Seeking Arrangements (SA)

[Scuba444]

With local law enforcement departments needing to justify the budgets that led to the shutting down of notable sites (BP, CL, etc.) and led others scurrying overseas, SA is getting increased attention. The budgets have to be justified and the public is thirsty for reports that those tax dollars are hard at work. The proliferation of former BP and CL providers flocking to SA hasn't gone unnoticed .,., many of those providers lugging their substance habits and associated activities along with them to the platform. Just look at The List from time to time and you'll see numerous ladies with SA profiles featured for various offenses. There goes the neighborhood!

A gentle reminder: You can talk about sex all day, you can talk about money all day, but you can't talk about sex acts for money at all.

Notice the Terms of Use of SA that you have agreed to by simply using it. On May 8, 2018, the terms were updated in response to FOSTA and SESTA legislation:

"Please review this Agreement carefully, including the Acceptable Website Use provision, which PROHIBITS ANY UNLAWFUL USE OF THE SITE, INCLUDING ESCORTING, PROSTITUTION AND HUMAN TRAFFICKING, and Arbitration provision, which describes how Disputes (defined below) will be resolved between us, and that no class actions may be brought under this Agreement. In order to proceed with this Agreement and to access the Services of the Website, You must acknowledge and agree to be bound by the terms of this Agreement, including the acceptable use limitations and Arbitration provision described herein. ".

Result: SA will likely turn over any information to LEO without batting an eye as a means of covering its arse. Don't be surprised if all accounts aren't turned over already as a good faith gesture. Your account can be suspended at any time, perhaps permanently without a legitimate reason, at the discretion of SA. You won't have a chance to delete any of any messages and everything that you've ever messaged is perfectly preserved. No need to pay for multiple months when the membership is at the risk of being forfeited without a refund possibility. SA actively scans the messages for keywords using the same process they use to scan profiles for anything that suggests pay for play. Until your membership lapses, it may be better to take your conversation offline immediately and not use the messaging feature of SA.

Ladies: you may encounter scenarios where undercovers claim to be in town on business and want to meet you at a public place for a chat to see if you click. During the conversation, the issue of sex acts for money comes up and if you take the bait, you're nabbed for soliciting. The undercovers could set up in a non-descript coffee shop, rented office space, or some other easily accessed location all day and pick you off one by one.

Guys: you could be hit up by ladies who are passing through the area and are in need of some fast cash. This discussion is happening within SA messaging. They let you know what they need to make for a romp in the sheets and you could even arrange to meet them in a public place to check them out. Guess who's waiting for you when you arrive at the location. ,. , messages, profile info, etc. In hand? Regardless of the euphemism for money. ,. , roses, handshakes, high-fives, kisses, etc. . ,. , even if she offers you 200 "kicks to the nuts" for a BJ and you counter with 150 "kicks to the nuts" and she agrees. ,. , your soliciting was successful. Sure, there could be holes in the process, but imagine the tens of thousands in legal fees required and damage to your reputation incurred to prove that you really didn't want the whatever number of "kicks to the nuts" for a mere BJ. Get your process for communicating, negotiating, paying, etc. buttoned up to avoid problems.

The gist: SA should not be viewed as immune to the traditional trappings used by LEO. Use your situational awareness and be diligent the same way that you would on any other mode of finding a pleasure companion.

Press pay for play everyday. ,. ,.

Milfman.

Thank you Milfman for your insightful and educational comments as always.

[MilfMan865]

With local law enforcement departments needing to justify the budgets that led to the shutting down of notable sites (BP, CL, etc.) and led others scurrying overseas, SA is getting increased attention. The budgets have to be justified and the public is thirsty for reports that those tax dollars are hard at work. The proliferation of former BP and CL providers flocking to SA hasn't gone unnoticed .,., many of those providers lugging their substance habits and associated activities along with them to the platform. Just look at The List from time to time and you'll see numerous ladies with SA profiles featured for various offenses. There goes the neighborhood!

A gentle reminder: You can talk about sex all day, you can talk about money all day, but you can't talk about sex acts for money at all.

Notice the Terms of Use of SA that you have agreed to by simply using it. On May 8, 2018, the terms were updated in response to FOSTA and SESTA legislation:

"Please review this Agreement carefully, including the Acceptable Website Use provision, which PROHIBITS ANY UNLAWFUL USE OF THE SITE, INCLUDING ESCORTING, PROSTITUTION AND HUMAN TRAFFICKING, and Arbitration provision, which describes how Disputes (defined below) will be resolved between us, and that no class actions may be brought under this Agreement. In order to proceed with this Agreement and to access the Services of the Website, You must acknowledge and agree to be bound by the terms of this Agreement, including the acceptable use limitations and Arbitration provision described herein. ".

Result: SA will likely turn over any information to LEO without batting an eye as a means of covering its arse. Don't be surprised if all accounts aren't turned over already as a good faith gesture. Your account can be suspended at any time, perhaps permanently without a legitimate reason, at the discretion of SA. You won't have a chance to delete any of any messages and everything that you've ever messaged is perfectly preserved. No need to pay for multiple months when the membership is at the risk of being forfeited without a refund possibility. SA actively scans the messages for keywords using the same process they use to scan profiles for anything that suggests pay for play. Until your membership lapses, it may be better to take your conversation offline immediately and not use the messaging feature of SA.

Ladies: you may encounter scenarios where undercovers claim to be in town on business and want to meet you at a public place for a chat to see if you click. During the conversation, the issue of sex acts for money comes up and if you take the bait, you're nabbed for soliciting. The undercovers could set up in a non-descript coffee shop, rented office space, or some other easily accessed location all day and pick you off one by one.

Guys: you could be hit up by ladies who are passing through the area and are in need of some fast cash. This discussion is happening within SA messaging. They let you know what they need to make for a romp in the sheets and you could even arrange to meet them in a public place to check them out. Guess who's waiting for you when you arrive at the location. ,. , messages, profile info, etc. In hand? Regardless of the euphemism for money. ,. , roses, handshakes, high-fives, kisses, etc. . ,. , even if she offers you 200 "kicks to the nuts" for a BJ and you counter with 150 "kicks to the nuts" and she agrees. ,. , your soliciting was successful. Sure, there could be holes in the process, but imagine the tens of thousands in legal fees required and damage to your reputation incurred to prove that you really didn't want the whatever number of "kicks to the nuts" for a mere BJ. Get your process for communicating, negotiating, paying, etc. buttoned up to avoid problems.

The gist: SA should not be viewed as immune to the traditional trappings used by LEO. Use your situational awareness and be diligent the same way that you would on any other mode of finding a pleasure companion.

Press pay for play everyday. ,. ,.

Milfman.

[AnExplorer40]

https://seekingarrangement.com/membe...c-3d3726235abd

She's hot. I think she's going to ask insane allowance. Just my thought LOL. Anybody has any luck with SBs 18-19?

Well, they are flaky, mostly not serious, clueless about the market, ghost you all the time, but if you are patient enough, yes.

[AsiansBoy]

https://seekingarrangement.com/membe...c-3d3726235abd

She's hot. I think she's going to ask insane allowance. Just my thought LOL. Anybody has any luck with SBs 18-19?

[AsiansBoy]

Any info on.

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...7-756c95860496

Quoted me $$ I offered $$$ but she said no then I told her let me know when you change your mind.

[TrippinTB]

Any info on.

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...7-756c95860496

Search this thread history for "perfetto" and "perfecto" (because some posters incorrectly identified her).

My personal texting interaction screamed "avoid".

[ReeperJ690]

Any info on.

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...7-756c95860496

[Cornnut311]

I tried to set something up but had to cancel. She has been pretty persistant. Seems almost too eager.

That probably worked best for you honestly. It was just very underwhelming imo.

[TrippinTB]

I recently signed up for SA. Are there older ladies on SA. Say 35 and up?

You can use the search function to narrow your search on many characteristics. Including age.

[Littlebird]

I recently signed up for SA. Are there older ladies on SA. Say 35 and up?

[BigJJ44]

I think she went by Mariah.

Her name was Mariah, she was looking at a bit of time a cpl years ago I believe or that's what I was informed anyway. Never saw her but had several visits with Chloe while she was around.

[Lemonader]

Was friends with April and chloe.

I think she went by Mariah.

[EasyComeEasygo]

Ok so a few days ago I put up my first review and what a good experience it was. 2nd time not so much.

Made arrangements with Natalie to meet at her apartment. Agreed on $50. Got directions and agreed upon a time. Get there she is cute tall. No makeup but shower fresh smelling which is fine because it was last minute. Apartment was clean. No bad vibes. She said she was very nervous but was down. She is tall and thin. Good figure. But you could tell she was nervous. Which made me nervous. Tried to make small talk but it was awkward. Go to BBBJ and it is good enough. She just felt forced. She goes on top and it felt amazing. Me on top finish in about 30 total.

I guess it wasn't bad per say but it definitely wasn't as fun as the first. I even offered before hand to meet for a drink etc. She was cute nice enough just wasn't into it.

https://seekingarrangement.com/membe...4-7bf2bf560906

Keep your powder dry.

I tried to set something up but had to cancel. She has been pretty persistant. Seems almost too eager.

[MilfMan865]

Seeking Arrangement: awesomealexis (goes by Alexis).

Profile Location: https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...a-eb25d55ffb8f.

Profile last viewed: Saturday, June 16,2018.

Preface: I had another SA meet-and-greet prospect cancel at the last minute, so I ended up spending some time with awesomealexis as an alternate. She was the first to respond to my alert to fill that vacancy.

Executive Summary:

awesomealexis is legit, a witty and intelligent woman, sweet, nurturing, personable and nice conversationalist. She has a great body. ,. , for her age. ,. , but she reminds me of a provider who has been in the game way past her prime - as experienced by the lackluster performance. Based on other options available, her FS option is not recommended. Of course. ,. , YMMV.
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When researching her reviews: She had a favorable review by a sr Member who mentioned spreading her above average donation over several hours. Her requesting $ for body rub, $$ for body rub with HE, and $$$ for FS was previously noted.

Provider contact: Alexis. Awesomealexis (Seeking Arrangement) - contacted her through the number that we had exchanged previously while communicating on SA. Met her at another establishment before heading to her apartment.

Recommend (Yes or No): No. NOT RECOMMENDED for FS. Partly due to her performance but mostly due to so many other, more favorable options, on SA compared to the donation that she is requesting for her services.

The Good:

* CONTACT: Responds quickly and concisely to texts. She seems witty and conscientious.

* THE APPEARANCE OF THE LOCATION: Her location was clean, well-organized, and had a Zen-like feel to it. It is in a secluded area in the Bearden and felt safe.

* HER APPEARANCE: awesomealexis' pictures in her profile are accurate. She is likely in her early 40's, 5'5" tall, a spinner, and looks good for her age.

* HER PREPARATION: She had prophylactics, toys, and associated supplies within arms reach and the restroom had towels laid out for easy access.

* PROFESSIONALISM: She has been doing this for a while, so she conducted herself like a proficient courtesan. She's not a clock watcher and her hospitality was impeccable.
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SUMMARY: In my dream, awesomealexis was the opposite of "awesome", mediocre at best. The "yoga instructor" aspect intrigued me, but it didn't manifest itself in any favorable fashion. Pick an act conducted in the bedroom (with the exception of Greek since that wasn't part of this experience) . ,. , she was mediocre at it. Yes, it was all a dream. ,. , not a good dream. I felt ripped off since the FS experience was so blah, but I had to charge it to the game. Details can be shared via PM, but her FS option is not recommended.
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Opportunities for Improvement:

* SMOKING: These are not necessarily items for which I have issues, but I understand that it may be an issue for some of you: she is a smoker and asked if it were fine for her to smoke. The cigarettes didn't leave a residue on my clothes because it wasn't tobacco.

* PETS: She has an extremely lovable cat, so be aware of pet hair if that's a problem for you.

* HYGIENE: She was clean and fresh. However, she is in desperate need of a Brazilian wax or just some personal care down there. I'm not saying that she's hirsute, but the patchwork of hair around her lady bits looked like a dog that has mange. Aesthetically unpleasant.

* PERFORMANCE: Lackluster in all of the basic areas of bedroom activity as I kept waiting for her to kick things into gear. ,. , but she may not have another gear. This may be YMMV in the purest sense, but I was left wondering how she gets repeat business. A minor positive aspect is that she relishes being the human equivalent of an 808 drum. We clicked well until it was showtime for FS for which I was highly disappointed. Since FS with her was so poor, one would be tempted to try her out for a body rub instead. ,. , but proven options are available.
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Seniors (with verifiable hobbying experience) and Trusted (if we have exchanged information, regardless of status) may contact me directly for clarification on anything included in this report.

Press pay for play every day,.

Milfman.

[Lemonader]

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...5-c8d28770a38a

Was friends with April and chloe.