Trying this Sugar Baby thing.

[LovesMuffins]

AdultFriendFinder is not worth the money. I've been on and off for over 20 years, and never once met anyone. I've had moderate success on Seeking Arrangements.

Hey guys, I have been gone for more than a decade and I have a some questions.

I am thinking about trying this SD / SB thing. So I need to get a burner phone. Something that cannot be used to.

Reverse number look up and preferably does not require my name to buy a sim card. I do value my privacy until I decide to let others know my real identity.

Is Adult Friend Finder worth the money?

Is Secret Benefits worth the money? I already about the $59 pack.

I made the mistake of using "escort terminology" seeking arrangement, now I am trying to get that rectified.

Fire away.

[Jsinatl67]

I thought I would give Seeking a shot again since I have had some good luck in the past. I recently got back from meeting this woman and it was the worst meet & greet I have ever had. I am not the most talkative person but she didn't say more than a couple word sentence until we were about to leave. Half the time it appeared as if she did not even hear what I said to her since it seemed like it took a minute for my statement / question would register to her. When we finally got around to leave (probably after 30 minutes but seemed like 3 hours), she was able to string together a decent length sentence. Unfortunately it was "I need some money to get my nails done. " Now we never discussed any sort of compensation which I have learned my lesson to not give anything (I would offer some gas money at the end if I had a good time). She got real pissy when I told I don't have money with me and I don't give anything when we first meet. She high tailed it out and immediately blocked me from the site. I was able to find a picture of her but she is a bit larger now with a little bit more of a belly. I would not recommend her to anyone but if you do decide to give her a try, I wish you good luck in trying to have a conversation with her. Hopefully the photo I attached will work.

Thanks for the warning. I see she is still on SA, I won't touch it now.

Thanks,

[Jsinatl67]

Hey guys, I have been gone for more than a decade and I have a some questions.

I am thinking about trying this SD / SB thing. So I need to get a burner phone. Something that cannot be used to.

Reverse number look up and preferably does not require my name to buy a sim card. I do value my privacy until I decide to let others know my real identity.

Is Adult Friend Finder worth the money?

Is Secret Benefits worth the money? I already about the $59 pack.

I made the mistake of using "escort terminology" seeking arrangement, now I am trying to get that rectified.

Fire away.

I tried AFF for years and had some success, but it is not as popular as SA currently. You have to do your home work on SA, but at least they will send you a note back most the time. Roughly of every 10 I contact, most over 30 YO by the way, 4 DTF, but won't host, 2 are DTF and will host but ask $$$ or more, 3 are tire kickers (seeing what it is about and have no intention of meeting), and 1 is worth meeting. Look for over 28 yo and filter by discretion. Never use any term other than allowance, arrangement, or event. I learned that the hard way too. LOL Good luck.

J.

[Wildcat86]

I do not like burner phones as if anyone finds it, I cannot explain it and I hate keeping track of 2 phones. I use the Hushed app on my regular phone. Secure, 1 phone, I only log on when I am using or checking that number. I have the icon blacked out and hidden on the phone. No problems in 5 yrs of using. It is linked to my itunes account, I buy music from itunes, so buying minutes / texts blends in with the other charges. As far as Adult Friend Finder, etc, I have had my best luck on SA. SkiptheGames and NYP I hear are ok, I've actually had a bit of luck on POF in years past, but SA has been the best for me by far. There is a lot of "weeding" that needs to occur regardless of which site you are on. While there are escorts on all these sites, I would stay away from those types of words. They won't get you far in many cases. SA is an "arrangement" site, keep it to an arrangement, whatever that arrangement is, you'll be fine. Good luck!

I was on SA for awhile, but most of the women I contacted or met were looking for a lot of money on a monthly basis, rather than a pay-per-meet. Also it was getting expensive for the membership and hard to cover that payment. Lately buying a prepaid card is difficult as they want a ton of info on you to register it.

[Hobby Cat 55]

I do not like burner phones as if anyone finds it, I cannot explain it and I hate keeping track of 2 phones. I use the Hushed app on my regular phone. Secure, 1 phone, I only log on when I am using or checking that number. I have the icon blacked out and hidden on the phone. No problems in 5 yrs of using. It is linked to my itunes account, I buy music from itunes, so buying minutes / texts blends in with the other charges. As far as Adult Friend Finder, etc, I have had my best luck on SA. SkiptheGames and NYP I hear are ok, I've actually had a bit of luck on POF in years past, but SA has been the best for me by far. There is a lot of "weeding" that needs to occur regardless of which site you are on. While there are escorts on all these sites, I would stay away from those types of words. They won't get you far in many cases. SA is an "arrangement" site, keep it to an arrangement, whatever that arrangement is, you'll be fine. Good luck!

Use the Hushed app as well for many years. A little quirky from time to time but at least you have one phone. Play safe, HC.

[ThunderBoat]

Hey guys, I have been gone for more than a decade and I have a some questions.

I am thinking about trying this SD / SB thing. So I need to get a burner phone. Something that cannot be used to.

Reverse number look up and preferably does not require my name to buy a sim card. I do value my privacy until I decide to let others know my real identity.

Is Adult Friend Finder worth the money?

Is Secret Benefits worth the money? I already about the $59 pack.

I made the mistake of using "escort terminology" seeking arrangement, now I am trying to get that rectified.

Fire away.

I do not like burner phones as if anyone finds it, I cannot explain it and I hate keeping track of 2 phones. I use the Hushed app on my regular phone. Secure, 1 phone, I only log on when I am using or checking that number. I have the icon blacked out and hidden on the phone. No problems in 5 yrs of using. It is linked to my itunes account, I buy music from itunes, so buying minutes / texts blends in with the other charges. As far as Adult Friend Finder, etc, I have had my best luck on SA. SkiptheGames and NYP I hear are ok, I've actually had a bit of luck on POF in years past, but SA has been the best for me by far. There is a lot of "weeding" that needs to occur regardless of which site you are on. While there are escorts on all these sites, I would stay away from those types of words. They won't get you far in many cases. SA is an "arrangement" site, keep it to an arrangement, whatever that arrangement is, you'll be fine. Good luck!

[OnceAround]

Hey guys, I have been gone for more than a decade and I have a some questions.

I am thinking about trying this SD / SB thing. So I need to get a burner phone. Something that cannot be used to.

Reverse number look up and preferably does not require my name to buy a sim card. I do value my privacy until I decide to let others know my real identity.

Is Adult Friend Finder worth the money?

Is Secret Benefits worth the money? I already about the $59 pack.

I made the mistake of using "escort terminology" seeking arrangement, now I am trying to get that rectified.

Fire away.

[PorcPorc]

I thought I would give Seeking a shot again since I have had some good luck in the past. I recently got back from meeting this woman and it was the worst meet & greet I have ever had. I am not the most talkative person but she didn't say more than a couple word sentence until we were about to leave. Half the time it appeared as if she did not even hear what I said to her since it seemed like it took a minute for my statement / question would register to her. When we finally got around to leave (probably after 30 minutes but seemed like 3 hours), she was able to string together a decent length sentence. Unfortunately it was "I need some money to get my nails done. " Now we never discussed any sort of compensation which I have learned my lesson to not give anything (I would offer some gas money at the end if I had a good time). She got real pissy when I told I don't have money with me and I don't give anything when we first meet. She high tailed it out and immediately blocked me from the site. I was able to find a picture of her but she is a bit larger now with a little bit more of a belly. I would not recommend her to anyone but if you do decide to give her a try, I wish you good luck in trying to have a conversation with her. Hopefully the photo I attached will work.

[Magic Rat]

Clear your inbox my man.

[Mravcapo69]

Hmmm interesting. Perhaps she's not much into going out, but getting down to business. I may try to find some time to meet ad check out. If I find some time, I'll report.

I started chatting with her, but when I asked what she'd like to do when we went out, she said she doesn't go out a lot, and then ghosted.

[Treaderpi]

Hey guys, I am thinking on giving this one a try. But before, I was wondering if anyone has any intel on her? Please PM me with any specific details.

https://www.seeking.com/member/8f9ba...9-efcaea2b0424

Thanks!

I started chatting with her, but when I asked what she'd like to do when we went out, she said she doesn't go out a lot, and then ghosted.

[Mravcapo69]

Hey guys, I am thinking on giving this one a try. But before, I was wondering if anyone has any intel on her? Please PM me with any specific details.

https://www.seeking.com/member/8f9ba...9-efcaea2b0424

Thanks!

[ScSmilingMan]

She looks good. Wondering what she's looking for. ?

First message let me know she was DTF and gave me her number. Anyone had any fun with her, I'd love to pull the trigger on this. It's just she moves even quicker than me, I haven't even got her name yet.

https://members.whatsyourprice.com/p...Zd6DxAKeNjk81P

[Crewzin]

First message let me know she was DTF and gave me her number. Anyone had any fun with her, I'd love to pull the trigger on this. It's just she moves even quicker than me, I haven't even got her name yet.

https://members.whatsyourprice.com/p...Zd6DxAKeNjk81P

[LolBoat]

Claims to have already met one guy in Lincolnton and is ready to go again.

Anyone see her yet? She wants a lot of $ so I'm hesitant.

https://www.seeking.com/member/dd284...4-a2457b73444f

How much is she asking?