Rants and Stupid shit in Dayton

**Member #5554** · 03-10-17 22:27

Originally Posted by MontyCliff [View Original Post]

Certainly you have better things to do then make disparaging comments about "old ladies".

Oh oh, now you've done it, she will cross you off her compliant list and not see you. Welcome to the Lady J reject list.

**CletusTheYokel** · 03-10-17 22:05

I'm with DC for two reasons. One, This board should be like Fight Club when it comes to the girls. Don't talk about it--except with advertisers. But too many guys blab about it and / or try to use a bad review as leverage--come on man. Just be straight up.

Two, Sarah and her friends are quite reasonable.

My two cents.

Cletus.

Originally Posted by Dcloser6 [View Original Post]

I've been told there are some who are threatening Sarah1983 and her partner Destiny with bad reviews if they don't drop their rates. BULLSHIT. Stop trying to bully the women here. Negotiate all you want, but DO NOT use this board and its power to sway people to take money away from them.

As a long time senior you know I never lie, will always share to those who've earned the right, and always treat the ladies with respect. It has allowed me to enjoy their company while rarely being dissapointed or taken advantage of.

Sarah has ALWAYS been a true provider and Destiny while young and maybe a bit sharp tongued has not tried anything bad or made me feel cheated or lied to. My eyes are open and I'm very very careful so I kow all the tricks. STOP abusing them. Here are two offering you paradise for a very reasonable rate and someone here is runing that for us.

So, if I find out who you are, be prepared, I will be glad to share my displeasure.

**MontyCliff** · 03-10-17 17:50

Originally Posted by MTownUtr [View Original Post]

No I did not offer him a good deal or any kind of deal at all. We both realize where we screwed up and he contacted me after he made that post. I respected the fact that he was willing to admit his wrong and we're going to start over. It's that simple. I don't know why you guys have to read more into things than there are. Gives you something to gossip about I guess. Just like a bunch of old ladies, sitting around gossiping with nothing better to do. Well I have better things to do so I'm out.

Certainly you have better things to do then make disparaging comments about "old ladies".

**TheWolverineJP** · 03-10-17 10:04

Originally Posted by BuxKA [View Original Post]

We need accurate information to make a decision and that is paramount. I wish I had the honest reviews from our Cincy-Dayton boards when I was in Tampa a year ago. I made a bad decision because there was no information and I paid for it. Nothing bad happened it was a very poor date and I was out $200. However she tried to tell me what to write. LOL! I stomped her and someone else mentioned a similar experience and I still check to see if she has any ads up and I haven't seen anything. Hate to put a girl out of business but to me what we did was not business.

I see the problems arise when either, 1. The reviewer is not being factual and is just trying to discredit the provider or brag for some reason or another or, 2. The one being reviewed is too arrogant and proud to do some self examination and be critical of themselves or their performance. A person that will not take criticism will never grow and improve. In the forum there us a tendancy for cheap shots that really have no basis, those posts only make a person defensive and should be ignored. If the reviewer and the reviewed would stick to the facts, take the info as a lesson learned without getting defensive the posts would then carry a lot more weight and have a good effect. Quite frankly there are some posts I completely ignore because the poster has a history of not being objective. Really the posts are only as good as the reputation of the person behind it. Good or bad. I beleive each poster is painting a picture of their character every time they post and the words should be chosen wisely. Just my 2 cents. Sorry for the crumby grammer, posting from my phone.

**BuxKA** · 03-10-17 09:39

Originally Posted by ByronDee [View Original Post]

The issue is, this forum should be a free flow of information, just cause you made a connection or she curled your toes, someone else could have had a nightmare experience. So that's where us smart guys on the forum compile all the information and make a choice to see or not, based on all the info. I wrote a review once, and it was ok, but there was room for improvement. The word got back to her and she corrected everything and became an ATF. It works the other way also, I have heard providers say, this guy was drunk, he stank, etc, and then they write a bad review. But at the end of the day, if most of the reviews from trusted people are positive then a few negatives mean nothing, and sometime providers could learn from a negative review or two. REMEMBER this a forum, not an infomercial! So guys, let people write reviews...good or bad!!!!

We need accurate information to make a decision and that is paramount. I wish I had the honest reviews from our Cincy-Dayton boards when I was in Tampa a year ago. I made a bad decision because there was no information and I paid for it. Nothing bad happened it was a very poor date and I was out $200. However she tried to tell me what to write. LOL! I stomped her and someone else mentioned a similar experience and I still check to see if she has any ads up and I haven't seen anything. Hate to put a girl out of business but to me what we did was not business.

**RegulatorD** · 03-10-17 08:42

The issue is, this forum should be a free flow of information, just cause you made a connection or she curled your toes, someone else could have had a nightmare experience. So that's where us smart guys on the forum compile all the information and make a choice to see or not, based on all the info. I wrote a review once, and it was ok, but there was room for improvement. The word got back to her and she corrected everything and became an ATF. It works the other way also, I have heard providers say, this guy was drunk, he stank, etc, and then they write a bad review. But at the end of the day, if most of the reviews from trusted people are positive then a few negatives mean nothing, and sometime providers could learn from a negative review or two. REMEMBER this a forum, not an infomercial! So guys, let people write reviews...good or bad!!!!

**Member #5554** · 03-09-17 23:25

Originally Posted by MTownUtr [View Original Post]

No I did not offer him a good deal or any kind of deal at all. We both realize where we screwed up and he contacted me after he made that post. I respected the fact that he was willing to admit his wrong and we're going to start over. It's that simple. I don't know why you guys have to read more into things than there are. Gives you something to gossip about I guess. Just like a bunch of old ladies, sitting around gossiping with nothing better to do. Well I have better things to do so I'm out.

Looks like Lady J is still trying to control us. This forum is for free discussion of our experiences, and we are not "like a bunch of old ladies". She makes a living from those of us that are allowed to see her, and she displays disdain for us. Go back to where you came from.

**Goodson2000** · 03-09-17 22:58

Originally Posted by MTownUtr [View Original Post]

No I did not offer him a good deal or any kind of deal at all. We both realize where we screwed up and he contacted me after he made that post. I respected the fact that he was willing to admit his wrong and we're going to start over. It's that simple. I don't know why you guys have to read more into things than there are. Gives you something to gossip about I guess. Just like a bunch of old ladies, sitting around gossiping with nothing better to do. Well I have better things to do so I'm out.

I was clear "generally speaking" in my post. We have seen them a lot. White knights are annoying. Information compromised.

So, when did I do wrong, as you calling me "wrong again?" I don't like a false accusation. At the same time if I was wrong somewhere, I want to correct it. I guess when you blame me through the alias account?

**Pacific Creek** · 03-09-17 20:11

Originally Posted by Dcloser6 [View Original Post]

I've been told there are some who are threatening Sarah1983 and her partner Destiny with bad reviews if they don't drop their rates. BULLSHIT. Stop trying to bully the women here. Negotiate all you want, but DO NOT use this board and its power to sway people to take money away from them.

As a long time senior you know I never lie, will always share to those who've earned the right, and always treat the ladies with respect. It has allowed me to enjoy their company while rarely being dissapointed or taken advantage of.

Sarah has ALWAYS been a true provider and Destiny while young and maybe a bit sharp tongued has not tried anything bad or made me feel cheated or lied to. My eyes are open and I'm very very careful so I kow all the tricks. STOP abusing them. Here are two offering you paradise for a very reasonable rate and someone here is runing that for us.

So, if I find out who you are, be prepared, I will be glad to share my displeasure.

While I pass on high prices, I will not threaten someone with a bad review because of their prices.

I am not saying Sarah or her friend have high prices. I have yet to go visit them but they are on my list of local providers to visit and experience for myself. Threatening someone with a bad review because you don't like the freight is just dumb and proves that the people doing that suffer from Cranial Rectal Inversion. Very similar to those who get upset because the ladies don't want to visit with people of different races. It's their body and their choice who they share it with. Making rude and ignorant statements about them just shows how intelligent you really are.

The ladies are here for us. We are here for them. If you don't like the landing, go to a different port.

Fly low, be cool and always check your six.

**NothingToDo** · 03-09-17 18:02

Originally Posted by MTownUtr [View Original Post]

No I did not offer him a good deal or any kind of deal at all. We both realize where we screwed up and he contacted me after he made that post. I respected the fact that he was willing to admit his wrong and we're going to start over. It's that simple. I don't know why you guys have to read more into things than there are. Gives you something to gossip about I guess. Just like a bunch of old ladies, sitting around gossiping with nothing better to do. Well I have better things to do so I'm out.

No, we were not arguing about you per se in the Stupid Shit section. We were talking about how some ultra-nice people worry about reporting any negative experience on this forum.

A misunderstanding, a miscommunication, or a missed appointment, all says something about the provider and the hobbyist. There are many other hobbyists that will report their experiences as well. People can be the judge.
Personally I am glad to see you and Wolverine working things out in a civilized way. That should be applauded.

That said, maybe I should change my handle to NothingBetterToDo.

Have fun and be safe!

**MTownUtr** · 03-09-17 16:59

Originally Posted by Goodson2000 [View Original Post]

Great point.

Generally speaking, guys retract their negative comments because the provider is offering him a great deal behind the scene. It happens fairly often. It compromises the integrity of intel on the board, on her. A provider with all white knights, all the time. We have seen it before right?

No I did not offer him a good deal or any kind of deal at all. We both realize where we screwed up and he contacted me after he made that post. I respected the fact that he was willing to admit his wrong and we're going to start over. It's that simple. I don't know why you guys have to read more into things than there are. Gives you something to gossip about I guess. Just like a bunch of old ladies, sitting around gossiping with nothing better to do. Well I have better things to do so I'm out.

**TheWolverineJP** · 03-09-17 15:52

Originally Posted by NdayGuy [View Original Post]

In this particular case I suspect she invited him over, tied him up, and forced him to submit! Just Sayin' (all in jest).

Hey guys, I'm fairly new to this scene but have been around enough to know how the game is played. I can assure you that whatever I post in the forum is accurate and true to the best of my knowledge and if I do say something out of line or misrepresent something I will be the first to correct it, case in point Lady J. I want the info I read from other posters to be accurate without subjective bias as much as you do. I don't mind the fun in jest but trust me, I'm not being manipulated.

**TheDaytimer** · 03-09-17 15:11

Originally Posted by Goodson2000 [View Original Post]

Great point.

Generally speaking, guys retract their negative comments because the provider is offering him a great deal behind the scene. It happens fairly often. It compromises the integrity of intel on the board, on her. A provider with all white knights, all the time. We have seen it before right?

In this particular case I suspect she invited him over, tied him up, and forced him to submit! Just Sayin' (all in jest).

**RegulatorD** · 03-09-17 14:16

Originally Posted by Goodson2000 [View Original Post]

Great point.

Generally speaking, guys retract their negative comments because the provider is offering him a great deal behind the scene. It happens fairly often. It compromises the integrity of intel on the board, on her. A provider with all white knights, all the time. We have seen it before right?

You make one negative comment and you are FLOODED with White Knight PMs trying to hammer you! Even a lot of reviews are classic white knight, she is sooo wonderful, she is my sunshine, she is my world, I wish I could marry her.

**Goodson2000** · 03-09-17 13:54

Originally Posted by NothingToDo [View Original Post]

Glad the issue was resolved for them.

But on a more constructive note, sharing info and experiences is the whole point of having this forum.

Ideally we all stay objective and fair, but the experience is personal to both the hobbyist and the SP, and therefore YMMV. We all have different tastes and what works for one may not for another. And just because I had a good experience a month ago, you could still get ripped off today -- both are equally important information that should be shared! Everyone should also know better to take all intel with a grain of salt and be smart about it.

It's nice a SP is on the forum for open discussions, and it's nice people can work things out in public. But that shouldn't be any reason to deter anyone from sharing their experience.

Provide as much objective information as you can, share your subjective experience in a fair way. Be safe.

Great point.

Generally speaking, guys retract their negative comments because the provider is offering him a great deal behind the scene. It happens fairly often. It compromises the integrity of intel on the board, on her. A provider with all white knights, all the time. We have seen it before right?