Seeking Arrangements (SA)

[SeeksEasy]

LA percentages interesting.

I am trying to avoid 1, 2, and 3, and may increase by #3 percentage by a lot.

I budget about 2 k per month all in.

Here is my estimate for los angeles.

1. P2 P girls who do not think of themselves as providers 20%.

2. P2 P providers just looking for another venue 30%.

3. Girls / women with various states of dysfunction in their lives, bordering on homelessness and losing their kids to just not being able to manage the basics of day to day life. 20%.

4. Divorced / seperated women with reduced circumstances who are still functional, but want to meet a different type of man. 10%.

5. Married women. 1%.

6. Girls / women who have their act together, and use the site to meet successful men. 10%.

7. 10+ models / actresses who use their stunning combination of looks, brains, and drive to attract the uber-rich. 9%.

The rates vary from $ (better have some game) $$ (no game required, girl quality up to a 9) $$$ to $$$$ (for real Hollywood 10's and GPS girls).

I mostly date 1's and 3's. I hit up the 2's occasionally in between. The 4's are too old for me. The 6's and 7's I cant afford. Never date a 5, no reason to.

[Jem411]

So you must be the lucky stiff to whom all the ladies are replying. My first contact protocol is clearly deficient.

Do tell your secrets, oh master of the art!

My first message usually goes like this. My name is* I saw your pictures and profile and was intrigued. What are you looking for from a SD?

Then my response to their reply is below.

I'll be blunt, I'm looking for a female to spend time with, indoors and outdoors, who will respect my time, accept my gifts, and share herself with me. I'm not trying to be rude, just to the point. I have to assume that you are somewhat wanting the same, or you wouldn't be on this site. I'm at a point in my life that I have free time and resources that I want to share with someone. I'm not all business all the time, I'm actually easy to talk to and somewhat shy. Just emailing or texting gives me courage I don't normally have. So. Your turn.

So far it's working. Have a room for one tonight, taking another out of town Monday. Eating lunch with a 3rd in a few. It has caused a lot of texting and talking on the phone. My day flies by. Just like the days from college. Juggle, juggle, juggle.

[ThermoNuclear]

2nd one last night went well. We're getting a room for this evening. She wants a fuck buddy. Agreed to $4 monthly. Also hundred. I have a lunch date with a 3rd one today. She's seeking 800 a month. Got build the herd so the culling can begin.

So you must be the lucky stiff to whom all the ladies are replying. My first contact protocol is clearly deficient.

Do tell your secrets, oh master of the art!

[Jem411]

Do you mean $500 or $5,000 monthly?

2nd one last night went well. We're getting a room for this evening. She wants a fuck buddy. Agreed to $4 monthly. Also hundred. I have a lunch date with a 3rd one today. She's seeking 800 a month. Got build the herd so the culling can begin.

[HollywoodGuy]

This is an area in which I have some expertise and long-term experience.

As some of you know, I prefer massage, and AMPs are the going thing here. However, I use AMPs and other massage providers as a relief valve between relationships. For the last 20 years, some of those relationships have been conventional, and some have been from SA.

SA is an odd world, made possible only by the Internet. Here are the categories I have found to be true, and my guestimates of the percentages of SA women making them up.

1. P2P girls who do not think of themselves as providers 15%.

2. P2P providers just looking for another venue 10%.

3. Girls / women with various states of dysfunction in their lives, bordering on homelessness and losing their kids to just not being able to manage the basics of day to day life. 45%.

4. Divorced / seperated women with reduced circumstances who are still functional, but want to meet a different type of man. 10%.

5. Married women. 5%.

6. Girls / women who have their act together, and use the site to meet successful men. 10%.

7. 10+ models / actresses who use their stunning combination of looks, brains, and drive to attract the uber-rich. Unknown.

There are exceptions. And there are certainly members who are in several categories at once.

I have recently re-entered the SA world, and it does take more effort, as I am after some type of connection, not just sex. It takes effort to get to the category you want (mine are in 4 and 6; I do not have funds for 7, and they are not looking to come to Knoxpatch anyway.).

I agree with the comment that you should ignore the stated goals (not many girls in Knoxville can command 10 K per month.) In this, as in all relationships, looking good, being respectful, and being honest go a long way.

I am in the midst of working something out with one woman after several months search. I have opinions on many of the recent active members if anyone wants to PM me.

Seeks.

Here is my estimate for los angeles.

1. P2 P girls who do not think of themselves as providers 20%.

2. P2 P providers just looking for another venue 30%.

3. Girls / women with various states of dysfunction in their lives, bordering on homelessness and losing their kids to just not being able to manage the basics of day to day life. 20%.

4. Divorced / seperated women with reduced circumstances who are still functional, but want to meet a different type of man. 10%.

5. Married women. 1%.

6. Girls / women who have their act together, and use the site to meet successful men. 10%.

7. 10+ models / actresses who use their stunning combination of looks, brains, and drive to attract the uber-rich. 9%.

The rates vary from $ (better have some game) $$ (no game required, girl quality up to a 9) $$$ to $$$$ (for real Hollywood 10's and GPS girls).

I mostly date 1's and 3's. I hit up the 2's occasionally in between. The 4's are too old for me. The 6's and 7's I cant afford. Never date a 5, no reason to.

[RJHunter]

I was averaging. We have agreed to $5 monthly. With 10 - 15 hours of meetings. I'm sure it could progress to spending a night, but not right off. What would I tell my wife. I'm actually waiting to meet number two right now. Typical, I show up 10 minutes early and she's already 10 minutes late. More to be revealed. And yes it is time consuming.

Do you mean $500 or $5,000 monthly?

[BigBubbaBobby]

Chat about individual girls on SA here? Links to the site aren't visible unless you are a member and logged in. Anyway, I'm wondering if anyone has seen this girl: "Jetsetter" She looks pretty hot but wanted a steep per meet arrangement of $850! Said she got $5 k / month in her last arrangement which, I'm guessing, had to be in LA!

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/ea27a1e6/view

[Jem411]

SA is a gold mine with lots of different types of arrangements available. Dates range from just dinner and respect (no $) up too $$$ for the date. There is no way I would do an hourly charge. Most of my dates are 2 hrs up to overnight.

I was averaging. We have agreed to $5 monthly. With 10 - 15 hours of meetings. I'm sure it could progress to spending a night, but not right off. What would I tell my wife. I'm actually waiting to meet number two right now. Typical, I show up 10 minutes early and she's already 10 minutes late. More to be revealed. And yes it is time consuming.

[Orbits]

There is no way I would do an hourly charge.

I'd tend to agree, I can't think of any advantages that an hourly rate arrangement would have. But I suppose there might be some that I'm not thinking of. A weekly / monthly or even a per-date arrangement means long dates, no need for timekeeping / clockwatching, a more relaxed pace. Those are pretty much all the biggest reasons why I like them, so going hourly seems like a bad idea to me.

[ThermoNuclear]

After a lot of effort, my results on SA for my first month have been less than stellar.

1) Youngish lady of color met for lunch and maybe more. I (yet again) made a big mistake, as her coy pics didn't reveal a largish figure, which my stupid monkey limbic system just does not respond to. She was nice and willing. Oh well.

2) MILF trying to get back on her feet. Met a couple times but ultimately I bailed due to hygiene concerns, recovering roommates, and imminent drama. She also was pressuring me to buy her a car. I think she belongs in that 45% 'desperate' category that SeeksEasy nicely documented in his post.

3) I almost met up with an expensive not-a-provider provider, but I was pretty sure it was going to be a let down compared to the actual providers around here, and the hassle of getting a room, and this. And that. And. Not worth the effort.

I'm still checking the board these last couple of weeks, but am not getting nearly as much response, possibly due to new competition from you bastards (just kidding, more power to you).

All-in-all it's been a lot of effort and very little pay off. If I was a bottom feeder (not that, you sicko), there seems to be lots of desperation to take advantage of, but that's not what I'm looking for. Of course YMMV.

[CaneBay]

SA is a gold mine with lots of different types of arrangements available. Dates range from just dinner and respect (no $) up too $$$ for the date. There is no way I would do an hourly charge. Most of my dates are 2 hrs up to overnight.

I made a profile a few weeks ago. Just finally committed to it with my wallet. Met my first this morning, publically. According to her, I was first she met with from site also, who really knows. Nerves on both our parts. Ended a couple hour meet / greet with her stating " Basically I'm agreeing to an affair with you for money", I said yes, she said ok. Pretty much agreed to $. 5 per hour no matter what we're doing. Time will tell. I'll try to keep board updated. BTW, young 30's, curvy, not bbw by any stretch, smelled wonderful, pretty face, easy to talk with.

[Nickn3]

This is an area in which I have some expertise and long-term experience.

As some of you know, I prefer massage, and AMPs are the going thing here. However, I use AMPs and other massage providers as a relief valve between relationships. For the last 20 years, some of those relationships have been conventional, and some have been from SA.

SA is an odd world, made possible only by the Internet. Here are the categories I have found to be true, and my guestimates of the percentages of SA women making them up.

1. P2 P girls who do not think of themselves as providers 15%.

2. P2 P providers just looking for another venue 10%.

3. Girls / women with various states of dysfunction in their lives, bordering on homelessness and losing their kids to just not being able to manage the basics of day to day life. 45%.

4. Divorced / seperated women with reduced circumstances who are still functional, but want to meet a different type of man. 10%.

5. Married women. 5%.

6. Girls / women who have their act together, and use the site to meet successful men. 10%.

7. 10+ models / actresses who use their stunning combination of looks, brains, and drive to attract the uber-rich. Unknown.

There are exceptions. And there are certainly members who are in several categories at once.

I have recently re-entered the SA world, and it does take more effort, as I am after some type of connection, not just sex. It takes effort to get to the category you want (mine are in 4 and 6; I do not have funds for 7, and they are not looking to come to Knoxpatch anyway.).

I agree with the comment that you should ignore the stated goals (not many girls in Knoxville can command 10 K per month.) In this, as in all relationships, looking good, being respectful, and being honest go a long way.

I am in the midst of working something out with one woman after several months search. I have opinions on many of the recent active members if anyone wants to PM me.

Seeks.

Sign me up for the 5% of married women who just want to have fun. Ladies, I am looking for entertainment this week. Send me a PM if you are interested.

Nick.

[Jem411]

I made a profile a few weeks ago. Just finally committed to it with my wallet. Met my first this morning, publically. According to her, I was first she met with from site also, who really knows. Nerves on both our parts. Ended a couple hour meet / greet with her stating " Basically I'm agreeing to an affair with you for money", I said yes, she said ok. Pretty much agreed to $. 5 per hour no matter what we're doing. Time will tell. I'll try to keep board updated. BTW, young 30's, curvy, not bbw by any stretch, smelled wonderful, pretty face, easy to talk with.

[Member #5090]

Thanks all! Appreciate the good info. I'm curious to know which SD / SB site you think is best. I'm borderline on SA and SD4 M.

[SeeksEasy]

This is an area in which I have some expertise and long-term experience.

As some of you know, I prefer massage, and AMPs are the going thing here. However, I use AMPs and other massage providers as a relief valve between relationships. For the last 20 years, some of those relationships have been conventional, and some have been from SA.

SA is an odd world, made possible only by the Internet. Here are the categories I have found to be true, and my guestimates of the percentages of SA women making them up.

1. P2 P girls who do not think of themselves as providers 15%.

2. P2 P providers just looking for another venue 10%.

3. Girls / women with various states of dysfunction in their lives, bordering on homelessness and losing their kids to just not being able to manage the basics of day to day life. 45%.

4. Divorced / seperated women with reduced circumstances who are still functional, but want to meet a different type of man. 10%.

5. Married women. 5%.

6. Girls / women who have their act together, and use the site to meet successful men. 10%.

7. 10+ models / actresses who use their stunning combination of looks, brains, and drive to attract the uber-rich. Unknown.

There are exceptions. And there are certainly members who are in several categories at once.

I have recently re-entered the SA world, and it does take more effort, as I am after some type of connection, not just sex. It takes effort to get to the category you want (mine are in 4 and 6; I do not have funds for 7, and they are not looking to come to Knoxpatch anyway.).

I agree with the comment that you should ignore the stated goals (not many girls in Knoxville can command 10 K per month.) In this, as in all relationships, looking good, being respectful, and being honest go a long way.

I am in the midst of working something out with one woman after several months search. I have opinions on many of the recent active members if anyone wants to PM me.

Seeks.