Seeking Arrangements (SA)

[MilfMan865]

Beware of Allyson on SA. She is an escort posing as a potential Sugar Baby:

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...ersation-inbox

Conversation was going well then she started mentioning all of the items with which she needed help along with quoting by the hour. A bit of research revealed that she has spent time in the Gray Bar Inn.

Of course there are other legit escorts on there, some we know from this forum, who have posted on SA against the rules (their forum, their rules), but this one wasn't apparent like some of the others. If you want to see an escort, just book the appointment; no reason to get duped on SA to do it. Legit SA civilian girls don't count hours.

Trusted and Seniors can PM me for URLs and other pertinent information.

Stay Safe,

Milfman.

[JG865]

So, I get a text from Amanda Sweetheart last night, warning to be wary of Angel Eyes Anna, not to reply or fall for any calls, texts, etcetera, from this girl. I texted her back that I was recently warned of this, I didn't tell her that it was through this site. I have not seen Amanda, but was considering making a trip to out of ktown to do so. Hell, this could be Angel Eyes herself for all I know. I don't have time or money to waste on these damn scams. Does anybody have any experience with Amanda?

She and I met once a few months ago. It cost a lot because she couldn't host and I had to get a room in addition to helping her out. For my money, time, and trouble I got the most boring encounter in history. Then she kept texting me asking me to visit again, saying she needed this or that, etc. Eventually had to block her number. She's cute and her pics are accurate. YMMV about the actual experience. But I doubt it.

[KnoxTNman]

Some idiot facebook stalked Jen. She took her account down now and asked that I no longer text her as she doesn't want to get into trouble. This is insane. The whole purpose of the site is for having fun in a DISCREET way. The operative word being discretion. Facebook stalking totally nullifies it, doesn't it?

Jen - https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...ecently-active (No longer active account).

Kirsten. Contacted me asking me to wire her $60 for gas so that she can drive down from SC. I told her that I am not falling for games and will help her only after I see her in person.

[MilfMan865]

Conclusion.

Its hard work to get started, but the rewards are well worth it. The sex will be off the hook compared to the (usually) mechanical hooker sex with too many rules.

Excellent information on all points. SA is a true gold mine that is worth of navigating. I speak from experience that the rewards are worth the pre-work required to get started. Once the ball gets rolling on the meet-and-greets and such, the possibilities are endless. The consolidated list of tips are spot on and could save some of us a lot of headache (and maybe heartache if you're into that).

Stay safe,

Milfman.

[FeatherHammer]

Nice girl but telling the truth when I say "gave me the worst BJ of my life"!

I wound't make that drive for a free one!

I've had a lot of BJ's!

D469.

I certainly don't need anymore anxiety in my life. I need relief, not bullsh.

An old man once told me that 'there is no such thing as a bad BJ'. Sounds like he was wrong. Thanks D469 sir for your advice. You saved me a good bit of stress.

[The Load2]

Under Seeking Arrangements in Knoxville. In post 123 I posted 2 pics. My conscious says I should remove the naked one. Could I request this photo be removed. I admit: she did me wrong but the naked one doesn't need to be posted to shame her. I'm sorry for the inconvenience but I acted out of spite. That's not to say others still shouldn't be warned and the clothed full body pic does that.

Thank you Admin.

You handled this all wrong. If I or anyone else wanted to be an ass we could copy that pic and do whatever we want with it. Click report post or PM the Admin next time this happens. Me personally I wouldn't give 2 shits about posting her pictures if she stole from me.

[KnoxTNman]

I admit hindsight is 20/20. The story was she needed help because she broke up with her bf. I had to help her back from SC because she had to get her shit from her bf and needed a way back. I saw her 4 times. The first 3 times were great. Awesome. You can see she's beautiful. Seemed okay. But demands grew. I gave her the benefit of the doubt. I believed her stories. I did until she had me get a room and ran out with $150. I texted her and said where did you go? She said her bf left with the $. So much for the breakup. Long story short. . no matter where you look, always be on top of your game.

I agree that she is very hard to get hold of. I saw her only once. She wanted to keep the room but didn't have an I'd. I refused to put the room on my name. So, she had a 'guy' friend of hers put the room on his name. Not sure if he was her bf but he was at the hotel within minutes of her calling him. Nevertheless, she had an odd schedule and texts me out of the blue asking if I can meet. I was to meet her yesterday but she never contacted me and I didn't bother to text her. I now know why she didn't text me.

[HossCartwright]

Another member posted a link to this thread, honestly I didn't think many openly, on a public forum, talked about the subject. There is a need for discretion, much more so than the hookers we've all seen. Most girls on the SD / SB sites are easily traceable to their real lives. Don't be an ass and post information connecting the dots.

Glossary of Terms:

CL = CraigsList.

FWNSL = First Wife No Sex Life.

SA = SeekingArrangement.com.

SB = Sugar Baby.

SD = Sugar Daddy.

SD4 M = SugarDaddyForMe.com.

WYP = WhatsYourPrice.com.

SDT = sugardaddytoday.com.

How to Recruit a Sugar Baby? Some guys have luck advertising themselves on M4 W in CL. For real civilian co-eds and 20-somethings, try:

http://www.seekingarrangement.com/

http://www.sugardaddyforme.com/

http://www.whatsyourprice.com/

http://www.sugardaddytoday.com/

Spend a few weeks checking out these sites and getting a feel for them and the type of girls you will be meeting. On Seeking Arrangement make sure you get yourself "verified" for a $49 one-time fee. They have a third party company that checks you out for: Criminal records, Registered Sex Offenders, Sex Crimes, Violent Crimes, Domestic Violence, Felonious and Misdemeanor Assaults. The girls feel safer and you will get way more responses and more productive initial meetings that way.

How to Spot and Avoid a Hooker Posing as a Sugar Baby:

To eliminate hookers look for code words: GFE, BBBJ, outcall, etc. $250 1st hour $400.00 for 2 hours, $700.00 if it includes a dinner date etc. Are all signs of hookers. Avoid glam shots, pictures taken in motels, etc. Use google image search, tineye etc. To eliminate hookers. Google phone numbers and email addresses. Google is your friend.

How to tell if she's a Civilian?

Civilian girls don't count hours. They are hoping for a fixed monthly amount for an arrangement. Always pay them by the meeting the first month. After that some pay them every two weeks or monthly. Others continue paying per meeting, but try not to miss a week. The legit ones will give you their phone # right away in email before you meet them so you can text the day you're meeting. A phone number trace can get the name and other info the phone number is in. US search is pretty reliable: http://www.ussearch.com/consumer/ind...searchtab=home.

Real civilian sugar babies DO NOT use pre-paid phones in fake names with fake addresses. If their name is on their cell phone, you can get advance Intel off Facebook, Twitter, LinkedIn etc. Before you even meet them. Always ask a college SB to show you her student I'd after she tells you what school she goes to. If it's an older girl, it's easy to verify employment. If the girl is legit, she will tell you her real name and even show you her I'd if you are a verified member.

The Initial Meeting:

First meetings typically take place at a Starbucks. To talk privately, either find a private table outside, take your prospective sugar baby for a walk, or just sit in your car. The first goal of the initial meeting is to determine if there is "chemistry". If so, an "arrangement" (frequency of meetings, and her compensation, called a "gift") can be worked out. If she seems promising, then invite her to have lunch or dinner to continue establishing "chemistry". Don't try to rush a new SB into a hotel room for a "test drive"! Never make her feel like a prostitute.

How to find a Stable Sugar Baby:

Look for SBs who have a decent relationship with their parents or relatives. One reason is because they won't want their parents to know. Therefore, they will be discreet. Another reason is if they had a decent childhood, they are less likely to have emotional problems. If you select the right SB, she will want her privacy as much as you.

Bareback Sex with Your Sugar Baby.

If you want condom-free sex (and even if you don't) ask them if they are willing to be tested. This shows you they are responsible and disease-free.

Conclusion.

Its hard work to get started, but the rewards are well worth it. The sex will be off the hook compared to the (usually) mechanical hooker sex with too many rules.

[HossCartwright]

Just like P4 P, you have to harden yourself a bit. Its very easy to "feel" for these girls, much easier than the hookers we all see. Rule of thumb, never give more than your comfortable with. From the sounds of it, you didn't. Live and learn right? On to the next one. It'll take a while to ease the pain of the transgressions, but it will.

I'd still keep her on the hook though. Reason? Play nice, she'll come back. Get your use and then kick her to the curb. I had a little Philly get only $60 from me at one point. Kept her in the background, met up a long while later. Pulled my own version of fuck 'and duck. Then "blocked" her number!. LOL.

Bottom line, regardless of being a professional hooker or a student of the game. Just like a true GF, if they see an opening, they'll often take it.

My two cents, no need for change.

I admit hindsight is 20/20. The story was she needed help because she broke up with her bf. I had to help her back from SC because she had to get her shit from her bf and needed a way back. I saw her 4 times. The first 3 times were great. Awesome. You can see she's beautiful. Seemed okay. But demands grew. I gave her the benefit of the doubt. I believed her stories. I did until she had me get a room and ran out with $150. I texted her and said where did you go? She said her bf left with the $. So much for the breakup. Long story short. . no matter where you look, always be on top of your game.

[KarmaKitty]

Under Seeking Arrangements in Knoxville. In post 123 I posted 2 pics. My conscious says I should remove the naked one. Could I request this photo be removed. I admit: she did me wrong but the naked one doesn't need to be posted to shame her. I'm sorry for the inconvenience but I acted out of spite. That's not to say others still shouldn't be warned and the clothed full body pic does that.

Thank you Admin.

[KarmaKitty]

She is the one that takes your money and runs. She has a boyfriend. And you STILL give her money. You are being taken by a con artist. Give your money to someone who deserves it not to a loser and her boyfriend. Rocket Dork.

I admit hindsight is 20/20. The story was she needed help because she broke up with her bf. I had to help her back from SC because she had to get her shit from her bf and needed a way back. I saw her 4 times. The first 3 times were great. Awesome. You can see she's beautiful. Seemed okay. But demands grew. I gave her the benefit of the doubt. I believed her stories. I did until she had me get a room and ran out with $150. I texted her and said where did you go? She said her bf left with the $. So much for the breakup. Long story short. . no matter where you look, always be on top of your game.

[Rocket Dork]

I was hesitant on posting pics but the board made a good point. She is the one that cash and dashed. Not me. I've even given this one $ and asked for nothing in return. I've given her $50 here and there to make it back to Knoxville when she was in SC. I will not post pics for revenge because I'm better than that. However, out of the concern for the welfare of my fellow mongers, I am posting some pics. I will say, you will be tempted to pass on my advice because of her beauty, but you've been warned. She has a bf that travels with her and will look to set you up.

She is the one that takes your money and runs. She has a boyfriend. And you STILL give her money. You are being taken by a con artist. Give your money to someone who deserves it not to a loser and her boyfriend. Rocket Dork.

[Orbits]

I was hesitant on posting pics but the board made a good point. She is the one that cash and dashed. Not me. I've even given this one $ and asked for nothing in return. I've given her $50 here and there to make it back to Knoxville when she was in SC. I will not post pics for revenge because I'm better than that. However, out of the concern for the welfare of my fellow mongers, I am posting some pics. I will say, you will be tempted to pass on my advice because of her beauty, but you've been warned. She has a bf that travels with her and will look to set you up.

Thanks for the warning. She is beautiful, but I will not set up anything with her now. She and I were talking earlier, but now that I know what she's capable of, no thanks. Dealing with boyfriend issues and ripoffs isn't worth it. Plenty of other options out there.

[Orbits]

Has anyone had any luck with Kristina from Chattanooga?

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...ecently-active

[Dreamer469]

So, I get a text from Amanda Sweetheart last night, warning to be wary of Angel Eyes Anna, not to reply or fall for any calls, texts, etcetera, from this girl. I texted her back that I was recently warned of this, I didn't tell her that it was through this site. I have not seen Amanda, but was considering making a trip to out of ktown to do so. Hell, this could be Angel Eyes herself for all I know. I don't have time or money to waste on these damn scams. Does anybody have any experience with Amanda?

Nice girl but telling the truth when I say "gave me the worst BJ of my life"!

I wound't make that drive for a free one!

I've had a lot of BJ's!

D469.