Seeking Arrangements (SA)

[Water Rok Dok]

Gentlemen, this "lady" is a serial scammer. Before her current account (sweetdee_xoxo), she used sweetdee_xo and deanna_17. Yes, there were reviews on this board concerning her and the approach she uses to obtain your cash without ever meeting. She will change her username again once the heat picks up or seeking.com deletes her account based on complaints.

Her latest account is Deannam917. Do not send her your money!

WRD.

[JourneyMan]

https://www.seeking.com/member/6feab...5-86ac96c71308 any info on this one? I have a profile on SA but haven't renewed it in a while thinking about doing it, for this one if she's legit.

[NerdJohn]

Anyone met up with this one?

https://www.seeking.com/member/a36a6...8-0f9bb245f80e

Tried twice with this one. Flaked on me both times and completely ghosted. I generally give a girl one more shot after she ghosts me if she hits me back up and apologizes. If it happens a second time, I completely cut off all contact. I would also like to put out that she is a little bit bigger than her pics shown as the pics on her profile are out of date. My advice is to seek another girl given the many other better options out there who are less likely to flake.

[Otr1975]

Anyone met up with this one?

https://www.seeking.com/member/a36a6...8-0f9bb245f80e

[Scintillator]

She says in her Bio that she is not looking for a physical relationship why are you even pursuing talking to her? She is 20 of course she is going to be a flake. For me and I have had 3 long term arrangements and am currently in one now, the right age is between 25 and 35. My long term arrangements have all been late 20's. Someone else may have better advice if there is a great age for 1 and done type girls, but when I started it seemed the younger ones were the worst for A. Not showing up when we had plans. B. Showing up and not being showered or dressed to impressed C. Just general pain in the asses and thinking the world revolved around them. Einstein once said that insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different result.

Good Luck.

Here's a possible reason for conversing with platonics:

I love the girls that do.

I love the girls that don't.

I hate the girls that say they will but then they say they won't.

But the girls I love the best, and I think that I am right.

Are the girls who say they won't but they look as though they might.

[FireBall99]

She says in her Bio that she is not looking for a physical relationship why are you even pursuing talking to her? She is 20 of course she is going to be a flake. For me and I have had 3 long term arrangements and am currently in one now, the right age is between 25 and 35. My long term arrangements have all been late 20's. Someone else may have better advice if there is a great age for 1 and done type girls, but when I started it seemed the younger ones were the worst for A. Not showing up when we had plans. B. Showing up and not being showered or dressed to impressed C. Just general pain in the asses and thinking the world revolved around them. Einstein once said that insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different result.

Good Luck.

A good solid 50% of the "platonic" crowd are actually willing to play. If I think they're cute, I will still shoot them a message and worse case they say not interested. No biggie. I can handle online rejection. The other 50% I'm trying to negotiate back to the FC.

With that said, you are absolutely spot on with that age range. A ton of effort for a ton of aggravation. I tell myself I'm never going to bother with a 20 yr old again just about every week.

[LayenLow]

Anyone have experience with this one. Was talking to her and she disappeared.

https://www.seeking.com/member/b94fc...9-4b299a6a375f

DM me Please.

She says in her Bio that she is not looking for a physical relationship why are you even pursuing talking to her? She is 20 of course she is going to be a flake. For me and I have had 3 long term arrangements and am currently in one now, the right age is between 25 and 35. My long term arrangements have all been late 20's. Someone else may have better advice if there is a great age for 1 and done type girls, but when I started it seemed the younger ones were the worst for A. Not showing up when we had plans. B. Showing up and not being showered or dressed to impressed C. Just general pain in the asses and thinking the world revolved around them. Einstein once said that insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different result.

Good Luck.

[Barons]

Anyone have experience with this one. Was talking to her and she disappeared.

https://www.seeking.com/member/b94fc...9-4b299a6a375f

DM me Please.

[Hal1957]

Girls can choose to hide the fact that they've viewed your page. You can do the same when you're a paid member.

I have been studying the site for a while. One of the first things that made me suspicious was how a girl 'favorited' me. But when I pull up their profile it plainly says that person has never viewed my profile.

As an example, RileyBabyyy: https://www.seeking.com/member/58e20...c-c4e0c7245dd1.

I've looked at her page many times since she favorited me, but her page says she have never viewed me. I wonder, has she ever viewed anyone's page?.

Also, I get that there's bots at work here. But when I'm on the site, it seems that my interest notifications always seem to be young, hot girls from Asia or South America. Yeah, I wish.

Just my 2-cents worth.

[Water Rok Dok]

I have been studying the site for a while. One of the first things that made me suspicious was how a girl 'favorited' me. But when I pull up their profile it plainly says that person has never viewed my profile.

As an example, RileyBabyyy: https://www.seeking.com/member/58e20...c-c4e0c7245dd1.

I've looked at her page many times since she favorited me, but her page says she have never viewed me. I wonder, has she ever viewed anyone's page?.

Also, I get that there's bots at work here. But when I'm on the site, it seems that my interest notifications always seem to be young, hot girls from Asia or South America. Yeah, I wish.

Just my 2-cents worth.

On seeking.com it is quite easy to favorite a profile without viewing it. When scrolling through the list of profiles on your smartphone, you will notice an empty heart on the right of each profile. If you touch the heart, it will turn red. And you have just favorited the profile without opening it.

So, desperate females and / or scammers can scroll through the profile list touching each heart and quickly favorite hundreds of guys' profiles without viewing any. You can check (as you did) the viewing status on the activity tab.

Hope this provides some insight to how the site works and aid us in protecting ourselves.

WRD.

[Water Rok Dok]

I've been getting unsolicited messages from"SBs" saying they'd like to meet but can't because of the lockdown. But I can show my deep appreciation of them favoriting me by sending money for pics in the interim as a place holder 4 their undying love. Somebody very busy in their moms basement in Nigeria.

Just reply that your money is practicing social distancing and you can't get close enough to it in order to send them any.

WRD.

[EchoEcho]

I've been getting unsolicited messages from"SBs" saying they'd like to meet but can't because of the lockdown. But I can show my deep appreciation of them favoriting me by sending money for pics in the interim as a place holder 4 their undying love. Somebody very busy in their moms basement in Nigeria.

I have been studying the site for a while. One of the first things that made me suspicious was how a girl 'favorited' me. But when I pull up their profile it plainly says that person has never viewed my profile.

As an example, RileyBabyyy: https://www.seeking.com/member/58e20...c-c4e0c7245dd1.

I've looked at her page many times since she favorited me, but her page says she have never viewed me. I wonder, has she ever viewed anyone's page?.

Also, I get that there's bots at work here. But when I'm on the site, it seems that my interest notifications always seem to be young, hot girls from Asia or South America. Yeah, I wish.

Just my 2-cents worth.

[BobVac21]

This is also how "Findom" and "500 per meet with no sex" started. Some co-ed was bragging (truthfully or not) about how she made money with pictures of her feet, or financially dominating some poor sap or $500 per meet with no sex and all these gals send out the bait. It will last until they get tired of either not being contacted or until enough guys tell them it's not reality (I mean I am sure some guys enjoy all 3 of those things but there isn't a market for it like they think). Just like guys on our side discover that the $100 per sex romp and no hassle girls that perform it are really not a thing either.

I've been getting unsolicited messages from"SBs" saying they'd like to meet but can't because of the lockdown. But I can show my deep appreciation of them favoriting me by sending money for pics in the interim as a place holder 4 their undying love. Somebody very busy in their moms basement in Nigeria.

[LayenLow]

Has anyone else noticed there's quite a few recent SB profiles that talk about feet? Looking for someone who likes feet, have a foot fetish, etc. Usually young college aged girls. If that's your thing, fine, just seemed like quite the uptick. Maybe they're bots or maybe I'm dreaming it.

This is also how "Findom" and "500 per meet with no sex" started. Some co-ed was bragging (truthfully or not) about how she made money with pictures of her feet, or financially dominating some poor sap or $500 per meet with no sex and all these gals send out the bait. It will last until they get tired of either not being contacted or until enough guys tell them it's not reality (I mean I am sure some guys enjoy all 3 of those things but there isn't a market for it like they think). Just like guys on our side discover that the $100 per sex romp and no hassle girls that perform it are really not a thing either.

[HardKnox]

Lots of girls will need $ but how close do you want to get during this time?

Just be sure you practice safe sex.