Dating Sites

[JustLookInSW]

I've seen these for years, always assumed they were bogus. I'll have to look into it.

[Aliquando]

Well my 30-day subscription ran out today. No big deal, I thought, as I still have more pussy in the queue than I can handle in months. Not so! Stupid me, when your subscription runs out not only do they block your ability to send and receive new messages (which I expected) they completely block out all of the messages that you have already received. So my "queue" is unreadable. I should have copied all the contact info off the site to protect against this eventuality, but (again) stupid me I didn't.

I might just opt for a 6 month re-up, I like the pussy there.

HB.

My latest was Nicki in Beavercreek. About 5' 7" with hair that changes color. Every time I met her we would talk and she kept getting older. She aged 9 years in four visits! She was on the thin side and had quit smoking. Not a bad incall.

[DestinyCalling]

Thank you. It's encouraging that I don't need a photo to meet ladies.

I will sign up.

I don't and won't post or send a photo. When I want to buy a burger or a Buick they don't ask for one why should it be any different when I buy a piece of ass. I have had a small number (10%) ask for a photo and my response is NO, we can meet for a free meet-and-greet and if you don't like me we part ways. If we play, then I'll pay. After all, I might not like you (the SA girl) either.

Only a couple of times has this approach been rejected by a potential rent-a-vag. When that happens, I just move on. Too much pussy to worry about landing the ones who want a pic.

HB.

[Ho Beau]

Do you guys use your own photo at SA?

Or someone else's pics, who looks close enough to depict you?

For sugarbabys, they must be real photo because that's what we would pay for. But for sugardaddy, all sugarbabies wants is money.

I don't and won't post or send a photo. When I want to buy a burger or a Buick they don't ask for one why should it be any different when I buy a piece of ass. I have had a small number (10%) ask for a photo and my response is NO, we can meet for a free meet-and-greet and if you don't like me we part ways. If we play, then I'll pay. After all, I might not like you (the SA girl) either.

Only a couple of times has this approach been rejected by a potential rent-a-vag. When that happens, I just move on. Too much pussy to worry about landing the ones who want a pic.

HB.

[DestinyCalling]

Do you guys use your own photo at SA?

Or someone else's pics, who looks close enough to depict you?

For sugarbabys, they must be real photo because that's what we would pay for. But for sugardaddy, all sugarbabies wants is money.

[Waltmore]

Well my 30-day subscription ran out today. No big deal, I thought, as I still have more pussy in the queue than I can handle in months. Not so! Stupid me, when your subscription runs out not only do they block your ability to send and receive new messages (which I expected) they completely block out all of the messages that you have already received. So my "queue" is unreadable. I should have copied all the contact info off the site to protect against this eventuality, but (again) stupid me I didn't.

I might just opt for a 6 month re-up, I like the pussy there.

HB.

If you are serious about trying it, make sure that you get a phone number and / or an email address and use them immediately to "confirm that you have the correct information". That way you will have continual access to them. You should be able to generate enough decent prospects so that you can skip a month or two. If they will not give you either of those access avenues, move on because they are more than likely not going to work out, in my experience. Also if and when you rejoin after skipping some time, as in a month or so, your membership goes to the top of the food chain and you seem to be fresh meat. That last bit was told to me and it may not be completely accurate but I trust the individual who told me and he swears that is is true. As always.

[Ho Beau]

Well my 30-day subscription ran out today. No big deal, I thought, as I still have more pussy in the queue than I can handle in months. Not so! Stupid me, when your subscription runs out not only do they block your ability to send and receive new messages (which I expected) they completely block out all of the messages that you have already received. So my "queue" is unreadable. I should have copied all the contact info off the site to protect against this eventuality, but (again) stupid me I didn't.

I might just opt for a 6 month re-up, I like the pussy there.

HB.

[JoeBogus]

I'm thinking of bringing this up, at least to make her think twice about doing it again. Of course, she'll deny any wrongdoing.

Johnny,

Please DO bring it up. Let her know that the mongers have a back channel too.

In Cincy, there is a move to start a SB exchange coffee meetup to discuss SB's. Not quite off the ground yet.

Also, there is a SB thread on the Cincy forum that is getting more active.

[Johnny Wadd]

Since she works out of Miamisburg I thought I would clue my Dayton brothers in on this one.

Aubrey unique on SA pulled a pretty slick cash and dash maneuver on me today so I'm warning you to stay away.

I violated the first rule of the sugarbowl. The sugar starts when the panties hit the floor.

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/eb9f5f5f/view

I'm thinking of bringing this up, at least to make her think twice about doing it again. Of course, she'll deny any wrongdoing.

[MotoGib1]

I know there is an atypical flood of new faces and enthusiasm at the beginning. This effect was magnified in my case by by my "no reply" period of 5 months. But, now that I'm paid the flood has been nothing short of remarkable.

You do have do some weeding. Through out the $1000 pussies, the ones that want money up front, the clingy, the needy, the ugly, the crack * taking a crack at the big league, the MOMsters who think SA is a dating site, etc. Etc. Etc. And that does take some time.

That said, I have consistently had 20-25 pussies queued up in my inbox. I've hit three of them so far with good to great luck. The fees have been as low as $20 and as high as $100 (a cut off I've arbitrarily imposed). The girls have been as good as the best street meat and have always put out on the first date.

If this thread wasn't buried and segregated for the normal SW threads, I think more mongers would benefit from it.

Love it or hate it, SA is a completely different dimension to mongering.

Respectfully,

HB.

P.S. So far I love it.

I am an unpaid membervon 3 sites, xcheaters (which is completely bogus IMO), AF (which I am evaluating), and SA (which you have proven real). Notice lots of known escorts on AF. I hesitate to join as I can for surs have a real dream for $100. Going to delete my profile on xcheaters and decide between AF and SA. You have done the work on SA so I am leaning towards that one. Amazing how many women seeking long term relationship on Arrangement sitez. The whole point for men is to avoid strings.

[JoeBogus]

Since she works out of Miamisburg I thought I would clue my Dayton brothers in on this one.

Aubrey unique on SA pulled a pretty slick cash and dash maneuver on me today so I'm warning you to stay away.

I violated the first rule of the sugarbowl. The sugar starts when the panties hit the floor.

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/eb9f5f5f/view

[HotLcndyt]

Any of you gents had any experiences with a beautiful 21 year old who's screen name is keeva on SA?

[Ho Beau]

I know there is an atypical flood of new faces and enthusiasm at the beginning. This effect was magnified in my case by by my "no reply" period of 5 months. But, now that I'm paid the flood has been nothing short of remarkable.

You do have do some weeding. Through out the $1000 pussies, the ones that want money up front, the clingy, the needy, the ugly, the crack * taking a crack at the big league, the MOMsters who think SA is a dating site, etc. Etc. Etc. And that does take some time.

That said, I have consistently had 20-25 pussies queued up in my inbox. I've hit three of them so far with good to great luck. The fees have been as low as $20 and as high as $100 (a cut off I've arbitrarily imposed). The girls have been as good as the best street meat and have always put out on the first date.

If this thread wasn't buried and segregated for the normal SW threads, I think more mongers would benefit from it.

Love it or hate it, SA is a completely different dimension to mongering.

Respectfully,

HB.

P.S. So far I love it.

[BamBam]

I have had a free membership on SA for a few months. Nothing really to report there. While I would occasionally get a message from one of the girls, I couldn't read it or reply because of restriction on the free membership. Oh, well. So yesterday I decided to buy a month of full membership and proceeded to reply to the 50 or so messages that I had accumulated as well as a dozen or so local girls that looked interesting. Almost immediately I started getting replies. I'm up to nine firm offers for sex. The price range was from free (which surprised me) to $1000 (which is a funking joke). Got my first date lined up for early this week for a couple of hours with a short hot blond nurse. If this pans out, and that is a big if, it could be a paradigm shift in the mongering landscape for me. Stay tuned.

Just curious if anyone has had any luck there?

HB.

As WM stated: it is like a hobby within a hobby. You have a lot of pre-POT's and POT's but you cannot claim great success until you convert more than one to the FC. My experience is that it works like the sales pyramid. Lots of leads get you a few meetings which get you fewer real prospects which ultimately ends with a few or a handful of actual orders. You may have to work hours to get one to bed and you still only save a little over the local cost for an escort. The advantages are; 1) better, more normal looking women; 2) lots more time with the woman for the same amount of money; and, 3) better GFE pretense for the most part. Downside is the required time investment plus the risk of potential real attachment on either side leading to the associated exposure / stalking risk.

We are trying to keep an SB thread going in the Cinti forum. Since there is a lot of overlap, we might want to encourage cross-posting between the locales.

BAM.

[Waltmore]

I have had a free membership on SA for a few months. Nothing really to report there. While I would occasionally get a message from one of the girls, I couldn't read it or reply because of restriction on the free membership. Oh, well. So yesterday I decided to buy a month of full membership and proceeded to reply to the 50 or so messages that I had accumulated as well as a dozen or so local girls that looked interesting. Almost immediately I started getting replies. I'm up to nine firm offers for sex. The price range was from free (which surprised me) to $1000 (which is a funking joke). Got my first date lined up for early this week for a couple of hours with a short hot blond nurse. If this pans out, and that is a big if, it could be a paradigm shift in the mongering landscape for me. Stay tuned.

Just curious if anyone has had any luck there?

HB.

It is a lot of work and takes a lot of time, in my opinion. I have seen many familiar faces on SA as in escorts. There are plenty of scammers but no way of reporting them. Always remember, never send money to anyone that is the surest way to lose your money. I have had the biggest sob stories ever on there. You can get some good leads but you must ferret out all of the hood rats, psychos and drama queens. I met a lady on there and she was a real freak, a great lay and fun in the bedroom but she was batshit crazy. She was free as in no cost but man she was full on whacked. One lady wanted $200 just to meet for lunch, another wanted $5000 for a monthly allowance up front. Far too many want you to be an ATM and just give them money whenever they want something. The strangest thing for me though is the ladies from hundreds if not thousands of miles away that tell me they can make a long distance relationship work, skype I guess and cam shows. There are plenty from over seas and I like to waste their time as much as possible, it is a little like a hobby within the hobby for me. It works well for many guys but there are more uncertainties than where you can at least verify something about a lady. I would guess the vast majority are single mothers that need money and think that they can string a guy along without ever giving up anything until he dumps them in frustration then on to the next sucker. This is just a reflection of my experience and thoughts. As always.