Trying this Sugar Baby thing.

**PhillUponThese** · 12-10-19 00:42

Bro's.

Below is what Dr Summer shared with the Charleston forum-for the record this dude is the real deal and will fill you in on all and any inquiries. I was having doubt about seeking arrangements when I back to the states a few years ago and reached out to him and all has been good-I have international experience with this stuff so feel free to DM me anytime as well--some of you as read the forum are just oblivious to the game and I get it.

Post from the Doc:

Guys,

It is getting harder and harder to find a genuine sugar babies from SA site. Almost all new profiles say something about platonic, no sex, only conversations and mentoring, online only and some crap along those lines. The frustrating thing is that now even single mothers and fat girls are demanding platonic. Just out of control. But still there is hope and some gems out there, just harder to weed out the crap and get to them. I wanted to share some things that worked for me, but at the end every girl is different and something unique pops out all the time.

1. Be respectful to the girl (don't be a creep and an asshole), but be assertive and let the girl know you are in charge not her.

2. Take them out of SA chat into texting as early as possible and pose the question straight forward. "Are you into meeting in person and are you comfortable with physical intimacy". This will weed out most of the crap. But still there are scammers not giving up.

3. Get them to agree for a meet within a week. If they don't agree and start talking about being busy etc, just tell them to contact you when they are ready to meet.

4. Let them know they will get financial benefit, but don't talk details. You have an upper hand if you do that talk in person.

**Dash** · 12-09-19 23:59

The problem with the seeking girls and GPS is that there are often females who have been spoiled by their upper middle class fathers (simps) and they think they are a little princess.

We are expected to cherish and spoil them like their fathers have their entire life.

The best girls are those who grew up without generous fathers; in other words females from poor backgrounds.

The difficulty is those who use Seeking may belong to the first group, but what we want is the second group.

I don't know how to separate the wheat from the chaff but I met a nice baby free style in S. Florida. She keeps in touch now I am in California.

I will try seeking now that I am in a college town and I will definitely not pay for any dates; meet and greet is an interview, not a paid performance.

**Bruco** · 12-09-19 23:41

Originally Posted by BussaNut [View Original Post]

Why are you guys paying for a simple meet. Hell no. If we just meeting to get a feel for one another sitting in the car talking for 10 minutes at Walmart etc will be enough. Have never paid or even had a sb even ask me to pay just to meet.

Generally agree. I do like to buy them a drink or a coffee rather than talk in a car in a parking lot, but I never pay.

**Bruco** · 12-09-19 23:39

Back on SA.

Here's some intel:

https://www.seeking.com/member/92422...b-472b1f4813b4

Seems DTF. $$. Didn't partake due to other options.

https://www.seeking.com/member/d2be8...7-ed67f3c1e773

Wants 500. No chance.

https://www.seeking.com/member/7af40...7-a2cb65e2b502

More of a pro vibe but again wants 500.

That's all I got so far. Had a drink with a definite good possibility tonight, which means I need to keep her to myself for a bit. LOL.

**BussaNut** · 12-04-19 23:31

Originally Posted by Backlash [View Original Post]

My experience started out promising. She responded quickly and was pretty engaging via text. Explained she had no car and couldn't do incall either so I knew this one wouldn't be an easy score but she sent me some selfies and she is very hot. Pics were filtered a little but I decided to push on out of curiosity.

She stated that a diner meet was 100 and if wanted more 300. On short notice I told her I didn't have time for a full dinner meet but if she wanted to meet for coffee and convo I would be willing to give her 50. She agreed and we set a time / place near her work.

She was late and went ghost for a while so I just about left but decided to hang around and gave her 30 extra minutes, she did text and we met at Starbucks and had a really good get to know each other chat. I felt like we hit it off well and she even said that she liked how we were able to talk to each other and enjoy our visit. She stayed about an hour and said she needed to get to a please to wire some money to her mom for a phone bill. I offered to give her a ride and so we ran about 15 minutes for her to do it. I brought her back and left her where we met she gave me a kiss and we were on our way. She mentioned she had seen a few guys for dinner but hadn't gotten intimate with anyone yet and really hoped we could get together. I said that I would be available the next day early afternoon and she said between 2-4 was good. I felt we were going to hit it off good and we text each other later so all seemed to line up. The next morning I checked in w her and she said was tired and for me to text her closer to the afternoon to see if she felt better. I agreed and text her around 1 and she said she was just too tired. I told her no problem we could try again later..

Why are you guys paying for a simple meet. Hell no. If we just meeting to get a feel for one another sitting in the car talking for 10 minutes at Walmart etc will be enough. Have never paid or even had a sb even ask me to pay just to meet.

**LoveLatina** · 12-04-19 09:33

I talked with one by text yesterday that said she wanted to be platonic and only by phone. She was looking for a mentor. I said then I guess you're not looking for an allowance. " She said time is money. To be honest. " LMAO. She's looking for someone to mentor her on the phone plus pay her for the privilege of hearing her voice. So Funny. Hope I don't get booted for my response to her.

**ModelX** · 12-04-19 01:54

Here is another clown baby.

Claimed to have the latest iPhone, worked as IT Business Consultant and own a 503 C business (non profit).

Yet, struggling to pay bills.

She refused to answer several basic questions and no face photo; complained about me asking too many questions, and doesn't want to text or show private photo because she was worried her real identity will be discovered. WTF then?

https://www.seeking.com/member/868de...3-84af389f4455

Oh, she also has the GPS syndromes in asking her spoilage to be named up front. But sorry, I don't buy anything sight unseen.

Now she blocked me. Wohooo!

**Mravcapo69** · 12-03-19 10:24

After you weed out all the scammers, platonic airheaids who think what they can offer me more advice with their "experience" than I already have, GPS's and other nonsense profiles on those sites. Than you have to spend some cash to actually weed out those with "too much going on in their lives", or simply ghosting after a first coffee or a lunch. I try to keep my first dates to minimum expense, and absolutely nooooo, under any circumstances, NOOOO upfront date money.

Originally Posted by ModelX [View Original Post]

I went through a handful of this similar scenarios (coffee, lunch, or dinner) and then ghosted.

So I learned lesson. No more pre-paid or even paid coffee, lunch or dinner. First meeting has to be FREE of any allowance and no cash app, venmo, paypal, etc.

**ModelX** · 12-02-19 23:11

Originally Posted by Backlash [View Original Post]

My experience started out promising. She responded quickly and was pretty engaging via text. Explained she had no car and couldn't do incall either so I knew this one wouldn't be an easy score but she sent me some selfies and she is very hot. Pics were filtered a little but I decided to push on out of curiosity.

She stated that a diner meet was 100 and if wanted more 300. On short notice I told her I didn't have time for a full dinner meet but if she wanted to meet for coffee and convo I would be willing to give her 50. She agreed and we set a time / place near her work.

She was late and went ghost for a while so I just about left but decided to hang around and gave her 30 extra minutes, she did text and we met at Starbucks and had a really good get to know each other chat. I felt like we hit it off well and she even said that she liked how we were able to talk to each other and enjoy our visit. She stayed about an hour and said she needed to get to a please to wire some money to her mom for a phone bill. I offered to give her a ride and so we ran about 15 minutes for her to do it. I brought her back and left her where we met she gave me a kiss and we were on our way. She mentioned she had seen a few guys for dinner but hadn't gotten intimate with anyone yet and really hoped we could get together. I said that I would be available the next day early afternoon and she said between 2-4 was good. I felt we were going to hit it off good and we text each other later so all seemed to line up. The next morning I checked in w her and she said was tired and for me to text her closer to the afternoon to see if she felt better. I agreed and text her around 1 and she said she was just too tired. I told her no problem we could try again later..

I went through a handful of this similar scenarios (coffee, lunch, or dinner) and then ghosted.

So I learned lesson. No more pre-paid or even paid coffee, lunch or dinner. First meeting has to be FREE of any allowance and no cash app, venmo, paypal, etc.

**Backlash** · 12-02-19 23:00

My experience started out promising. She responded quickly and was pretty engaging via text. Explained she had no car and couldn't do incall either so I knew this one wouldn't be an easy score but she sent me some selfies and she is very hot. Pics were filtered a little but I decided to push on out of curiosity.

She stated that a diner meet was 100 and if wanted more 300. On short notice I told her I didn't have time for a full dinner meet but if she wanted to meet for coffee and convo I would be willing to give her 50. She agreed and we set a time / place near her work.

She was late and went ghost for a while so I just about left but decided to hang around and gave her 30 extra minutes, she did text and we met at Starbucks and had a really good get to know each other chat. I felt like we hit it off well and she even said that she liked how we were able to talk to each other and enjoy our visit. She stayed about an hour and said she needed to get to a please to wire some money to her mom for a phone bill. I offered to give her a ride and so we ran about 15 minutes for her to do it. I brought her back and left her where we met she gave me a kiss and we were on our way. She mentioned she had seen a few guys for dinner but hadn't gotten intimate with anyone yet and really hoped we could get together. I said that I would be available the next day early afternoon and she said between 2-4 was good. I felt we were going to hit it off good and we text each other later so all seemed to line up. The next morning I checked in w her and she said was tired and for me to text her closer to the afternoon to see if she felt better. I agreed and text her around 1 and she said she was just too tired. I told her no problem we could try again later.

Next day I ask how she was doing and she said good just busy. Again I asked if we could get together soon. Suddenly she went ghost and now I text her 4 times in past 5 days and still no response. My gut feeling is she trying to just get the meet greet dinner $ then bail out. Oh I actually gave her 80 instead of 50 at the meet and greet because we hit it off so well. I know this was a long post but just thought incase some of you start getting the run around she's really good at seeming legit and apparently knows how to play the game. Had me fooled.

**ModelX** · 12-02-19 22:46

Got linked up with Riley and agreed to move to texting since I am on iOS device; Then she asked why I wasn't using iMessage. Then blocking me.

https://www.seeking.com/member/c7e04...d-12e9ff376b05

Don't waste your time.

**LoveLatina** · 12-02-19 15:10

Originally Posted by Breitlingb2 [View Original Post]

Her bio states some exciting possibilities, but she onyl looking for free $ with no return. Stay away!

https://www.seeking.com/member/5acf2...d-02ccd69709d3

She's not attractive in the classical sense and comes off as a real *****. Even if she were real you'd have to enjoy being bitched at to even consider her.

**ModelX** · 12-02-19 03:16

Originally Posted by RWarNmsn69 [View Original Post]

ModelX, I had a very similar experience with Reneebby98 but speaking from past experiences IRL, CNAs do have a lot of free/down time on the night shift.

Safe mongering and sugaring!

No doubt CNA night shift has much free time.

The weird part is that she was cordial on one chat apps, yet she behaves completely different in SA.

Wondering if it's even her. Or she is guided by a manager.

What's exactly your experience with her?

**RWarNmsn69** · 12-02-19 02:26

Originally Posted by ModelX [View Original Post]

This one is just looking for funded online activities.

Was able to maintain conversations while she was begging for online cashapp, and promise to meet in mid Dec when she'll move in-town; she claimed to be working in a healthcare / hostpital as Nurse Assistant during night shift; but when I asked why why she was online on SA site during her shift. All of the sudden I got blocked now.

https://www.seeking.com/member/0e31f...c-ecef05467e67

You'll be the judge.

ModelX, I had a very similar experience with Reneebby98 but speaking from past experiences IRL, CNAs do have a lot of free/down time on the night shift.

Safe mongering and sugaring!

**Breitlingb2** · 12-01-19 11:31

Her bio states some exciting possibilities, but she onyl looking for free $ with no return. Stay away!

https://www.seeking.com/member/5acf2...d-02ccd69709d3