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**IGiveVitaminD** · 08-29-20 02:05

I had a similar experience before.

That's a scam for sure, they are trying to extort you. Don't fall for it and don't incriminate yourself.

Next time if happens again, say they have the wrong number and you just got a number that must be recycled. That's it. Don't extend the conversation and don't care for anything else they say. In fact block their number afterwards and keep mongering.

Some scammers will even send pictures of a police report. Again, it's a scam. Don't fall for it. As long as you really don't have anything to hide and you haven't done something incriminating with minors you have nothing to worry about.

Originally Posted by ShadowRecruit [View Original Post]

I got a text from a number I didn't have in my phone. Could it have been a number I sent texts to in the past and then deleted? Maybe. Could it be someone texting me that got my number from SA? Maybe. So I send a one word text back thinking someone was messing with me. Then I get a text from a woman claiming I had been texting her 12 year old daughter and that a police report was going to be filed. She said her daughter and I had been texting back and forth off of the SA website and that my number was in her phone. I was also told I should have made sure the person I was texting from SA was of age before asking for things (not sure what things). As far as I know, you have to put in a birth date that confirms you are 18 to use the site. Anyhow, she said her husband would be very upset when he finds out and that I would be turned in to the police. I've been on SA in the past but don't remember the number or what may have been said so I'm thinking this is another scam, but I'm not sure. I don't recognize the number or know if I had ever even sent a text to that specific number. Long story short, she said had not told her husband and she wanted to clear things up. To clear things up she wanted money and she would not go to the police, not tell her husband, delete all texts, delete all pictures, and send me a video showing it had been done. She claimed I sent dirty pictures to the phone as well, but I know that is not true because I have never sent dirty pictures to anyone, ever. After I realized I may be being extorted by someone I texted from SA (possibly from a different number), I figured this is the latest scam to get guys to pay these girls without even having to meet. They may use a different phone number to claim you talked to, and dirty talked with, their underage daughter. Then you have to pay to keep them from going to the police. This experience made me nervous because anything to do with children is very serious and the laws reflect that. However, children do NOT interest me, and I didn't do anything illegal. However, it made me uneasy because I didn't have any information other than what I was being told. Has anyone else out there had any similar extortion scam attempts? And no, I did not pay the lady anything. Then she basically said she would have her husband go to the police with the information they have. One last attempt to extort. Any comments on similar situations are appreciated.

**ShadowRecruit** · 08-28-20 23:43

I got a text from a number I didn't have in my phone. Could it have been a number I sent texts to in the past and then deleted? Maybe. Could it be someone texting me that got my number from SA? Maybe. So I send a one word text back thinking someone was messing with me. Then I get a text from a woman claiming I had been texting her 12 year old daughter and that a police report was going to be filed. She said her daughter and I had been texting back and forth off of the SA website and that my number was in her phone. I was also told I should have made sure the person I was texting from SA was of age before asking for things (not sure what things). As far as I know, you have to put in a birth date that confirms you are 18 to use the site. Anyhow, she said her husband would be very upset when he finds out and that I would be turned in to the police. I've been on SA in the past but don't remember the number or what may have been said so I'm thinking this is another scam, but I'm not sure. I don't recognize the number or know if I had ever even sent a text to that specific number. Long story short, she said had not told her husband and she wanted to clear things up. To clear things up she wanted money and she would not go to the police, not tell her husband, delete all texts, delete all pictures, and send me a video showing it had been done. She claimed I sent dirty pictures to the phone as well, but I know that is not true because I have never sent dirty pictures to anyone, ever. After I realized I may be being extorted by someone I texted from SA (possibly from a different number), I figured this is the latest scam to get guys to pay these girls without even having to meet. They may use a different phone number to claim you talked to, and dirty talked with, their underage daughter. Then you have to pay to keep them from going to the police. This experience made me nervous because anything to do with children is very serious and the laws reflect that. However, children do NOT interest me, and I didn't do anything illegal. However, it made me uneasy because I didn't have any information other than what I was being told. Has anyone else out there had any similar extortion scam attempts? And no, I did not pay the lady anything. Then she basically said she would have her husband go to the police with the information they have. One last attempt to extort. Any comments on similar situations are appreciated.

**CarGuy63** · 08-25-20 18:07

This is the message you want to get from the woman you just met on SA and had a great afternoon with "I want you to make a list of anything you want / have never tried that you'd like to try and we can work on fulfilling that list. Role play, bondage, soft core. Whatever you want". Sorry I asked and she does not want her info shared.

**ShadowRecruit** · 08-04-20 20:52

https://www.seeking.com/member/430a0...2-912ded993cae

Originally Posted by BamBam [View Original Post]

Can someone post a link? I cannot find her.

Bam.

**BamBam** · 08-04-20 12:18

Can someone post a link? I cannot find her.

Bam.

Originally Posted by ShadowRecruit [View Original Post]

She's legit, but from my experience (meeting and talking in person / text), she's a nut job. See for yourself. Maybe she didn't care for me.

**ShadowRecruit** · 08-04-20 00:44

Originally Posted by DtnDude2 [View Original Post]

I don't believe she was a provider. She had a previous profile that she told me she deleted and created the new profile. She is legit.

Originally Posted by TickleJay [View Original Post]

On SA. Pics look familiar. Anybody know if she is was a provider?

She's legit, but from my experience (meeting and talking in person / text), she's a nut job. See for yourself. Maybe she didn't care for me.

**PleasureGiver** · 08-03-20 03:03

Originally Posted by CatFever [View Original Post]

Upon a cursory glance, I found this sentence, verbatim, from the "Take your time" paragraph:

" Some men prefer to chat with virtual profiles and are passionate about it and can have great and exciting flirts and chats. ".

Idk about you but that's about as fake Jake as you can say. But whatever floats your boat. LOL.

That was what I needed to know, thank you!!

**CatFever** · 08-02-20 17:03

Originally Posted by PleasureGiver [View Original Post]

Anyone try or know anything about this site?

www.dateyou.co

Upon a cursory glance, I found this sentence, verbatim, from the "Take your time" paragraph:

" Some men prefer to chat with virtual profiles and are passionate about it and can have great and exciting flirts and chats. ".

Idk about you but that's about as fake Jake as you can say. But whatever floats your boat. LOL.

**PleasureGiver** · 08-02-20 05:17

Anyone try or know anything about this site?

www.dateyou.co

**WanderingAbout** · 08-01-20 21:14

Originally Posted by IcabodStud [View Original Post]

This one ghosted me on a meet and greet. I may have dodged a bullet. Does anyone know her?

Can confirm was a dancer at Cheeks. Did meet and greet at Cheeks a while back. Then left club for dinner at BW3 around the corner from the club. Her idea. She wanted wings. Seemed nice enough. Had dancer attitude tho. Allowance she wanted as 400. Says she likes anal. Her ass is like pudding. Then she ghosted on second meet. Never saw again. No money exchanged for MnG.

**ChargersFan18** · 08-01-20 19:35

Originally Posted by IcabodStud [View Original Post]

This one ghosted me on a meet and greet. I may have dodged a bullet. Does anyone know her?

. I met her at cheeks last year. Few months later we got reacquainted on seeking. She was nice at first, I think she uses guys for dinner dates, I did give her $ to go to nice restaurant in miamisburg. Never again LOL. She lives with bf. A jerk off looking guy. I saw her out in public after our date. With her goofy looking bf. She texted me saying "try not to stare" lmao her goofball bf was staring me up and down LOL. He must've saw me on Instagram liking her pics and got jealous. 😂.

**DtnDude2** · 07-28-20 09:08

Originally Posted by TickleJay [View Original Post]

On SA. Pics look familiar. Anybody know if she is was a provider?

I don't believe she was a provider. She had a previous profile that she told me she deleted and created the new profile. She is legit.

**CarGuy63** · 07-28-20 07:36

Originally Posted by TickleJay [View Original Post]

On SA. Pics look familiar. Anybody know if she is was a provider?

A pic or link would make it a bit easier to tell.

**Tickle Jay** · 07-28-20 05:58

On SA. Pics look familiar. Anybody know if she is was a provider?

**SteveTimder** · 07-13-20 18:47

Originally Posted by Leroy2101 [View Original Post]

FYSA, she is playing the game of pay now for multiple meet ups. Not saying she isn't great when you see her, but unknown if you will see her for those "few times" again. I told her that was a deal breaker, will see if she comes back.

She is worth seeing, but def not worth prepaying. If she gets hungry, she will agree to gift as you go. Don't trust her with any "credit". Stay safe.