Trying this Sugar Baby thing.

[RedBaron5050]

I paid for both SA and WYP. It's a numbers game. Shotgun approach.
GB40.

Hi gang,

Question about this as I'm thinking of pulling the trigger on a month of premium but still have some questions. When I sign into my unpaid account on SA and do a search, even with minimal filters for Charlotte I come back with less than 60 hits. Given the number of potential SD's probably doing the exact same thing I'm doing, this does not seem like great odds for the price and time. Am I missing something? The searches are weird because if I search again many of the results are different SBs and the total number can vary, also if I sort by "Newest", many of the results say that the SB signed up a few seconds ago but I've seen them several times over the past few days. I suppose what I am asking is that if I go Premium, are there "hidden" SB's I will be able to see that I cannot now? Apologies if the answer is common knowledge. Just trying to figure it all out.

[Jax12]

This is why I don't mind playing the "Yeah, you're cute and all, but I've got 3 other girls that I'm meeting for coffee this week" game. I lot of times, they see the watch, the car, and the big fat bulge of my wallet, and they decide they need to set the hook NOW! This usually leads to an entire afternoon (sometimes overnight) of free "sell it girl" sex.

Also, I actually love the "I need gas girls" because I've gotten sex several times for a tank of gas LOL.

My last word of advice is do not dismiss the "Platonic" girls. Meet then for lunch, and when they start hinting at getting paid, calmly explain the lunch WAS the payment, and that if they want to see actual green, it'll require more than conversation. It's a lot of fun being a future hookers first experience.

With respect to the 'new crop' discretion must be used for sure because I see 'non-sexual' dating and communication buddies & soforth which means money-for-nothing. Let me interpret: the communication is me talking nice to you when I want you to Venmo me $$.

What the crap have these girls been fed except "you can get on these sites and pretend you will meet up with these guys for dinner or something and ask them for money and they'll give it to you! Best deal going!

All I can say is there must be some total and complete dumbarses out there! Whatever.

[Murphy69]

What do you guys put in your profiles?

I'm concerned about putting my name and face out there.

If its an issue just do private pics but have them available to those who you start talking with and feel like it could go somewhere or have none and send through text. Don't out your real name whatever you do. I give them a fake name and always have. Even after meeting they still have a fake name, and fake career that I work. Don't divulge sensitive info that you could be blackmailed on later. Also make sure to use a burner app number. You do all that and you should be pretty good. I've done all that since I first started with SB's and its helped in all honesty. Protect your info at all times but have fun.

[PieMonger]

What do you guys put in your profiles?

I'm concerned about putting my name and face out there.

[Open777]

She does not want any money, she only want a slave who can follow her instructions, she has bunch of rules and will not let you fuck, she wants you to see in pain of delayed orgasim etc.

If she is on Seeking she wants money, she may may be playing it slow, trying to get someone hooked first, but she wants money. There are plenty of free fetish sites she could find all the slaves she could want just for fun. Like I said on my first post she's not interested in having sex with guys. It's the classic Findom play. If she hasn't asked for money she will or she will ask for pictures, videos, or video chat that she can record that she can then use as money making content for a website. But trust me she wants money. Every girl on Seeking wants money! Just trying to give you a heads up man, no judgement here, seriously trying to look out for you. I have known girls who played this game.

[AdamEve7]

Are you familiar with the terms Findom or paypig? It's a Fetish where a guy gets off spending money on a woman and doesn't really get any actual sex. The verbage in her ad reeks of this arrangement and based on her age and pics I would bet this is her angle. No actual experience with her but I am sure she will be one to want money spent on her before even meeting to prove yourself to her. I may be wrong but I have seen enough of ads like hers to bet big on it.

She does not want any money, she only want a slave who can follow her instructions, she has bunch of rules and will not let you fuck, she wants you to see in pain of delayed orgasim etc.

[Open777]

Anyone experience this one before?

https://www.seeking.com/member/a0f9d...4-8a87566fc59d

Are you familiar with the terms Findom or paypig? It's a Fetish where a guy gets off spending money on a woman and doesn't really get any actual sex. The verbage in her ad reeks of this arrangement and based on her age and pics I would bet this is her angle. No actual experience with her but I am sure she will be one to want money spent on her before even meeting to prove yourself to her. I may be wrong but I have seen enough of ads like hers to bet big on it.

[Gigabyte40]

This one is for senior members, For one month of paid membership for SA or WYP how many meet and greets you do in that month and how many you score in that month. What's your payout range like $$.

I paid for both SA and WYP. It's a numbers game. Shotgun approach. I sent over 100 messages trying to meet. I would estimate less than half responded. Say 45. On SA over half of those wanted a monthly allowance of at least $1000. On WYP I mee maybe a dozen. Most wanted a free meal or drink plus 50 to 100 just for meeting. WYP was a waste of time and money. I might have fucked 2 of the ones that finally came through. These online sugar daddy sites are nothing magic. Just an online way to do what men and women have been doing for hundreds of years.

But part of this hobby is the thrill of the chase. These sites keep you busy chasing pussy. And hoping you catch one occasionally.

GB40.

[Dj3799]

https://www.seeking.com/member/dfa5f...-11828a99c919. Long time on looker but never posted. AD is my go to site, I stopped dating any one from any other site. There are way more GF experience with way less worrys. Most of the girls do not have any demons. If you are a dude that spends between 150 to 250 on a quality meet then SD is the place to be. I have had so many great dates, it does take some work but if you have some game you are good to go. Always meet for drinks first but let them know before hand that you're looking for just companionship. Check the girl in the link. No demons, Gf experience, college girl. Everything on the table, the best experience I have every had.

[Cola 1965]

Amazing body!! Oh well. It's almost always TGTBT!!

Stay away from this one. She keeps changing her ad so it maybe gone already. But she normally keeps Savannah in her name. Waste of time for sure. Posts in Raleigh and charlotte.

[WhatYaThinkXXX]

Stay away from this one. She keeps changing her ad so it maybe gone already. But she normally keeps Savannah in her name. Waste of time for sure. Posts in Raleigh and charlotte.

[AdamEve7]

Anyone experience this one before?

https://www.seeking.com/member/a0f9d...4-8a87566fc59d

[AdamEve7]

I live 60 miles from the nearest metro area, so I was skeptical at first. I played the read messages free game for a couple of months, using several SA accounts to sort through the different personalities. Then I paid for a 10 day membership with the Android app. Out of more than 50 contacts, I moved at least 10 off the site for better, private communication. Of the 10 I remember, I weeded them down to 4 M / G. Three were between 20 and 28 years old, and scored for less than 2 bills each. Of those, one has become a regular, and for the past 6 months has been driving 30 miles each way to spend the night at my house once or twice a week and I take care of her gas and utilities.

Some people like to rag on the SD / SB game as delusional, but it's exactly what I was looking for. Good conversation and incredible sex once or twice a week, fits into a retirement budget and no permanent commitments. No candy demons, no phone interruptions, and the normal scheduling issues you would have with a regular date.

Happy hunting.

Awesome experience, that's what my goal is ultimately.

[Murphy69]

I had one great SB on SA, the others were more like semi pros. I was 3 out of 3 in the paid month. When are the best time of year to pay for a subscription? Is it better around holiday time or when school starts up?

When school starts by far. At least for me here in Columbia. I travel to Charlotte to see some on occasion but my hub is Columbia with USC. My best months are September-March easily.

[NovaKane]

I live 60 miles from the nearest metro area, so I was skeptical at first. I played the read messages free game for a couple of months, using several SA accounts to sort through the different personalities. Then I paid for a 10 day membership with the Android app. Out of more than 50 contacts, I moved at least 10 off the site for better, private communication. Of the 10 I remember, I weeded them down to 4 M / G. Three were between 20 and 28 years old, and scored for less than 2 bills each. Of those, one has become a regular, and for the past 6 months has been driving 30 miles each way to spend the night at my house once or twice a week and I take care of her gas and utilities.

Some people like to rag on the SD / SB game as delusional, but it's exactly what I was looking for. Good conversation and incredible sex once or twice a week, fits into a retirement budget and no permanent commitments. No candy demons, no phone interruptions, and the normal scheduling issues you would have with a regular date.

Happy hunting.

I'd say that is great work by you. I'd also assume how you identified your targets and approached them led to your success. If you treat them like hookers (which most are and which most are used to being treated like) you will get the flaky hard exterior and service. Finding the gems takes finesse and approach.

I burned through 6 months on SA and landed the good and the bad. I found those seeking sugar for nothing were just fishing for suckers and you quickly cut ties. The girls who were straightforward were exactly what I could find on escort sites.

The ones who took time and had plausible reasons and curiosity turned into UTR gems and have had a place in my rotation. I get bored quick so I only see them once a month or less. I'm not in my 20's /30's /40's anymore. I don't need to fuck every night. Having something lined up every other week for an overnight stay with a coed is what I seek.

In my experience this type of SB go on and off the site quickly, so messaging many helps to find your version of a gem. Know what you want, even if it changes from time to time, change up your approach as needed. Be cool and be firm on what you will spend.