeking. Initial impression is that it feels the volume of women is less.

I have reached out to a few prospects and am hoping something comes out of it.

Sorry for all those that were suspended off seeking. I also didn't have much language in there that I thought was questionable or over the top. I'll just assume they may have gotten in trouble or something happened on their backend that warrants this type of action as it didn't matter for the 2 years I was a member.

I didn't have a whole lot of luck. I made a lot of contacts, scheduled a few meets, but they were either asking way too much out the gate or trying to set up an allowance. I dropped the account when the three months was over.