Seeking Arrangements (SA)

[Jem411]

The following morning with my first SB was a workout. This lady can fuck. My stomach cramped. My legs were quivering. For whatever reason I lasted longer than any other time for me (no wiskey, no dope). Unprotected is bothering me some. They're out there guys. Keep searching. I'll post the ones that were definitely no for me (to much $ for me) as soon as I can.

[CaneBay]

She quoted me 500 last week and quickly dropped to 300. I ended up not booking. Too many rules and she limited the time. No thanks.

Chat about individual girls on SA here? Links to the site aren't visible unless you are a member and logged in. Anyway, I'm wondering if anyone has seen this girl: "Jetsetter" She looks pretty hot but wanted a steep per meet arrangement of $850! Said she got $5 k / month in her last arrangement which, I'm guessing, had to be in LA!

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/ea27a1e6/view

[BigBubbaBobby]

I didn't actually meet her, something about her profile / look / way of communicating just sets off red flags for me. But I can tell you that a couple of month ago, her per meet request was 500.

Yes, agreed. With that kind of high dollar ask, you would expect her to be able to string a few sentences together that don't use text slang and such.

[Jem411]

I have given this away before on another thread. I have 2 intro letters. The first one is a straight to the point sexy one tailored to my specific needs. Here is the more general one. Honestly I have more success with my sexy letter, but this one is good if you like to start up a convo and slowly get into their heads (and hopefully their pants).

Hi. Every girl on here is looking for 3 things to varying degrees.

1 - financial support.

2 - physical support.

3 - emotional support.

The greater the need for reason 1, the less attention is paid to reasons 2 and 3.

The greater the need for reason 2, the less attention is paid to reasons 1 and 3.

The greater the need for reason 3, the less attention is paid to reasons 1 and 2.

I try to provide a balance between all three reasons as a basis to meet someone. Enough money to say I am not trying to get something for nothing. Real Chemistry. I also have an understanding and giving nature combined with years of experience in taking care of girls and anticipating their needs.

I don't judge what anyone wants and I don't pretend to be able to meet everyones expectations. I use SD4 M as more of a regular dating site but to meet younger girls that want some help with their bills, have sexual needs and fantasies that can be spontaneously explored in a safe and nurturing environment, and with someone that could be a real friend even if its mostly for the financial and physical benefits. But a friend nonetheless.

Whats your motivation?

I'm spending $4-5 K a month on escorts. Don't get me wrong, I like the variety. This is just more fun at the moment. Much more of a chase and conquest situation. Probably more risky. The money. The challenge. The excitement. Hell it's just fun.

[HollywoodGuy]

My first message usually goes like this. My name is* I saw your pictures and profile and was intrigued. What are you looking for from a SD?

Then my response to their reply is below.

I'll be blunt, I'm looking for a female to spend time with, indoors and outdoors, who will respect my time, accept my gifts, and share herself with me. I'm not trying to be rude, just to the point. I have to assume that you are somewhat wanting the same, or you wouldn't be on this site. I'm at a point in my life that I have free time and resources that I want to share with someone. I'm not all business all the time, I'm actually easy to talk to and somewhat shy. Just emailing or texting gives me courage I don't normally have. So. Your turn.

So far it's working. Have a room for one tonight, taking another out of town Monday. Eating lunch with a 3rd in a few. It has caused a lot of texting and talking on the phone. My day flies by. Just like the days from college. Juggle, juggle, juggle.

I have given this away before on another thread. I have 2 intro letters. The first one is a straight to the point sexy one tailored to my specific needs. Here is the more general one. Honestly I have more success with my sexy letter, but this one is good if you like to start up a convo and slowly get into their heads (and hopefully their pants).

Hi. Every girl on here is looking for 3 things to varying degrees.

1 - financial support.

2 - physical support.

3 - emotional support.

The greater the need for reason 1, the less attention is paid to reasons 2 and 3.

The greater the need for reason 2, the less attention is paid to reasons 1 and 3.

The greater the need for reason 3, the less attention is paid to reasons 1 and 2.

I try to provide a balance between all three reasons as a basis to meet someone. Enough money to say I am not trying to get something for nothing. Real Chemistry. I also have an understanding and giving nature combined with years of experience in taking care of girls and anticipating their needs.

I don't judge what anyone wants and I don't pretend to be able to meet everyones expectations. I use SD4 M as more of a regular dating site but to meet younger girls that want some help with their bills, have sexual needs and fantasies that can be spontaneously explored in a safe and nurturing environment, and with someone that could be a real friend even if its mostly for the financial and physical benefits. But a friend nonetheless.

Whats your motivation?

[MilfMan865]

My first sexual event with someone from SA was a blast. No escort that I have been with, 49 on p411, quite a few local, was any better. So clean. She's 42. Excellent BBBJ. Loved receiving DATY. Then climbed aboard without a cover (kinda concerned about that) and sweated up the sheets. The pounding she gave and then took was what dreams are made of. Definitely worth the hassle of weeding through the high ballers and scammers. Meeting again in morning. If Monday works out like this, I will have committed to 1100 a month for around 16 - 18 pops a month. Pretty good deal I think. Hope I can handle it. Yee hah.

That is a nice deal for under 70 roses per pop. I know numerous ladies on SA for various reasons. A few of them make about 4-5 agreements per month, just like the one you have entered into, to meet various financial needs and that adds up much faster than flipping burgers for sure. One of them gets a bloke handling the car payment and insurance, another handling cable / phone / internet and utilities, a dude for rent, and a baller on a budget to chip in for spending money (among other needs). It's a win-win for all parties involved.

Happy Hunting,

MilfMan.

[Jem411]

My first sexual event with someone from SA was a blast. No escort that I have been with, 49 on p411, quite a few local, was any better. So clean. She's 42. Excellent BBBJ. Loved receiving DATY. Then climbed aboard without a cover (kinda concerned about that) and sweated up the sheets. The pounding she gave and then took was what dreams are made of. Definitely worth the hassle of weeding through the high ballers and scammers. Meeting again in morning. If Monday works out like this, I will have committed to 1100 a month for around 16 - 18 pops a month. Pretty good deal I think. Hope I can handle it. Yee hah.

[Orbits]

Chat about individual girls on SA here? Links to the site aren't visible unless you are a member and logged in. Anyway, I'm wondering if anyone has seen this girl: "Jetsetter" She looks pretty hot but wanted a steep per meet arrangement of $850! Said she got $5 k / month in her last arrangement which, I'm guessing, had to be in LA!

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/ea27a1e6/view

I didn't actually meet her, something about her profile / look / way of communicating just sets off red flags for me. But I can tell you that a couple of month ago, her per meet request was 500.

[Orbits]

LA percentages interesting.

I am trying to avoid 1, 2, and 3, and may increase by #3 percentage by a lot.

I budget about 2 k per month all in.

I budget around 1. 5 k a month and focus on #4 ("divorced") - they tend to be the most sane / drama free (in my experience at least, for what it's worth). Many 4's are in their 20's, and often very attractive. The p2 p ones can also be a lot of fun and mostly problem-free. At the slightest sign of them being in the "dysfunction" category, I run like hell. Not worth it. Google Voice is a big help here. Very easy to block numbers.

I'd like to add one more category:

8) bored college girl seeking summer income. No idea as far as percentage goes, but it's mostly seasonal. Look for them starting around mid-April and through late-July or so. They mostly just want to make some spending cash over the summer, and don't feel like getting some crappy minimum-wage retail job. But if in addition to income you can also offer access to any kind of summer entertainment (pool, lake / boat, beach, etc.) that will help a lot.

[SeeksEasy]

LA percentages interesting.

I am trying to avoid 1, 2, and 3, and may increase by #3 percentage by a lot.

I budget about 2 k per month all in.

Here is my estimate for los angeles.

1. P2 P girls who do not think of themselves as providers 20%.

2. P2 P providers just looking for another venue 30%.

3. Girls / women with various states of dysfunction in their lives, bordering on homelessness and losing their kids to just not being able to manage the basics of day to day life. 20%.

4. Divorced / seperated women with reduced circumstances who are still functional, but want to meet a different type of man. 10%.

5. Married women. 1%.

6. Girls / women who have their act together, and use the site to meet successful men. 10%.

7. 10+ models / actresses who use their stunning combination of looks, brains, and drive to attract the uber-rich. 9%.

The rates vary from $ (better have some game) $$ (no game required, girl quality up to a 9) $$$ to $$$$ (for real Hollywood 10's and GPS girls).

I mostly date 1's and 3's. I hit up the 2's occasionally in between. The 4's are too old for me. The 6's and 7's I cant afford. Never date a 5, no reason to.

[Jem411]

So you must be the lucky stiff to whom all the ladies are replying. My first contact protocol is clearly deficient.

Do tell your secrets, oh master of the art!

My first message usually goes like this. My name is* I saw your pictures and profile and was intrigued. What are you looking for from a SD?

Then my response to their reply is below.

I'll be blunt, I'm looking for a female to spend time with, indoors and outdoors, who will respect my time, accept my gifts, and share herself with me. I'm not trying to be rude, just to the point. I have to assume that you are somewhat wanting the same, or you wouldn't be on this site. I'm at a point in my life that I have free time and resources that I want to share with someone. I'm not all business all the time, I'm actually easy to talk to and somewhat shy. Just emailing or texting gives me courage I don't normally have. So. Your turn.

So far it's working. Have a room for one tonight, taking another out of town Monday. Eating lunch with a 3rd in a few. It has caused a lot of texting and talking on the phone. My day flies by. Just like the days from college. Juggle, juggle, juggle.

[ThermoNuclear]

2nd one last night went well. We're getting a room for this evening. She wants a fuck buddy. Agreed to $4 monthly. Also hundred. I have a lunch date with a 3rd one today. She's seeking 800 a month. Got build the herd so the culling can begin.

So you must be the lucky stiff to whom all the ladies are replying. My first contact protocol is clearly deficient.

Do tell your secrets, oh master of the art!

[Jem411]

Do you mean $500 or $5,000 monthly?

2nd one last night went well. We're getting a room for this evening. She wants a fuck buddy. Agreed to $4 monthly. Also hundred. I have a lunch date with a 3rd one today. She's seeking 800 a month. Got build the herd so the culling can begin.

[HollywoodGuy]

This is an area in which I have some expertise and long-term experience.

As some of you know, I prefer massage, and AMPs are the going thing here. However, I use AMPs and other massage providers as a relief valve between relationships. For the last 20 years, some of those relationships have been conventional, and some have been from SA.

SA is an odd world, made possible only by the Internet. Here are the categories I have found to be true, and my guestimates of the percentages of SA women making them up.

1. P2P girls who do not think of themselves as providers 15%.

2. P2P providers just looking for another venue 10%.

3. Girls / women with various states of dysfunction in their lives, bordering on homelessness and losing their kids to just not being able to manage the basics of day to day life. 45%.

4. Divorced / seperated women with reduced circumstances who are still functional, but want to meet a different type of man. 10%.

5. Married women. 5%.

6. Girls / women who have their act together, and use the site to meet successful men. 10%.

7. 10+ models / actresses who use their stunning combination of looks, brains, and drive to attract the uber-rich. Unknown.

There are exceptions. And there are certainly members who are in several categories at once.

I have recently re-entered the SA world, and it does take more effort, as I am after some type of connection, not just sex. It takes effort to get to the category you want (mine are in 4 and 6; I do not have funds for 7, and they are not looking to come to Knoxpatch anyway.).

I agree with the comment that you should ignore the stated goals (not many girls in Knoxville can command 10 K per month.) In this, as in all relationships, looking good, being respectful, and being honest go a long way.

I am in the midst of working something out with one woman after several months search. I have opinions on many of the recent active members if anyone wants to PM me.

Seeks.

Here is my estimate for los angeles.

1. P2 P girls who do not think of themselves as providers 20%.

2. P2 P providers just looking for another venue 30%.

3. Girls / women with various states of dysfunction in their lives, bordering on homelessness and losing their kids to just not being able to manage the basics of day to day life. 20%.

4. Divorced / seperated women with reduced circumstances who are still functional, but want to meet a different type of man. 10%.

5. Married women. 1%.

6. Girls / women who have their act together, and use the site to meet successful men. 10%.

7. 10+ models / actresses who use their stunning combination of looks, brains, and drive to attract the uber-rich. 9%.

The rates vary from $ (better have some game) $$ (no game required, girl quality up to a 9) $$$ to $$$$ (for real Hollywood 10's and GPS girls).

I mostly date 1's and 3's. I hit up the 2's occasionally in between. The 4's are too old for me. The 6's and 7's I cant afford. Never date a 5, no reason to.

[RJHunter]

I was averaging. We have agreed to $5 monthly. With 10 - 15 hours of meetings. I'm sure it could progress to spending a night, but not right off. What would I tell my wife. I'm actually waiting to meet number two right now. Typical, I show up 10 minutes early and she's already 10 minutes late. More to be revealed. And yes it is time consuming.

Do you mean $500 or $5,000 monthly?