"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

[GoneForGood97]

Thank you for taking time and writing in details.

What are the current rates for regular SBs? Average not so hot but good.

I'm have a lot of success offering 200 if I need to book us a room and I offer 300 if they can host. Click my name and through my post history and you can get an idea of the girls you can score for that price. My last SB was an alt-girl tattoo model I was seeing for 300 and she hosted, full GFE. My current regular is a former instamodel I'm fucking for 200 plus hotel. However, and I don't mean to brag, but I'm incredibly charming over text, treat the girls like I would a girlfriend over text, and have a ton of experience in negotiation in the business world.

I'd recommend you zero in on single moms in their late 20 or early 30's to most consistently get those rates. They also tend to be more dependable and grateful for the little vacation away from their usually chaotic home life and appreciate the arrangement side more. The young girls are fun, but you're just a tinder hookup with a cash bonus, so they tend to be more flakey and less consistent.

Is there anything I should scare? Like her boyfriend or husband or pimps coming just after her. Knowing the door or take some pictures? Scamming later that will show on Facebook.

I've never really worried about BFs or husbands, and if an SB you're seeing has a pimped you've already fucked up somewhere in your screening process. SA is NOT a site for hookers / escorts (though many of them do use it). Treat it like a normal dating site, and you'll have a lot more luck with girls who don't think of themselves as hookers. I'm texting one girl right now and she's on the site because she was tired of "loser dudes her age making her pay for everything" so I'm going to smash her and all I have to do is pay for dinner and the occasional trip out. I tend to cut bait anytime I get escort / pro vibes from a girl. I want true GFE girl-next-door SBs, not escorts with more steps.

Also, do NOT use any pic of you from Facebook or LinkedIn on your SA profile. Put together a different set of pics so they can't reverse image search your pics and find your real I'd. Though with new AI reverse image searching that's getting harder and harder.

If I am hosting how much I should offer?

If you mean hosting at your place, I'd just offer the same as if they were hosting since that means I don't have the extra expense of the hotel. However, I'm extremely paranoid of letting SBs know any of my real life info. I use a fake name, and I never have them over to my place. I'd rather pay the extra hotel and keep my anonymity than save the hotel money and chance a girl knowing where I live and causing me drama later.

[FarFarAway]

That time of year.

SBs coming and going.

[AdmirerSecret]

Thank you for taking time and writing in details.

What are the current rates for regular SBs? Average not so hot but good.

Is there anything I should scare? Like her boyfriend or husband or pimps coming just after her. Knowing the door or take some.

Pictures? Scamming later that will show on Facebook.

If I am hosting how much I should offer?

Motel / Hotel room, you can book it using credit card points or frequent flyer miles if you travel a lot. I use my credit card to pay all my normal expenses every month, and pay off the card every month, then use the points to book rooms for SB dates (I don't tell the SB that, I use the fact that I'm "paying" for a room to negotiate a lower price if they don't host).

The hotels near the airport have "Dayuse" rates that are sometimes a little cheaper than an overnight rate and can be booked before earlier than the normal checkin time of 3pm. dayuse.com to check rates on those. Very early on I considered AirBNB but they've fucked their pricing so much since the pandemic it's cheaper for me to just get a hotel. If you frequent the same hotel enough, you can sometimes earn rewards points through them (I tend to stick with Choice hotels as they are budget friendly but I know the guys who travel a ton for work use their Hilton or Marriot reward points for fun).

[Peter Pan]

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...5-7e99c620b2b1

Any one seen this one recently? She seems real and can host. She said $3 and claims BBFS, cip, cim etc. Seems almost to good to be true?

I'm talking to her as well. Any luck? Do you recommend I try too?

[Ripvan12]

https://members.seeking.com/member/d...a-7bc071acb3f1

Any info with this one. Been chatting it up and things seem promising.

Met her last year in person over tacos near Emory. She is a very cool girl and I got the sense she would be reliable and a good SB. But I just wasn't attracted to all of the extra (green hair, super large eyelashes, smell of 420 and body was meh). I didn't pursue FC but $200 was price of admission. Let me know how it goes if you smash. Ripper.

[LouisHernandez]

For an over 40 woman who is clearly using angles and a corset to hide baby damage or her belly. The fuq?

The best part is: "otherwise, I will report you to SA and have you removed. They remove men extremely easily.

But never remove the ladies b / c that is how they made $".

That's some interesting logic.

[ReffingMan94]

Anyone have experience with this MILF? Chatted with her and she was dtf but flaked out on our meeting today.

Car troubles, thanks.

https://members.seeking.com/member/d...5-0c9092d90a80

[LouisHernandez]

She had messaged with me a couple of times and wanted to do the Whatsapp thing, I flat refused and told her I wasn't adding another app on my company cell phone. She suggested email, told her nope. She gave me her number and a big long apology that she's just trying to be careful but more approachable. I called her, we talked for damn near 2 hours when she had claimed she could only chat for a few minutes. Then chatted a second time for nearly as long, mostly about her ex-bf and how he was stalking her blah blah blah, her health issues blah blah. But honestly it was a pleasant conversation, told her we could meet the following Monday (this was on Saturday) at my office, no expectations on my part, just a face to face and she could try out a piece of med equipment I have. Sent her a text Sunday to tell her I enjoyed our chat, Monday came and went, then she blasted me on Seeking message about wasting her time and pretty much same thing she told you. Bi-polar as a fucking magnet! Paranoid schizto. Blocked and Blocked. Automatically. For those wondering, her profile pic has her in a orange bottom bikini, straight from the front, no face. AVOID her like the plague. She also claims there is a private FB group where the girls discuss the guys and share their pics. For "safety" purposes or prevent scammers.

FB group lolz. Somebody needs to infiltrate that if it exists.

[GoneForGood97]

She wants 5 k a month upfront and can only meet for an hour.

For an over 40 woman who is clearly using angles and a corset to hide baby damage or her belly. The fuq?

[GoneForGood97]

Hello my dear friends.

Do some background investigation on this lady. Let me know if she is legit.

https://members.seeking.com/member/6...3-0c3040a41813

Got another girl she seems to be legit but I don't want to give my address to her. She does not have place to do.

In this situation how you guys manage to fuck. Do you get a hotel? Or any tricks to play?

Like pick up and drop blind folded? Kidding I don't want to avoid any risk. After booking hotel and all the prices are more than lkatl.

Give me some insights on how should I proceed next.

Motel / Hotel room, you can book it using credit card points or frequent flyer miles if you travel a lot. I use my credit card to pay all my normal expenses every month, and pay off the card every month, then use the points to book rooms for SB dates (I don't tell the SB that, I use the fact that I'm "paying" for a room to negotiate a lower price if they don't host).

The hotels near the airport have "Dayuse" rates that are sometimes a little cheaper than an overnight rate and can be booked before earlier than the normal checkin time of 3pm. dayuse.com to check rates on those. Very early on I considered AirBNB but they've fucked their pricing so much since the pandemic it's cheaper for me to just get a hotel. If you frequent the same hotel enough, you can sometimes earn rewards points through them (I tend to stick with Choice hotels as they are budget friendly but I know the guys who travel a ton for work use their Hilton or Marriot reward points for fun).

My advice with a new girl is to NEVER book a hotel room before you have the girl standing in front of you. Best bet is to setup a meet and greet and meet them for coffee or a drink somewhere. Once they show up, get to know each other, then ask if she's comfortable going somewhere private. If yes, THEN you're usually good to book the room and take them there. For the really efficient you can try and schedule the drink at a hotel bar, then just book a room from your phone before going to check in, though the hotels I tend to use (cheaper) don't usually have bars in them.

Alternatively if it's clear over text she's DTF and you don't want to waste time on a meet and greet then give them the address of the hotel you want to meet them at, then show up about 10-15 minutes early. Let them know you're there and to text you when they arrive. Stay in the car, and park somewhere where you have clear visibility to the main entrance, and just wait in the car until you see them pull up. As soon as I see their face pulling in, I'm opening the app and booking the room. When she texts "I'm here" just tell her you're almost done checking in and will give her the room number in a moment. The main reason to go through all that trouble is you don't want to book the room and then she no-shows.

Once you've seen a girl a few times and trust she's reliable, you may be more comfortable booking the room before she gets there, but I've been burned by the occasional no show before even with girls I thought were "reliable". Fortunately I have a stripper SB and another infrequent SB that I've been lucky enough to get them to come use the room under the guise of "work sent me up here if you want to meet for some fun" if someone bails on me. But I have a pretty deep roster in my stable, and if you're new I wouldn't chance it.

Of course, none of this is necessary if she's willing and able to host. Usually I bring it up during the arrangement part of the discussion over text "I'd love to figure out the arrangement details, before we do there's a few things I'd like to figure out first" then I'll ask things about if they can host, and if previous conversations were flirty I also will move the conversation into what they do and don't do sexually, I. E. If they swallow or if where they want me to finish (if they say pull out or in the condom I usually offer a lower PPM). Most of my SBs this year have hosted, though my current one does not because she only has a twin bed.

[Airmantroy]

I don't have a link because I blocked her, but _Atlanta is crazy and I would highly recommend you avoid her. She was a pain to message with on the site, and several days or weeks would go by before she responded. We did move to WhatsApp at her recommendation and she only wanted to talk on the phone. Again, days between messages and now she is sending me harassing messages saying I scammed her and she is going to report me. I do have a screen shot, but because I blocked her, the report option is no longer available. I usually don't bother reporting them, but this one needs to go.

If anyone does have her profile, I'd love it if you would report her and get her kicked off.

She had messaged with me a couple of times and wanted to do the Whatsapp thing, I flat refused and told her I wasn't adding another app on my company cell phone. She suggested email, told her nope. She gave me her number and a big long apology that she's just trying to be careful but more approachable. I called her, we talked for damn near 2 hours when she had claimed she could only chat for a few minutes. Then chatted a second time for nearly as long, mostly about her ex-bf and how he was stalking her blah blah blah, her health issues blah blah. But honestly it was a pleasant conversation, told her we could meet the following Monday (this was on Saturday) at my office, no expectations on my part, just a face to face and she could try out a piece of med equipment I have. Sent her a text Sunday to tell her I enjoyed our chat, Monday came and went, then she blasted me on Seeking message about wasting her time and pretty much same thing she told you. Bi-polar as a fucking magnet! Paranoid schizto. Blocked and Blocked. Automatically. For those wondering, her profile pic has her in a orange bottom bikini, straight from the front, no face. AVOID her like the plague. She also claims there is a private FB group where the girls discuss the guys and share their pics. For "safety" purposes or prevent scammers.

[LoriTruck]

https://members.seeking.com/member/d...a-7bc071acb3f1

Any info with this one. Been chatting it up and things seem promising.

[LouisHernandez]

I don't have a link because I blocked her, but _Atlanta is crazy and I would highly recommend you avoid her. She was a pain to message with on the site, and several days or weeks would go by before she responded. We did move to WhatsApp at her recommendation and she only wanted to talk on the phone. Again, days between messages and now she is sending me harassing messages saying I scammed her and she is going to report me. I do have a screen shot, but because I blocked her, the report option is no longer available. I usually don't bother reporting them, but this one needs to go.

If anyone does have her profile, I'd love it if you would report her and get her kicked off.

Definitely a Mensa candidate.

[LouisHernandez]

She wants 5 k a month upfront and can only meet for an hour.

I wonder if she knows this is planet earth. Obviously not.

[2me4Looking2]

I don't have a link because I blocked her, but _Atlanta is crazy and I would highly recommend you avoid her. She was a pain to message with on the site, and several days or weeks would go by before she responded. We did move to WhatsApp at her recommendation and she only wanted to talk on the phone. Again, days between messages and now she is sending me harassing messages saying I scammed her and she is going to report me. I do have a screen shot, but because I blocked her, the report option is no longer available. I usually don't bother reporting them, but this one needs to go.

If anyone does have her profile, I'd love it if you would report her and get her kicked off.