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**Shinshi86** · 04-18-21 18:24

Originally Posted by DcGuy246 [View Original Post]

Alright guys. What has been your "oh shi, I know that girl" moment and what if anything has come from it?

Funny you should ask! My SB & I recently went for a quick bite to eat. About halfway through our meal, one of my high school classmates walked in the restaurant with her mother & sat two tables away. Seeing how she knows my family & friends, this could've presented some serious problems. Hell, one look at my "date" & I is enough to discern the sizable age difference! Thankfully, they never looked my way & I was able to position my seat with a pillar blocking me from view. What are the odds?

There was another close call last year (which is linked below). That one might not have resulted in any blowback & we probably could've had a fantastic time. But I just couldn't (and still can't) knowingly smash another man's wife. That's one of my few rules & I'd be a hypocrite if I did so. Not judging anyone who believes differently, but my personal stance is there needs to be mutual consent / blessing from all parties. Not sure if she's still getting some on the side or not, but I do know she's still married. Ah well, none of my business & I'd just rather not engage in hobby fun with anyone I know.

Originally Posted by Shinshi86 [View Original Post]

The place was surprisingly packed, but I eventually glimpsed my date and froze in my tracks. The reason I thought she looked familiar was because I did in fact know her! She was my sibling's classmate during their high school years! Once she became a sophomore in college, I asked her out and got rejected. I didn't take it personally as she was pretty nice about it. Also to her credit, my life was a goddamn mess at that time and she was a straight-A student with quite a future mapped out. Fast forward a decade later, and here she was in the most stunning dress & heels and looking as jaw-dropping as when we had first met. So what did I do? I played it off like I was looking for my table or party, then walked right the fuck out.

**DcGuy246** · 04-18-21 14:30

Alright guys. What has been your "oh shi, I know that girl" moment and what if anything has come from it?

**MikelSuTiger** · 04-18-21 12:16

Maybe I'm the odd man out, but, I don't see the thrill, not worth the risk for me.

Be safe.

Originally Posted by Lobsid [View Original Post]

Crazy part she isn't on birth control. Wonder which of us will end up be her baby daddy.

**Tophat31** · 04-18-21 12:08

Originally Posted by Shinshi86 [View Original Post]

I typically try to make 1st meetups more convenient for them. I'll offer to get a hotel relatively close to their area--not reserving until I've laid eyes on them--and then offer to meet in public or at the hotel lobby. From my experience, it's usually 50-50. Some wish to meet at Starbucks, the mall, or a bar first while others want to head straight to the FC. Either option is fine by me!

And if they want to go out to eat after a 2-3 rolls around the sheets, that's fine too. Like someone else mentioned earlier, it's kind of a turn-on eating lunch / dinner with a girl half your age that's still dripping from less than an hour prior.

I have 5 regular SBs that I have been seeing for a few years and all of them except one I did a meet and greet first and it paid off for a long term arrangement.

I think the difference is volume and value. If they want a meet and greet they are probably more selective and will have less volume which is important to me bc I am not using condoms with any of them.

Second your more likely to get better value (multiple rounds, sleepovers, and even free hookups) because it feels like a date and especially for younger girls that blurs the lines a bit in your favor.

Just my opinion, I'm sure Kevin will respond that he does anal in the Starbucks bathroom with these girls but that's been my experience.

I had a 19 yrold girl who was from Mongolia visiting for the summer and we did a meet and greet and she ended up staying at my place the following weekend for round the clock sex for free, but I ended up giving her 300 just bc I liked her. We even went on tinder that weekend and had two threesomes with 18 year olds and the second one we recorded and I still have.

Long story short, the meet and greets although annoying have always paid long term dividends for me.

Happy hunting.

**GuyInTheCorner** · 04-18-21 11:40

Originally Posted by DickLongwood [View Original Post]

It involves SBs and SDs, but there's a lot of opinions and advice for women. I've also seen something else, but I've forgotten what it was.

Yes, are / sugarlifestyleforum is very popular. Largely focused on discussion and advice. Not on individuals though. But you do get to hear some good stories of what not to do and you also get incredible insight into SB POV.

**Shinshi86** · 04-18-21 10:59

Originally Posted by KevinCalormis [View Original Post]

I enjoyed her as well. As NovaSD indicated, multiple rounds and everything uncovered. I don't know why some of you insist on taking these h*okers on dates first. She showed up at my hotel and was blowing me 5 minutes later. Some of you make this a lot more complicated than it needs to be.

https://www.seeking.com/member/ad7c6...d-9e77d0185af4

I typically try to make 1st meetups more convenient for them. I'll offer to get a hotel relatively close to their area--not reserving until I've laid eyes on them--and then offer to meet in public or at the hotel lobby. From my experience, it's usually 50-50. Some wish to meet at Starbucks, the mall, or a bar first while others want to head straight to the FC. Either option is fine by me!

And if they want to go out to eat after a 2-3 rolls around the sheets, that's fine too. Like someone else mentioned earlier, it's kind of a turn-on eating lunch / dinner with a girl half your age that's still dripping from less than an hour prior.

**Lobsid** · 04-18-21 10:01

Crazy part she isn't on birth control. Wonder which of us will end up be her baby daddy.

Originally Posted by KevinCalormis [View Original Post]

I enjoyed her as well. As NovaSD indicated, multiple rounds and everything uncovered. I don't know why some of you insist on taking these h*okers on dates first. She showed up at my hotel and was blowing me 5 minutes later. Some of you make this a lot more complicated than it needs to be.

https://www.seeking.com/member/ad7c6581-3843-4e2d-a45d-9e77d0185af4

**Lobsid** · 04-18-21 08:51

https://www.seeking.com/member/dc9f4...d-3d98219be1ab

400 ppm right away. Then started asking if I want nudes, and then how much will I pay for the nudes.

**DWinthrop** · 04-18-21 08:30

Originally Posted by BigddsFan [View Original Post]

We discussed ppm via chat and arrived at a similar figure. At the meet and greet she tells me that's just for a social outing. If I was looking for more it would be double. She is cute and I kind of enjoyed her company (tho she does like to hear herself talk) but, uh, no thanks. I gave her some petty cash in light of the "misunderstanding" and will move on.

I enjoyed her as well. As NovaSD indicated, multiple rounds and everything uncovered. I don't know why some of you insist on taking these h*okers on dates first. She showed up at my hotel and was blowing me 5 minutes later. Some of you make this a lot more complicated than it needs to be.

https://www.seeking.com/member/ad7c6581-3843-4e2d-a45d-9e77d0185af4

**Lobsid** · 04-17-21 21:45

https://www.seeking.com/member/f15ef...8-bd2d2faa0c6e

$400 ppm but asking for $150 advance to get someone to take care of disabled sister at home. Her number has a Illinois area code.

**SadMe** · 04-17-21 11:59

Originally Posted by ItsAHobby45 [View Original Post]

I'm sure a lot of you guys know her as she's been around for a while and is more of a pro / semi pro but she doesn't have her apartment at the ladysmith exit anymore. She reached out to me this morning and said she has a room right off the warrenton and wants some company. She's not the hottest but she can definitely take dick in whatever hole you want to put it in and she's very cheap. I haven't seen her in over a year but I was paying $80 for whatever I wanted. Her number hasn't changed so if you're hard up and want a little fun before the weekend she's available. She's not active on seeking anymore or I'd post a link.

How to get hold of her?

**DickLongwood** · 04-17-21 11:27

Originally Posted by FogHorn1 [View Original Post]

I talked to one SB several months ago who told me about a FB group she was a part of that was all about the bowl. She mentioned it was basically the how to's of being a SB. How to ask for allowance, how to get more allowance, how to juggle multiple SDs at a time, etc. The way she described it it was more of a national advice board as opposed to area specific board to discuss individual daddies. (Though she could have just left that part out) I agree that these boards where we are all discussed must exist, I've never seen one. It also doesn't make sense to me that if a girl finds a SD that is paying her allowance that she would spread the good word about him and risk him moving on to another SB. So, I would assume it's more of a shit talking board to discuss the SDs that have somehow pissed one of them off.

It involves SBs and SDs, but there's a lot of opinions and advice for women. I've also seen something else, but I've forgotten what it was.

**FogHorn1** · 04-17-21 08:51

Originally Posted by BigddsFan [View Original Post]

Thought I read in another post that someone found and infiltrated a FB group where SBs discussed things. Though from OP's description of the discussion, it sounded more like a place scammers got together to discuss tradecraft than a forum frequented by actual sugar girls.

I talked to one SB several months ago who told me about a FB group she was a part of that was all about the bowl. She mentioned it was basically the how to's of being a SB. How to ask for allowance, how to get more allowance, how to juggle multiple SDs at a time, etc. The way she described it it was more of a national advice board as opposed to area specific board to discuss individual daddies. (Though she could have just left that part out) I agree that these boards where we are all discussed must exist, I've never seen one. It also doesn't make sense to me that if a girl finds a SD that is paying her allowance that she would spread the good word about him and risk him moving on to another SB. So, I would assume it's more of a shit talking board to discuss the SDs that have somehow pissed one of them off.

**MilesNoDavis** · 04-17-21 01:50

Originally Posted by HeyDuhman [View Original Post]

I do believe something like this does exist. It might not be a forum or discussion board. It might like a group chat, whatsapp or something else that is not easy for us guys to find and maybe impossible for us to join / participate in. The reason I know something like this exists. One of my SBs recently sent me a message asking me why I cheated a girl out of her PPM. I was like WTF?! And she asked me this around the same time as 2 other SBs cancelled confirmed appointments, blocked me and ghosted me (including one of them after a very fun / flirty and good chemistry meet and greet which was followed up with flirty texts confirming our first intimate date.) . I figured something was up. I asked my SB where is she hearing all this bad information about me (I did not cheat the girl out of PPM, she wanted the cash upfront after dinner, but before coming up to the room which I could not do so I let her go after dinner. She posted some shit about me on this supposed SBs forum).

Anyway, I asked my SB where she is getting all this gossip about me. And she blurted out some weird excuse how she just found out through a friend who knew so and so. But that did not explain the random and unexpected cancellations. So I told my SB what actually happened and told her. "if you meet your friend please set the record straight" . Which I guess meant she may have posted on this SB forum my response. So while the SBs who did cancel and ghost me never re-engaged, I haven't had issues meeting more SBs since (I. E. I'm guessing my SB cleared my name somewhat).

Who the fuck know?! But be careful guys the girls are not stupid.

I've actually been trying to find thier chat / board myself. I'm pretty certain I'm on it. And I must have pissed somebody off, because I've been getting an unsual amount of ghosting lately.

**MilesNoDavis** · 04-17-21 01:48

Originally Posted by BadDog170 [View Original Post]

Look guys, you can't help these women, you can't fix these women. As sweet and beautiful as they may be, they are fundamentally broken. They are signing up to be used by complete strangers for money. There is nothing normal or well adjusted about them, whatever they tell you (or themselves). I had a couple play the 'I didn't know card' but then they just got right back on SA. Trust me the women have their own boards where they talk about us, you aren't helping by throwing other mongers under the bus.

I just got blasted by an SB for the same thing this week. I'm not posting that kind of stuff anymore either.