Rants and Raves

[Head Hunting]

1. They get flaked on just as much or more than they flake on us. They set up multiple dates because they really don't know who is going to show up or not. Plus, it's not like the average BP girl is a real business woman or low volume providers who actually screen, set real appointments and may even require deposit like some other agency or supposed high end indies do. Shit for most of these BP chics this stuff is a lifestyle of laziness, not being game tight and not looking past her hotel fee, food and turning up; it really doesn't take much more than her little homegirl down the hall to come and say let's walk to the store for her to flake on you.

2. Laziness, overall bad hygiene and a heavy dose of just don't give a fuck. Sticking a clean covered johnson in a clean hot box isn't just going to make the hot box stink. No, the hot box was just dirty and funky to begin with. If a chic will actually stay and sometimes live in the absolute lowest budget spot and still won't clean her room, how can you really expect her to manage such a delicate device as a pussy, for many cleaning their cootchie is the last thing they're concerned about.

3. Again, it's a lifestyle. Their little lazy ass, born insecure, rat soup eating (Dolemite) homegirl put up an ad, and so do they. But if something, anything else comes up, they abandon the ad and go do some other dumb shit. Lazy, not about business and likely don't have a handler. Despite what many here believe, most of these BP girls don't have pimps, not in the sense of a real finesse or gorilla type dude that will at least keep them flat backing and getting to the money. What many do have is some old half a hustler buster that's just hanging around doing what the chic tell them to do so they can smoke, eat and drink. That should be evident with how many act, they flake, put up ads and don't respond, you know the shit we're talking about right here now.

4. Some guys, many even, want a young tender because that's not what they have at home. The only thing is that on BP 18 and 19 year old don't mean that the chic doesn't have three kids that stay with her aunt and that she didn't just get kicked out of big mommas house for hanging with her other know nothing, do nothing so called friends that she's now hocking ass with, monkey see monkey doing.

5. Monkey see, monkey doing. They saw somebody put that shit on their ad and figured they'd do it, like it somehow makes them more exclusive. Some will say it's a pimps doing, not wanting a black guy to steal his product but I say bullshit. I just believe that a pimp would be more concerned with green, not black and white. Especially when a pimp likely isn't concerned about somebody he feels is some sucker ass, no game having square trick. About outcall some prefer the advantages of outcall, I do. I do to them just what they do to us when we do in calls and the girls waits for you to get there before giving out the room number, they just don't know it. I only give three of the four digits in the number. They get to the building and I can see everything, who's in the are, who's following, what they look like, all before they get to the door. If it's a bad bait and switch, I go radio silent, I highly doubt they're going to kick in 18 doors trying to figure out who called.

#2. This. A pussy needs more maintenance than a car. Shaving, Pap smears, douches, tampons, pads, preventing stis and yeast infections. Some of these chicks don't do any of that. And then they wonder why we call them rottencrotch.

[Parrot Reborn]

Inquiring minds wunna know:

1. Why when you call a "provider" and set up an appointment for such and such time, they tell you to give them 10-15 minutes when you actually arrive? What's up with that? If I tell you I'm going to be there in the next 30 minutes and I get there like 35 or 40 minutes later, why should I have to wait another 10-15 minutes? Especially when your calling me every 5-10 minutes with, "Where are you", "How much longer". And why the excuse is always, "I'm just finishing up with this other guy". Why tell me to come and tell another guy to come at the same time? Who wants to wait around in the parking lot while you finish up with another guy and probably didn't even shower after?

2. Why do chic's who have a room stink? What's up with having poor hygiene when you have your own incall with shower facilities readily available to you? Why don't these chics wash before a guy gets there? Unless your a streetwalker that's jumping from car to car, there is no reason why a chic should have poor hygiene, especially when she has her own freaking room. How would you feel if I came straight to you after a long day of work on the construction site with some musky ass balls. I doubt you would want to service a guy with poor hygiene. Why would I want to pay for something that smells like shit?

3. Why do some chic's continuously place ads and flake on clients regularly? I mean, why place an ad, then have a guy drive waaay across town just to not answer the phone when he gets there. What sense does that make? Are you doing this out of revenge for guys that spurned them in the past? Is this how you get back at guys as a whole? Why waste your time taking pics, paying for an ad, just to flake on guys once they get there?

4. Why do chics who know damn well they look nothing like 18,19 or 20 years old place the age of 18,19, or 20 years old in their ad. Do they believe guys want some unknown 18,19, 20 year on backpage? The first thing that comes to mind when I see chics listed at that age is, "pimp" "attitude" "inexperience" "shitty service". You can keep your 18-20 years old. I'll pass. I don't want the headache!

5. Why do black chics place "no black men" in their ads as if white men or any other race wants them? Why would some other race of men want to cross the border and visit some black chic on backpage? And why do alot of those black chics stay in mainly black neighborhoods and believe that some other race will actually visit them in their shitty hood. Likewise, why do some of these chics state, "Outcall only" in their ads as if some white guy or the other is going to call some unknown black chic into his home? What are these chics thinking? It's pretty obvious what they're doing.

Just a few musings for now.

Don't stress over the no Blacks. Many of these new age females openly declare that they love white guys and can't stand blacks.

It's just a reflection of the dysfunctional community blacks DON'T have. They belong with their natural masters, they have been praising white men since the antebellum period.

Unfortunately also, young black men have a rep. For being confrontational with providers or even robbing them. We don't like to take losses, period.

There is truth to the robbing aspect, but remember some of these non black guys get set up and robbed by black girls. So it goes both ways.

No point in stressing over public poontang for sale. Just go shop elsewhere and keep your head up.

[Matt K]

5. Why do black chics place "no black men" in their ads as if white men or any other race wants them? Why would some other race of men want to cross the border and visit some black chic on backpage? And why do alot of those black chics stay in mainly black neighborhoods and believe that some other race will actually visit them in their shitty hood. Likewise, why do some of these chics state, "Outcall only" in their ads as if some white guy or the other is going to call some unknown black chic into his home? What are these chics thinking? It's pretty obvious what they're doing.

I can't answer as to why providers post "no black men" in their ad as I am not a black provider. I am a white guy addicted to sexy black women. I can't remember the last time I was attracted to a white chick. I don't know that I have seen a provider who has posted "no black men" in their ad, but I have seen plenty who advertised "I love white men. " In the course of seeing these chicks my travels have taken me into homes, hotels, and apartments in Riverdale, Jonesboro, Morrow, College Park, East Point, Decatur, Lithonia, Union City, and Atlanta. Not every white guy is scared of "the hood" and not every black chick from "the hood" is as you describe.

[GrChZebo]

Inquiring minds wunna know:

Just a few musings for now.

1. They get flaked on just as much or more than they flake on us. They set up multiple dates because they really don't know who is going to show up or not. Plus, it's not like the average BP girl is a real business woman or low volume providers who actually screen, set real appointments and may even require deposit like some other agency or supposed high end indies do. Shit for most of these BP chics this stuff is a lifestyle of laziness, not being game tight and not looking past her hotel fee, food and turning up; it really doesn't take much more than her little homegirl down the hall to come and say let's walk to the store for her to flake on you.

2. Laziness, overall bad hygiene and a heavy dose of just don't give a fuck. Sticking a clean covered johnson in a clean hot box isn't just going to make the hot box stink. No, the hot box was just dirty and funky to begin with. If a chic will actually stay and sometimes live in the absolute lowest budget spot and still won't clean her room, how can you really expect her to manage such a delicate device as a pussy, for many cleaning their cootchie is the last thing they're concerned about.

3. Again, it's a lifestyle. Their little lazy ass, born insecure, rat soup eating (Dolemite) homegirl put up an ad, and so do they. But if something, anything else comes up, they abandon the ad and go do some other dumb shit. Lazy, not about business and likely don't have a handler. Despite what many here believe, most of these BP girls don't have pimps, not in the sense of a real finesse or gorilla type dude that will at least keep them flat backing and getting to the money. What many do have is some old half a hustler buster that's just hanging around doing what the chic tell them to do so they can smoke, eat and drink. That should be evident with how many act, they flake, put up ads and don't respond, you know the shit we're talking about right here now.

4. Some guys, many even, want a young tender because that's not what they have at home. The only thing is that on BP 18 and 19 year old don't mean that the chic doesn't have three kids that stay with her aunt and that she didn't just get kicked out of big mommas house for hanging with her other know nothing, do nothing so called friends that she's now hocking ass with, monkey see monkey doing.

5. Monkey see, monkey doing. They saw somebody put that shit on their ad and figured they'd do it, like it somehow makes them more exclusive. Some will say it's a pimps doing, not wanting a black guy to steal his product but I say bullshit. I just believe that a pimp would be more concerned with green, not black and white. Especially when a pimp likely isn't concerned about somebody he feels is some sucker ass, no game having square trick. About outcall some prefer the advantages of outcall, I do. I do to them just what they do to us when we do in calls and the girls waits for you to get there before giving out the room number, they just don't know it. I only give three of the four digits in the number. They get to the building and I can see everything, who's in the are, who's following, what they look like, all before they get to the door. If it's a bad bait and switch, I go radio silent, I highly doubt they're going to kick in 18 doors trying to figure out who called.

[NuGuy36]

Are you asking us to try and decipher the thought processes of a woman. It simply is NOT possible!

Inquiring minds wunna know:

1. Why when you call a "provider" and set up an appointment for such and such time, they tell you to give them 10-15 minutes when you actually arrive? What's up with that? If I tell you I'm going to be there in the next 30 minutes and I get there like 35 or 40 minutes later, why should I have to wait another 10-15 minutes? Especially when your calling me every 5-10 minutes with, "Where are you", "How much longer". And why the excuse is always, "I'm just finishing up with this other guy". Why tell me to come and tell another guy to come at the same time? Who wants to wait around in the parking lot while you finish up with another guy and probably didn't even shower after?

2. Why do chic's who have a room stink? What's up with having poor hygiene when you have your own incall with shower facilities readily available to you? Why don't these chics wash before a guy gets there? Unless your a streetwalker that's jumping from car to car, there is no reason why a chic should have poor hygiene, especially when she has her own freaking room. How would you feel if I came straight to you after a long day of work on the construction site with some musky ass balls. I doubt you would want to service a guy with poor hygiene. Why would I want to pay for something that smells like shit?

3. Why do some chic's continuously place ads and flake on clients regularly? I mean, why place an ad, then have a guy drive waaay across town just to not answer the phone when he gets there. What sense does that make? Are you doing this out of revenge for guys that spurned them in the past? Is this how you get back at guys as a whole? Why waste your time taking pics, paying for an ad, just to flake on guys once they get there?

4. Why do chics who know damn well they look nothing like 18,19 or 20 years old place the age of 18,19, or 20 years old in their ad. Do they believe guys want some unknown 18,19, 20 year on backpage? The first thing that comes to mind when I see chics listed at that age is, "pimp" "attitude" "inexperience" "shitty service". You can keep your 18-20 years old. I'll pass. I don't want the headache!

5. Why do black chics place "no black men" in their ads as if white men or any other race wants them? Why would some other race of men want to cross the border and visit some black chic on backpage? And why do alot of those black chics stay in mainly black neighborhoods and believe that some other race will actually visit them in their shitty hood. Likewise, why do some of these chics state, "Outcall only" in their ads as if some white guy or the other is going to call some unknown black chic into his home? What are these chics thinking? It's pretty obvious what they're doing.

Just a few musings for now.

[BigMoney21]

I noticed more and more chicks are trying to trick me into have sex with them while they are on their cycle. I'm wondering what in the uck are they trying to prove!

[Niteluvr]

If you pm me for inside information and I take my time to respond, common courtesy, even among filthy mongers, dictates a response of appreciation. If you ask again I'll be sure to give you false info here on out.

Amen to that. Most guys thank me for info but I'm sure there are a few assholes out there who lack basic courtesy.

[Johnny Mapalo]

Inquiring minds wunna know:

1. Why when you call a "provider" and set up an appointment for such and such time, they tell you to give them 10-15 minutes when you actually arrive? What's up with that? If I tell you I'm going to be there in the next 30 minutes and I get there like 35 or 40 minutes later, why should I have to wait another 10-15 minutes? Especially when your calling me every 5-10 minutes with, "Where are you", "How much longer". And why the excuse is always, "I'm just finishing up with this other guy". Why tell me to come and tell another guy to come at the same time? Who wants to wait around in the parking lot while you finish up with another guy and probably didn't even shower after?

2. Why do chic's who have a room stink? What's up with having poor hygiene when you have your own incall with shower facilities readily available to you? Why don't these chics wash before a guy gets there? Unless your a streetwalker that's jumping from car to car, there is no reason why a chic should have poor hygiene, especially when she has her own freaking room. How would you feel if I came straight to you after a long day of work on the construction site with some musky ass balls. I doubt you would want to service a guy with poor hygiene. Why would I want to pay for something that smells like shit?

3. Why do some chic's continuously place ads and flake on clients regularly? I mean, why place an ad, then have a guy drive waaay across town just to not answer the phone when he gets there. What sense does that make? Are you doing this out of revenge for guys that spurned them in the past? Is this how you get back at guys as a whole? Why waste your time taking pics, paying for an ad, just to flake on guys once they get there?

4. Why do chics who know damn well they look nothing like 18,19 or 20 years old place the age of 18,19, or 20 years old in their ad. Do they believe guys want some unknown 18,19, 20 year on backpage? The first thing that comes to mind when I see chics listed at that age is, "pimp" "attitude" "inexperience" "shitty service". You can keep your 18-20 years old. I'll pass. I don't want the headache!

5. Why do black chics place "no black men" in their ads as if white men or any other race wants them? Why would some other race of men want to cross the border and visit some black chic on backpage? And why do alot of those black chics stay in mainly black neighborhoods and believe that some other race will actually visit them in their shitty hood. Likewise, why do some of these chics state, "Outcall only" in their ads as if some white guy or the other is going to call some unknown black chic into his home? What are these chics thinking? It's pretty obvious what they're doing.

Just a few musings for now.

[Aaron Hamlet]

If you pm me for inside information and I take my time to respond, common courtesy, even among filthy mongers, dictates a response of appreciation. If you ask again I'll be sure to give you false info here on out.

[Niteluvr]

Fair deal, thanks for clarifying exactly what you meant.

Yes, I will TRY to kick a SW out if they fail to keep their PROMISE and part of the agreement.

I believe the price is RELATIVE to the individual SW I am doing the agreement with.

For example, if I offer a SW. 15 for BBBJCIM for 20 minutes and the SW says "yes," then I expect her to HONOR her agreement because she WILLINGLY agreed to it on her OWN. She had the CHOICE to decline.

If she suddenly changes her mind to CBJ after chips are given, then I reserve the right to end the session right there by kicking her out and going about my business with my donation. I don't feeheTRYeTRYeTRYeTRYe back to where I met her.

I will admit, I have done ruthless things in the past and karma has gotten me back. Especially when my cellphone was swiped and once when I was confronted by an aggressive handler.

I understand older guys have great WISDOM and their philosophy is to TAKE A LOSS and keep kicking while being thankful that only chip $ were lost instead of life, or an injury or worse.

I don't believe in sitting back and TAKING losses willingly. I had to work HARD for every penny I have and I won't just lay down and take crap from ANYONE.

The environment I was raised in gave me that mentality, as I grow older I learn to let petty things go.

I'm not stupid, I understand the philosophies of other mongers.

As time goes by, I will grow stronger to endure pain and mistreatment. These SW need to stop lying and cheating people who work hard.

Nothing was ever given to me. Peace and love my brother, good chat.

Great explanation and sage advice.

[Parrot Reborn]

Stop defending yourself. You don't need to.

Its okay, I don't have to but choose to do so.

I do that because I enjoy the discussion and learning more about how people think. Very mentally stimulating, hopefully more men will discuss these issues.

It's all good my man.

[Parrot Reborn]

Said you treat them like shit, didn't say anything about abuse. You can go back to alot of your reviews on your current name or last name. Your the only one I've seen in the SWer review section that talks about kicking girls out the car and making them walk back if they don't finish sucking your dick right. Am I wrong about that? I understand that SWers are on the low end of the prostitution stick, but is it acceptable to treat them like shit if they don't perform good enough for that cheap ass service you paid for? Like I said before, I really don't care either way. Karma is a ***** though.

Fair deal, thanks for clarifying exactly what you meant.

Yes, I will TRY to kick a SW out if they fail to keep their PROMISE and part of the agreement.

I believe the price is RELATIVE to the individual SW I am doing the agreement with.

For example, if I offer a SW. 15 for BBBJCIM for 20 minutes and the SW says "yes," then I expect her to HONOR her agreement because she WILLINGLY agreed to it on her OWN. She had the CHOICE to decline.

If she suddenly changes her mind to CBJ after chips are given, then I reserve the right to end the session right there by kicking her out and going about my business with my donation. I don't feeheTRYeTRYeTRYeTRYe back to where I met her.

I will admit, I have done ruthless things in the past and karma has gotten me back. Especially when my cellphone was swiped and once when I was confronted by an aggressive handler.

I understand older guys have great WISDOM and their philosophy is to TAKE A LOSS and keep kicking while being thankful that only chip $ were lost instead of life, or an injury or worse.

I don't believe in sitting back and TAKING losses willingly. I had to work HARD for every penny I have and I won't just lay down and take crap from ANYONE.

The environment I was raised in gave me that mentality, as I grow older I learn to let petty things go.

I'm not stupid, I understand the philosophies of other mongers.

As time goes by, I will grow stronger to endure pain and mistreatment. These SW need to stop lying and cheating people who work hard.

Nothing was ever given to me. Peace and love my brother, good chat.

[Bunnery Sgt]

Interesting, what have I done to make you think I treat SW like crap? My philosophy on SW is that they are low tier providers. Meaning they are kind of lower than BP and definitely lower than an agency provider.

I just feel providers who stand out in the street should accept less. I just wouldn't feel right giving. 6 to a SW even if she was hot because why is she in the street, instead of BP??

I guess I may have a stern mentality with some of the batshit crazy SW I run into on the Eastside. Doesn't make a diff how much I pay them though, trust me they are just hustlers who take advantage if you seem nice.

Stop defending yourself. You don't need to.

[GetUrRollOnMan]

Interesting, what have I done to make you think I treat SW like crap? My philosophy on SW is that they are low tier providers. Meaning they are kind of lower than BP and definitely lower than an agency provider.

I just feel providers who stand out in the street should accept less. I just wouldn't feel right giving. 6 to a SW even if she was hot because why is she in the street, instead of BP??

I guess I may have a stern mentality with some of the batshit crazy SW I run into on the Eastside. Doesn't make a diff how much I pay them though, trust me they are just hustlers who take advantage if you seem nice.

Said you treat them like shit, didn't say anything about abuse. You can go back to alot of your reviews on your current name or last name. Your the only one I've seen in the SWer review section that talks about kicking girls out the car and making them walk back if they don't finish sucking your dick right. Am I wrong about that? I understand that SWers are on the low end of the prostitution stick, but is it acceptable to treat them like shit if they don't perform good enough for that cheap ass service you paid for? Like I said before, I really don't care either way. Karma is a ***** though.

[Parrot Reborn]

Don't really think he comes across as thirsty or pissed off. I think his bark is worse than his bite when it comes to reading sime of his adventures. He definitely does treat SWers like shit though. Not like I really care about how he treats them. I just think it's funny when you treat them like shit, pay them like shit, and expect 5 star service in return for his coins. LOL I missed that lesson in school.

Interesting, what have I done to make you think I treat SW like crap? My philosophy on SW is that they are low tier providers. Meaning they are kind of lower than BP and definitely lower than an agency provider.

I just feel providers who stand out in the street should accept less. I just wouldn't feel right giving. 6 to a SW even if she was hot because why is she in the street, instead of BP??

I guess I may have a stern mentality with some of the batshit crazy SW I run into on the Eastside. Doesn't make a diff how much I pay them though, trust me they are just hustlers who take advantage if you seem nice.