"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

**Jims2321** · 07-26-21 12:39

Originally Posted by MinivanMan [View Original Post]

I asked about Secret Benefits down thread and got no response. I've never tried it and hadn't heard of it until I joined this group and saw it keep coming up as a pop up ad.

How much does it cost and what seems to be the quality and quantity of Atlanta based ladies?

SB uses a token system to communicate with the female members (base cost is 10 tokens). You can buy blocks of tokens (200/500/1000) and cost wise it comparable to Seeking. So after you initiate an conversation it is free, for a period of time. And you get to pay for their private albums. Overall I think I found on lady on there that was DTF. It appears that the tokens are actually how these ladies make cash, similar to cam shows where they split the tips with the website. So generally most mongers shy away from SB due to the low success rate to cost.

Stay Safe,

Jims2321.

**MinivanMan** · 07-26-21 09:27

Originally Posted by TacoSauce3 [View Original Post]

I'm just curious; why are all the posts on this board about Seeking and not Secret Benefits? I'm fairly new to this scene (but not others), but I had some fairly quick luck with SB. My very first outing ended up with a 21 in bed who totally flaked and backed out. Said she couldn't go through with it. 2nd attempt was a one time success, but way over priced and way too ugly. Third attempt, and where I am now, is $400 weekly allowance, multiple meets a week, all holes available, bare, and a very sweet 26 year old. Why no love for SB.com?

I asked about Secret Benefits down thread and got no response. I've never tried it and hadn't heard of it until I joined this group and saw it keep coming up as a pop up ad.

How much does it cost and what seems to be the quality and quantity of Atlanta based ladies?

**QuartJess** · 07-26-21 09:13

Originally Posted by TacoSauce3 [View Original Post]

I'm just curious; why are all the posts on this board about Seeking and not Secret Benefits? I'm fairly new to this scene (but not others), but I had some fairly quick luck with SB. My very first outing ended up with a 21 in bed who totally flaked and backed out. Said she couldn't go through with it. 2nd attempt was a one time success, but way over priced and way too ugly. Third attempt, and where I am now, is $400 weekly allowance, multiple meets a week, all holes available, bare, and a very sweet 26 year old. Why no love for SB.com?

I tried SB once and had zero success meeting and hooking up with anyone. Plus, I hate the fact that you have to buy credits to message someone. I've been a member of SA for a few years and have had countless encounters with chicks from there that. When I close my eyes and think back on some of the meetups, I smile, and a tear runs down my left eye. I wish nothing but continued success on SB for you.

**MajMilkDuds** · 07-26-21 00:53

Originally Posted by SloMo [View Original Post]

Yeah I wasn't trying to give off any Bill Cosby vibes with this one. Just trying to get a few ideas so one could have options that's all.

That's why I gave you my choices. Just trying to point out what it came off as. But I know your intention.

**TacoSauce3** · 07-25-21 20:35

I'm just curious; why are all the posts on this board about Seeking and not Secret Benefits? I'm fairly new to this scene (but not others), but I had some fairly quick luck with SB. My very first outing ended up with a 21 in bed who totally flaked and backed out. Said she couldn't go through with it. 2nd attempt was a one time success, but way over priced and way too ugly. Third attempt, and where I am now, is $400 weekly allowance, multiple meets a week, all holes available, bare, and a very sweet 26 year old. Why no love for SB.com?

**TacoSauce3** · 07-25-21 20:24

Originally Posted by Ngasub20 [View Original Post]

Is this profile viewable to anyone? We were hitting it off rather well, and now it's unavailable. Curious if she deactivated, or I was blocked?

https://www.seeking.com/member/17f29...2-c7f57d046544

I'm able to see her profile, but I wouldn't fuck her.

**Peter Johnson** · 07-25-21 13:52

Originally Posted by SloMo [View Original Post]

Yeah I wasn't trying to give off any Bill Cosby vibes with this one. Just trying to get a few ideas so one could have options that's all.

I don't think we need to be politically correct on a forum about exchanging $ for sexual favors. But yes, wine is "liquid panty remover", and of course weed helps as well. I've had plenty of women drink or smoke, and then regret having sex with me Although some feel that way, even without imbibing anything. Women often regret getting f*cked by a man who is not a potential husband. It is just how their confused minds work. And of course that is why a more straightforward and equitable transaction, that involves payment for services rendered, is usually the way to go.

These SBs are a combination of regular dating and pure wh*ring, so does take a bit more finesse, at times.

**Slo Mo** · 07-25-21 12:49

Originally Posted by MajMilkDuds [View Original Post]

Careful. The wording on this was a little. Mey. But. I usually stick with wine or tequila drinks. Those usually get anyone in the mood.

Yeah I wasn't trying to give off any Bill Cosby vibes with this one. Just trying to get a few ideas so one could have options that's all.

**MajMilkDuds** · 07-25-21 10:33

Originally Posted by SloMo [View Original Post]

I definitely agree with this comment! What's everyone go to drink of choice to give the ladies to enjoy, and a sure thing to get the panties on the floor LOL??

Careful. The wording on this was a little. Mey. But. I usually stick with wine or tequila drinks. Those usually get anyone in the mood.

**Slo Mo** · 07-25-21 10:00

Originally Posted by SeekingHead [View Original Post]

Being 420 friendly & being able to host opens a lot of doors in this hobby. Most girls once they have some drink & smoke in them loose all inhibitions, allowing us to wear that puss out.

I definitely agree with this comment! What's everyone go to drink of choice to give the ladies to enjoy, and a sure thing to get the panties on the floor LOL??

**Peter Johnson** · 07-25-21 02:33

Originally Posted by SoonerFan72 [View Original Post]

I've noticed the last week or so a few profiles and ladies that are specifically targeting married guys. I chatted with one yesterday, and she almost immediately wanted to switch to text. Now, I was pretty sure from the start she was fake, but was bored and decided to waste some time. I asked for her number, she wanted me to give her mine first. Obvious red flag. I use Google Voice, so the number I give out is untraceable back to me. She comes back a few minutes later saying "sorry my phone don't work with a textapp number". Now maybe I'm being paranoid, but to me this is a huge red flag. The fact that she would know I was using a virtual phone number, leads me to believe she is researching each number. I do the same thing to the ladies, but not to stalk them, to see if they are real. I think this scammer is searching for married guys who give out their real number, with the possibility of scamming or blackmailing them. I could be way off base, but like I said, I've seen an influx of ladies seeking married men specifically. Make sure you use a fake number for mongering, so they can't track you down.

I preach this all the time, but many people are too lazy and / or delusional to take those precautions. But good reminder. And I run into this all the time, on normal dating apps. Women will google my # and get upset if they don't get my full name are able to do a full background check before we even meet. I know it's smart to be cautious, but most of them are paranoid and irrational. But perhaps that applies to most women, in general. Anyway, thanks for the reminder and will continue to use TextNow or Google Voice, if not an entirely different burner phone.