Seeking Arrangement (SA)

[SteelTony36]

Screen for time wasters. If they're not willing to meet up with in a few days of first talking, prob best to move on. If I knew whether A2 and this board's personal admin would allow it, I'd see if we could post profiles and intelligence on them- but have seen that backfire on other forums before too, so understand if verboten.

Don't be overly crass. Feel free to state what you're lookin for, and do so early in the convo, but don't beat her over the head with it.

Met one yesterday- had a couple of drinks at lunch, she felt comfortable, we parted ways- then I got a text soon as I pulled in the driveway wondering if I had time to play.

Well worth the ass chewing I took for leaving work early.

Making them feel comfortable, treating them decently, but being upfront about expectations, you can cut the wheat from the chaff, and find a diamond.

Not sure what you're talking about with "I'd see if we could post profiles and intelligence on them" you can PM me and talk about it if you want.

A2

I agree 100%. Manners and decency go a long way with most of these girls. As does being straightforward about what you are looking for, without being crass about it.

I'm having ALOT of fun on SA.

[GeorgeKaplan]

Last night, 48 Hours had a case that dealt with a couple who had met off SA, although they didn't maintain that was the cause of the alleged muder. It was just a piece of the whole puzzle, but it showed a bit of the inner workings.

My new hero!

Looking foward to more posts as your adventures continue.

-Jeepster1.

[TNtimer]

I am new as well, but it takes time and a little luck. Believe it or not, I have run into quite a few that are frustrated with how few of the guys are serious. Also, don't be afraid to look at some that are out of town but within a couple or three hours drive.

Screen for time wasters. If they're not willing to meet up with in a few days of first talking, prob best to move on. If I knew whether A2 and this board's personal admin would allow it, I'd see if we could post profiles and intelligence on them- but have seen that backfire on other forums before too, so understand if verboten.

Don't be overly crass. Feel free to state what you're lookin for, and do so early in the convo, but don't beat her over the head with it.

Met one yesterday- had a couple of drinks at lunch, she felt comfortable, we parted ways- then I got a text soon as I pulled in the driveway wondering if I had time to play.

Well worth the ass chewing I took for leaving work early.

Making them feel comfortable, treating them decently, but being upfront about expectations, you can cut the wheat from the chaff, and find a diamond.

Not sure what you're talking about with "I'd see if we could post profiles and intelligence on them" you can PM me and talk about it if you want.

A2

[MoostacheTN]

I'm new and just need to find some good times. Don't kno how to get the first one.

I am new as well, but it takes time and a little luck. Believe it or not, I have run into quite a few that are frustrated with how few of the guys are serious. Also, don't be afraid to look at some that are out of town but within a couple or three hours drive.

[MelWhiteBee]

I'm new and just need to find some good times. Don't kno how to get the first one.

[HossCartwright]

Say thank you to the guy driving the Black Cadillac Escalade. You sir, have single handily added more SB's to my small harem over the last year.

Just did a meet and' greet and she mentioned you again!

[HossCartwright]

On the younger ones. Admittedly they are the flaky type. They do most often require more effort to make it work.

HOWEVER.

Play it the right way and they will know where to go for that little extra when they REALLY need it. Case in point: I've let my membership to SA expire. Sometime in Nov if I remember correctly. Last week, a great little spinner (19 YO MTSU Student, ex-cheerleader, spinner) from Franklin sent a text wanting to see each other again. I'd met her for lunch / dinner a few times, gave her some funny money each time ($40 x3). I'd think she got skittish of the whole idea of a SD / SB arrangement and really became flaky when it was time to try out the Benefits in FWB. Crossed her off the "must bone" list and moved on.

Fast forward to last week, met for Dinner, she in her cute voice tells me that she wants to move out of her parents house this semester. Full load at MTSU, part time gig, yeah. She's hard up for cash. Later, we discuss things more intimately. Great DFK session ending with BBBJCIM and an agreement to weekly meets all for the price of rent money.

Hmmm, weekly meets, should be 1-2 hours per meet all for $600? Yeah, I think I can do that.

Thanks jeepster.

Yeah my biggest problem to this point has been finding time to work them all in. If only I didn't have to work during the day. Ha.

Well the M&G Friday night didn't pan out, should have known, 20 year old "college" student. No showed. No biggie had a coffee and went on about my night.

Set up a M&G for Saturday night. This one had a case of GPS. Great looking girl, mid 20's. Was expecting 1. 5 k a month plus gifts each visit. Two visits a month. With the other prospects currently in the loop, not jumping on it.

Working out a playtime visit with the solid 8 this week.

Messages from several others that are basically just straight up pay for play.

[SteelTony36]

Thanks jeepster.

Yeah my biggest problem to this point has been finding time to work them all in. If only I didn't have to work during the day. Ha.

Well the M&G Friday night didn't pan out, should have known, 20 year old "college" student. No showed. No biggie had a coffee and went on about my night.

Set up a M&G for Saturday night. This one had a case of GPS. Great looking girl, mid 20's. Was expecting 1. 5 k a month plus gifts each visit. Two visits a month. With the other prospects currently in the loop, not jumping on it.

Working out a playtime visit with the solid 8 this week.

Messages from several others that are basically just straight up pay for play.

[Jeepster1]

First post on this site, but I had to chime in on SA. As a side note, I've dreamt of a couple ladies after reading reviews on here. Both were excellent, albeit somewhat different experiences. (Adrien and Candy Redd).

Back to SA. I've been on there a very short time. Less than a couple weeks. I actually purposely left most of my info vague. With one G rated private photo set. I have to say, it's a bit like trying to drink from a fire hose. I've talked with women that offered straight up pay for play, to ones just looking for a good time / fb situation.

The pay for pay chick is smoking hot, but I haven't jumped on that. Little head may take over at some point.

1st meet and greet, mid thirties blond, maybe a 7, actually looked like her pics. Ended up back at her place after a few drinks, spent the next few hours banging the headboard against the wall. Wild one. Just about wore me out. Total investment a couple drinks. Plan to see her again for sure. No discussion of "arrangement".

2nd meet and greet, younger, post college single mom type. Also not bad looking, amazing rack on her. After coffee and some discussion ended up with her lips around mr happy in my car. No discussion of "an arrangement".

3rd meet and greet, another mid 30's woman. Met her and was a little stunned. Actually looked better in person than her pics. Without having seen the unwrapped package, I'd say a solid 8. Maybe better. Seriously hot. Great evening, drinks and dinner. Little making out, but nothing more that time. Skirted around discussing arrangement. She decided we could figure it out later. Definitely plan on seeing her again.

Have another m&g set for this weekend. After that, I'm going to have to cut it down to a couple. LOL. And stop answering messages on there.

It's been a blast already.

My new hero!

Looking foward to more posts as your adventures continue.

-Jeepster1.

[TNtimer]

Thought I would follow up on my experiences so far. Had 2 M&Gs after quite a bit of talking. The 2 are completely different in terms of what they are looking for. One is quite a freak and look for the occasional gift, the other looking for more of someone to help in the business world. Both are very nice.

If you decide to pass on the freaky one, feel free to send a link to her profile!

Had one I was interested in from Belmont, but she dropped off.

[SteelTony36]

First post on this site, but I had to chime in on SA. As a side note, I've dreamt of a couple ladies after reading reviews on here. Both were excellent, albeit somewhat different experiences. (Adrien and Candy Redd).

Back to SA. I've been on there a very short time. Less than a couple weeks. I actually purposely left most of my info vague. With one G rated private photo set. I have to say, it's a bit like trying to drink from a fire hose. I've talked with women that offered straight up pay for play, to ones just looking for a good time / fb situation.

The pay for pay chick is smoking hot, but I haven't jumped on that. Little head may take over at some point.

1st meet and greet, mid thirties blond, maybe a 7, actually looked like her pics. Ended up back at her place after a few drinks, spent the next few hours banging the headboard against the wall. Wild one. Just about wore me out. Total investment a couple drinks. Plan to see her again for sure. No discussion of "arrangement".

2nd meet and greet, younger, post college single mom type. Also not bad looking, amazing rack on her. After coffee and some discussion ended up with her lips around mr happy in my car. No discussion of "an arrangement".

3rd meet and greet, another mid 30's woman. Met her and was a little stunned. Actually looked better in person than her pics. Without having seen the unwrapped package, I'd say a solid 8. Maybe better. Seriously hot. Great evening, drinks and dinner. Little making out, but nothing more that time. Skirted around discussing arrangement. She decided we could figure it out later. Definitely plan on seeing her again.

Have another m&g set for this weekend. After that, I'm going to have to cut it down to a couple. LOL. And stop answering messages on there.

It's been a blast already.

[MoostacheTN]

My preference as well, but this one is just a drink. Should be safe.

Thought I would follow up on my experiences so far. Had 2 M&Gs after quite a bit of talking. The 2 are completely different in terms of what they are looking for. One is quite a freak and look for the occasional gift, the other looking for more of someone to help in the business world. Both are very nice.

[MoostacheTN]

My suggestion as to M&G's.

Keep it light. I prefer lunch or coffee. If it turns bad you can take it to-go! Ha!

Don't press hard, if at all on the P4 P aspect of an arrangement.

My preference as well, but this one is just a drink. Should be safe.

[HossCartwright]

My suggestion as to M&G's.

Keep it light. I prefer lunch or coffee. If it turns bad you can take it to-go! Ha!

Don't press hard, if at all on the P4 P aspect of an arrangement.

Thank have my first M&G tomorrow night.

[MoostacheTN]

To the other suggestions below.

You'd defiantly be better off establishing a "goal" for the girl before you meet up to avoid wasting your time. Nothing worse than meeting a very agreeable Co-ed that has a bad case of GPS.

My norm is to budget around $1. 2 per month. That can / will be adjusted depending is she has a place or not. In addition it can be increased if non-cash gifts are given.

I go for weekly meetings, depending if she has transportation. The last one depended on Uber, I had to go to her, after class which was inconvenient, so the rate was adjusted down.

Alternatively, my prior (to that one) came down to me from Clarksville around lunch each week. Very convenient so the price went up for me.

All depends on what you want and what your comfortable with. Get the "logistics" out of the way early as not to try yourself to a potential, that will be hard (pun) to make work. There are too many to fuck with those.

What works well for me is to meet, plant the seed (idea) and sit back, let them come at you. If you've established your particulars, she will know what's she's getting into. I tend to go for the younger set (gasp!) and they have a general idea what this (SD / SB) is, but tend to get second thoughts about letting a good looking, well endowed, older guy fuck them for sport! Not until they are in a real financial bind do they submit and find that it actually works to their advantage.

He'll, I've lost track of how much tuition I've paid for these girls!

Thank have my first M&G tomorrow night.