Trying this Sugar Baby thing.

[Jm1312]

Heading to a conference next month in Charlotte. Looking for a more elegant mature lady, but open to suggestions. Anyone have a recommendation. I'll share in Raleigh if you ever need advice there.

Bumping to see if anyone has any thoughts.

[HaydenBerg]

Anyone ever seen her before?

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...dWlkZS5ubC8%3D

[Grievous2]

Any reports on her? Her profile says she is in uptown which would be perfect if she is real.

https://members.seeking.com/member/6...d-7a633177896b

[ScTraveler92]

Correct. I would spend 300 for a session but wouldn't spend anything more than the price of a meal, or maybe 50 to meet in public.

I made an executive decision last week not to meet with a potential SB from the strip club. She agreed to go to a Hornets game with me for $300 but did not agree to come to my place after the game. So I canceled the date. I still have her on the back burner though.

[Bouinage]

Only a fool throws away 300 to just do a public meet up. From the context of his post, "she" sounds like someone who is less willing to go straight to meeting up at a hotel / neutral location to straight up do the deed, and more like someone who wants $$$ for the sheer act of meeting in public.


It's not really the case of your research lacking. I've used seeking for years and had full on arrangements with decent looking women for as low as 100-200ish. Higher amounts are more likely to maintain arrangements longer, but the price you "pay" is dependent on a variety of factors and circumstances. For the arrangement itself, I always negotiate in the public meet up.

Correct. I would spend 300 for a session but wouldn't spend anything more than the price of a meal, or maybe 50 to meet in public.

[Grasshopping]

Also communicated with this one. She seems nice but wanted 500 just to meet. I offered to take her out to a nice restaurant to discuss the details instead, still awaiting her response haha.

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...3-8fa2fbeb3333

That's Lani. I never met her but she's been talked about here in the beginning of February (between the 1st and give and take the 7th of Feb).

She looks good in the pics but look at her video in her SB profile. Her face wasn't appealing at all (to me) without the makeup.

https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/...cce2adbb03e880

[Dnks8]

Ah if the 3 was for an initial M&G then yes that is ridiculous. I actually think paying for a M&G at all is not a good idea. Best I'd do is pay for a drink or coffee. But for an allowance or a PPM, $300 is entirely reasonable for an attractive SB. Have people gotten lower? Sure. Is lower than that the norm for quality SBs? I don't think do. I think 300 is actually a very common number IME.

[Bouinage]

She has moved to Tulsa, Oklahoma. Scam one area the move to another seems to be the way a lot of them operate.

Thanks! I'm glad to know my senses haven't failed me!

[SaintMan3500]

I'm all about not putting up with GPS but if 300 is too much, then maybe seeking isn't the right place for you and you should go to STG instead. Because that is pretty standard price for any girl who is pleasant to look at and talk to. When it gets up to 5 or 6 is when I start saying no based on number but 3 is not an unreasonable ask. Read through the thread a bit and also check out the sugarbowl subreddit for gauge expectations.

Only a fool throws away 300 to just do a public meet up. From the context of his post, "she" sounds like someone who is less willing to go straight to meeting up at a hotel / neutral location to straight up do the deed, and more like someone who wants $$$ for the sheer act of meeting in public.

Clearly my research was lacking! Appreciate the details. Yea 300 just to meet to see if we are compatible is not really in my range. I respect those mongers who do this, I get it 100%. We all have our thresholds and everyone of them differs. Appreciate the info! I will ride out my month long membership and see what happens. Thanks again!

It's not really the case of your research lacking. I've used seeking for years and had full on arrangements with decent looking women for as low as 100-200ish. Higher amounts are more likely to maintain arrangements longer, but the price you "pay" is dependent on a variety of factors and circumstances. For the arrangement itself, I always negotiate in the public meet up.

[Bouinage]

I'm all about not putting up with GPS but if 300 is too much, then maybe seeking isn't the right place for you and you should go to STG instead. Because that is pretty standard price for any girl who is pleasant to look at and talk to. When it gets up to 5 or 6 is when I start saying no based on number but 3 is not an unreasonable ask. Read through the thread a bit and also check out the sugarbowl subreddit for gauge expectations.

Clearly my research was lacking! Appreciate the details. Yea 300 just to meet to see if we are compatible is not really in my range. I respect those mongers who do this, I get it 100%. We all have our thresholds and everyone of them differs. Appreciate the info! I will ride out my month long membership and see what happens. Thanks again!

[Dr SugarD]

This one wanted 300 to meet and was unamused when I asked if that price included her paying for my steak dinner. I guess in a way my inexperience really ends up helping the mongers who are willing to pay the meet up price. Your welcome. For the other guys, I guess I'm just a sucker for any pretty ladies that message me. Guess I will get the hang of it sooner rather than later haha.

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...b-69cd6033f545

She has moved to Tulsa, Oklahoma. Scam one area the move to another seems to be the way a lot of them operate.

[Dnks8]

This one wanted 300 to meet and was unamused when I asked if that price included her paying for my steak dinner. I guess in a way my inexperience really ends up helping the mongers who are willing to pay the meet up price. Your welcome. For the other guys, I guess I'm just a sucker for any pretty ladies that message me. Guess I will get the hang of it sooner rather than later haha.

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...b-69cd6033f545

I'm all about not putting up with GPS but if 300 is too much, then maybe seeking isn't the right place for you and you should go to STG instead. Because that is pretty standard price for any girl who is pleasant to look at and talk to. When it gets up to 5 or 6 is when I start saying no based on number but 3 is not an unreasonable ask. Read through the thread a bit and also check out the sugarbowl subreddit for gauge expectations.

[John Dough71]

This one wanted 300 to meet and was unamused when I asked if that price included her paying for my steak dinner. I guess in a way my inexperience really ends up helping the mongers who are willing to pay the meet up price. Your welcome. For the other guys, I guess I'm just a sucker for any pretty ladies that message me. Guess I will get the hang of it sooner rather than later haha.

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...b-69cd6033f545

Ha, you got a lot further than I did. She favorited me and I messaged her saying I hope she is real and not trying to sell me crypto or content. She blocked me immediately. LMAO. Looks like I need to work on my game too. .

[Bouinage]

This one wanted 300 to meet and was unamused when I asked if that price included her paying for my steak dinner. I guess in a way my inexperience really ends up helping the mongers who are willing to pay the meet up price. Your welcome. For the other guys, I guess I'm just a sucker for any pretty ladies that message me. Guess I will get the hang of it sooner rather than later haha.

https://members.seeking.com/member/b...b-69cd6033f545

[Bouinage]

Guys really appreciate the input / details. Texted her back after some silence and no response, after I suggested we just skip the meeting and do the deed at her house. She may or may not be real but I skipped this one for sure. Perhaps some other monger is pounding away on her right now LOL.

Also communicated with this one. She seems nice but wanted 500 just to meet. I offered to take her out to a nice restaurant to discuss the details instead, still awaiting her response haha.

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...3-8fa2fbeb3333

Again, thanks again for your input.