Tinder / mobile apps

[Watnow78]

What do you mean by zero luck?

I'm in disbelief at how easy it is. Sadly all the easy girls are crazy. Then all the good ones want some type of relationship with a level of commitment. I wish I was a dick and could just fuck myself through the masses of free pussy. But alas I don't want to be an ass.

Met a paraxhute kid from Australia visiting. Somehow thought she'd be safe.

2 USC grad students. One studying business the other medical. None of whom need book money. As soon as one leaves another jumps up on the horizon. Read helpful tip number 6.

She looks cute. Have fun.

What I mean by zero luck is this. 95% of the women I match with are way overweight, have 2 or more kids, or ask me to join their website to pay a fee. I have met 2 women from Tinder in the past and one girl was 40 lbs over weight from what her profile stated and the other was not the same girl. Both dates were at a coffee shop (which I hate) and after a couple of minutes I bailed. I felt like I got cat fished. And yes all the easy ones I find are a bit crazy, but they are plus size women so I pass. I just happen to prefer petite black and latina women. And I won't lower my preference just to get laid from a girl on a dating app. I'd rather fork over the loot and get what I want.

With that being said, this cutie pie pops up and was straight up wanting to hang out this weekend, which I might do. I know $ will be involved, I'm just not sure how much yet. Hopefully someone here recognizes her and has a bit of info. I found her add on Bicthes of BP. Lets see what happens!!

[Christophe1]

Hey guys,

I've been using dating apps for a long time now and have had ZERO luck!! I did how ever come in contact with this girl today and we have been just texting back and forth. She gave me her number and wants to meet when ever. Now I'm not sure about these apps, as I think they are all scams. But I looked up her phone number and she is in LA LB area, and I just wanted to know if anyone here has seen her before. I will TOFTT maybe this weekend.

What do you mean by zero luck?

I'm in disbelief at how easy it is. Sadly all the easy girls are crazy. Then all the good ones want some type of relationship with a level of commitment. I wish I was a dick and could just fuck myself through the masses of free pussy. But alas I don't want to be an ass.

Met a paraxhute kid from Australia visiting. Somehow thought she'd be safe.

2 USC grad students. One studying business the other medical. None of whom need book money. As soon as one leaves another jumps up on the horizon. Read helpful tip number 6.

She looks cute. Have fun.

[Watnow78]

Hey guys,

I've been using dating apps for a long time now and have had ZERO luck!! I did how ever come in contact with this girl today and we have been just texting back and forth. She gave me her number and wants to meet when ever. Now I'm not sure about these apps, as I think they are all scams. But I looked up her phone number and she is in LA LB area, and I just wanted to know if anyone here has seen her before. I will TOFTT maybe this weekend.

[Galaxy69]

Those Apps are no joke. It's easy to meet women (some amazing quality ones too) that get horny or just want to connect. I don't have to do anything and they reach out to me. Within the course of 20 minutes they'll straight up ask, "You want to meet?" Before that, I'm not doing anything other than listening, chatting, and flirting. And they pop the question. I'm like, WHAT?

Apps can be a time warp using up days or weeks if you're not up front. There have been a couple texting breakups because I was past their man expiration period. You can be selective on multiple levels, including looks.

I have only met two in person because I don't want to get too attached.

I have not been lucky with Tinder but then again, my pictures suck and I only check it out once in every blue moon. If you are decent looking I believe Tinder is the best hook up app out there.

[Christophe1]

I was just with my buddy drinking last night and he was showing a bunch of us his tender matches on his phone. I asked him specifically about the time he takes looking up facebook, twitter, etc. , and he showed me exactly the process.

It literally takes 20 seconds.

In response to your comment above, if there are no publicly available facebook pictures, or if she is not willing to friend you on face book, then move on.

That is the way you have to treat it. Just like the bar down the street. You have to be prepared to just move on and not dwell on one girl just because you like her picture or she has swiped right on you. Just let it go, and hit up the next girl. That is the way I got laid when I was single. If I am in a bar, talk to a girl, and nothing happening, I move on to go on to the next one just like getting on the next bus.

That is the key according to him for tender. It's a great tool that I did not have when I was young.

-Shark-.

Those Apps are no joke. It's easy to meet women (some amazing quality ones too) that get horny or just want to connect. I don't have to do anything and they reach out to me. Within the course of 20 minutes they'll straight up ask, "You want to meet?" Before that, I'm not doing anything other than listening, chatting, and flirting. And they pop the question. I'm like, WHAT?

Apps can be a time warp using up days or weeks if you're not up front. There have been a couple texting breakups because I was past their man expiration period. You can be selective on multiple levels, including looks.

I have only met two in person because I don't want to get too attached.

[Shark in OC]

Privacy settings on Facebook won't let you get far to cross reference a picture and a lot of girls have their profiles on Instagram on private.

I was just with my buddy drinking last night and he was showing a bunch of us his tender matches on his phone. I asked him specifically about the time he takes looking up facebook, twitter, etc. , and he showed me exactly the process.

It literally takes 20 seconds.

In response to your comment above, if there are no publicly available facebook pictures, or if she is not willing to friend you on face book, then move on.

That is the way you have to treat it. Just like the bar down the street. You have to be prepared to just move on and not dwell on one girl just because you like her picture or she has swiped right on you. Just let it go, and hit up the next girl. That is the way I got laid when I was single. If I am in a bar, talk to a girl, and nothing happening, I move on to go on to the next one just like getting on the next bus.

That is the key according to him for tender. It's a great tool that I did not have when I was young.

-Shark-.

[OneOfTheBest]

Shark: . Well your buddy is absolutely the man then! LOL. That's interesting. But would take a whole lot of time to facebook everyone that likes you. I have like 20/30 chicks in my likes. & I've probably unmatched another 40-50. Getting girls to say "yes" or swipe right is not the problem whatsoever. Everything after is. Haha!! & I am a very good looking guy. And often am told I look like a certain celebrity that well. Lets just say isn't short on women Ozing over him! Probably had 8-10 experiences / lays over past 5 years on two other free dating sites but 0 as far as Tinder goes past 8 months-1 yr. I suppose there is a learning curve or something! Hmm. But people use fake names and Tinder only gives a first name so that theory you claim that your "buddy" uses of looking all the "yes'es" up, would be quite difficult as lets say a girl name Julie likes and matches with you. Ok there are only like 100 k women with the first name of "Julie" on facebook. LOL. Or their profile pic on facebook is different then the ones on their tinder profile etc etc. But I could see that working in like 20-30% of the "yes'es" I suppose you could find the "yes" girl from Tinder. I'd probably only do that before I know I am meeting up and / or dating the chick. Haven't really done so yet but it sounds definitely like a good idea (got to do your homework I suppose but not mention stuff off her facebook like a stalker! Haha). <--Don't know how to image search really. Guess I'm not tech savvy. Hmm. Meeting at a bar / lounge / club seems sensible. Done that in past. Only problem with real public places is if like you said. Well you're not single like I read an article stating that something like 60-65% of people on Tinder are in fact already in a committed relationship! LOL. My buddy who showed me, same your buddy showed you, sent me the link. Crazy! Kind of the problem also though. Lot of women just wanting to feel wanted and know that they're still attractive by having matches and guys all over them when they're true to their husband / Significant Other and / or just bored with their lives or college etc etc. And see'Mon. Shark you know you have the AP hidden in one of your folders from the wifey on your phone! (or a locked folder) like 65% of Tinder does! Be careful whatever the case,. Divorce court = no bueno my friend. Especially with the support laws (if you have kids) in California especially! .

Privacy settings on Facebook won't let you get far to cross reference a picture and a lot of girls have their profiles on Instagram on private.

[Shark in OC]

Shark: . Well your buddy is absolutely the man then! LOL. That's interesting. But would take a whole lot of time to facebook everyone that likes you. I have like 20/30 chicks in my likes. & I've probably unmatched another 40-50. Getting girls to say "yes" or swipe right is not the problem whatsoever. Everything after is. Haha!! & I am a very good looking guy. And often am told I look like a certain celebrity that well. Lets just say isn't short on women Ozing over him! Probably had 8-10 experiences / lays over past 5 years on two other free dating sites but 0 as far as Tinder goes past 8 months-1 yr. I suppose there is a learning curve or something! Hmm. But people use fake names and Tinder only gives a first name so that theory you claim that your "buddy" uses of looking all the "yes'es" up, would be quite difficult as lets say a girl name Julie likes and matches with you. Ok there are only like 100 k women with the first name of "Julie" on facebook. LOL. Or their profile pic on facebook is different then the ones on their tinder profile etc etc. But I could see that working in like 20-30% of the "yes'es" I suppose you could find the "yes" girl from Tinder. I'd probably only do that before I know I am meeting up and / or dating the chick. Haven't really done so yet but it sounds definitely like a good idea (got to do your homework I suppose but not mention stuff off her facebook like a stalker! Haha). <--Don't know how to image search really. Guess I'm not tech savvy. Hmm. Meeting at a bar / lounge / club seems sensible. Done that in past. Only problem with real public places is if like you said. Well you're not single like I read an article stating that something like 60-65% of people on Tinder are in fact already in a committed relationship! LOL. My buddy who showed me, same your buddy showed you, sent me the link. Crazy! Kind of the problem also though. Lot of women just wanting to feel wanted and know that they're still attractive by having matches and guys all over them when they're true to their husband / Significant Other and / or just bored with their lives or college etc etc. And see'Mon. Shark you know you have the AP hidden in one of your folders from the wifey on your phone! (or a locked folder) like 65% of Tinder does! Be careful whatever the case,. Divorce court = no bueno my friend. Especially with the support laws (if you have kids) in California especially! .

Yes, have been divorced already once, so thanks for the advice. As far as hiding an app on my phone, she is too smart for that. She will find it. She caught me chatting up my secretary even though I thought I covered it up well.

Good news is that she is model hot (the only way she can keep me from cheating), and a 10/10 in bed. Thus, don't really feel the need for Tender. Well, that, and I am not as good looking as my colleague (and you apparently) are. I would not getting many "yeses".

Yes, it does seem like a lot of work to check out the girls before meeting them, but if you are getting that many hookups where you don't have time, then good! Wish I had the problem.

Good luck!

-Shark-.

[Gpc1085]

Shark: . Well your buddy is absolutely the man then! LOL. That's interesting. But would take a whole lot of time to facebook everyone that likes you. I have like 20/30 chicks in my likes. & I've probably unmatched another 40-50. Getting girls to say "yes" or swipe right is not the problem whatsoever. Everything after is. Haha!! & I am a very good looking guy. And often am told I look like a certain celebrity that well. Lets just say isn't short on women Ozing over him! Probably had 8-10 experiences / lays over past 5 years on two other free dating sites but 0 as far as Tinder goes past 8 months-1 yr. I suppose there is a learning curve or something! Hmm. But people use fake names and Tinder only gives a first name so that theory you claim that your "buddy" uses of looking all the "yes'es" up, would be quite difficult as lets say a girl name Julie likes and matches with you. Ok there are only like 100 k women with the first name of "Julie" on facebook. LOL. Or their profile pic on facebook is different then the ones on their tinder profile etc etc. But I could see that working in like 20-30% of the "yes'es" I suppose you could find the "yes" girl from Tinder. I'd probably only do that before I know I am meeting up and / or dating the chick. Haven't really done so yet but it sounds definitely like a good idea (got to do your homework I suppose but not mention stuff off her facebook like a stalker! Haha). <--Don't know how to image search really. Guess I'm not tech savvy. Hmm. Meeting at a bar / lounge / club seems sensible. Done that in past. Only problem with real public places is if like you said. Well you're not single like I read an article stating that something like 60-65% of people on Tinder are in fact already in a committed relationship! LOL. My buddy who showed me, same your buddy showed you, sent me the link. Crazy! Kind of the problem also though. Lot of women just wanting to feel wanted and know that they're still attractive by having matches and guys all over them when they're true to their husband / Significant Other and / or just bored with their lives or college etc etc. And see'Mon. Shark you know you have the AP hidden in one of your folders from the wifey on your phone! (or a locked folder) like 65% of Tinder does! Be careful whatever the case,. Divorce court = no bueno my friend. Especially with the support laws (if you have kids) in California especially! .

A colleague of mine uses tender. He shows me pictures of the girls he hooks up with, even got a 3 some (showed me pictures to prove it), but I do know he spends a lot of time sifting through fake profiles, etc. He told me what he does. When a tender girl wants to supposedly say yes to him, he goes to face book and checks out her profile, does image search, etc. Just like they do on catfish the tv show. Now he is a good looking guy, so he is able to get plenty without tender, but it's an added tool. It seems that doing 5 minutes of research once the girl says yes, you can filter out the fake ones or catfish just like any other online tool. It's not 100%, but the other thing he does as a safety is that he meets the girls in a place where there are other opportunities (bar or club) so that if the girl turns out fugly, there are a lot of other targets at the meetup place.

Good luck.

BTW. I can't use tender because just loading the app on my phone would end me up in divorce court, so look forward to hearing success in this forum.

-Shark-.

[MongerinOC]

Ah the dial-up days. LA based dial up BBSes like KBBS and GALACTIC were awesome. The original AOL was too.

The basic pick up line that worked was:

"So, who here likes sex? Let's hook up and fuck".

And you'd be balls deep in pussy within an hour or two.

Once the internet came around with free or cheap ad sites, moments realized that they should also be getting a wad of cash with their wad of cum. Oh well.

The original AOL days were like the Wild West it was so easy to hook up. Now there are so many sites and so many scams it is more trouble than it is worth. The original AOL was a lot like HX without the $.

[CreamyBare]

That is very very true. Back in the day, aol chat rooms were nothing but meat markets and if you played it right, you could have a new woman every night.

Ah the dial-up days. LA based dial up BBSes like KBBS and GALACTIC were awesome. The original AOL was too.

The basic pick up line that worked was:

"So, who here likes sex? Let's hook up and fuck".

And you'd be balls deep in pussy within an hour or two.

Once the internet came around with free or cheap ad sites, moments realized that they should also be getting a wad of cash with their wad of cum. Oh well.

[GolferSphen]

The AOL / Yahoo chat rooms were guaranteed action at one time haha.

That is very very true. Back in the day, aol chat rooms were nothing but meat markets and if you played it right, you could have a new woman every night.

[BlackBone]

Tinder is complete crap, Plenty of Fish, they discourage hooking up and look at themselves as a serious dating site, I remember 10 years ago with chat rooms was so easy to find women to hook up with for nothing but some fun between the sheets you would think with everyone having smart phones there would be something legit out there.

The AOL / Yahoo chat rooms were guaranteed action at one time haha.

[Shark in OC]

The worst. Met about 3 chicks being on for 4-5 months. All 3 were a lot bigger then advertised. I mean obese and ugly!. Waist of time. All the hot one's want to be immature and tease and most have no intentions of meeting up and / or are spammers or not real profiles to begin with. And I am a hot guy and had no problem getting laid on the other sites mentioned in this thread and even got a couple relationships here and there out of them. This was like 4/5 years ago but yeah. Now it seems they all are lame and waist of time to me. Tinder has a lot of fake profiles mixed in with a couple occasional real girls, but from my experience far and few between. Also tinder gets a bad rap as a hookup ap so I think a lot of young females are just messing around on it and thinking its funny to mess around with guys and or are just silly / immature and can't be taken serious really. Because well. They have the free time being that they don't have to work 9 to 5's, you know!? They are their parents royalty and only doing school part time. Ahhh miss the free time with college life, not hating. LOL. The other ap's are better but not by much / really these days. In the 4 years women I've noticed have became a lot more reluctant to get off the ap and actually get out on a date or meet up or whatever you want to call it. Then again could be the times since everyone is busy these days but just seemed a lot easier 4/5 years ago and there was a lot less hesitation then there is now on those sites with women wanting to meet up. Takes a whole lot of time / energy & effort (time currently I don't have) only in turn to find pennies not even nickles if you ask me. Just my two cents.

A colleague of mine uses tender. He shows me pictures of the girls he hooks up with, even got a 3 some (showed me pictures to prove it), but I do know he spends a lot of time sifting through fake profiles, etc. He told me what he does. When a tender girl wants to supposedly say yes to him, he goes to face book and checks out her profile, does image search, etc. Just like they do on catfish the tv show. Now he is a good looking guy, so he is able to get plenty without tender, but it's an added tool. It seems that doing 5 minutes of research once the girl says yes, you can filter out the fake ones or catfish just like any other online tool. It's not 100%, but the other thing he does as a safety is that he meets the girls in a place where there are other opportunities (bar or club) so that if the girl turns out fugly, there are a lot of other targets at the meetup place.

Good luck.

BTW. I can't use tender because just loading the app on my phone would end me up in divorce court, so look forward to hearing success in this forum.

-Shark-.

[Gpc1085]

The worst. Met about 3 chicks being on for 4-5 months. All 3 were a lot bigger then advertised. I mean obese and ugly!. Waist of time. All the hot one's want to be immature and tease and most have no intentions of meeting up and / or are spammers or not real profiles to begin with. And I am a hot guy and had no problem getting laid on the other sites mentioned in this thread and even got a couple relationships here and there out of them. This was like 4/5 years ago but yeah. Now it seems they all are lame and waist of time to me. Tinder has a lot of fake profiles mixed in with a couple occasional real girls, but from my experience far and few between. Also tinder gets a bad rap as a hookup ap so I think a lot of young females are just messing around on it and thinking its funny to mess around with guys and or are just silly / immature and can't be taken serious really. Because well. They have the free time being that they don't have to work 9 to 5's, you know!? They are their parents royalty and only doing school part time. Ahhh miss the free time with college life, not hating. LOL. The other ap's are better but not by much / really these days. In the 4 years women I've noticed have became a lot more reluctant to get off the ap and actually get out on a date or meet up or whatever you want to call it. Then again could be the times since everyone is busy these days but just seemed a lot easier 4/5 years ago and there was a lot less hesitation then there is now on those sites with women wanting to meet up. Takes a whole lot of time / energy & effort (time currently I don't have) only in turn to find pennies not even nickles if you ask me. Just my two cents.