Seeking Arrangement (SA)

[TomDickNHarry]

https://www.seeking.com/member/16700...e-e7b747312fd1

Just trying to sell pics and vids via snap. Of course not in her profile or messages until you follow her. Don't' waste your time.

[TomDickNHarry]

If you make a new profile, you get like 10 messages to send for free, supposedly, but I have never gotten anyone to even reply to those messages. IDK why they do this, after you've been on a while you'll understand that isn't enough to do anything, especially if you can't read the reply. Even if you put your contact info into the initial message, I've found that is rarely enough to get the girl to take the initiative to contact you off the site. Just pay. If you can't afford $100 to get the regular membership, you can't afford the allowances you're going to need to pay to get anyone decent from the site.

So the free messages are another site scam, or good marketing depending on your perspective, it's just to get you to create a profile. No matter what you write in your message on those free ones, the girl actually receives a generic message like "Hey I'm interested in you. " You can write a paragraph and include contact info but they remove all your text so the girl never sees anything you wrote. Their goal is obviously for the girl to reply to you which they often will with a similarly short message because it's easy for them, then you see it sitting there and can't read it and they never text you, so you're tempted with this trick into joining to read it. Then when you join her message will probably just saw "hi" and when you go to reply with her most of the time you won't hear back again.

Literally the only way to message a girl on that site is by joining. Unless you can use details in their profile to find their social media or something, in which case they'll probably decide you're a stalker and want nothing to do with you. You have to join to message for real, bottom line.

[GobBluth]

If you make a new profile, you get like 10 messages to send for free, supposedly, but I have never gotten anyone to even reply to those messages. IDK why they do this, after you've been on a while you'll understand that isn't enough to do anything, especially if you can't read the reply. Even if you put your contact info into the initial message, I've found that is rarely enough to get the girl to take the initiative to contact you off the site. Just pay. If you can't afford $100 to get the regular membership, you can't afford the allowances you're going to need to pay to get anyone decent from the site.

I've been on and off for a while. I had a nice run in St Pete 2017-18. I can afford it, it just seems a lot different these days and more a waste of time than ever.

[FarFarAway]

I just sent messages on basic membership. One on main profile page, another as a response within an existing conversation. I still can't read theirs without upgrading.

If you make a new profile, you get like 10 messages to send for free, supposedly, but I have never gotten anyone to even reply to those messages. IDK why they do this, after you've been on a while you'll understand that isn't enough to do anything, especially if you can't read the reply. Even if you put your contact info into the initial message, I've found that is rarely enough to get the girl to take the initiative to contact you off the site. Just pay. If you can't afford $100 to get the regular membership, you can't afford the allowances you're going to need to pay to get anyone decent from the site.

[DayDating777]

I just sent messages on basic membership. One on main profile page, another as a response within an existing conversation. I still can't read theirs without upgrading.

More often than not, if they have 1 photo and don't list an actual city they are fake. I have been pleased with SA and most girls I have met are above what you find on STG, etc.

Yes some are pros, others not so much. It takes time to figure these girls out and what they want. Its not as simple as how much.

[Jsnx8990]

I've had good success and I don't give more that $. 5 per visit.

How in the world? The only ones I've been able to get for that rate are professionals and the experience is nothing to write home about. Every decent girl I've found on there would be at minimum $$, more likely $$. 5 and nowadays the great ones seem to not be settling for less than $$$ making it very difficult to actually get something set up.

[GobBluth]

I don't think you've got that right, buddy. You can't send any messages w / o paying, I just checked.

Also, there are many people complain about SA sending fakes, I don't believe it. That is because I never get those. And my reason is that I keep my profile hidden from search. Just one of the options. If I go to a girl's profile, or favorite her, or message her, or give her my private pics, she knows it and can view my profile. I never never get those foreign messages. Every now and then I switch my profile so it can be searched for, just to see what happens. Indeed, I get a lot of distant girls messaging. They stop as soon as I turn it back.

I just sent messages on basic membership. One on main profile page, another as a response within an existing conversation. I still can't read theirs without upgrading.

[NashFunGuy]

Thank you! So if a guy is spending $400-600/ month on play dates, can he find a regular SB for this amount or is that a whole different level?

The ads I read talk about dream vacations and luxury items so my sense it a SB is more in the $2 k / month range.

I've had good success and I don't give more that $. 5 per visit.

[FarFarAway]

Just a rant-- SA has one heck of a bot setup, tons of South American profiles that favorite me, and the day after I let subscription lapse, I get like 10 inbox messages. At least you can send messages again without Premium-- anyone have any success messaging to take it straightaway to a text app?

I don't think you've got that right, buddy. You can't send any messages w / o paying, I just checked.

Also, there are many people complain about SA sending fakes, I don't believe it. That is because I never get those. And my reason is that I keep my profile hidden from search. Just one of the options. If I go to a girl's profile, or favorite her, or message her, or give her my private pics, she knows it and can view my profile. I never never get those foreign messages. Every now and then I switch my profile so it can be searched for, just to see what happens. Indeed, I get a lot of distant girls messaging. They stop as soon as I turn it back.

[GobBluth]

Just a rant-- SA has one heck of a bot setup, tons of South American profiles that favorite me, and the day after I let subscription lapse, I get like 10 inbox messages. At least you can send messages again without Premium-- anyone have any success messaging to take it straightaway to a text app?

[DayDating777]

Thank you! So if a guy is spending $400-600/ month on play dates, can he find a regular SB for this amount or is that a whole different level?

The ads I read talk about dream vacations and luxury items so my sense it a SB is more in the $2 k / month range.

I have been successful on SA. I have found more often than not, it takes up a lot of time. Your numbers could work.

But that depends on # of dates you're seeking.

My experience has varied between 2-400 per visit. I had one SB for 150 and saw her 1-2 x per week.

She was a college student and I basically paid her rent.

The allowance aspect needs to be clarified on a per meeting basis.

Being clear on your expectations will save you a lot of time.

[LuckySmile]

I have found good success on the site as it beginners that can be trained if coached properly and expectations are established. Having a clear vision of what you are wanting and willing to give is key.

Thank you! So if a guy is spending $400-600/ month on play dates, can he find a regular SB for this amount or is that a whole different level?

The ads I read talk about dream vacations and luxury items so my sense it a SB is more in the $2 k / month range.

[Vet420]

I'd love to hear from anyone who has had some success on Seeking.

All I ever hear are scams or unrealistic expectations. I am about to die down the $ for first month fee. Am I just wasting my time or can you find a good UTR girl this way?

Thanks!

I have found good success on the site as it beginners that can be trained if coached properly and expectations are established. Having a clear vision of what you are wanting and willing to give is key.

[LuckySmile]

I'd love to hear from anyone who has had some success on Seeking.

All I ever hear are scams or unrealistic expectations. I am about to die down the $ for first month fee. Am I just wasting my time or can you find a good UTR girl this way?

Thanks!

[Vickster]

https://www.seeking.com/member/8f3c8...8-8db83094e479 Hey Guys,

Has anybody ran across this great-looking girl from SA? I spent last Fri Looking, Talking via text and call? Flat tires, Lost clothes, and shoes? Final Msg home in Pikeville Tn? Now without? Any notice here she is back? Over the weekend despite not giving me any heads up or a Hi? TGTBT also fibs such as Contractor, I felt another presence with her Pimp or partner? Surely somebody knows something? Be Safe All V.