Trying this Sugar Baby thing.

**GutterMind4** · 07-11-22 19:47

Or general reports but while you're here.

1. Prepare for the worst at home. Set up your own bank accounts, see a divorce attorney (for the record), sleep on the couch, separate if you can (assuming its irreconcilable of course), but at the very least have a place to stay if you get kicked out. Because, if wife finds out, it's scorched earth and you better have your shit together before, not after.

2. Get a burner. You already have digital footprints that will come out in the divorce. No since and giving any more evidence you're still whoring around. You should have one anyway if you're married and mongering but if this is eminent, you need to get off the wife's traceable grid.

3. If you have to shit where you sleep (home), that's one thing. But If you are going to shit where you sleep and eat (home and work), you are setting yourself up for some pain in the event you get caught. Potential loss of home and job. If you have a white collar job, better review employee handbook. Some emplorers frown on work place adultary or even dating depending on your respective positions.

4. And if all that is worth the risk, sounds like you're already there. If the coworker is texting you, sounds like she needs a shoulder to cry on. Do lunch a few times and confide in her about your shitty home life. Ask advise about how she dealt with her break up. If she thinks or knows you're vulnerable, she likely won't care as much about your cheating ways like she looks as her ex.

5. There is a high probability this will not work out well. I don't want to put a damper on your situation but. I can tell by the way you're talking, you are thinking with the little head a bit too much. I would really consider putting the coworker on standby until you can legally fuck her. Nearly every one I know that has gotten busted or been ass raped in their divorce sounds a lot like this story.

I know loveless and sexless marriages seem impossible to get out of but sometimes even the children fair better when both parents are happier apart. That's it, no more Dr Phil today I'm out.

Originally Posted by Hunter6900 [View Original Post]

Ok so I'm sick and tired of the shit I have to deal with at home. Been doing the Councilling thing and I still come home and get screamed at for no reason. I'm only staying around now for my daughter. I'm tired it paying for side play so I'm looking at trying to hook up with a girl I know. She's around my age, divorced, her kids are grown, and she lives where I work, so I could hit it before, during, and after work as needed. She's drop dead gorgeous and I've been fantasizing about her for a while. I feel I could trust her to keep it quiet. If she would agree it would be perfect. I know she's been dating around so she's looking to fuck. I just don't know how she would take being approached from me being married when her husband was supposedly cheating on her. There was some drama there, but then again she hit me up on text a while back and was totally cool when I asked her to only do it during the day as my wife would flip if she saw it. Any suggestions?

**CaptCipher** · 07-11-22 19:46

Originally Posted by CltGuy1231 [View Original Post]

Has anyone else met this one?

https://members.seeking.com/member/9...7-b9b46bb0d9e4

Well she is or was a dancer somewhere some monger I'm sure will recognize.

**Hunter6900** · 07-11-22 18:20

Ok so I'm sick and tired of the shit I have to deal with at home. Been doing the Councilling thing and I still come home and get screamed at for no reason. I'm only staying around now for my daughter. I'm tired it paying for side play so I'm looking at trying to hook up with a girl I know. She's around my age, divorced, her kids are grown, and she lives where I work, so I could hit it before, during, and after work as needed. She's drop dead gorgeous and I've been fantasizing about her for a while. I feel I could trust her to keep it quiet. If she would agree it would be perfect. I know she's been dating around so she's looking to fuck. I just don't know how she would take being approached from me being married when her husband was supposedly cheating on her. There was some drama there, but then again she hit me up on text a while back and was totally cool when I asked her to only do it during the day as my wife would flip if she saw it. Any suggestions?

**Wally Marshal** · 07-11-22 15:57

Originally Posted by CltGuy1231 [View Original Post]

Has anyone else met this one?

https://members.seeking.com/member/9...7-b9b46bb0d9e4

I have tried with no response. Did you meet her?

**ClarkW** · 07-11-22 09:27

DTF, will drive in from Columbia. A little thicker than the pics on SA, but that should be a given with the age she says she is. No problem sending a naked verification pic which I always ask for.

https://members.seeking.com/member/d...c-2546070a1dc2

**CltGuy1231** · 07-11-22 07:17

Has anyone else met this one?

https://members.seeking.com/member/9...7-b9b46bb0d9e4

**BrianPeter** · 07-09-22 17:56

Originally Posted by TheMechanik365 [View Original Post]

I second this. You can get decent rooms for next to nothing. You have a room for 8 hours for half the price. The only caveat is, it doesn't work that well on the weekends and as the name implies, it's only valid during the day. It was probably started during Covid for people that couldn't go to the office and couldn't work at home either. It's a good alternative for those that need outcall.

Yes this is great. I have used it severalI have used it several times. Before this I would contact the hotels and ask for day or hourly rates. About one out of five would have them.

**TheMechanik365** · 07-09-22 16:24

Originally Posted by KnowBody [View Original Post]

You've probably got the right idea not taking them to your crib right off the bat. And your potential lover might not want to go smash at a flea bag motel. Try.

https://www.dayuse.com/

-you can book a hotel for about 8 hrs & usually the rate is 50% to 25% less than the standard, overnight rate. Most of the hotels are good or great, no sketchy places & the hotels are in various areas, north, Southpark, Airport, Executive Park. And yes, you can use the bed, pool, gym, etc. While you're there.

I second this. You can get decent rooms for next to nothing. You have a room for 8 hours for half the price. The only caveat is, it doesn't work that well on the weekends and as the name implies, it's only valid during the day. It was probably started during Covid for people that couldn't go to the office and couldn't work at home either. It's a good alternative for those that need outcall.

**Gszt09** · 07-09-22 15:00

Originally Posted by SeekingRdu [View Original Post]

From her profile:

"Please note that I expect an allowance and that by most people who have approached me on this site: it's too much. But I had an arrangement before that was 3 times what I want now. I ended it willingly. "

WTF would anyone pursue that level of GPS.

Thanks for pointing that out, on the app the profile section is showing empty.

**BrianPeter** · 07-09-22 14:13

Originally Posted by MilkyWy [View Original Post]

Might be getting too many offers. Did her few times during Covid. She enjoys taking it in her ass.

She's wanting 500 now and no anal. My how times have changed.

**AdamEve7** · 07-08-22 23:38

Originally Posted by Chip6288 [View Original Post]

AdamEve. Clear some space in your inbox. Tried sending you a message.

Send me dm ty.

**Banger12** · 07-08-22 22:05

Originally Posted by SeekingRdu [View Original Post]

From her profile:

"Please note that I expect an allowance and that by most people who have approached me on this site: it's too much. But I had an arrangement before that was 3 times what I want now. I ended it willingly. "

WTF would anyone pursue that level of GPS.

Wow. If this profile is real it goes right into the GPS hall of fame.

It's so weird and the pics are odd, How could any chick think this profile would get anything but negative attention.

**SAguyinNC** · 07-08-22 18:20

Originally Posted by KnowBody [View Original Post]

You've probably got the right idea not taking them to your crib right off the bat.

Yeah, my wife hates it when I do that shit.

Thanks for the tip. That looks like a game changer. Props!

**CinMiner** · 07-08-22 17:03

Originally Posted by SeekingRdu [View Original Post]

From her profile:

"Please note that I expect an allowance and that by most people who have approached me on this site: it's too much. But I had an arrangement before that was 3 times what I want now. I ended it willingly. "

WTF would anyone pursue that level of GPS.

She contacted me first, and right off the bat said she was requiring $5 k to $7 K a month for 3 to 4 meetings per month. I didn't even respond. Crazy. I only want to rent it, not buy it!

**KnowBody** · 07-08-22 16:42

Originally Posted by NyteOwl [View Original Post]

So most of the girls that seem ready to play cannot host. I'm just wondering what you guys are doing in that situation. Hit one up the other day who was 250 but ended up throwing down another 150 on a hotel room. I can find EROS girls (fewer these days) for 400 and they host. The girl was worth 250 but definitely not 400. I realize I could get a rat trap motel for about 75 but that grosses me out. Any good recommendations out there?

You've probably got the right idea not taking them to your crib right off the bat. And your potential lover might not want to go smash at a flea bag motel. Try.

https://www.dayuse.com/

-you can book a hotel for about 8 hrs & usually the rate is 50% to 25% less than the standard, overnight rate. Most of the hotels are good or great, no sketchy places & the hotels are in various areas, north, Southpark, Airport, Executive Park. And yes, you can use the bed, pool, gym, etc. While you're there.