Service and attitude vs. Looks?

**DrMajikLuv69** · 10-28-23 18:18

Service and attitude will always trump looks. If a girl has average looks at a great attitude, and is much more pleasant to be around; She will make your ANO experience greater.

Imagine this hypothetical situation where you have a beautiful girl who's a perfect 10, or maybe a 9, or 8. But has a shittiest attitude. Imagine that girl is lazy and only wanted your money, and doesn't enjoy your company, and doesn't want to do anything. Question: what do you think your experience would be like with that girl who doesn't want to do anything? Or how about girl who doesn't want to take any directions from you; or a girl who is a dead fish. Would you want to spend your hard earned money on a dead fish?

A girl's attitude will affect her service. A girls attitude have a direct outcome of the services she provides. If a girl has a positive mindset and she will have unlimited ability to present and provide an amazing experience for herself and for her customers.

Well, I meant a girl like that over the weekend. Her name is Candi.

**Redneck 1** · 05-09-21 01:09

Originally Posted by BigGulp [View Original Post]

Okay, so how many will admit that they had a provider with no looks maybe a 1 or a 2 in looks but was so good in service and attitude you didn't care?

As a longtime veteran of downtown street mongering, I'll freely admit it, especially for BJ service. For example, many years ago, I was receiving excellent and enthusiastic BBBJs (with swallow) for $20 from a downtown provider who had a wonderful personality but weighed well over 200 pounds.

Originally Posted by CoolDude44 [View Original Post]

all the places at the AY Wong building were closed down. Too bad. I wonder if any AMP reopened there?

With so many mongers on the forum, in the unlikely event that an AMP were to open again at that building, we'll know about it.

**T6650** · 05-08-21 14:58

Originally Posted by Prudential808 [View Original Post]

I heard landlord has had 0. 0000% of interests in under table money since irs asked her intensively.

Since you say "she" I assume you are referring to the woman who was the manager rather than the owner which may be a family trust. She I the pastor of one on the Korean churches in the building and as she kew exactly what was going on, a real hypocrite. I knew the AMP business was a s good as done when the laws were changed to make receiving gain through the services of prostitution a felony. The change was targeted to Waikiki pimps but sadly it had the biggest effect on AMP owners. Even kitchen mamas have been sharged if they accepted the house fee. The best model now seems to be the one woman shop. If you work alone, you can't be charged with pimping yourself.

**Prudential808** · 05-08-21 08:21

Originally Posted by CoolDude44 [View Original Post]

I had a session with Candy at Hayaku spa. She was older and kind of frumpy looking but she gave a great BBBJ and BBFSCIP. I would have gone back but it was at the time when that temporary prosecutor Nadomoto was getting off on closing all the AMPs and all the places at the AY Wong building were closed down. Too bad. I wonder if any AMP reopened there?

I heard landlord has had 0. 0000% of interests in under table money since irs asked her intensively.

**CoolDude44** · 05-07-21 21:48

Originally Posted by BigGulp [View Original Post]

Okay, so how many will admit that they had a provider with no looks maybe a 1 or a 2 in looks but was so good in service and attitude you didn't care?

I had a session with Candy at Hayaku spa. She was older and kind of frumpy looking but she gave a great BBBJ and BBFSCIP. I would have gone back but it was at the time when that temporary prosecutor Nadomoto was getting off on closing all the AMPs and all the places at the AY Wong building were closed down. Too bad. I wonder if any AMP reopened there?

**Big Gulp** · 05-07-21 16:16

Okay, so how many will admit that they had a provider with no looks maybe a 1 or a 2 in looks but was so good in service and attitude you didn't care?

**CoolDude44** · 05-07-21 01:29

It's nice to have a hot provider but service and attitude is more important to me. Although I've been lucky enough to have been with some smoking hot providers who gave great service. Julie from Ginza for example or the famous Michelle fro.

CHM and Plus Spa.

I was fortunate to have had some AMP all stars but I also sampled a GILF who was saggy but may have given the best BBBJ plus she offered all bareback. It was enjoyable and repeatable.

**Redneck 1** · 05-06-21 02:59

Originally Posted by DeeJohn808 [View Original Post]

Good thing there are almost no girls in their 20's in the industry on Oahu. Don't have to compete with something that isn't there.

Good point. She didn't specify any particular providers, but I'm guessing that she might have been looking at internet advertising photos and perceiving that some women in those photos appear to be in their twenties.

**DeeJohn808** · 05-05-21 23:54

Originally Posted by Redneck1 [View Original Post]

"I don't think that I can compete with girls in their twenties," she said with sadness in her voice.

Good thing there are almost no girls in their 20's in the industry on Oahu. Don't have to compete with something that isn't there.

**PineappleKid** · 05-05-21 23:46

Very wise words Coach!

I hope that pep talk cheered her up!

I'm no spring chicken myself, and appreciate great service and attitude too! (Hopefully her "competition" learns this sooner than later!

P. K.

Originally Posted by Redneck1 [View Original Post]

Recently, "Coach Red" was speaking with a mature provider who will remain anonymous. She appears to be in her middle to late forties, and was discouraged. "I don't think that I can compete with girls in their twenties," she said with sadness in her voice. Coach Red knew that it was time for a pep talk, which is paraphrased below.

"You can't compete with them? That's not necessarily true. First, customers often rate providers on a three-part scale: looks, attitude and service. Although you may not be able to compete on looks with providers who are two to three decades younger than you, you certainly can compete, and even win, on the two important factors that are within your control: attitude and service. Indeed, some of the younger women are insufficiently focused on attitude and service, because they think their looks alone should be sufficient. Second, many older men often appreciate and have better chemistry with mature providers, who are more likely to provide the TLC they need. Finally, you have more life experience than the young women, which can make you a more enjoyable companion and conversationalist".

Okay, so that wasn't quite as inspiring as the famous pep talk of Coach Herb Brooks to America's 1980 Olympic hockey team, but at least I liked it. In my opinion, it's also the truth.

**CoffeeMocha** · 05-05-21 22:13

Originally Posted by Redneck1 [View Original Post]

Recently, "Coach Red" was speaking with a mature provider who will remain anonymous. She appears to be in her middle to late forties, and was discouraged. "I don't think that I can compete with girls in their twenties," she said with sadness in her voice. Coach Red knew that it was time for a pep talk, which is paraphrased below.

"You can't compete with them? That's not necessarily true. First, customers often rate providers on a three-part scale: looks, attitude and service. Although you may not be able to compete on looks with providers who are two to three decades younger than you, you certainly can compete, and even win, on the two important factors that are within your control: attitude and service. Indeed, some of the younger women are insufficiently focused on attitude and service, because they think their looks alone should be sufficient. Second, many older men often appreciate and have better chemistry with mature providers, who are more likely to provide the TLC they need. Finally, you have more life experience than the young women, which can make you a more enjoyable companion and conversationalist".

Okay, so that wasn't quite as inspiring as the famous pep talk of Coach Herb Brooks to America's 1980 Olympic hockey team, but at least I liked it. In my opinion, it's also the truth.

Mature Providers are good, as long as their boobs are not sagging and they have a decent face and ass.

**NevaEnuf** · 05-05-21 22:02

Originally Posted by Redneck1 [View Original Post]

Recently, "Coach Red" was speaking with a mature provider who will remain anonymous. She appears to be in her middle to late forties, and was discouraged. "I don't think that I can compete with girls in their twenties," she said with sadness in her voice. Coach Red knew that it was time for a pep talk, which is paraphrased below.

"You can't compete with them? That's not necessarily true. First, customers often rate providers on a three-part scale: looks, attitude and service. Although you may not be able to compete on looks with providers who are two to three decades younger than you, you certainly can compete, and even win, on the two important factors that are within your control: attitude and service. Indeed, some of the younger women are insufficiently focused on attitude and service, because they think their looks alone should be sufficient. Second, many older men often appreciate and have better chemistry with mature providers, who are more likely to provide the TLC they need. Finally, you have more life experience than the young women, which can make you a more enjoyable companion and conversationalist".

Okay, so that wasn't quite as inspiring as the famous pep talk of Coach Herb Brooks to America's 1980 Olympic hockey team, but at least I liked it. In my opinion, it's also the truth.

My favorites are matured Asian providers. Maybe because I appreciate a good conversation, better connection, stay positive, no rush service, leave happy and stay friends. Repeat when necessary. I got Asian fever so they all look pretty to me.

I'm not young, tall and handsome or Fat. But in pretty good shape and healthy. So I don't expect these young providers to give good as service as the matured. FME.

PM me her # so I can give her a hug. Please.

**Redneck 1** · 05-04-21 22:43

Recently, "Coach Red" was speaking with a mature provider who will remain anonymous. She appears to be in her middle to late forties, and was discouraged. "I don't think that I can compete with girls in their twenties," she said with sadness in her voice. Coach Red knew that it was time for a pep talk, which is paraphrased below.

"You can't compete with them? That's not necessarily true. First, customers often rate providers on a three-part scale: looks, attitude and service. Although you may not be able to compete on looks with providers who are two to three decades younger than you, you certainly can compete, and even win, on the two important factors that are within your control: attitude and service. Indeed, some of the younger women are insufficiently focused on attitude and service, because they think their looks alone should be sufficient. Second, many older men often appreciate and have better chemistry with mature providers, who are more likely to provide the TLC they need. Finally, you have more life experience than the young women, which can make you a more enjoyable companion and conversationalist".

Okay, so that wasn't quite as inspiring as the famous pep talk of Coach Herb Brooks to America's 1980 Olympic hockey team, but at least I liked it. In my opinion, it's also the truth.

**Vajajalova** · 05-18-19 19:09

Originally Posted by MP504 [View Original Post]

Attitude wins. Don't care how hot someone is; if no baseline connection, time won't be enjoyable and possible no nut.

I agree attitude and effort trumps looks!

With everything being equally close your eyes and it all feels the same. A nice warm, wet hole pleasures the boto the main difference attitude and effort.