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[SixteeNiner]

Brah the only reason you taking heat is not because you went crying to her it because you decided to call us out by saying GOOD JOB GUYS so of course you going get back lash.As I stated yes Yonger shouldn't have said anything and yes I shouldn't have responded but this is where you report the good things that providers do but because you weren't getting it you decided to called her then as you said she got upset than you come back and blame us by saying GOOD JOB GUYS when you were the one that got her mad by as you said pestering her.

The Fuk you smoking? Some dudes got riled because they think I ruined it for them by being one of many who are probably asking her about it. NOT because I said GOOD JOB GUYS.

She's upset because the dumbass broke a promise not to discuss this on the boards. Fucking retarded to come at me when there are dozens who are going to ask because one numbskull thought he was special and decided to brag about it.

[DaViper]

100%. I'm not even that irked to be honest and I'll be the scapegoat here if it makes some guys feel better here but the truth of the matter is that I'm just one of dozens who are going to bring it up to her. Some of you would like me to take the brunt of this but like I said the real problem is the noob who thought he was special and bragging about it essentially. He broke code if its true so I hardly think I'm the one who should be taking the brunt here.

Brah the only reason you taking heat is not because you went crying to her it because you decided to call us out by saying GOOD JOB GUYS so of course you going get back lash.As I stated yes Yonger shouldn't have said anything and yes I shouldn't have responded but this is where you report the good things that providers do but because you weren't getting it you decided to called her then as you said she got upset than you come back and blame us by saying GOOD JOB GUYS when you were the one that got her mad by as you said pestering her.

[Kalani69]

I got to agree with TT here. Even you all as generous gentlemen's, you're not going to want to go B. B. With ever provider you see. I mean before hand when you're approaching the time yes I'm sure you have fantasies but when reality hits and your face to face or face to twat with your provider and your spider sense kick in an you get this "feeling" that you just shouldn't do it, well sometimes one ought to listen. And then there are just times when providers feel "comfortable " and "connect" with their clients. Some are more then clients but not really boyfriends. I'll admit that I have 3 clients that are very special to me because we connect very well NOT ROMANTICLY but sexually and intellectually. We treat each other a little more special then others but with the mutual understanding that anything can change at anytime no questions asked. Why because when it comes down to it everything is at our own discretion. Now if a female wants to go commando with everyone again that's her choice and how she chooses to dispense herself, and if another is strick again it's her choice too, however gentlemen please word of advice,.

If you read in the reviews that she's YMMV don't go back and pressure her or make her feel bad for not giving you that. You'll only leave a bad taste in her mouth and end up loosing any chance of getting anything more out of her. One thing I like to tell myself that keeps me humble is that I'm not for everybody and I need to be ok with that. Even when I get rejected at the door I can't let it effect me and take it personal because the truth is just that! I'm not for everybody and I'll never be everyone's flavor all the time nor will I Be.

Well gosh darn it! My bad. I probably took this way deeper then it ought to be but idgaf I hope it helped someone understand and get a better insight.

Xoxo JD.

Essentially, for the guys who think being a regular should change the girl's decision about what kind of service to give, think again. Even if you've seen a girl 30+ times, she just may not want to provide bb or cim or anal or whatever to you even though she provided to a monger on the 2nd date. That's really what YMMV is. It's up to her. If you don't like it, date someone else.

[SixteeNiner]

I understand YMMV and it's up to the girl what service she provides but maybe a monger needs to decide if he wants to keep getting extras from a really hot girl or tell the whole world so he looks cool. This bull about sharing info because you want to contribute is only a way for one to try to look cool. Why disclose the extras if it may cause the girl to quit coming back to Hawaii? Only in Hawaii does the girls who provide extras to only a few is it a problem. It can be as simple as keep your mouth shut and keep getting extras or disclose your extras, which causes problems for the girl and she leaves and never returns. Remember, get one bigger population on the mainland she a hottie will not have problems finding business anywhere. We lost too many good fucks cause some guys no can keep their mouths shut.

1000%.

Yongermonger you're a retard.

[DeMeter]

This is just speculation, but if I had over 20 sessions with a girl and had been seeing her for years, then found out she was doing other customers BB (Particularly guys that weren't regulars) I might feel a little irked about the exclusion. In that emotional state I could understand messaging the girl and being all "WTF" about it. Though I'm sure I'd quickly realize that bringing it up with her is only going to cause drama, and still not result in me getting into the BB club. I don't think its jealousy as much as it's just a realization of where you really stand with the girl.

I go to mr Onaha's sushi restaurant every weekend and spend a lot.

I love his sushi and that good kind atmosphere.

Go there and spend 1 hour and get sevice freebie 2 pieces california roll and go home. Wow chef give extra rolls for me because he knows about me now and feel personal bond as dude pals. Wow. Clean the table abd I leave.

Everything is fine.

Until I find that chef gave 100 discount for someone else who spent less than I do and I am rejected when I want the same level of service as that guy got.

Yeah. YMMV. Human service is not factory made products.

But let us be honest, it is NOT easy to smile when we find we were excluded whil others were included.

[Ingwa]

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[JennaDean]

With BeBe I had a one position preview on the 1st time, rewarded on the repeat, then became a regular bcuz she's the best. Obviously she is YMMV about it so respect her choice.

I got to agree with TT here. Even you all as generous gentlemen's, you're not going to want to go B. B. With ever provider you see. I mean before hand when you're approaching the time yes I'm sure you have fantasies but when reality hits and your face to face or face to twat with your provider and your spider sense kick in an you get this "feeling" that you just shouldn't do it, well sometimes one ought to listen. And then there are just times when providers feel "comfortable " and "connect" with their clients. Some are more then clients but not really boyfriends. I'll admit that I have 3 clients that are very special to me because we connect very well NOT ROMANTICLY but sexually and intellectually. We treat each other a little more special then others but with the mutual understanding that anything can change at anytime no questions asked. Why because when it comes down to it everything is at our own discretion. Now if a female wants to go commando with everyone again that's her choice and how she chooses to dispense herself, and if another is strick again it's her choice too, however gentlemen please word of advice,.

If you read in the reviews that she's YMMV don't go back and pressure her or make her feel bad for not giving you that. You'll only leave a bad taste in her mouth and end up loosing any chance of getting anything more out of her. One thing I like to tell myself that keeps me humble is that I'm not for everybody and I need to be ok with that. Even when I get rejected at the door I can't let it effect me and take it personal because the truth is just that! I'm not for everybody and I'll never be everyone's flavor all the time nor will I Be.

Well gosh darn it! My bad. I probably took this way deeper then it ought to be but idgaf I hope it helped someone understand and get a better insight.

Xoxo JD.

[SixteeNiner]

This is just speculation, but if I had over 20 sessions with a girl and had been seeing her for years, then found out she was doing other customers BB (Particularly guys that weren't regulars) I might feel a little irked about the exclusion. In that emotional state I could understand messaging the girl and being all "WTF" about it. Though I'm sure I'd quickly realize that bringing it up with her is only going to cause drama, and still not result in me getting into the BB club. I don't think its jealousy as much as it's just a realization of where you really stand with the girl.

100%. I'm not even that irked to be honest and I'll be the scapegoat here if it makes some guys feel better here but the truth of the matter is that I'm just one of dozens who are going to bring it up to her. Some of you would like me to take the brunt of this but like I said the real problem is the noob who thought he was special and bragging about it essentially. He broke code if its true so I hardly think I'm the one who should be taking the brunt here.

[TT Twista]

This is just speculation, but if I had over 20 sessions with a girl and had been seeing her for years, then found out she was doing other customers BB (Particularly guys that weren't regulars) I might feel a little irked about the exclusion. In that emotional state I could understand messaging the girl and being all "WTF" about it. Though I'm sure I'd quickly realize that bringing it up with her is only going to cause drama, and still not result in me getting into the BB club. I don't think its jealousy as much as it's just a realization of where you really stand with the girl.

BBF isn't Bebe 1st time. She does that with her regulars.

With BeBe I had a one position preview on the 1st time, rewarded on the repeat, then became a regular bcuz she's the best. Obviously she is YMMV about it so respect her choice.

[SureYourRight]

Jealous cucks who go running to their AMP "girlfriends" when someone reports extra services you don't get. Regardless if the original post is true or not, why would your first instinct be to go ask the provider about it?

This is just speculation, but if I had over 20 sessions with a girl and had been seeing her for years, then found out she was doing other customers BB (Particularly guys that weren't regulars) I might feel a little irked about the exclusion. In that emotional state I could understand messaging the girl and being all "WTF" about it. Though I'm sure I'd quickly realize that bringing it up with her is only going to cause drama, and still not result in me getting into the BB club. I don't think its jealousy as much as it's just a realization of where you really stand with the girl.

[SixteeNiner]

Jealous cucks who go running to their AMP "girlfriends" when someone reports extra services you don't get. Regardless if the original post is true or not, why would your first instinct be to go ask the provider about it?

Back up dickhead. I'm not the problem here.

It's the loser who can't discern social cues and breaks code who's the problem.

[Idusixtyning]

How can Africa have such high rate of HIV?

Almost half of HIV positive there are females. And many of African countries have anti-gay policy.

From an abstract of an nih.gov article (dated 3/10/2014):

Heterosexual anal sex is underresearched and little understood, particularly in the African context. Existing prevalence data indicate that heterosexual anal sex is a widespread practice, yet little is known about the way in which it is conceptualized and understood. Describing findings from qualitative research conducted in Kenya, Tanzania, and Uganda, we shed light on conceptualizations of heterosexual anal sex and its relation to human immunodeficiency virus (HIV). These findings suggest that penile-anal sex is practiced by men and women in Africa for a range of reasons, including virginity maintenance, contraception, fulfillment of male pleasure, relationship security, menstruation, in the presence of vaginal complications, financial gain, fidelity, and prestige. Despite anal sex being the most efficient way to transmit HIV sexually, there is widespread lack of knowledge about its risks. These findings describe the ways in which anal sex is conceptualized in five East African communities, highlighting how penile-anal intercourse is often not considered "sex" and how the omission of anal sex in safe-sex messaging is interpreted as meaning that anal sex is safe. In light of its frequency and risks, greater attention must be paid to heterosexual anal sex in Africa to ensure a comprehensive approach to HIV prevention.

[Shipshape]

I also got tested there. The counselor also told me it is less likely that straight people will get infected. That is true, but I'm skeptical about the possibility of straight people getting infected being almost non-existent. 2014 nation-wide stats from the Center for Disease Control show that 23% of all HIV infections involved straight people.

"In the same year, individuals infected through heterosexual sex made up 23% of all new HIV infections"

https://www.cdc.gov/hiv/basics/statistics.html

Yeah, I checked the cdc site. 23/24% is their best guess. Note they do not give any number for heterosexual non-drug user males. In fact, it is very difficult to find such a number. The closest indication on the CDC site is "sub-groups below 1% not included". After doing more research it comes down to this. So-called "ghetto" HIV apparently is a bit more common in areas with low hygiene, malnutrition, and other diseases (for example malaria ridden areas of Africa have a higher percentage of HIV cases). A normal guy in the USA has higher odds getting hit by lightning than getting HIV (which may or may not develop into full-blown aides). HIV was all hype in the 80's and 90's, in that, the expected explosion of cases never happened, but too much money was thrown at it for political reasons while the top killers like heart disease, cancer, alzheimers, etc took a temporary back seat. And thus the joke: What do you call a non-drug using, heterosexual male who has HIV? A liar.

SS.

[ChibiMonger]

Not sure who's being honest here but I can tell you without shadow of doubt that I've never come close to getting BBFS and I pester her often. At least I used to until I gave up.

I texted Bebe about this last night because it bothered me and she seemed stressed and distraught about it. She said if she gets bothered about this she will leave for LA this weekend or a bit later.

Good job guys.

Jealous cucks who go running to their AMP "girlfriends" when someone reports extra services you don't get. Regardless if the original post is true or not, why would your first instinct be to go ask the provider about it?

[WaikikiBeAC]

Just wanted to let everyone know I do not have HIV / AIDS. Also I would never knowingly infect or spread HIV around. That is sick and really bad.

I was just talking to all the fellow mongers who are scared, worried, paranoid about catching something. Magic Johnson is doing just fine and HIV is the killer that govt, media, Hollywood, and tv make it out to be.