"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

[GoneForGood97]

Oh, not 20 $ lunch isn't the issue. My question is mainly people asking for more meet and greets? For example, let's say we go to Atlas and I cover the tab obviously. Then the conversation lately has been "I'd like to continue meeting and feel out if intimacy would be right for this (SB)" but would like to continue ppms until we get there. Usually never given a timeline and kinda odd to even ask for one in the first place.

Wondering if that's the norm?

And appreciate the response!

Remember the second most important rule: only sugar for sugar. In other words, no $ unless they put out. Period. Full stop.

There's a very common scammer in sugar baby circles called a "rinser". They try to get either PPMs with no intimacy or expensive meet ups at restaurants, shopping trips, etc with no intimacy. Which is why the 2nd most important rule for sugaring is "Only sugar for sugar, and no sugar for no sugar. " In other words, $ is only exchanged once you're intimate.

One of the reasons I make most of my meet and greets coffee dates. It usually filters out the rinsers.

The first most important rule: never pay in advance.

[SeekingHead]

Oh, not 20 $ lunch isn't the issue. My question is mainly people asking for more meet and greets? For example, let's say we go to Atlas and I cover the tab obviously. Then the conversation lately has been "I'd like to continue meeting and feel out if intimacy would be right for this (SB)" but would like to continue ppms until we get there. Usually never given a timeline and kinda odd to even ask for one in the first place.

Wondering if that's the norm?

And appreciate the response!

Meet & Greets are usually the closing moment, you have usually exchanged messages with them over the last week or so before meeting. During the meeting I go over the amount they want for PPM or text them right after the meet if PPM didn't come up. I'll offer for ex. $400 for the first meet & then $300 going forward.

The next meet up is usually dinner & back to the hotel or we meet at my house.

[TheAnswer4]

Atlvoy, I think you might be misunderstanding the game a little bit.

The "M" in PPM might stand for "meet", but it means "fuck". Absolutely do NOT pay any amount other than the tab just to meet with someone, as like on a date. If she wants to charge you just to hang out with her, move on.

Unless she's picking up the tab, I will only go on a maximum of 2 "dates", the initial meet and the second one only if we agree to fuck afterwards.

DM,

Thanks for this! This was what I was asking for and generally assuming typically how it looks like.

Not saying that every meet needs to be intimate, but I also don't want to be suckered for PPMs indefinitely waiting on an answer for a maybe on intimacy (if that makes sense). A lot of people have been demanding paid meet and greets.

[Atlvoy]

Unless it's crystal clear, the first meet (or first few meets) are for a drink, late afternoon chat, etc. And those are never PPM.

During those times the ground rules get established and we go from there. After a time (depends a lot of the attitude of the SB) it's very possible to have PPMs that don't involve intimacy and, at the same time, meeting involving intimacy that are not PPM.

You'll know when you meet the right one.

DM.

DM,

Thanks for this! This was what I was asking for and generally assuming typically how it looks like.

Not saying that every meet needs to be intimate, but I also don't want to be suckered for PPMs indefinitely waiting on an answer for a maybe on intimacy (if that makes sense). A lot of people have been demanding paid meet and greets.

[Atlvoy]

Don't get sucked into paying for a meet & greet, I usually do lunch meetups as it's when I am normally free. Sushi or Taco's are the two most common lunch dates. If you can't pick up a $20 lunch then sugaring isn't for you.

Oh, not 20 $ lunch isn't the issue. My question is mainly people asking for more meet and greets? For example, let's say we go to Atlas and I cover the tab obviously. Then the conversation lately has been "I'd like to continue meeting and feel out if intimacy would be right for this (SB)" but would like to continue ppms until we get there. Usually never given a timeline and kinda odd to even ask for one in the first place.

Wondering if that's the norm?

And appreciate the response!

[Godwin1]

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...3-9b46b68021b2

Does anyone have info on this one (or pair, it seems)? If so, would you be willing to DM some contact info?

Thanks!

DM.

I met Blair, the blue haired one, once. There was a second girl on the profile with her just a week or so ago. One of the best BBJ I've ever had, so good I finished early and didn't get the chance to sample the pussy. She'll likely go to text right away and be easy to convince to meet. $250 for an hour but that was 3 years ago. She can be very business like if that's a big turnoff.

[SeekingHead]

Unless it's crystal clear, the first meet (or first few meets) are for a drink, late afternoon chat, etc. And those are never PPM.

During those times the ground rules get established and we go from there. After a time (depends a lot of the attitude of the SB) it's very possible to have PPMs that don't involve intimacy and, at the same time, meeting involving intimacy that are not PPM.

You'll know when you meet the right one.

DM.

Don't get sucked into paying for a meet & greet, I usually do lunch meetups as it's when I am normally free. Sushi or Taco's are the two most common lunch dates. If you can't pick up a $20 lunch then sugaring isn't for you.

[DiscreetMeet]

For those who go through ppms rather than allowances.

How do you navigate ppms? For example, if you have an SB that's open to intimacy but after some time of regular meets. What is the line that draws it for you?

For example, ppms are pay per meet, not PPF pay per fuck haha. So are you all just doing ppms to just splurge until they hopefully say they're ready? Or do you meet and start ppms after intimacy?

Unless it's crystal clear, the first meet (or first few meets) are for a drink, late afternoon chat, etc. And those are never PPM.

During those times the ground rules get established and we go from there. After a time (depends a lot of the attitude of the SB) it's very possible to have PPMs that don't involve intimacy and, at the same time, meeting involving intimacy that are not PPM.

You'll know when you meet the right one.

DM.

[Atlvoy]

For those who go through ppms rather than allowances.

How do you navigate ppms? For example, if you have an SB that's open to intimacy but after some time of regular meets. What is the line that draws it for you?

For example, ppms are pay per meet, not PPF pay per fuck haha. So are you all just doing ppms to just splurge until they hopefully say they're ready? Or do you meet and start ppms after intimacy?

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[Christian Troy]

I connected with these two Latinas on non-sugar dating apps and have sugar dates lined up. They both claim they've done this before but I've never seen them on any sugar sites (I did find their socials though). Anyone have any experience? I'll report back next week.

I had a session with the younger one. 300 ppm, dfk, bbj, cfs. She was skittish but settled down and was fun (she turned out to be 21 BTW, not 18). I'm trying to schedule with the older one because I like 'them milfy too.

BTW, the dating app I was using was Badoo. It's not very popular in the United States compared to tinder or bumble, but it's very popular internationally and very popular with immigrant populations. Yes, you have to wade through scammers that are on another continent, but there's a huge contingent of local Georgia girls as well.

However, most do not speak English so go ahead and download a translator app. Most are cool with the translation (and I think appreciate the effort). I'd say trying out the membership is worth it for the extra benefits (just be sure it doesn't auto-renew). Trust me when I say it is a Latina Gold Mine!

Sugaring in the wild is a trip! I think I found my new favorite hobby.

[Jims2321]

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...3-9b46b68021b2

Does anyone have info on this one (or pair, it seems)? If so, would you be willing to DM some contact info?

Thanks!

DM.

Guessing you might be missing an organ or two. But hey, you never know it might be the best time of your life!

[DiscreetMeet]

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...3-9b46b68021b2

Does anyone have info on this one (or pair, it seems)? If so, would you be willing to DM some contact info?

Thanks!

DM.

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