"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

[LovePunnany]

I was texting with her last week and her replies got lost in my other msgs. LOL. She seemed pretty cool. She told me she is somewhat new at this. Let me know how it works out for you.

I also got the feeling that she is a civilian and not a professional. Will update when the meet happens.

Thanks for the response.

[ForeGolf197]

CSI's any info on this lady would be appreciated, have a meet this week.

Appreciate the feedback.

https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userP...serId=67958716

I was texting with her last week and her replies got lost in my other msgs. LOL. She seemed pretty cool. She told me she is somewhat new at this. Let me know how it works out for you.

[ForeGolf197]

Had a few guys PM me asking for tips on playing in the sugar bowl. Figure it'd be easier to post here than answer each person individually, and the character limit is much higher here than in DMs:

Regarding how to open with a girl: there's dozens of websites you can look up good online dating openers, just find something that's funny but not pervy / overly sexual. I'm really proud of the opener I use but not going to share it because it's unique and I get a lot of compliments from girls "oh I've never heard that before" or "how clever" "you're funny" etc, so I don't really want other guys in the same dating area using it. But like I said, there's whole bunch of fun openers you can find online for Tinder or whatnot, so just find one you like and use it. Most girls are happy that you're not the 100th guy that day saying "hey" or "what's up?" or "how much to fuck". As long as you're not too boring or too pervy you'll get some attention.

Generally on SA I just copy / paste my opener to every girl that looks like someone I might enjoy my time with (in SB speak we call these "Pots" aka potentials). I might do this to 20-30 girls. I'm lucky I work remote and can keep my personal laptop open on my desk on SA while working on my work desktop, so I generally glance at my laptop a few times an hour to see if any responses. The site will also tell you which girls have viewed your message but not responded. Any girls that have a viewed "check mark" but didn't respond I send a quick follow up to..

Excellent post, thank you. Just started using some of your suggestions.

[LovePunnany]

CSI's any info on this lady would be appreciated, have a meet this week.

Appreciate the feedback.

https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userP...serId=67958716

[FarFarAway]

Success as in just picking them up and fucking for free? Or turning your waitress into an SB? Like I've occasionally managed to get a waitress's ph# and hook up later, but I was way younger and it was just a fun hookup, no pay for play. I'd imagine girls that work at Hooters or Tilted Kilt or Twin Peaks would be more open to pay for play, but that's just a guess. All my pay for play has either been from strip clubs, escorts met through online ads, or now sugar babies on seeking.

Just replying to this one to save bandwidth. All newbies should peruse the sugar thread for Richmond VA, which has local posts but it also the de facto national sugar thread. There is also an archive of links to all the valuable past posts.

[Verdit]

When I try to use the site they will not take my G Voice number. Any creative ways around this?

I would like to know this too b / c I"m not giving them a picture of my I'd.

[GoneForGood97]

Had a few guys PM me asking for tips on playing in the sugar bowl. Figure it'd be easier to post here than answer each person individually, and the character limit is much higher here than in DMs:

Regarding how to open with a girl: there's dozens of websites you can look up good online dating openers, just find something that's funny but not pervy / overly sexual. I'm really proud of the opener I use but not going to share it because it's unique and I get a lot of compliments from girls "oh I've never heard that before" or "how clever" "you're funny" etc, so I don't really want other guys in the same dating area using it. But like I said, there's whole bunch of fun openers you can find online for Tinder or whatnot, so just find one you like and use it. Most girls are happy that you're not the 100th guy that day saying "hey" or "what's up?" or "how much to fuck". As long as you're not too boring or too pervy you'll get some attention.

Generally on SA I just copy / paste my opener to every girl that looks like someone I might enjoy my time with (in SB speak we call these "Pots" aka potentials). I might do this to 20-30 girls. I'm lucky I work remote and can keep my personal laptop open on my desk on SA while working on my work desktop, so I generally glance at my laptop a few times an hour to see if any responses. The site will also tell you which girls have viewed your message but not responded. Any girls that have a viewed "check mark" but didn't respond I send a quick follow up to. Any girl who did respond (usually with a laugh) I tell them I'm glad I could make them laugh, and ask if anything else that day has made them smile. At that point you need to make sure you've read their profile so you can ask interested questions about the things they list on there ("Oh you like to travel? Where are some cool places you've been?" or "You love trying new places to eat, what are some recent places you enjoyed?" Just ask open ended questions and be encouraging regarding any answer they give you ("Oh that's so cool I love XYZ"). Out of the 20-30 girls I message, I hear back from about 10, 2-3 of those will be content sellers/scammers, and of those remaining 7-8 maybe 4-5 will message more than once or twice in reply. Generally after over a dozen messages back and forth with those 4-5 I'll request to see their private profile pics, and if they share them I complement how lovely they look and ask if they'd like to talk more on snap or over text. When they answer I then ask them for their ph# or snap info. Generally this means out of the 30 girls I messaged that day, maybe only 2-3 I actually move to text or snap. Once I get them offsite, I reach out to them, "Hey this is Good you just gave me your number" and wait for a reply. Once I get a reply back (in case they typo'd the number they gave me or I typo'd the number texting them) then I'll usually say "Hey, before we get too deep into this, I need a favor. Will you send me a selfie doing <insert non-sexual pose here> so I know you're real? There's a lot of scammers on the site, just need to make sure you're you and not some Romanian dude who stole an Instagram model's pics". There's a not-so-subtle compliment in my verification request implying they look good enough to be a model which usually gets me a pretty quick response. If they never reply back, then I know they are just a scammer. Some will ask to do it later because they haven't got ready for the day (aka no makeup) which is fine, and I'll generally text them again a few hours later gently reminding them of my request. If they ignore or put off again, I move on.

After that I'll have more small talk / flirty talk (just asking questions about their interests, sometimes even just literally asking them what their interests are then asking specifics about those), then after we've got to know each other I'll ask if they want to discuss arrangement details. If yes, I'll say let's establish we'll have sexual chemistry first and see if they're ok talking about sex. If they no to talking sex details, I go back to more small talk off and on for another day or 2 then bring up the sex talk again. If after having small talk with someone for 2 days they aren't ready to discuss their sexual interests, I generally move on as I assume they are too shy or too much of a prude to be fun. Once I get a yes regarding talking sex details, I then ask them what they enjoy in bed (rough vs romantic, do they enjoy receiving or giving oral, where they want me to finish, penetration vs clit stimulation etc). I also ask what they are NOT into, what their boundaries are, and whether or not they can host. Generally this is a great time to get some nudes if they are being really receptive / flirty in their replies. If I get too much of an escort vibe, or they say they don't like giving head, or only interested in 1 position, I tell them we don't sound like a good fit and wish them luck. Whether I get nudes or not, assuming they seem like they'll be a fun time I ask them how much they are looking for in the arrangement, and if they offer something less than or equal to my normal budget (300 if they host, 200 if I need to get a hotel room in metro Atlanta, in the more rural areas of the state I've had success with 200/150) then I agree and schedule a date with them. If the amount they ask is a little higher but not too high (500 or less) I'll do a little negotiating based on what they told me they DON'T enjoy or can't do (can't host, don't like anal, no swallowing, it doesn't matter, just anything that lets me say "Well I understand you're looking for 400, but respecting your boundaries, and not doing those things you're not comfortable with we'll need to bring the allowance down to 250" or whatever $ you like). If they balk or won't budge, thank them for their time and move to the next POT. If they come down to my offer, set up a date.

This isn't a secret template or formula. You will need to adapt on the fly based on how they answer and how eager they seem. I've lost out on good POTs because I spent too much time in the flirty / small talk phase, and I've lost POTs because I moved too quickly to discussing arrangement details or sex. You're going to fuck up and lose some. The more you practice and fail at this, the faster you'll learn and get the hang of how to read what a girl is telling you, and when / how to push for the date, when to negotiate, and when to STFU and take the win (somewhere in my post history I reviewed a 19 year old Arab girl who is still in my top 5 hottest fucks (put up pics in the greatest hits thread a few months ago) and our conversation looked nothing like this because she was horny and had daddy issues and I looked the part), and most importantly, when to cut your losses and walk away. You have to be willing to cut bait on some really hot girls who won't be reasonable in their budget. Yes, could you have fucked that pretty blonde for 100 more? Maybe, but there's likely a brunette who is just as pretty, sucks dick way better, who you can see every week for 200, but you never got a chance to try because you were wasting time trying to get a 600 GPS girl to come down 500, and I came in and am balls deep in the brunette for half the price and twice the fun.

[Skip15]

When I try to use the site they will not take my G Voice number. Any creative ways around this?

[Peter Johnson]

I have been finding it difficult myself on the site. However I have had much success going to restaurants like a Hooters and getting girls. So far I have had 5 beautiful girls 1 ugly one. LOL.

What is your strategy there to broach the subject and get them in your rotation? Do you just casually ask them if they ever thought about having a sugar daddy I almost did this with a hotel clerk last week, but I just don't have the game to follow through. I should have at least tried though.

I'm not at all surprised that it works, as most young girls are open to selling pussy. Most of them are aspiring wh*res for the right price. (And of course I use "wh*re" in the most favorable way possible. Not throwing any shade there._ Anyway good job for converting some civilians like that. That sounds like even more exciting than getting girls from the site.

[Peter Johnson]

I could never get pass their requirement of an I'd to prove your identity.

If you're a married guy, this is way to risky.

If you are single, it is way too risky, imo. But everyone has to decide acceptable levels of risk for themselves. I am still actually taking too much risk using a texting app and sending my pics. Ideally, I would have every girl on Signal or Session apps, but they wore me down with this, and too many were slipping away. I hope I don't pay for it, in the future.

[Peter Johnson]

https://members.seeking.com/member/a...7-977e21a6ac4d

Anyways, hope you guys have a good time (I did for the most part) but she'll likely not take less than 350 now unless you are just super charming.

Nice score there for 250. I talked to her a bit and really loved her look. I love fair skin, and of course natural redheads almost always have that.

But somehow she lost interest or drifted away, I can't remember which. She might be worth 350 to me, with BBFS, but sounds like a bit of a bad attitude, so I will probably pass. Still tempting though. Anyway nice review, and again, props on the score. I'm sure she looked so sweet in mish.

[GoneForGood97]

https://members.seeking.com/member/a...7-977e21a6ac4d

Jules88, but she also had a 2nd profile that recently was banned under "Katie". Saw her this week, so can confirm real. Standard chat on SA then moved to snap. On snap we chatted off and on, but when I pushed a little about arrangement details she was a bit coy and wouldn't get into specifics, which I understand some girls are a little paranoid about doing it, and I'm not one to ever type "how much to fuck?" but I thought I was pretty obvious what I was asking. However, she gave very general answers and never brought up a specific $ figure. Depending on the vibe I'm getting with a girl I let them throw out the first number then I try to get them to bid themselves down, or if I get a different vibe I'll throw out the first number, but I couldn't really figure her out. Knowing she had an account recently banned I suspect she was just gun shy to talk arrangement details even over snap. This will be important later. Agreed to meet for drinks, she has no car so she had to take an Uber, but she was on time. Very good conversationalist, and the date went well. I eventually ask her if she wants to go somewhere for fun, and she eagerly agrees. I book us a room nearby online and drive us over there.

Pros: 21 year old natural red head with shaved kitty, porcelain skin, very girl next door pretty. Nice firm B cups, cute white girl booty. She originally asked if I had a cover, but when I told her I'd need to go grab one out of the car she said she was fine without it as long as there was no CIP (even though she claims she's on the pill). Works for me. Made out for a bit, closed mouth kissing, no DFK. She's almost-but-not-quite GFE. Has some kinky tendencies but also some odd restrictions I'll mention later. Eventually we undress, I get her turned on, and she gives me a pretty decent BBJ followed by BBFS. I pull out when I'm close and finish on her ass. She asks me if I go 1 or 2 or 3 rounds, and she's happy to go again; after I bit I recover, and we do another fun round of BBFS and I get close, pull out, and finish. Solid fun time, and between drinks and fun we were together a couple of hours.

Cons: She's a bit of a germaphobe, but it manifests in odd ways. Like she was fine with BBJ but once I had been inside her she didn't want to put it back in her mouth, and once my hand had played between her legs she didn't want it anywhere near her face. She's ok with rough play except no hair pulling and no choking. She's not very vocal, will give the occasional very soft moan, and when I got her to cum she moaned a few times in a row very softly and I confirmed with her she had orgasmed. Also did not want any DATY. None of these were deal breakers, but just an unusual combination of kinky but restrictive. However, after we finish and she's getting ready to get her Uber to leave she asks about the donation. I give her my standard 200 (since she can't host) and she pouts a little, mentions she always gets 350. I tell her I only do 300 if she can host, but will go up another 50 and give her that. She takes it and doesn't push the issue. Later I text her to check in and talk about setting something up for the future, but she reiterates she always does 350 and we're done. Fine with me, as our bedroom chemistry was just a bit off, but she really needs to get more assertive / clear in her donation talk prior to meeting up. I don't feel I stiffed her, but I'm sure she feels otherwise (250 plus drinks / lunch / hotel).

Anyways, hope you guys have a good time (I did for the most part) but she'll likely not take less than 350 now unless you are just super charming.

[GoneForGood97]

I have been finding it difficult myself on the site. However I have had much success going to restaurants like a Hooters and getting girls. So far I have had 5 beautiful girls 1 ugly one. LOL.

Success as in just picking them up and fucking for free? Or turning your waitress into an SB? Like I've occasionally managed to get a waitress's ph# and hook up later, but I was way younger and it was just a fun hookup, no pay for play. I'd imagine girls that work at Hooters or Tilted Kilt or Twin Peaks would be more open to pay for play, but that's just a guess. All my pay for play has either been from strip clubs, escorts met through online ads, or now sugar babies on seeking.

[TopGun9]

So have been communicating with this little beauty, scheduled to meet for lunch this Sunday to see if there is chemistry. If all goes well with the first meet then next week the fireworks will happen. Will keep you mongers posted.

Gentlemen I must say, Sugar Daddy requires more work than Seeking, but to me the pay off is better. There is little to no scammers on Sugar Daddy and the selection of women is better in my opinion.

https://www.sugardaddymeet.com/userP...serId=71355961

I could never get pass their requirement of an I'd to prove your identity.

If you're a married guy, this is way to risky.

[HollowGuy]

What I like is knowing you don't have to send 10 messages a day as 8 out of 10 girls never reply. I send out maybe 1 or 2 a day & only to girls which I am very attracted to. I've found the site is more active with latinas as I've had really good success with them, especially 22-30 year old latina milfs.

I have been finding it difficult myself on the site. However I have had much success going to restaurants like a Hooters and getting girls. So far I have had 5 beautiful girls 1 ugly one. LOL.