Seeking Arrangements (SA)

**Gibson1970** · 12-09-14 13:20

Originally Posted by Jem411 [View Original Post]

Having my first real negative issue with someone from SA, goes by NSA_2014 (oak ridge). Had an arrangement for about 8 weeks. I'm trying to move on, she is demanding more funds, one last time, because she has not nor will she ever tell anyone about me. Then today, after zero response from me, "I'm not trying to be ugly, but I know someone who works with your wife". Be careful guys, as I continue to play the silent game and wait it out.

Sent you PM.

**Jem411** · 12-09-14 12:54

Having my first real negative issue with someone from SA, goes by NSA_2014 (oak ridge). Had an arrangement for about 8 weeks. I'm trying to move on, she is demanding more funds, one last time, because she has not nor will she ever tell anyone about me. Then today, after zero response from me, "I'm not trying to be ugly, but I know someone who works with your wife". Be careful guys, as I continue to play the silent game and wait it out.

**GaltGuy** · 12-09-14 09:56

Why didn't I do this earlier? Unfuckingbelievable. I can't find enough hours.

**CaneBay** · 12-08-14 11:16

Anyone have any contact with Sarahtn? PM and thanks!

**Tnmm51** · 12-04-14 12:25

Originally Posted by Jem411 [View Original Post]

Wow. You can sure tell that Christmas is around the corner. I'm getting 4-5 offers a day. It's like shooting fish in a barrel. This is beyond fun and easy. They're eager to meet and willing to do about anything. I've not been told no yet for anything I've wanted. Including greek and doubles. Having a blast.

The only thing I can tell is some of them are raising their rates. I just laugh and say no thanks and keep searching. Happy hunting.

**Jem411** · 12-03-14 18:01

Wow. You can sure tell that Christmas is around the corner. I'm getting 4-5 offers a day. It's like shooting fish in a barrel. This is beyond fun and easy. They're eager to meet and willing to do about anything. I've not been told no yet for anything I've wanted. Including greek and doubles. Having a blast.

**Orbits** · 10-30-14 21:45

Originally Posted by ThermoNuclear [View Original Post]

So I got a message on SA from tantalizing nerdy gal from Nebraska asking to hook-up immediately ("shower and meet you now" wanted to only chat via email, kept asking for pics of me, and the pics she provided were TGTBT and lifted from a porn pic site. Either I missed the opportunity of a lifetime or dodged a bullet, but I am thinking the later.

I've heard of others on this site with similar experience of having girls ask for pics, with faces in them.

Sooo. Can anyone explain the angle? Is this an extortion racket? How does this play out?

The Nebraska thing and the lifted porn star pics make this odd and likely some sort of a scam. But as far as SB's asking for face pics in general, that's pretty normal. They all ask that eventually. Well, maybe not all, but all the ones I've met so far asked that at some point. They just want to know who they're meeting. I haven't had any problems because of it. Even for someone who's married I don't see that as a big risk. If all she has is an email sent from some random address with a totally wholesome and G-rated pic of you, that's not exactly a great basis for extortion. Avoiding Anthony Weiner territory is always a good idea when it comes to pic sharing though.

As far as the (likely) scam, my guess is getting face pics for extortion wasn't the end goal. Most likely there would have been some sort of follow-up regarding how she really wants to meet you and would totally travel to you if she had the funds. Followed by a request for a paypal transfer or a credit card number. Or maybe an invitation to check her out on some for-pay cam site. Just guesses, but I think these are far more likely than an extortion scam.

**ThermoNuclear** · 10-29-14 10:39

So I got a message on SA from tantalizing nerdy gal from Nebraska asking to hook-up immediately ("shower and meet you now" wanted to only chat via email, kept asking for pics of me, and the pics she provided were TGTBT and lifted from a porn pic site. Either I missed the opportunity of a lifetime or dodged a bullet, but I am thinking the later.

I've heard of others on this site with similar experience of having girls ask for pics, with faces in them.

Sooo. Can anyone explain the angle? Is this an extortion racket? How does this play out?

**Gibson1970** · 10-23-14 09:40

Originally Posted by Scapp [View Original Post]

She is very eager to talk via email but not on the phone. She gave me a financial number and wanted me to us PayPal to pay her and then we could play. After telling her I pay cash, she said she did not operate that way and we were done. I did not get a good feeling. YMMV. Stay safe --SC.

Looks like I dodged a bullet. I would never do PayPal or prepay before meeting.

**Scapp** · 10-23-14 08:15

Originally Posted by Gibson1970 [View Original Post]

I emailed "Mel" on SA.

We never did get to the money part, but she did seem eager to talk.

She is very eager to talk via email but not on the phone. She gave me a financial number and wanted me to us PayPal to pay her and then we could play. After telling her I pay cash, she said she did not operate that way and we were done. I did not get a good feeling. YMMV. Stay safe --SC.

**Orbits** · 10-17-14 14:01

LOL, I guess somebody was quick with a big offer -- profile is down already. They often come back after a while though, look out for username "ICraveAdventure", she is a good one.

Originally Posted by Orbits [View Original Post]

I'm semi-retired from SA due to having found someone great there (and not having enough of an entertainment budget for multiple someones LOL). But I just noticed that an acquaintance from "real life" is using the site again. I never met her in the context of an arrangement, but I've known this was her source of extra income for some time. She's pretty open about it. Anyway, she is gorgeous, smart, cool, fun, has her own place (so probably could host if necessary). To the best of my knowledge, she's totally drug free and generally very stable and sane. I have no idea what her rates are, etc. , but I can tell you she is 100% real and all the info posted on her profile is accurate. Her pics do not do justice to how beautiful she actually is:

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/e1da24f8/view

**Gibson1970** · 10-15-14 16:19

I emailed "Mel" on SA.

We never did get to the money part, but she did seem eager to talk.

Originally Posted by Jem411 [View Original Post]

Avoid these, sob stories, need cash to meet, request deposit via paypal, scammers.

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/e944d5e8/view

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/e71d4eb4/view

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/ece1d7a8/view

**Orbits** · 10-15-14 14:04

I'm semi-retired from SA due to having found someone great there (and not having enough of an entertainment budget for multiple someones LOL). But I just noticed that an acquaintance from "real life" is using the site again. I never met her in the context of an arrangement, but I've known this was her source of extra income for some time. She's pretty open about it. Anyway, she is gorgeous, smart, cool, fun, has her own place (so probably could host if necessary). To the best of my knowledge, she's totally drug free and generally very stable and sane. I have no idea what her rates are, etc. , but I can tell you she is 100% real and all the info posted on her profile is accurate. Her pics do not do justice to how beautiful she actually is:

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/e1da24f8/view

**Orbits** · 10-15-14 13:26

Originally Posted by ThermoNuclear [View Original Post]

Has anyone taken Mistress Vee up on her offer of 'Financial Domination'? If so, can you explain why?

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/eacb1b9a/view

"This surrendering of power and control is the allure of the financial domination practice for you, the source of the high for me. . Classical Dom / sub dynamic expressed with refined methods. ".

Ha, yeah, I noticed that profile back in September because of the attractive picture. Got a good laugh out of reading it. Looks like she now added "Currently not seeking new connections, thank you", so the financial domination business must be going well.