"Sugar Babies" and "Arrangements"

**CookiesMan** · Today 05:38

https://members.seeking.com/member/a...c-7b55c369799c

Has another page as well, name is just backward, but same girl. So try at own risk.

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...7-a7fe71bc2948

Nice girl but a little immature. Couldn't decide on when she wanted to meet. Good with 300 ppm.

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...1-d6611d540402

Too many restrictions for me, doesn't like to talk / text much. Good with 300 ppm.

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...8-958c4e7c0012

From South Africa visiting till August. 350 ppm is her asking.

https://members.seeking.com/member/2...1-f5672399fb03

Nice body. Works out. Trying to get her a car. Initially agree to 300 ppm, but then said she got a better offer. She called 2 days later and wanted to take me up my offer. Stand your ground men.

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...2-35aa42f882fd

Still trying to figure her out, but is just a time waster for now. Says she needs help with finding a place and help with her kid, but always flakes. We have had good convo, but you guys can try your luck.

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...a-3aaa6f103056

Young and vibrant. Open to anything and will stay overnight. Good with 300-350 ppm.

https://members.seeking.com/member/6...6-5fc0ce8d37c3

New to SB and freaked out on me out of the blue saying she thinks we may be cousins. LOL. Good with 300 ppm.

A lot nice ladies out there, so stick to your gunns and don't overpay or give in too something you don't feel good about. Enjoy!

**SteveStone123** · 05-03-24 12:10

This profile was listed as Philly till yesterday night and today its changed to Atlanta. And the person texted me saying his / her profile name is sweetmizz and shared a picture which is no where matching with what she posted in profile. The scammer even don't know from what profile he / she is texting from.

https://members.seeking.com/member/2...2-b406f50789f8

**TooHotForYou** · 05-02-24 22:32

Originally Posted by DaRiv [View Original Post]

You have some sort of personal grudge don't you? You think nobody else records themselves having sex with girls? Bro you really need to take a chill pill. You also need to learn what satire and sarcasm is. Go harass someone else.

This is my first time replying to you. I was watching your conversation with the other guys about the recording the girls having sex with you issue and I was actually in agreement with you on some things about why to record but still thought you were in the wrong to record women having sex with you. You think it's ok to record women having sex with you but not ok to swat some asshole who robs some monger? Your mind is all over the place.

**DaRiv** · 05-02-24 19:02

Originally Posted by TooHotForYou [View Original Post]

This coming from the same guy who says it's right to record himself having sex with his girls. Does anybody else think Dariv is nuts here?

You have some sort of personal grudge don't you? You think nobody else records themselves having sex with girls? Bro you really need to take a chill pill. You also need to learn what satire and sarcasm is. Go harass someone else.

**DaRiv** · 05-02-24 18:59

Originally Posted by Dawgins [View Original Post]

Bartenders and waitresses do not want to be hit on when they are at work. You're taking advantage of the fact that they *have* to interact with you since you're their customer. It's like cornering a girl at a party and preventing them from walking away. And on top of that if they reject you does that mean they lose out on their tip? There's too much pressure on the situation. I could see it working if you make friends with a girl and you're a regular, but I think hitting on women while they're working is in general pretty slimy.

Just because it has worked out a few times for a few people. The exception does not make the norm. I've been in the food service industry for 30 plus years. I'm now an owner operator in the food service industry and I do pretty well. And I can tell you this, the female service absolutely can't stand it when they're constantly hit on every 2 seconds. It's true they don't get bothered as much by being hit on by someone they find attractive. But that's how it goes for any woman. But in general as a rule no matter how good looking you are around how much charisma you have. They genuinely get tired of it, especially because they feel like they have to be nice so it won't affect their tip. And that's why this guy with the whole Hooters saying made it clear that he tipped her beforehand, because even he knows this is an issue. As an owner operator I've even had to go deal with patrons who wouldn't stop hitting on the females to the point it was offensive. And even had some removed for just being complete creeps. I'm not saying you can't do it I'm just saying it's pretty frowned upon.

**GoneForGood97** · 05-02-24 18:12

Originally Posted by LikeMike1963 [View Original Post]

Looking for some thoughts form anyone that has met a bartender. Waitress etc and how they may of approached with them if they would have an interest in a mutually beneficial scenario?. I appreciate your thoughts and experience!

During the tail end of the pandemic I imagine waitresses were struggling. This requires some game, and it doesn't hurt if you're decent looking or a charmer. I had success one (and only one) time with a Hooters waitress. It wasn't planned or calculated, I was eating dinner and there to watch a football game. It wasn't very busy and I'd been there over an hour and we started chatting. During the conversations she mentioned her young son, which is only important because it meant I knew she was a mom and likely single (no wedding band) working at Hooters, which is a prime demographic for possible SB.

Asked her what she did for fun, and she mentioned traveling. Asked her about the most exotic place she'd ever been, and she replied Panama City, FL. Told if she enjoyed traveling she really needed to get her passport and go to Europe while she was young enough to enjoy it. "Oh, well, that's not exactly something I can afford. " "Sounds like you need a sugar daddy hahahaha" "Oh yeah I wish hahaha". Game wraps up and I get my check. After she brings me back my card I keep her there with small talk a few seconds while I write in the tip and sign it. Once it's obvious I've signed it and her tip won't be affected by her response I say to her "You know, if you're serious about the sugar daddy thing, I could see us doing something like that. I'm going to the bathroom before I leave, but if you want to leave your number on a napkin when I get back we could work something out. ".

Hit it twice for 100 PPM plus hotel over the next few weeks before she eventually ghosted. All it took was having a decent conversation with her for 2+ hours, followed by a little prodding about if she needed money or not, and offering to solve the problem.

**Buck Owens** · 05-02-24 09:27

Originally Posted by LikeMike1963 [View Original Post]

Looking for some thoughts form anyone that has met a bartender. Waitress etc and how they may of approached with them if they would have an interest in a mutually beneficial scenario?. I appreciate your thoughts and experience!

FWIW years ago I had a smoking hot barber that as time went on I ended up going to her place to get my haircuts rather than the shop she worked out of. She was always complaining about $ issues and I broached the subject of a mutually beneficial arrangement with her. Needless to say I tipped astronomically well for a haircut and we had a really good time for a number of years. I'd simply call her up and say I needed a haircut every couple of weeks and sometimes she would give me a cut but she always gave some trim! She eventually fell in love moved to the country and got fat.

Stay Safe!

Buck.

**Dawgins** · 05-02-24 09:22

Bartenders and waitresses do not want to be hit on when they are at work. You're taking advantage of the fact that they *have* to interact with you since you're their customer. It's like cornering a girl at a party and preventing them from walking away. And on top of that if they reject you does that mean they lose out on their tip? There's too much pressure on the situation. I could see it working if you make friends with a girl and you're a regular, but I think hitting on women while they're working is in general pretty slimy.

Originally Posted by LikeMike1963 [View Original Post]

Looking for some thoughts form anyone that has met a bartender. Waitress etc and how they may of approached with them if they would have an interest in a mutually beneficial scenario?. I appreciate your thoughts and experience!

**LikeMike1963** · 05-02-24 08:50

Looking for some thoughts form anyone that has met a bartender. Waitress etc and how they may of approached with them if they would have an interest in a mutually beneficial scenario?. I appreciate your thoughts and experience!

**TooHotForYou** · 05-01-24 16:15

Originally Posted by DaRiv [View Original Post]

Is have them Swatted like they do to those online gamers. That would be wrong.

This coming from the same guy who says it's right to record himself having sex with his girls. Does anybody else think Dariv is nuts here?

**DaRiv** · 05-01-24 16:03

Originally Posted by MilfHunter818 [View Original Post]

https://members.seeking.com/member/1...2-1246c4dad30c

I've been talking to her for weeks. Exchanging pics and just having normal conversation. Said her and her roommate needed money for rent. They offered a 3 way for $600. She gave me her address. I show up and they lead me to the bedroom. Everything checked out so far. As soon as I hand over the cash, a dude runs out asking what I'm doing in his house and kicks me out while pretending to yell at the girls for having me over. They run off and hide.

I'm deciding what I want to do since his house isn't far and her number isn't a burner. I use Spokeo.com to find out all the info.

She has none of my info. I use a burner myself and leave my wallet in my vehicle anytime I meet someone.

Is have them Swatted like they do to those online gamers. That would be wrong.

**IAmNotGr8** · 05-01-24 07:48

Originally Posted by LikeMike1963 [View Original Post]

Just make their life really annoying. Sign there phone and address up for everything under the sun. Free subscriptions. Phone solicitors. Sales calls. Anything along that line you can think of.

Any subscription will send an email for confirmation, until the person gives consent they are not subscribed. Also all this subscription group email comes with unsubscribe link. So it's easy to unsubscribe.

Ph# works somewhat better. You share the phone number with telemarketers and donation websites. LOL.

Not sure how the address can be used to annoy someone.

It will interesting other people's ideas on this topic.

**NastyFrostyyy** · 04-30-24 21:04

Hey guys new here. Anyone have experience with this one?

https://members.seeking.com/member/8...b-f1bd5cc4c6f7

**TravelinSD** · 04-29-24 16:39

All great advice and overview from Gone. Not so much anymore, but the Richmond, VA sugar baby thread was the defacto national forum for general info for ages. There is a thread of favorites from that thread in the Richmond User Blogs as well:

http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/show...-Index-and-FAQ

Good luck and good hunting!

Travelin.

Originally Posted by GreekLurker212 [View Original Post]

I'm new to the sugar baby game, what exactly are "arrangements"? Like in my mind I'm thinking its SW but I could be wrong. I've been on seeking and alot of the girls have been talking about arrangements do they mean like money? Or is it a mutually beneficial type of thing somebody help me out.

**GoneForGood97** · 04-29-24 14:40

Originally Posted by GreekLurker212 [View Original Post]

Man I sure wish I would have read this before I started having conversations with a few of them. I'm sure Ill have some great success thanks for you input, really helped me out alot on my jounery Ill read your older post so I can get a better understanding. This is 10 x better then regular SW on listcrawlers I think ill enjoy this alot. LOL.

Here's a link to a post where I provide links to some of my more well received advice posts. Hope these help. Good luck!

http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/show...=1#post6451251