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Everyone can decide if $90 is worth it. There's some entertainment value just talking to the girls. Besides, if the cost were much less than $90, the site (SA) would be inundated by riff-raff, driving off the few remaining fresh college girls and leaving behind only the bots, scammers, and street hookers. Also, I think that a lot of Sugar Daddies use the month to collect contact information, and then work through that for 3 months or so until their "rotation" dries up. That's what I gather from a lot of the postings. Take a typical SD budget of $1000 per month, for girls plus ancillary costs. Under the scenario just described the $90 investment is only 3% of the total expenditure, hence insignificant. Probably the $90 is a well-calibrated price for joining SA.
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Originally Posted by Snake27
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I haven't been on SA for several months, and I've tried it about 5 times in 2 years for a month at a time. It's comforting to see that others are frustrated by it too. Each time I join, I have some optimism because there are so many seemingly beautiful and available women, and lots of messages. Most conversations just fizzle out. I figure I don't have a lot in common with a lot of the women there, so that's one problem. Another problem is that 90% of the girls quit within 2 weeks of joining. I think they initially think they'll meet a rich handsome man, then soon realize it is unlikely to happen, then get scared and quit. For the rest of the girls, 5% are semi-permanent "lifestyle" babies, and the other 5% are somewhere in between. That's my observation. I didn't think there were many bots on "Seeking" (SA). There seem to be bots on Secret Benefits, though, because the pay model is different; you pay for each conversation that you open.
And so, if you do manage to find someone with whom you click, even if its not a perfect situation, I would suggest staying with her for awhile. Months or a couple years. It's a lot of work to replace her and the grass is not always greener on the other side. Having said all that, I'm sure there are a lot of guys better at picking up girls on SA than me, more game, better looking, etc, so YMMV, as usual.
Something's not right, I know that. I basically got someone on the site to admit that they just sat and answered questions all day sitting in a cubicle somewhere. Maybe this person was feeling a little guilty leading men on and their conscious got to them and spilled the beans. Lots of replies to my messages that just didn't fit the flow of the conversation and didn't make sense. I smell a rat. LOL.
Other than that, the one's that were real would take three days to get back to me and lay the old " I'm not on here that much" line on me. And, I'm like; Well, "why even bother?
$90.00 bucks for this?
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Posts: 52
Kat effect
https://www.seeking.com/member/03ea6...b-b7dab62d572c
I've been in contact with this lady with the angle of booking a massage. Any others have any contact?
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Chloeb210
Anyone seen or talked to her?
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Posts: 207
Originally Posted by Apollo007
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Either she's blocked me or took her profile down.
https://www.seeking.com/member/33f4a...?&locale=en_US
Cute 18 year old.
We set a price and agreed to meet the next day. She had a long drive so I was already thinking the odds were against me. Anyways, she texts me that morning to confirm our meet up, so I'm feeling my chances are pretty good now.
We had alreday agreed on 6:30. After thinking about traffic I offered her 5:30 or 7:30 to avoid it. She replied 6:30 was fine. So, I'm again thinking 50/50 on showing up.
Of course, she's a no show.
Message today was she was sorry and her sleep was fucked up becasuse she was off her meds?
WTF, I've only been doing this for less than a week and I'm getting sick of it.
I haven't been on SA for several months, and I've tried it about 5 times in 2 years for a month at a time. It's comforting to see that others are frustrated by it too. Each time I join, I have some optimism because there are so many seemingly beautiful and available women, and lots of messages. Most conversations just fizzle out. I figure I don't have a lot in common with a lot of the women there, so that's one problem. Another problem is that 90% of the girls quit within 2 weeks of joining. I think they initially think they'll meet a rich handsome man, then soon realize it is unlikely to happen, then get scared and quit. For the rest of the girls, 5% are semi-permanent "lifestyle" babies, and the other 5% are somewhere in between. That's my observation. I didn't think there were many bots on "Seeking" (SA). There seem to be bots on Secret Benefits, though, because the pay model is different; you pay for each conversation that you open.
And so, if you do manage to find someone with whom you click, even if its not a perfect situation, I would suggest staying with her for awhile. Months or a couple years. It's a lot of work to replace her and the grass is not always greener on the other side. Having said all that, I'm sure there are a lot of guys better at picking up girls on SA than me, more game, better looking, etc, so YMMV, as usual.
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Posts: 242
Originally Posted by NikkaNamedSlik
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Queenoflove has extreme gps. Wants 500 per meet.
I sensed that. Thanks!
I'm going to bet this one does too:
https://www.seeking.com/member/55881...b-d4f59b193710
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Posts: 242
Originally Posted by LazaroRosales
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She got cold feet and she didn't block you, just deleted her profile. Happens more often than you'd think, I put myself in their shoes and I would be pretty scared to show up at some random dude's house LOL. But she should've at least had the courtesy of letting you she wasn't going to make it.
To avoid cold feet, I always offer to drive somewhere near them and in a public place, it takes a lot of work but it's important to build some trust beforehand instead of asking them to come fuck you at a hotel or your place.
Yea, we agree to meet in a public place. Starbucks. Oh well, she wanted some gas money to come out in advance. I said nope. I'll give you some when we meet. She said okay, "we need to start developing some trust" or something like that.
This one wants to meet, any info?
https://www.seeking.com/member/55881...b-d4f59b193710
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Queenoflove has extreme gps. Wants 500 per meet.
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Gone
Originally Posted by RWarNmsn69
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Profile Not AvailableThis member's profile can no longer be found. The member might have deactivated their account, been suspended, blocked you, or been blocked by you.
Safe mongering and sugaring!
Yeah her profile is gone. If she deactivated her account and you two messaged her screen name will still show. If she's deleted her account it changes the name on messages to "sugar baby". That's what I've noticed over the time I've been on the site. Stay safe,
Bob.
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Posts: 181
Originally Posted by Apollo007
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Either she's blocked me or took her profile down.
https://www.seeking.com/member/33f4a...?&locale=en_US
Cute 18 year old.
We set a price and agreed to meet the next day. She had a long drive so I was already thinking the odds were against me. Anyways, she texts me that morning to confirm our meet up, so I'm feeling my chances are pretty good now.
We had alreday agreed on 6:30. After thinking about traffic I offered her 5:30 or 7:30 to avoid it. She replied 6:30 was fine. So, I'm again thinking 50/50 on showing up.
Of course, she's a no show.
Message today was she was sorry and her sleep was fucked up becasuse she was off her meds?
WTF, I've only been doing this for less than a week and I'm getting sick of it.
Hey, I feel your pain bro. That place is like work.
I've tried SA 3 or 4 times over the last 4 years or so.
I did meet a few ladies in early 2019, but just never made the connection I was looking for.
Late last year did it for me with all of the scammers and increase of fake profiles and bots that SA uses.
Won't be giving them any more of my money.
Whatever you do, don't fall for the cash ap upfront thing. I've read about guys on here getting ripped. Hard to believe they would send money in advance to these con artists.
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Profile Not Available
Profile Not Available—This member's profile can no longer be found. The member might have deactivated their account, been suspended, blocked you, or been blocked by you.
Safe mongering and sugaring!
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Cold feet
She got cold feet and she didn't block you, just deleted her profile. Happens more often than you'd think, I put myself in their shoes and I would be pretty scared to show up at some random dude's house LOL. But she should've at least had the courtesy of letting you she wasn't going to make it.
To avoid cold feet, I always offer to drive somewhere near them and in a public place, it takes a lot of work but it's important to build some trust beforehand instead of asking them to come fuck you at a hotel or your place.
Originally Posted by Apollo007
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Either she's blocked me or took her profile down.
https://www.seeking.com/member/33f4a...?&locale=en_US
Cute 18 year old.
We set a price and agreed to meet the next day. She had a long drive so I was already thinking the odds were against me. Anyways, she texts me that morning to confirm our meet up, so I'm feeling my chances are pretty good now.
We had alreday agreed on 6:30. After thinking about traffic I offered her 5:30 or 7:30 to avoid it. She replied 6:30 was fine. So, I'm again thinking 50/50 on showing up.
Of course, she's a no show.
Message today was she was sorry and her sleep was fucked up becasuse she was off her meds?
WTF, I've only been doing this for less than a week and I'm getting sick of it.
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Posts: 242
BabyRoseyyy
Either she's blocked me or took her profile down.
https://www.seeking.com/member/33f4a...?&locale=en_US
Cute 18 year old.
We set a price and agreed to meet the next day. She had a long drive so I was already thinking the odds were against me. Anyways, she texts me that morning to confirm our meet up, so I'm feeling my chances are pretty good now.
We had alreday agreed on 6:30. After thinking about traffic I offered her 5:30 or 7:30 to avoid it. She replied 6:30 was fine. So, I'm again thinking 50/50 on showing up.
Of course, she's a no show.
Message today was she was sorry and her sleep was fucked up becasuse she was off her meds?
WTF, I've only been doing this for less than a week and I'm getting sick of it.
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Posts: 709
Same here
Originally Posted by TravelinSD
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Lemons467.
https://www.seeking.com/member/3d6a8...c-90d4e44e186e
Here's her response to my first message:
Hey! I'm here for a new arrangement, hopefully something ongoing. I can host or meet, and ideally I want something casual, but fun. Before I meet you I require help with my phone bill which I need $80 for. That is a deal breaker for me and not something I am going to go back and forth on. It's not only for communication but for safety too. Let me know if you're down and we can go from there!
Hahahahaha!
Good hunting!
Travelin.
Same message to me. I said OK and she sounded shocked. Really? Then I blocked her.
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Posts: 159
Another scammer
Lemons467.
https://www.seeking.com/member/3d6a8...c-90d4e44e186e
Here's her response to my first message:
Hey! I'm here for a new arrangement, hopefully something ongoing. I can host or meet, and ideally I want something casual, but fun. Before I meet you I require help with my phone bill which I need $80 for. That is a deal breaker for me and not something I am going to go back and forth on. It's not only for communication but for safety too. Let me know if you're down and we can go from there!
Hahahahaha!
Good hunting!
Travelin.
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