Seeking Arrangements (SA)

[Jem411]

Has anyone taken Mistress Vee up on her offer of 'Financial Domination'? If so, can you explain why?

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/eacb1b9a/view

"This surrendering of power and control is the allure of the financial domination practice for you, the source of the high for me. . Classical Dom / sub dynamic expressed with refined methods. ".

Apparently 'Financial Domination' a fetish:

http://www.urbandictionary.com/defin...l%20Domination

"She said that some of her clients were aroused as much by giving money to a Dominant woman, as they were by any fetishes they may have been coming to see her for. And, that she was indeed aroused from their financial worship. ".

I am definitely in the wrong line of work. If anyone on this site would get a thrill from paying me money to NOT meet them, NOT talk with them, and NOT have anything to do with them, please PM me for bank routing info. I is a provider now gents! Har har. (Apologies to A2 if this statement requires this post to be moved to the 'Escort Classified Ads' thread).

Seems to me that marriage is a more enduring form of this relationship, albeit with the woman getting the thrill.

I invoke Rule 34 on Mistress Vee and applaud her ingenuity. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rule_34_(Internet_meme).

They have half the money and all the pussy. What do they have to complain about?? And no, I don't need your routing number. Great post though. I have found most success with ones who's profile says "negotiable" under amount expected.

[ThermoNuclear]

Has anyone taken Mistress Vee up on her offer of 'Financial Domination'? If so, can you explain why?

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/eacb1b9a/view

"This surrendering of power and control is the allure of the financial domination practice for you, the source of the high for me. . Classical Dom / sub dynamic expressed with refined methods. ".

Apparently 'Financial Domination' a fetish:

http://www.urbandictionary.com/defin...l%20Domination

"She said that some of her clients were aroused as much by giving money to a Dominant woman, as they were by any fetishes they may have been coming to see her for. And, that she was indeed aroused from their financial worship. ".

I am definitely in the wrong line of work. If anyone on this site would get a thrill from paying me money to NOT meet them, NOT talk with them, and NOT have anything to do with them, please PM me for bank routing info. I is a provider now gents! Har har. (Apologies to A2 if this statement requires this post to be moved to the 'Escort Classified Ads' thread).

Seems to me that marriage is a more enduring form of this relationship, albeit with the woman getting the thrill.

I invoke Rule 34 on Mistress Vee and applaud her ingenuity. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rule_34_(Internet_meme).

[Gibson1970]

Have you met her? Doesn't hurt to have a meet and greet. All it will cost you is Lunch.

So I'm just browsing the SA posts when I come across this one.

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/e3eb0c79/view

I know this girls in somewhat of a professional setting and while she's somewhat of a flirt I never got the impression I could take it any further. Her photos don't do her justice, but she's smoking hot. It looks like it's been a while since she logged in and even her post doesn't really seem as though she would be straight to the action kind of girl.

I know this is a shot in the dark question but any of the more seasoned SA pros ever taken a shot with this one?

[ShineDog]

So I'm just browsing the SA posts when I come across this one.

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/e3eb0c79/view

I know this girls in somewhat of a professional setting and while she's somewhat of a flirt I never got the impression I could take it any further. Her photos don't do her justice, but she's smoking hot. It looks like it's been a while since she logged in and even her post doesn't really seem as though she would be straight to the action kind of girl.

I know this is a shot in the dark question but any of the more seasoned SA pros ever taken a shot with this one?

[Gibson1970]

She lives in Crossville- offer to meet her half way. Or / and tell her you want an ongoing thing. My deal was 300 first visit and 250 every visit there after. She limited me to 2 pops and no anal. GL. Did not partake. She seems a bit shady.

Don't know what it is but I'm seeing a girl from SA that lives in Crossville (who knew it was a hotbed LOL). Sweet girl down on her luck. So far I've seen her 3 times and paid $60, $80 and $100.

[HollywoodGuy]

I've got her down from $550. Only rule so far and is no anal. Holding out for $300. We'll see.

DUDE. Any girl will take $$. If not, she is a pro. Keep looking. I only pay $ and have a line out the door.

[CaneBay]

She lives in Crossville- offer to meet her half way. Or / and tell her you want an ongoing thing. My deal was 300 first visit and 250 every visit there after. She limited me to 2 pops and no anal. GL. Did not partake. She seems a bit shady.

I've got her down from $550. Only rule so far and is no anal. Holding out for $300. We'll see.

[Jem411]

She quoted me 500 last week and quickly dropped to 300. I ended up not booking. Too many rules and she limited the time. No thanks.

I've got her down from $550. Only rule so far and is no anal. Holding out for $300. We'll see.

[BobVac21]

I just ended a relationship with a girl there. Started out really well and then the bat shit crazy kicked in. My stipend was less than a grand but OMG the sex was incredible.

Don't know that I will try again. Just Sayin.

So, was it she wanted a car, wedding ring (LOL), or was it 24/7 attention?

[TomTom1219]

I just ended a relationship with a girl there. Started out really well and then the bat shit crazy kicked in. My stipend was less than a grand but OMG the sex was incredible.

Don't know that I will try again. Just Sayin.

[Jem411]

The following morning with my first SB was a workout. This lady can fuck. My stomach cramped. My legs were quivering. For whatever reason I lasted longer than any other time for me (no wiskey, no dope). Unprotected is bothering me some. They're out there guys. Keep searching. I'll post the ones that were definitely no for me (to much $ for me) as soon as I can.

[CaneBay]

She quoted me 500 last week and quickly dropped to 300. I ended up not booking. Too many rules and she limited the time. No thanks.

Chat about individual girls on SA here? Links to the site aren't visible unless you are a member and logged in. Anyway, I'm wondering if anyone has seen this girl: "Jetsetter" She looks pretty hot but wanted a steep per meet arrangement of $850! Said she got $5 k / month in her last arrangement which, I'm guessing, had to be in LA!

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/ea27a1e6/view

[BigBubbaBobby]

I didn't actually meet her, something about her profile / look / way of communicating just sets off red flags for me. But I can tell you that a couple of month ago, her per meet request was 500.

Yes, agreed. With that kind of high dollar ask, you would expect her to be able to string a few sentences together that don't use text slang and such.

[Jem411]

I have given this away before on another thread. I have 2 intro letters. The first one is a straight to the point sexy one tailored to my specific needs. Here is the more general one. Honestly I have more success with my sexy letter, but this one is good if you like to start up a convo and slowly get into their heads (and hopefully their pants).

Hi. Every girl on here is looking for 3 things to varying degrees.

1 - financial support.

2 - physical support.

3 - emotional support.

The greater the need for reason 1, the less attention is paid to reasons 2 and 3.

The greater the need for reason 2, the less attention is paid to reasons 1 and 3.

The greater the need for reason 3, the less attention is paid to reasons 1 and 2.

I try to provide a balance between all three reasons as a basis to meet someone. Enough money to say I am not trying to get something for nothing. Real Chemistry. I also have an understanding and giving nature combined with years of experience in taking care of girls and anticipating their needs.

I don't judge what anyone wants and I don't pretend to be able to meet everyones expectations. I use SD4 M as more of a regular dating site but to meet younger girls that want some help with their bills, have sexual needs and fantasies that can be spontaneously explored in a safe and nurturing environment, and with someone that could be a real friend even if its mostly for the financial and physical benefits. But a friend nonetheless.

Whats your motivation?

I'm spending $4-5 K a month on escorts. Don't get me wrong, I like the variety. This is just more fun at the moment. Much more of a chase and conquest situation. Probably more risky. The money. The challenge. The excitement. Hell it's just fun.

[HollywoodGuy]

My first message usually goes like this. My name is* I saw your pictures and profile and was intrigued. What are you looking for from a SD?

Then my response to their reply is below.

I'll be blunt, I'm looking for a female to spend time with, indoors and outdoors, who will respect my time, accept my gifts, and share herself with me. I'm not trying to be rude, just to the point. I have to assume that you are somewhat wanting the same, or you wouldn't be on this site. I'm at a point in my life that I have free time and resources that I want to share with someone. I'm not all business all the time, I'm actually easy to talk to and somewhat shy. Just emailing or texting gives me courage I don't normally have. So. Your turn.

So far it's working. Have a room for one tonight, taking another out of town Monday. Eating lunch with a 3rd in a few. It has caused a lot of texting and talking on the phone. My day flies by. Just like the days from college. Juggle, juggle, juggle.

I have given this away before on another thread. I have 2 intro letters. The first one is a straight to the point sexy one tailored to my specific needs. Here is the more general one. Honestly I have more success with my sexy letter, but this one is good if you like to start up a convo and slowly get into their heads (and hopefully their pants).

Hi. Every girl on here is looking for 3 things to varying degrees.

1 - financial support.

2 - physical support.

3 - emotional support.

The greater the need for reason 1, the less attention is paid to reasons 2 and 3.

The greater the need for reason 2, the less attention is paid to reasons 1 and 3.

The greater the need for reason 3, the less attention is paid to reasons 1 and 2.

I try to provide a balance between all three reasons as a basis to meet someone. Enough money to say I am not trying to get something for nothing. Real Chemistry. I also have an understanding and giving nature combined with years of experience in taking care of girls and anticipating their needs.

I don't judge what anyone wants and I don't pretend to be able to meet everyones expectations. I use SD4 M as more of a regular dating site but to meet younger girls that want some help with their bills, have sexual needs and fantasies that can be spontaneously explored in a safe and nurturing environment, and with someone that could be a real friend even if its mostly for the financial and physical benefits. But a friend nonetheless.

Whats your motivation?