Seeking Arrangements (SA)

[NerdJohn]

If a girl has more than 2,000 selfies on her phone, she is probably hot, but not a good fuck.

If the only selfies a girl has are closeups of her tits, she's fat, but probably gives an outstanding BBBJCIM.

Definitely right.

And to add to this, I've found that the girls who demand a high price and won't negotiate are generally bad fucks too. I've paid 200 and gotten horrible service, and I've paid 75 and felt like I just got my world rocked by a longtime crush. There's no magic formula to this hobby, but after a while you start to see the trends:

--Self-obsessed = bad lay.

--all business = bad lay.

--spotty communication = either bad lay or drug user.

--thicker girls = good BBBJ.

--under 25 = bad communication and time wasting.

--single mom = generally cheaper and great service once you can find a good time to meet.

--advertises on SA in addition to Skipthegames = drug user and / or has pimp / boyfriend / bodyguard / whatever the fuck he is.

--can't host = either drug user / has family at home / intends to cash and dash.

--requires cash app deposit = fake / cash & dash.

--sob story = trying to get money for nothing.

--says only seeking platonic relationship = open to bareback for the right price, but doesn't want overly sexual messages up front.

I could go on and on. And of course, I'm speaking in *broad generalities* here. I don't need to get blasted if none of these apply to your experiences. YMMV, and these are my observations based on experience and anecdotal evidence.

[GaltGuy]

If a girl has more than 2,000 selfies on her phone, she is probably hot, but not a good fuck.

If the only selfies a girl has are closeups of her tits, she's fat, but probably gives an outstanding BBBJCIM.

[IsNotMe123]

Pretty sure Casper has been advertising on STG.

Ya, I checked the STG add for Red Headed Irish Shay. The number is the same as the one Casper gave me on Seeking. I missed that until you pointed it out. Thanks.

[CumUpNem]

Me and this one tried to make an arrangement but after this I'm not so sure we will work out.

https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.p...h5de1f50ea9a0a

[Lemonader]

I may be meeting this one next week if she doesn't bail on me. https://www.seeking.com/member/d3240...d-92c0abd843af.

This one was a big time waster. We talked off and on for three days and had set up a meet and then she starts ranting about thinking I'm a cop I gave her a bunch of different option to help get her past that and she just says "I don't believe you". Finally I sent her a picture of the money I had taken out to start her allowance and told her to go read about being an SB because it is not illegal. She hasn't texted back. https://www.seeking.com/member/be38a...7-9127b88938f4 I think her and this one https://www.seeking.com/member/39c8d...5-5b76d407d5be might know each other.

This one took me a few days to get a response from. When she responded for the second time I had already set the meet with Kadi and she says she is willing to meet up if things don't work with Kadi. https://www.seeking.com/member/c70ed...8-5160ea1c314f.

Any info on any of them would be appreciated. But I am mainly looking for info on Kadi. I don't want to get robbed LOL.

Pretty sure Casper has been advertising on STG.

[HawkJock]

Do I just have the wrong idea of the sb / sd thing? I have been on SA for awhile talked to many girls most scams or whatever but the 2 arrangements that were legit I just mainly get ignored. I dish out a lot of green but just get either ignored or lied to. Tonight for example been texting the current girl for 2 hours not constantly but at least waiting 2 hours and finally a response back that she was on couch binge watching netflix, if I say anything I'm the bad guy. Is this how it is or haven't I found the right one yet?

I'm afraid that traditional SD / SB relationships (well off SINGLE guy openly dating a younger ladies) are not common on SA anymore. A couple years ago, they were much more prevalent. I have been back on SA for a month and have found most ladies are looking for transaction mongers. Cash for dates that hinge on intimacy.

I've had two very mutually satisfying SD / SB relationships and I am doubtful I will find another on SA right now. The two previous relationships went down as follows: A travel nurse, 23 years my junior, was on a 6 month contract in my town. Her agency paid her rent / room. We met via SA, dated for a month, and then "rented" her a room in my place and she pocketed the cash. I took care of living expenses, shows, concerts, road trips, island vacations, etc. She extended her stay another 6 months. The chemistry was amazing. She saved nearly all her salary and is now in grad school to be a nurse anesthetist. We still grab dinner and have sex, no exchange of cash, when I travel thru her town in CA. The other. I work in ATL. I met a medical school student on SA. I paid her rent for a year and I'd stay there 5-6 nights a month. I'd treat to dinners, concerts, shows, and several international vacations. She'd come to TN every other weekend to escape the city and to study. The chemistry was amazing and we hang out when I am in Boston for work, and we are meeting in Turks & Caicos the week between Christmas and New Years. No transaction.

But, now, after a month on SA after a couple years, it seems as if it is an extension of Craigslist and Backpage catering to escorts and mongers "seeking arrangements" by the 1/4, 1/2, or full hour.

I suspect it has changed because of the craigslist / backpage restrictions, and I think society has changed a bit and "guys their age" are trending more masculine / responsible (albeit slowly) than the past 4-5 years so ladies are back to dating within their age range. That, and the ladies with legit intentions on SA are jaded by the bombardment of monger arrangements. The pendulum will swing again tho!

[First Dude1968]

I may be meeting this one next week if she doesn't bail on me. https://www.seeking.com/member/d3240...d-92c0abd843af.

This one was a big time waster. We talked off and on for three days and had set up a meet and then she starts ranting about thinking I'm a cop I gave her a bunch of different option to help get her past that and she just says "I don't believe you". Finally I sent her a picture of the money I had taken out to start her allowance and told her to go read about being an SB because it is not illegal. She hasn't texted back. https://www.seeking.com/member/be38a...7-9127b88938f4 I think her and this one https://www.seeking.com/member/39c8d...5-5b76d407d5be might know each other.

This one took me a few days to get a response from. When she responded for the second time I had already set the meet with Kadi and she says she is willing to meet up if things don't work with Kadi. https://www.seeking.com/member/c70ed...8-5160ea1c314f.

Any info on any of them would be appreciated. But I am mainly looking for info on Kadi. I don't want to get robbed LOL.

I reviewed her before. Meth teeth. Horrible skin.

[IsNotMe123]

I may be meeting this one next week if she doesn't bail on me. https://www.seeking.com/member/d3240...d-92c0abd843af.

This one was a big time waster. We talked off and on for three days and had set up a meet and then she starts ranting about thinking I'm a cop I gave her a bunch of different option to help get her past that and she just says "I don't believe you". Finally I sent her a picture of the money I had taken out to start her allowance and told her to go read about being an SB because it is not illegal. She hasn't texted back. https://www.seeking.com/member/be38a...7-9127b88938f4 I think her and this one https://www.seeking.com/member/39c8d...5-5b76d407d5be might know each other.

This one took me a few days to get a response from. When she responded for the second time I had already set the meet with Kadi and she says she is willing to meet up if things don't work with Kadi. https://www.seeking.com/member/c70ed...8-5160ea1c314f.

Any info on any of them would be appreciated. But I am mainly looking for info on Kadi. I don't want to get robbed LOL.

[First Dude1968]

From what I hear it's a good thing I never saw her, blackmail is bad shit.

I was joking but you are on right track.

[Lemonader]

What's the story behind 10 to 15?

Was wondering as well.

[Member #6269]

Guessing she is serving 10 to 15.

What's the story behind 10 to 15?

[Shiner69]

Guessing she is serving 10 to 15.

From what I hear it's a good thing I never saw her, blackmail is bad shit.

[Water Rok Dok]

https://www.seeking.com/member/36be0...5-93cef36c533c

Jumped in my message box tonight blatantly talking numbers and wanting to meet.

Her tagline reads, "if you don't have cashapp don't contact please". Could be setting up guys to send her money without meeting.

[First Dude1968]

Just got back on SA and looked for Cheerslut without seeing her. I really, really wanted to see her when I was on before but had a big financial setback. Hope she will get back on, really wanted to see her.

Guessing she is serving 10 to 15.

[Macintn]

https://www.seeking.com/member/36be0...5-93cef36c533c

Jumped in my message box tonight blatantly talking numbers and wanting to meet.