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03-26-24 11:32 #13342
Posts: 98Originally Posted by Dimples572 [View Original Post]
My only question, did you pay for the room in cash or card? I can only imagine the damage a scorned woman could do to a hotel room after being left like that. Hope your credit card wasn't on file.
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03-26-24 10:19 #13341
Posts: 2680Dimples
Question and comment.
Did you really leave her alone in the room?
If I were in such a situation, I would try to calm things in this way. I would say offer to give her 100 upfront, to 'show my goodwill'. I have on multiple occasions given a POT 100 at the M&G, because I ask the girls to book our rooms (I have a SO), and I want them to know they are not taking a financial risk in doing so. Most of the time it has worked out and I have ended up in the FC w / them (of course, based on the quality of our interactions at the M&G), only a few times has the planned FC trip not materialized.
There are some costs of business in the sugar world, it is best to come to terms w / that fact that sometimes, the worm get the bird.
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03-26-24 05:41 #13340
Posts: 829I think I dodged a bullet
Heavenlyangx.
https://members.seeking.com/member/8...1-fe4e2069cdba
Started texting with this one, at first she tried to sell me that she was a virgin and asked for 1 k. I laughed at her offer, countered with half and no condom for 4 hrs, she agreed. I get us a room, send her the address. I check in and about 15 minutes later I get a text saying she doesn't know where to park. Huh? There's tons of spots in the parking lot, so I peak out the window and I watch who I'm 99% sure is her circle the hotel once, park for a bit then pull out and circle the hotel another 3-4 times. I'm like if that's her WTF is she doing. Eventually she finally parks, a few minutes later she texts and says I'm here. I send her the room number and watch her walk from her car to the entrance. Keep in mind this is not a big hotel at all, only has 5 floors and I was on the 5th. You walk in the lobby and the elevator is literally right around the corner. But 5 minutes goes by and she's still not at my door so now my Spidey senses are on high alert. I send a text asking what's up? Finally about 3-4 minutes later she responds with I'm here, doesn't knock but I check the peephole and she's there. Not the girl in the pictures on the profile but actually way hotter, more petite. I'm pleasantly surprised.
So Introduce myself, give her a peck on the cheek. Offer some wine I'd brought, she declined said she just wants water so gave her one of the bottles in the room. This whole time we've been texting she's been super friendly and personal, seemed cool. But as soon as she gets in the room she's just super awkward. Over the years I've been told dozens of times by gals when they meet me I'm very disarming, very easy to talk to. I like to make small talk for a while, get to know one another so I start to try with her. Ask where she's from, what she does for work. Immediately within two minutes she completely changes the subject, just straight to the point and asks if she can change my mind about not using condoms? I'm like nope, that's what was agreed to so that's the deal. If you're not comfortable I totally understand, and you're more than welcome to leave. So right off the bat she's making things awkward. She then says ok fine, can you pay me now? I said no, I'd prefer to take care of that when we're done. She says well I'm not going anywhere, can we just do it now? I'd be more comfortable if we took care of it now. Again I said no I'm not comfortable with that, but once again if you've got a problem with it you're welcome to leave. She says well can you at least set the cash out so I can see it? At this point I know this whole situation is fucked but I'm still holding out hope because she's pretty hot and I'd really like to continue with our original plans so I said you never told me you wanted cash, I'd prefer to cash app you when we're done. She said she doesn't have cash app, so I said ok, well I didn't stop to get cash so I'll have to go to the ATM downstairs. Is that what you want me to do? Go all the way downstairs now, or can we just take care of it when we're done? She said yes I'd like you to go get the cash. So I grabbed my phone, acted like I was going to get the cash and just went out to my car left. I'm 99% sure based on all her sketchy behavior from circling the parking lot for 10 minutes, to taking forever to actually get to the room to the awkwardness once she was in the room that something was up. It was either going to be a cash and dash, or at best I'd get one nut and she'd immediately come up with some bullshit excuse 10 minutes later that she'd have to leave. So I chalked it up to a waste of money on the room and cut my losses there.
But regardless, the whole vibe was fucked once she was so adamant about me paying her upfront. And tbh anytime I've had a chick in the past ask for it upfront and I've unwillingly agreed it's never a good experience because now they've lost any incentive to stay for however long you agreed to or to live up to their end of the deal. Hasn't happened often but when it does I always end up feeling shorted. So does anyone have some good advice on how to handle the situation when they ask to be paid upfront but to still not come off sounding like a complete dick and ruin the vibe? Because I'll be honest, idk how to handle that situation with any grace and still stick to my guns.
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03-25-24 23:54 #13339
Posts: 259Originally Posted by RudyWellz [View Original Post]
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03-25-24 22:36 #13338
Posts: 510Originally Posted by FarFarAway [View Original Post]
That being said though, I myself do use a VPN and was questioned once about it showing me in Mexico. Surprisingly, that one met up with me a week later though nothing came of it (wasn't interested).
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03-25-24 22:10 #13337
Posts: 39Hello
Thought I would try SA out. Talking to "Hello". Anyone have experiences with her they don't mind sharing.
https://members.seeking.com/member/2...9-45af3955c657
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03-25-24 14:17 #13336
Posts: 127Let me help you
Originally Posted by CuriousVaMan [View Original Post]
I don't see how you understand her position. To charge you more because you stop seeing her and now coming back? That's curious. Did you mislead her in that you wanted something consistent? Why spin the block now.
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03-25-24 13:23 #13335
Posts: 111She's been mentioned
Originally Posted by Emesdee [View Original Post]
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03-25-24 10:16 #13334
Posts: 2680Originally Posted by BDM1227 [View Original Post]
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03-25-24 08:38 #13333
Posts: 643Damn, seeking DC is like dumpster diving. All these posts asking about these crack looking hoes it's just disgusting.
I'm in NYC now and I was debating if I should fuck with seeking but tinder, hinge are yielding decent results so fuck it.
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03-25-24 06:34 #13332
Posts: 97Originally Posted by FarFarAway [View Original Post]
Of course I'm not sure how well going to the feds does on this situation if their in the UK, but what appears to have worked for me is to cut off the oxygen to the fire. I did say I was going right to the authorities and told them to fuck off. Give them any indication that you can be extorted, actually comply with them and they will exploit that.
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03-25-24 00:13 #13331
Posts: 2680Originally Posted by CuriousVaMan [View Original Post]
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03-25-24 00:00 #13330
Posts: 264Question for those more experienced. RE Time between visits
So I visited an SB three times in late 2023 - say once in Oct, Nov and Dec. For $400 each visit. I texted her tonight to see if she wanted to meet later this week. She says sure, but that'll be $800! After texting a little with her back and forth, she said she needs at least 1 visit per month to maintain the relationship. Am I the asshole for allowing a 3-month lapse in visits? I kinda understand her position, but reality sometimes intervenes in scheduling SB visits.
I have another SB that I saw a few weeks ago after a 3-month lapse and she didn't bat an eye letting me unload in her.
Any thoughts?
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03-24-24 11:45 #13329
Posts: 2680Originally Posted by BDM1227 [View Original Post]
While cheating on my spouse maybe isn't the nicest thing, so far as IK it isn't criminal. However, extortion definitely is, and it is a Federal crime. You have provided in your messages to me all of the evidence the FBI would need to put you into Federal prison. So, if you persist in carrying out your threats, I'll have no alternative than to go to law enforcement, and you can be certain they have the resources to track you down, in person.
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03-24-24 09:57 #13328
Posts: 2680Originally Posted by BDM1227 [View Original Post]
BTW, the person threatening you was most likely not a real sugarbaby, right? A guy w / w conniving mind like ours more likely.
There are ways to fight facial rec by modifying the real photos of you that are out there. It can prevent the software from forming the data needed to include you in their database. But everything that is really you out there needs to be pre-treated. Something to think about.