Rants and Raves

[WiseTraveler]

So, here is the deal. Blackmail is illegal. If you have proof of these threats, you can take it to the police.

That does not mean you are held to anything you did with that provider, just don't admit to anything illegal. Just stick to the fact you are being blackmailed.

*Talk to an attorney ASAP. * They will guide you on how to engage the police (or FBI if blackmail involved) and how to communicate, it at all, with the provider going forward. They can also help you identify the provider's real name if you don't know, and a formal letter / warning usually stops this shit in its tracks but again, follow your attorney's advice.

Edit: And tell your attorney everything. Don't hold back. They can't help you if you don't give full disclosure.

Don't destroy / delete any 'evidence', however tempting. Never pay a blackmailer as they'll just keep asking for more.

If you're dumb enough to use your real name, #, social media, or to meet at your office / home, you've chosen to play it risky. Single guys mainly need to keep it all separate from work. I've seen Sr VPs escorted out by security as they booked hookers via their work phones / laptops. Never admit to anything to a provider. Doesn't matter if it's text, phone, pillow talk. If you feel the need to apologize, do so but dispute, "I'm sorry you feel that way / this didn't work out but that's not my recollection and I don't think we should communicate any more. Best of luck."

When communicating with providers/schedulers:
Prep all pics in advance if possible and use a remove EXIF data site (upload pic to site, it strips EXIF data). You'd be surprised how much info is in a pic.

Use a burner number or phone. The po-po will still likely be able to identify you unless you take extreme measures but you know what? They won't unless there's a major crime involved as they focus on lower hanging fruit. The police don't fucking care.

Dealing with law enforcement:
Don't talk beyond sharing your name and asking why you were pulled over. Don't answer questions or admit anything, including speeding. Be polite, provide ID if asked, and talk calmly and slowly. They can and will lie to you. Admit nothing and ask if you are being detained repeatedly until they let you go or arrest you, then ask for your lawyer. Never share/unlock your phone.

If you're in a car, crack the window but don't open all of the way. You can pass over registration and license. Again, admit nothing. Don't let them search the car. Don't smoke / keep drugs or weed in the car. If they come to your house, don't let them in or go out to meet them unless they have a warrant. They'll lie lie lie to get inside and search. Get your lawyer ready.

Be ready to 'burn' your #. Back up phone #s and not with your regular contacts.

Learn how to use VPNs. Free is fine at first but paid will make your life easier.

For first time meets at least, park nearby, not in front. For an AMP it doesn't matter but for a high volume escort or a hooker hotel, yeah, it could.

Finally, while you may love your wife / SO to pieces, accept the risk your fun may come to light and have a plan. Don't try to move $ or hide it. Adultery is not a factor in divorce settlements. You could fuck your MIL and SIL in front of your wife and she wouldn't be entitled to a dime more. If you try to hide $ though, you could go to fail, be fined heavily.

Good luck.

[ActionJohn]

Hire an actor or buddy to act as a tough guy. Tell this blackmailer to meet with you at safe place. Have your buddy come in and pretend to be an enforcer. He says nothing but looks tough. Tell her that if she tries anything, be vague about what harm could befall her. I did something similar with a squatter. Worked like a charm. No guarantees of course that it will work. All I can say is that is what I would do.

[Noob2022]

Long story but I am being blackmailed by a formed provider. I broke several rules and see has found out a lot and is threatening to tell my wife. I am at a loss of what to do. Any help is needed.

See a lawyer. Someone who specializes in criminal defense. Before talking to the cops. Spend the couple hundred for a consult and then tell them EVERYTHING this provider may have on you. Talk through the pros and cons of reporting this to the police before you do. If she has proof you committed a crime, what crime is it, what are the possible consequences, etc. - cops can and will charge victims of one crime with committing another one if they believe there is good reason to do so. And remember, when / if you do report this to the cops, whatever she had on you is likely to become part of the public record (factor that in to reporting or not).

Then talk to a divorce attorney or find a marriage counselor. Blackmailers don't go away. They drain you until the truth comes out. Paying delays the inevitable and you suffer while you wait for that other shoe to drop. When (not if) she tells your wife be prepared for what the reaction will be. Your other option here is to tell your wife before the provider can (or try to bluff the provider and tell her that you have already told your wife) get ahead of the story. Apologize tell her it was a one time mistake etc.

[QuickFoot]

Long story but I am being blackmailed by a formed provider. I broke several rules and see has found out a lot and is threatening to tell my wife. I am at a loss of what to do. Any help is needed.

So, here is the deal. Blackmail is illegal. If you have proof of these threats, you can take it to the police.

That does not mean you are held to anything you did with that provider, just don't admit to anything illegal. Just stick to the fact you are being blackmailed.

[Fireman0695]

Long story but I am being blackmailed by a formed provider. I broke several rules and see has found out a lot and is threatening to tell my wife. I am at a loss of what to do. Any help is needed.

[HobbyMan51]

Yea right, watch the tape!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nbuMdpXDr5E

What I saw was a President seriously addressing a serious issue showing great empathy to the mother of a sex trafficked child. It has nothing to do with massage businesses yet leave it to a terminal Trump hater like you to hijack the issue and ignore the narrative of this thread in general to push your agenda of Trump hatred. Do you deny that sex trafficking is taking place in our inner cities and on our Southern border? If you are going to follow the same pattern of idiocy that you did three years ago then please do us a favor and don't waste our time with your TDS.

[Sgt Lurker]

Very True!

A catch-22. The better the economy, the more $$ I will have for activities. But the worse the economy, the more good looking ladies will be out there trying to make some bucks.

[LickUmGood]

It's about having the extra $$ for extracurricular activities! And decent looking ladies looking to make some $$.

A catch-22. The better the economy, the more $$ I will have for activities. But the worse the economy, the more good looking ladies will be out there trying to make some bucks.

[Sgt Soros]

And if we keep voting for Democrats those extra $$ for extracurricular activities will be gone with the wind.

Yea right, watch the tape!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nbuMdpXDr5E

[HobbyMan51]

It's about having the extra $$ for extracurricular activities! And decent looking ladies looking to make some $$.

And if we keep voting for Democrats those extra $$ for extracurricular activities will be gone with the wind.

[Sgt Lurker]

It's about having the extra $$ for extracurricular activities! And decent looking ladies looking to make some $$.

We are arguing about the future of this country, the difference between common sense and insanity, the difference between a Republic and Marxist "democracy". This thread was created some years ago to have a place for rants of all kinds, pussy or politics, subjects that invariably intertwine anyway. Besides, it's great fun to poke a vile libpuke like RogerBoy. Read his posts and you'll see what I mean.

[HobbyMan51]

Come on guys, aren't there enough places to argue about politics without bringing it to the hobby? Yeah, I know I don't have to read it. But let's just all go out and have some fun getting laid and forget this garbage for awhile. After all, regardless of our politics, we're all just looking to get our dicks wet.

We are arguing about the future of this country, the difference between common sense and insanity, the difference between a Republic and Marxist "democracy". This thread was created some years ago to have a place for rants of all kinds, pussy or politics, subjects that invariably intertwine anyway. Besides, it's great fun to poke a vile libpuke like RogerBoy. Read his posts and you'll see what I mean.

[LickUmGood]

Come on guys, aren't there enough places to argue about politics without bringing it to the hobby? Yeah, I know I don't have to read it. But let's just all go out and have some fun getting laid and forget this garbage for awhile. After all, regardless of our politics, we're all just looking to get our dicks wet.

[HobbyMan51]

It's always something with you dickheads. Ever notice that your "sex traffickers" share elements of other silly myths and conspiracy theories of the past? There is always an "enemy within," a group of villains who operate around you, and by god, it's up to you heroes to expose us!

- Like the Satanic Panic daycare scare, where everyday teachers and caregivers were falsely accused of acts of abuse.

- Like the various anti-Catholic, anti-Immigrant, anti-Semitic, anti-Communist, anti-Black anti-Mason, anti-Gay, anti-Trans, anti-whatever-stupid-shit gets up your ass and into your empty noggin, so you can blame all the faceless hordes of powerful conspirators that prevent turds like you from being successful..

Drew you out, didn't I, Dickface? Like any of us gives a fuck how much money you make, or made, or didn't make, but you have to try something to make you tiny little balls bigger so whatever. But, you have grown. You are an even bigger shit turd than you were three years ago and that's saying a lot right there, you irrelevant little gnome. Everything I said was right and everything you spew out of your wretched little ass is still wrong. I win. You will always lose. Have a nice day, TurdBlossom. LOL.

[RogerOver]

The majority of people in America listen to conservatives now, Marxist, because we know the truth, about you, about this administration of traitors, and the reality of how things really are for the average American. You can gaslight all you like but you're just blowing the gas up your own ass. No one listens to you, Marxist. By the way, why don't you tell us that women and children aren't being sold into sex slavery by the cartels, the operating arm of the Biden administration of border traitors. Tells us how those food prices are going down when anyone who goes to a grocery store knows that they are not. Tell us how wonderful that Bidenomics thing is working for most American when we know that it doesn't. I remember what a total A-Hole you were three years ago. You haven't changed a bit. But, A-Holes like you are proud of being A-Holes. It gives you the fetid air that you need to breathe in order to continue your pathetic existence.

Not that you were missed. You weren't. Same old tripe from you. News for you, Einstein: there are a lot more people listening to common sense than listen to you, Marxist. You can call us all the lame names you want but it is you that no one listens to. As always, sucks to be you.

It's always something with you dickheads. Ever notice that your "sex traffickers" share elements of other silly myths and conspiracy theories of the past? There is always an "enemy within," a group of villains who operate around you, and by god, it's up to you heroes to expose us!

- Like the Satanic Panic daycare scare, where everyday teachers and caregivers were falsely accused of acts of abuse.

- Like the various anti-Catholic, anti-Immigrant, anti-Semitic, anti-Communist, anti-Black anti-Mason, anti-Gay, anti-Trans, anti-whatever-stupid-shit gets up your ass and into your empty noggin, so you can blame all the faceless hordes of powerful conspirators that prevent turds like you from being successful.

It's helpful to have a faceless enemy to rally against.

The "enemy within" is secretive and extraordinary at hiding their crimes. That's why you never have hard evidence. Millions of children have been kidnapped into sexual slavery by traffickers, except there are no records showing millions of missing children. But that must be because we're all so good at covering our tracks! Because people in power help us cover it up! That pizza place must have hidden the secret torture basement; you all know it's there!

The left openly BRAG about their crimes, right? I'll bet a high-level dumbfuck like you probably found a random anomaly in a piece of footage which PROVES they are using secret hand signs to communicate.

It's a good thing we have you, the main characters in your LARP world to save us! Please do your part by sharing social media posts and seeing the movie Sound of Freedom!

But hey retard, if you REALLY want to find yourself some child predators, you don't need to go far from your little neck of the ideological woods. It's mostly you assholes.

Republican Sexual Predators, Abusers, and Enablers Pt. 48

https://www.dailykos.com/stories/202...Enablers-Pt-48

Oh yeah...I made more money in the last three years than I did when the orange turd was in office, and I made plenty then. You should put on your big-girl pants and learn to accept responsibility for your own failures, which I'm sure are fucking legion.