Seeking Arrangement (SA)

[ShyGuyInTn]

I was in touch with GFE Let's Talk tonight and and she's offering a 30 percent off special this week (through 9-28-2018, I think). Available daily until 3 pm, hosts in a nice area in Lebanon. She's super-busty and a lot of fun!

https://www.seeking.com/member/155b6...6-e363fe11639a

-Jeepster1.

Saw a post from her on Skipthegames this morning. Gone now. Looked really busty. I think she is different from the other Lebanon Brittany?

[Jeepster1]

I had a fun morning with GFE youngish MILF "Let's Talk" at her home to the east, a decent rented place not too far from I-40. Setup was easy, we exchanged messages a couple of days beforehand, and then finalized an appointment on fairly short notice when I had some free time.

The usual GFE menu, and she was very responsive and loved to play. No prior intro meeting required, YMMV. Said she was still moving in, as evidenced by a number of moving boxes stacked about.

She has great natural auburn hair and a nice big chest. A little thicker than her pics may indicate, but looked good in horizontal mode!

Seemed very nice, normal and smart. Drama-free. Profile says age is 32 but I would have guessed mid- to late-twenties. Suggested damage was 175, and I would repeat. She was having a daycare issue the day I saw her so the visit didn't go extra innings; but sounds like her time may free up a bit soon.

A respected member here told me she had ghosted him a few months ago, but I experienced zero setup problems and great communication.

https://www.seeking.com/member/155b6...6-e363fe11639a

She's fun!

-Jeepster1.

I was in touch with GFE Let's Talk tonight and and she's offering a 30 percent off special this week (through 9-28-2018, I think). Available daily until 3 pm, hosts in a nice area in Lebanon. She's super-busty and a lot of fun!

https://www.seeking.com/member/155b6...6-e363fe11639a

-Jeepster1.

[HornDawgs]

I've never used Secret Benefits. I've had great success with SA. If you are patient and have enough time to spend researching, replying to messages and are careful, you will have success on SA depending on what you're looking for. One thing to keep in mind, SA is not an escort site.

Yes it is, if they don't fuck you without getting paid they are hookers.

Just saying,

A2

However, there are tons of escorts and scammers and flakes, so you will have to do some digging and have a lot of patience to find the good women on there. For me it goes like this. I'll pay the membership once month, contact a ton of members, start messaing the ones who respond and gradually weed out the above and eventually I find 1 or 2 that become girlfriends on the side who basically need a little help getting by. It's great if you're patient. I'm currently not a member since I found a couple who I can see once in a while and not break the bank. Good luck.

Best advice so far (fortunately didn't have to learn this the hard way): NEVER give out personal phone numbers, e-mails (unless they're not tied to anything else such as social media pages or able to be accessed by a significant other). Never give this stuff out or any personal info until AFTER you've met someone in person and established trust. There are some really screwy and dangerous people out there so be careful. Never give out money through paypal or through any other site. Use cash or hand out gift cards if you end up agreeing to an arrangement. Offer to meet in public first (lunch / coffee) before engaging in anything physical. Most appreciate that.

A2 is correct, of course, as always. The difference, though, is that if you approach the regular college type girls on SA as you would an acknowledged working girl, it will not go well most of the time. There are pros on SA now, of course, and scammers as well, but there are also regular college girls who have a fantasy idea about a sugar daddy. Some of those girls end up having many SD's and become kind of UTR girls. Others have one and done, just a few, etc. So, it's all over the place but there can be some amazing experiences. You just have to approach it differently, have some game beyond just the cash. But, as A2 said, it will always require the cash!

[TomDickNHarry]

Case in point to my last post.

https://www.seeking.com/member/b016e...a-de70f8559c4c

First after trying to get me to have convo about what I'm seeking and all that stuff and what would I want to if we met next Saturday night, which I immediately move to let's meet now, she admits she's seeking online only. When I say no to that, she all of a sudden is located nowhere near where the profile says atm but if I send her some money she can get home and then come meet me in person. Total and complete scam. Amazed that anyone would fall for this crap, could care less but just annoyed that I have to exchange 10 emails with someone before figuring it out.

[BjTilliCum]

The Nashville site, and possibly nationally has become over run with pic sellers. They've gotten more clever also, in that they pretend to be out of town or some reason they can't meet immediately, though they create the expectation they will next week or what have you. You buy the pics to show good faith and prove you're real and This is a scam, these girls are not likely anywhere near Nashville and when they can get money for pics will never meet you anyway. Don't fall for that con, no matter how good a game they talk.

I don't understand how guys fall for these scams.

[TomDickNHarry]

The Nashville site, and possibly nationally has become over run with pic sellers. They've gotten more clever also, in that they pretend to be out of town or some reason they can't meet immediately, though they create the expectation they will next week or what have you. You buy the pics to show good faith and prove you're real and This is a scam, these girls are not likely anywhere near Nashville and when they can get money for pics will never meet you anyway. Don't fall for that con, no matter how good a game they talk.

[TomDickNHarry]

I'm considering joining additional site. Any recommendations for Seeking Arrangement or Secret Benefits.

My old handle was Boroman.

Thanks in advance for your input.

Go with SA, the Secret Benefits pricing structure is insane. You basically can message 10 girls on benefits for what a month on SA goes for. Secret Benefits apparently has a little less BS and they're slightly more likely to reply b / c they get less messages but they don't have nearly the number of girls to choose from. The difference is in a month on SA you could contact 100 potentials versus 10 on SB and probably your conversion rate to the FC is not that much different. SA has more BS but a lot more opportunities and better value. Half the SB girls are also on SA BTW so it's not even a unique talent pool they have.

Also, go to the Richmond SA thread, that's the ultimate handbook for this, including an FAQ. Use that to educate yourself on how to go about to have success and avoid being scammed and taken for a ride.

[TnGuy23]

I'm considering joining additional site. Any recommendations for Seeking Arrangement or Secret Benefits.

My old handle was Boroman.

Thanks in advance for your input.

I've never used Secret Benefits. I've had great success with SA. If you are patient and have enough time to spend researching, replying to messages and are careful, you will have success on SA depending on what you're looking for. One thing to keep in mind, SA is not an escort site.

Yes it is, if they don't fuck you without getting paid they are hookers.

Just saying,

A2

However, there are tons of escorts and scammers and flakes, so you will have to do some digging and have a lot of patience to find the good women on there. For me it goes like this. I'll pay the membership once month, contact a ton of members, start messaing the ones who respond and gradually weed out the above and eventually I find 1 or 2 that become girlfriends on the side who basically need a little help getting by. It's great if you're patient. I'm currently not a member since I found a couple who I can see once in a while and not break the bank. Good luck.

Best advice so far (fortunately didn't have to learn this the hard way): NEVER give out personal phone numbers, e-mails (unless they're not tied to anything else such as social media pages or able to be accessed by a significant other). Never give this stuff out or any personal info until AFTER you've met someone in person and established trust. There are some really screwy and dangerous people out there so be careful. Never give out money through paypal or through any other site. Use cash or hand out gift cards if you end up agreeing to an arrangement. Offer to meet in public first (lunch / coffee) before engaging in anything physical. Most appreciate that.

[Murfy3712]

I'm considering joining additional site. Any recommendations for Seeking Arrangement or Secret Benefits.

My old handle was Boroman.

Thanks in advance for your input.

[MoostacheTN]

I don't know what you all are doing wrong but I have been successful with over 30 gals in the past 2 yrs on the site. I have a few on rotation currently and think it is the best site ever for dating or hooking up. It's all a matter of how you play the game I guess, rub them the right way with sugar and you go them begging to come back for more.

Same here, just requires patience and a little effort.

[Vet420]

I don't want to start an argument. I guess it depends on what you're looking for. The b. S. Of SA is rampant as ever, but I actually connected with a few young and willing SB's in the last couple months.

I don't know what you all are doing wrong but I have been successful with over 30 gals in the past 2 yrs on the site. I have a few on rotation currently and think it is the best site ever for dating or hooking up. It's all a matter of how you play the game I guess, rub them the right way with sugar and you go them begging to come back for more.

[DerekFareal]

Wondering if anyone has had any luck with this one?

https://www.seeking.com/member/5b91e...e-5b4dfbe13425

[AnonNash]

https://www.seeking.com/member/f3180...1-2d5e80b29118

This one is great. Vandy student that is a former cheer leader. Good time!

I'm in touch with her and would love to know about your experience. Thanks for the tip!

[So Curious]

https://www.seeking.com/member/f3180...1-2d5e80b29118

This one is great. Vandy student that is a former cheer leader. Good time!

[Dogs22]

I finally closed my account about 6 wks ago for that reason. It's been dry for some time, and the ones that are there have major GPS issues. I'll check back in another couple of months and see if it's gotten any better.

I don't want to start an argument. I guess it depends on what you're looking for. The b. S. Of SA is rampant as ever, but I actually connected with a few young and willing SB's in the last couple months.