Seeking Arrangements (SA)

[Dash]

Congratulations Galt. -.

You've come across one of the great benefits of Gen-X or Gen-why or whatever they call themselves. Many guys in their 20's only want to 'group date' or play on their phones or video game or go straight to fucking. Gentleman are few and far between. Find a girl who wants real pampering, open the door for her, buy her little gifts, nice restaurants, little vacations. Don't expect to fuck every time, especially at first. Women love real attention and care. It doesn't matter that I'm in my 50's. My SB is happy to take care of my physical desires because she feels special when we're together. She doesn't get that from her peers. Thank-you Gen-X.

Forgive the comment; I was in S. Florida for 5 years and without even going online I found a "baby" and some other girls; that place is awesome for females.

The girl was only 21 and she thinks I'm in my late 40's (I'm older) and she would mention other guys we both knew who were young and had little class and tact or "game" and hated to spend money or had no money.

Females of all ages just don't like a broke immature guy who thinks women are the same as men.

Men don't give a shit if a female has much intelligence nor any money nor is overly charming; her looks and sexy actions take care of those shortcomings.

Women need to be a little impressed by the guy's abilities, intelligence, attitude and etc. Money is of course expected because which intelligent guy who has his head on straight is broke in the USA anyway?

Women also like to be shown a little bit of a good time and that your time with them does not mean you have to be fucking them right away.

The Seeking Arrangement and similar things are not a real shortcut to screwing the girls; it's a shortcut to meeting the girls.

At my stage of life, I would rather meet girls in places besides bars and etc. These environments bore me quickly.

Good luck to everyone out there; younger guys have it tough because they often don't have the money or they're too "thirsty" =horny to be relaxed.

Today I'm mellow enough with decreased hormones or whatever so I can enjoy a girl's company without feeling the panic of wondering what will happen next.

[BBtie72]

https://www.seeking.com/member/5d71e...8-797c762274f3

Is that Kaylee (may have been spelled kayley) that got into the game with Cake (a blonde bbw) many years ago? Kaylee is still the only provider I have ever did an incall with.

Damn if it's not they could be twins. Same look and body type. She was the first I ever saw off Craigslist with Kake.

[TricitiesGuy]

https://www.seeking.com/member/5d71e...8-797c762274f3

Is that Kaylee (may have been spelled kayley) that got into the game with Cake (a blonde bbw) many years ago? Kaylee is still the only provider I have ever did an incall with.

[Mkegr]

It takes a crap-ton of work, time, money and dead ends, but there are incredible finds on SA. Warning to the newbies: in oilman terms, you have to drill a bunch of dry holes to find one geyser. My latest geyser: 24 years old, grad student. 5'10", mostly fit, with a great ass and DDs. Has two completely free days per week. She's not off the charts kinky, but she loves sex. And, until me, wasn't getting any recently. (Long, but believable, explanation.) She is new to the game, expects no cash. And is simply appreciative of being doted on and spoiled. Flowers, two (fu*k) trips, essentially an "all you can eat"membership to her salon. Any time I give her cash she gets uncomfortable. She comes from a wealthy family, so she's not trying to feed a habit, pay her bills or raise her 4 kids. And she wants to meet more frequently than I do! I HAVE lost 5 lbs recently, but I don't think it's my 6 pack abs that she wants.

This is an example about attitude. My experience is that using the right attitude to my communications and M / Gs increases my odds of attracting emotionally healthy girls who are mostly in the sugar bowl for the thrill / ego of it-not to pay the bills. In talking to these girls, I am amazed at the number of guys who approach them in a crude and explicit manner. In my experience, even the outright hookers on SA (Echelle, for example) are so much more receptive when I pretend that we aren't transacting business in the world's oldest profession. A little respect and kindness pays dividends.

I'm not trying to be preachy or pretend that I've discovered some magic formula. Au contraire. I'm just (1) bragging, because I don't have anyone else I can tell and (2) sharing my experience with any of you guys who may not be getting your desired results from SA.

Act like a gentleman not a sucker. Be kind, attentive, open the door for her, etc. Most women don't get treated well now'a'days. If she gets demanding or wants to drive the arrangement, be willing to walk. Don't be a sucker. But, as Galt said, the work is worth it. In one case my SB mom started making overtures. She saw how nicely I treated her daughter. Of course it wasn't much of a choice.

[Mkegr]

It takes a crap-ton of work, time, money and dead ends, but there are incredible finds on SA. Warning to the newbies: in oilman terms, you have to drill a bunch of dry holes to find one geyser. My latest geyser: 24 years old, grad student. 5'10", mostly fit, with a great ass and DDs. Has two completely free days per week. She's not off the charts kinky, but she loves sex. And, until me, wasn't getting any recently. (Long, but believable, explanation.) She is new to the game, expects no cash. And is simply appreciative of being doted on and spoiled. Flowers, two (fu*k) trips, essentially an "all you can eat"membership to her salon. Any time I give her cash she gets uncomfortable. She comes from a wealthy family, so she's not trying to feed a habit, pay her bills or raise her 4 kids. And she wants to meet more frequently than I do! I HAVE lost 5 lbs recently, but I don't think it's my 6 pack abs that she wants.

This is an example about attitude. My experience is that using the right attitude to my communications and M / Gs increases my odds of attracting emotionally healthy girls who are mostly in the sugar bowl for the thrill / ego of it-not to pay the bills. In talking to these girls, I am amazed at the number of guys who approach them in a crude and explicit manner. In my experience, even the outright hookers on SA (Echelle, for example) are so much more receptive when I pretend that we aren't transacting business in the world's oldest profession. A little respect and kindness pays dividends.

I'm not trying to be preachy or pretend that I've discovered some magic formula. Au contraire. I'm just (1) bragging, because I don't have anyone else I can tell and (2) sharing my experience with any of you guys who may not be getting your desired results from SA.

I am in my 50's, fat, mostly bald and have a remarkably average package. I'm not the richest guy on this website. I'm married, so I have restrictions on my meeting times. All of these hurdles are surmountable, even with the hottest of girls.

(Freebie: there is an 18 year old cutie at the Waffle House on Chapman Highway who loves attention from 50 year old fat guys who over-tip. $30 at the Waffle House is equivalent to about $150 of USAAC dollars. Works weekends only, when they have a hostess.)

(I just noticed: this is my 500th post. Cheers to me! And thanks to A2 and all the folks who help make this hobby functional, safe and fun. )

Congratulations Galt. -.

You've come across one of the great benefits of Gen-X or Gen-why or whatever they call themselves. Many guys in their 20's only want to 'group date' or play on their phones or video game or go straight to fucking. Gentleman are few and far between. Find a girl who wants real pampering, open the door for her, buy her little gifts, nice restaurants, little vacations. Don't expect to fuck every time, especially at first. Women love real attention and care. It doesn't matter that I'm in my 50's. My SB is happy to take care of my physical desires because she feels special when we're together. She doesn't get that from her peers. Thank-you Gen-X.

[First Dude1968]

She's now at Asheville Highway, not Chapman Highway. And no, I don't remember her name. She's not a waitress or cook; she's a weekend hostess. She gets you coffee while you wait on a table. Too cute to work at WH. 18 years old (I verified) and a senior in high school (I verified that, too.).

There's going to be a line out the door this weekend.

[GaltGuy]

She's now at Asheville Highway, not Chapman Highway. And no, I don't remember her name. She's not a waitress or cook; she's a weekend hostess. She gets you coffee while you wait on a table. Too cute to work at WH. 18 years old (I verified) and a senior in high school (I verified that, too.).

[First Dude1968]

This one is legit and is quite ad quite the talented mouth. The downfall she will blow your phone asking for help and getting pushy when you don't reply quickly. Her skill again are quite nice if you can deal with the headache.

I've posted on her before. Bad teeth. Bad skin. Asks for money all the time. And a smoker.

[BigDnGburg]

Contacted me on SB. Typical B. S. Can you help me out and send me some cash to my cash app, broke down and stuck in N.C. , I will make it up later. These girls need to come up with a better line,told her can't leave home and travel if you can't get back or have the cash to get back.

https://www.seeking.com/member/d3240...d-92c0abd843af

https://www.secretbenefits.com/app/p...58e27fad5ffb05

This one is legit and is quite ad quite the talented mouth. The downfall she will blow your phone asking for help and getting pushy when you don't reply quickly. Her skill again are quite nice if you can deal with the headache.

[BigJJ44]

It takes a crap-ton of work, time, money and dead ends, but there are incredible finds on SA. Warning to the newbies: in oilman terms, you have to drill a bunch of dry holes to find one geyser. My latest geyser: 24 years old, grad student. 5'10", mostly fit, with a great ass and DDs. Has two completely free days per week. She's not off the charts kinky, but she loves sex. And, until me, wasn't getting any recently. (Long, but believable, explanation.) She is new to the game, expects no cash. And is simply appreciative of being doted on and spoiled. Flowers, two (fu*k) trips, essentially an "all you can eat"membership to her salon. Any time I give her cash she gets uncomfortable. She comes from a wealthy family, so she's not trying to feed a habit, pay her bills or raise her 4 kids. And she wants to meet more frequently than I do! I HAVE lost 5 lbs recently, but I don't think it's my 6 pack abs that she wants.

This is an example about attitude. My experience is that using the right attitude to my communications and M / Gs increases my odds of attracting emotionally healthy girls who are mostly in the sugar bowl for the thrill / ego of it-not to pay the bills. In talking to these girls, I am amazed at the number of guys who approach them in a crude and explicit manner. In my experience, even the outright hookers on SA (Echelle, for example) are so much more receptive when I pretend that we aren't transacting business in the world's oldest profession. A little respect and kindness pays dividends.

I'm not trying to be preachy or pretend that I've discovered some magic formula. Au contraire. I'm just (1) bragging, because I don't have anyone else I can tell and (2) sharing my experience with any of you guys who may not be getting your desired results from SA.

I am in my 50's, fat, mostly bald and have a remarkably average package. I'm not the richest guy on this website. I'm married, so I have restrictions on my meeting times. All of these hurdles are surmountable, even with the hottest of girls.

(Freebie: there is an 18 year old cutie at the Waffle House on Chapman Highway who loves attention from 50 year old fat guys who over-tip. $30 at the Waffle House is equivalent to about $150 of USAAC dollars. Works weekends only, when they have a hostess.)

(I just noticed: this is my 500th post. Cheers to me! And thanks to A2 and all the folks who help make this hobby functional, safe and fun. )

Congrats on Post 500 Galt and I always enjoy reading your escapades.

[GaltGuy]

It takes a crap-ton of work, time, money and dead ends, but there are incredible finds on SA. Warning to the newbies: in oilman terms, you have to drill a bunch of dry holes to find one geyser. My latest geyser: 24 years old, grad student. 5'10", mostly fit, with a great ass and DDs. Has two completely free days per week. She's not off the charts kinky, but she loves sex. And, until me, wasn't getting any recently. (Long, but believable, explanation.) She is new to the game, expects no cash. And is simply appreciative of being doted on and spoiled. Flowers, two (fu*k) trips, essentially an "all you can eat"membership to her salon. Any time I give her cash she gets uncomfortable. She comes from a wealthy family, so she's not trying to feed a habit, pay her bills or raise her 4 kids. And she wants to meet more frequently than I do! I HAVE lost 5 lbs recently, but I don't think it's my 6 pack abs that she wants.

This is an example about attitude. My experience is that using the right attitude to my communications and M / Gs increases my odds of attracting emotionally healthy girls who are mostly in the sugar bowl for the thrill / ego of it-not to pay the bills. In talking to these girls, I am amazed at the number of guys who approach them in a crude and explicit manner. In my experience, even the outright hookers on SA (Echelle, for example) are so much more receptive when I pretend that we aren't transacting business in the world's oldest profession. A little respect and kindness pays dividends.

I'm not trying to be preachy or pretend that I've discovered some magic formula. Au contraire. I'm just (1) bragging, because I don't have anyone else I can tell and (2) sharing my experience with any of you guys who may not be getting your desired results from SA.

I am in my 50's, fat, mostly bald and have a remarkably average package. I'm not the richest guy on this website. I'm married, so I have restrictions on my meeting times. All of these hurdles are surmountable, even with the hottest of girls.

(Freebie: there is an 18 year old cutie at the Waffle House on Chapman Highway who loves attention from 50 year old fat guys who over-tip. $30 at the Waffle House is equivalent to about $150 of USAAC dollars. Works weekends only, when they have a hostess.)

(I just noticed: this is my 500th post. Cheers to me! And thanks to A2 and all the folks who help make this hobby functional, safe and fun. )

[TricitiesGuy]

She went down to 200 for just basic dream extra for better dream. I never responded. I'm sure some upsell in there. Plus she looks kinda plump.

She quoted me 200 for 2 pops. She was so business like and to the point about it, that I bet she is a unenthusiastic dream. If I'm expecting to get a lifeless dream, it is at least going to be with a TP waitress. She may be lifeless, but at least her body is killer.

[Jg3786]

Anyone have info on this one? Been texting with her. She quoted 250. I probably won't pull the trigger unless I can get her negotiated down a little bit.

https://www.seeking.com/member/de9f5...8-497b9cdc9bfd

She went down to 200 for just basic dream extra for better dream. I never responded. I'm sure some upsell in there. Plus she looks kinda plump.

[Hobbyist34]

Anyone have info on this one? Been texting with her. She quoted 250. I probably won't pull the trigger unless I can get her negotiated down a little bit.

https://www.seeking.com/member/de9f5...8-497b9cdc9bfd

[FreeThinker2]

I don't have time to message back and forth but she hit me up with Needs help!

Like I say don't have the time, didn't message her back, so have No number or anymore info.

Sent me another message, she's in Morristown area. Think she is willing!

https://www.seeking.com/member/a5124...f-58c207881179