Trying this Sugar Baby thing.

**TheMechanik365** · 07-30-22 07:28

Okay, so I tried to get my membership and my account got flagged and suspended. I emailed support and they said my card produced "suspicious" activity.

I used a regular MC and don't understand what happened.

My account has been restored but now I'm leery about using my card. Is there something I should or shouldn't be doing?

How do you guys pay for memberships?

Thanks.

**AdamEve7** · 07-30-22 00:35

Originally Posted by ConCityKing [View Original Post]

Last one ghosted me. Here's some fresh meat. I have a date set, just seeing if anyone has any insight.

https://members.seeking.com/messages...c-ad70755b0cbd

Had made plans three times and she ghosted all 3 times, be very careful meeting this one don't book any place or anything she will not show up.

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...4-a2b7cc296c3a

**FrmLurker** · 07-29-22 22:03

Anyone have any intel? Chatted with her a while back but never pulled the trigger:

https://members.seeking.com/member/1...0-d48ac43f1ff3

**Grasshopping** · 07-29-22 14:50

Originally Posted by CEOTraveling [View Original Post]

I cycle because SA has become filled w fakes, flakes and time wasters. Years ago I had 2 long term arrangements that were awesome and the women were beautiful. Currently in the off cycle. My favorite question is "Do you have any particular likes, dislikes or limitations for our time?" If the answer sexual response you are good. If they answer like, yes, I do not like mushrooms then long haul LOL.

I usually sign up for the membership every other month. I constantly get the 20% discount offer now so it's a little easier to swallow at around $80.

I also have 2 SD accounts and I alternate in using them. Sometimes I may fail an attempt in convincing a SB to meet up and they sometimes would block me. Then 2 months later I'd reach out to the same SB to get my second chance with her. And use a different approach. There were a few times I was successful on 2nd try.

I consider myself having good runs on SA. I've been living in Charlotte for 5 months now and already had 8 SBs that I met up with. I also had good runs in other places I've lived in. Haven't tried other sites yet.

**CEOTraveling** · 07-29-22 14:24

Originally Posted by NyteOwl [View Original Post]

This won't help you with the approach as much (the previous comments have worked out some good tips) but this has worked for me to confirm if the girl is DTF once I've got them talking about meeting. I usually ask them if they have any rules about first dates that I should know about. I say that I want to be sure to respect their boundaries. Most of the time the answer I get is some version of "bring a rubber and no anal". Whether that's what you want to hear or not, I don't know, but I've just confirmed we're fucking.

Keep the tips coming guys, I'm always hoping to up my game.

I cycle because SA has become filled w fakes, flakes and time wasters. Years ago I had 2 long term arrangements that were awesome and the women were beautiful. Currently in the off cycle. My favorite question is "Do you have any particular likes, dislikes or limitations for our time?" If the answer sexual response you are good. If they answer like, yes, I do not like mushrooms then long haul LOL.

**MraTypical** · 07-29-22 14:11

Originally Posted by BigKav1000 [View Original Post]

One of my first SB experiences. She's real and pretty sexy. But can't host and is a little wham bam, mechanical. Always CBJ and facing away cowgirl. As fast as she can get it done. But she is hot.

I saw her as well a few years ago. Got to the hotel, and she was surprised that I was black, even though it's obvious if she ever viewed my profile LOL. She obviously was high volume and had someone else running her page at the time. Can't speak of her current situation. But she was sexy and I had no complaints about the date.

**BigKav1000** · 07-29-22 11:24

One of my first SB experiences. She's real and pretty sexy. But can't host and is a little wham bam, mechanical. Always CBJ and facing away cowgirl. As fast as she can get it done. But she is hot.

Originally Posted by FrmLurker [View Original Post]

Anyone have any intel on this one:

https://members.seeking.com/member/f...4-c927b1b2f5c7

**SAguyinNC** · 07-28-22 23:25

Originally Posted by TheMechanik365 [View Original Post]

Okay gentlemen, long time contributor to the board but a complete noob to this.

I've decided to join Seeking and hoping you gentlemen could give me some tips and pointers to get the most out of my time on there.

Which membership should I get? How does the membership work? What is the success rate? What are some successful approach tactics?

TIA.

This won't help you with the approach as much (the previous comments have worked out some good tips) but this has worked for me to confirm if the girl is DTF once I've got them talking about meeting. I usually ask them if they have any rules about first dates that I should know about. I say that I want to be sure to respect their boundaries. Most of the time the answer I get is some version of "bring a rubber and no anal". Whether that's what you want to hear or not, I don't know, but I've just confirmed we're fucking.

Keep the tips coming guys, I'm always hoping to up my game.

**KongHongPhooey** · 07-28-22 18:08

I've had good luck with the following:

First message: try to find something in their profile to comment on, if they love cooking ask them what they cook, or make a joke about something in their profile or their name.

Don't be shy about messaging, photos are often from when the girls were younger so don't be worried if they look TGTBT.

Don't mention anything sexual when your first start communicating, act like you are interested in them as a person, they are looking for normal guys most of the time. I let the girls bring up sex and it happens every time.

Don't send any money upfront, as soon as they have that money it's forgotten and they will not reciprocate with anything besides sob stories for more and will have an expectation you will continue to send them money without seeing them.

Originally Posted by TheMechanik365 [View Original Post]

Okay gentlemen, long time contributor to the board but a complete noob to this.

I've decided to join Seeking and hoping you gentlemen could give me some tips and pointers to get the most out of my time on there.

Which membership should I get? How does the membership work? What is the success rate? What are some successful approach tactics?

TIA.

**SAguyinNC** · 07-28-22 17:59

Originally Posted by Grasshopping [View Original Post]

Any experience with this one? This is a new profile. She seems to be a full-blown pro. I'm ok with pro sometimes as long as they give great service.

https://members.seeking.com/member/f...e-acd839e39dba

Definite pro but I can't speak to level of service. Had ads on several sites. I'm chatted with her several times, she never remembers, totally dtf and I think rates are reasonable. I also came across some videos online that I believe are her. If so, ad former porn star to the bio. I was going to do it but decided against it. I prefer the innocent college girl SBs.

Good luck and thanks for the info on the others.

**BrianPeter** · 07-28-22 16:03

Originally Posted by Grasshopping [View Original Post]

Here is a couple of junk SBs at least from my experience. Save yourselves some time.

Letsgetintoit.

https://members.seeking.com/member/4...a-da1a0e65bc5e

Wanted 600 a week but coincidently she was out of town so asked if I wanted to pay for pics / vid. I said let's wait until she comes back to Charlotte. She said she's not interested bc if I weren't willing to pay her, then I'm just a cheapo and not worth it etc. Whatever.

Emmyboo888.

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...f-16002daac3c2

No convo at all. I said hi. She responded with her number. Texted her to say hi and she simply replied with her cashapp tag. Eventually she said I send her money so we can start an arrangement.

3rd one is a Pro Escort and former amateur porn girl. She's been reported on here. Google Jordy Love.

**FrmLurker** · 07-28-22 14:27

Originally Posted by TheMechanik365 [View Original Post]

Okay gentlemen, long time contributor to the board but a complete noob to this.

I've decided to join Seeking and hoping you gentlemen could give me some tips and pointers to get the most out of my time on there.

Which membership should I get? How does the membership work? What is the success rate? What are some successful approach tactics?.

Don't buy any more than one month at a time. If you get banned, there's no refund of any remaining time. I sign up for the one month recurring, then cancel the recurring right after. You still get the month, but sometimes you'll get a discount offered the first time you log in after your month has expired. Don't mention anything about money, ppm, etc on the site. Discuss arrangement on other medium. I use text.

**Grasshopping** · 07-28-22 13:54

Here is a couple of junk SBs at least from my experience. Save yourselves some time.

Letsgetintoit.

https://members.seeking.com/member/4...a-da1a0e65bc5e

Wanted 600 a week but coincidently she was out of town so asked if I wanted to pay for pics / vid. I said let's wait until she comes back to Charlotte. She said she's not interested bc if I weren't willing to pay her, then I'm just a cheapo and not worth it etc. Whatever.

Emmyboo888.

https://members.seeking.com/member/7...f-16002daac3c2

No convo at all. I said hi. She responded with her number. Texted her to say hi and she simply replied with her cashapp tag. Eventually she said I send her money so we can start an arrangement. *sigh*.

Any experience with this one? This is a new profile. She seems to be a full-blown pro. I'm ok with pro sometimes as long as they give great service.

https://members.seeking.com/member/f...e-acd839e39dba

**FrmLurker** · 07-28-22 10:21

Originally Posted by Bruco [View Original Post]

Saw her a few times probably 4-5 years ago. A little more of a pro vibe and I suspected demons, so I stopped.

But as I said, this was quite a while back, so things could be better or worse now.

Thanks, that was my suspicion. Big red flag was when she texted me at 6 am this morning.

**Bruco** · 07-28-22 09:53

Originally Posted by FrmLurker [View Original Post]

Anyone have any intel on this one:

https://members.seeking.com/member/f...4-c927b1b2f5c7

Saw her a few times probably 4-5 years ago. A little more of a pro vibe and I suspected demons, so I stopped.

But as I said, this was quite a while back, so things could be better or worse now.