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[TomFordModel]

I'm in my early 40's. Came fresh out of a divorce but decided to sugardate instead of regular because I hated the normal apps. Figured I could find something chill, but I got attached like an idiot. She doesn't have a ton of time to date because she's married, so be prepared for that. She can't host, obviously. But that also means if you see her on a regular basis, you're probably her only SD. We were together for almost 2 years.

But I am done with the sugar bowl for good. I have a "vanilla" girlfriend now (she's anything but vanilla in bed LOL), and she doesn't put that financial and emotional pressure on me. I just browse here out of habit and boredom. Figured I'd share my only experience.

Gotcha, so you were new to relationships etc since you got out of a divorce. It was newbie mistake. You need to be a seasoned fuck boy to realize to not fall for any of these hoes!

Well, at least you learn from your experience. Far from interested in that profile because that ***** is too old. Just curious about your experience and how you caught feels.

[CaptMurphy]

Sounds good. Hmm are you older? Like 60 plus just to put it in perspective.

I'm in my early 40's. Came fresh out of a divorce but decided to sugardate instead of regular because I hated the normal apps. Figured I could find something chill, but I got attached like an idiot. She doesn't have a ton of time to date because she's married, so be prepared for that. She can't host, obviously. But that also means if you see her on a regular basis, you're probably her only SD. We were together for almost 2 years.

But I am done with the sugar bowl for good. I have a "vanilla" girlfriend now (she's anything but vanilla in bed LOL), and she doesn't put that financial and emotional pressure on me. I just browse here out of habit and boredom. Figured I'd share my only experience.

[TomFordModel]

Huh. So, I am normally a lurker, but the reason being is that I had a stable SB for a long time. And that was her. She got bored of me and decided to move on. I was an idiot and fell in love with her. Oh well, I've learned, and won't be doing that again. Only reason why I know it's her is because of the username, I never saw that photo of her.

Anyway, I guess I should share my experience. We had a connection off the bat. Never used a condom and she loved creampies. She loves taking control and being rough with me, but didn't really enjoy being handled too roughly. Hence the "dom" thing, and why she's looking for a sub I suppose. But she is great in the sack and gives great head. Very accommodating and giving if you build a rapport (but no anal). As far as money, I gave her stuff when she asked, but she could probably be had at a lower price point ($300) if she finds you attractive and you are well endowed.

She's of middle eastern decent, has a lot of tattoos, and chin length purple hair. I loved her body, but I'm sure guys that are used to younger, tighter bodied women are not going to be as happy as I was. She did have a bit of a paunch, and some boob sag, but I was fine with that (honestly kinda preferred it). She did go to the gym a lot though, and has good muscle tone. Her face was gorgeous, and always smelled great.

She's very sensual, but also hot and cold. She wants a lot of attention, but also doesn't want to bothered half the time. It drove me nuts towards the end. She never flaked on me though, just pushed me away after "love bombing" me. If you can keep your emotional distance, and be submissive to what she wants, she can be a lot of fun.

Sounds good. Hmm are you older? Like 60 plus just to put it in perspective.

[CaptMurphy]

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...c-e5ec4b588da4

Asking way too much $500 at 34 years old, covered full service, no anal. She preferred to be a domme (LOL). She wouldn't budge on it either. Wouldn't send real pics. Couldn't tell if it was a scam, but she didn't ask for money up front. Just a time waster.

Huh. So, I am normally a lurker, but the reason being is that I had a stable SB for a long time. And that was her. She got bored of me and decided to move on. I was an idiot and fell in love with her. Oh well, I've learned, and won't be doing that again. Only reason why I know it's her is because of the username, I never saw that photo of her.

Anyway, I guess I should share my experience. We had a connection off the bat. Never used a condom and she loved creampies. She loves taking control and being rough with me, but didn't really enjoy being handled too roughly. Hence the "dom" thing, and why she's looking for a sub I suppose. But she is great in the sack and gives great head. Very accommodating and giving if you build a rapport (but no anal). As far as money, I gave her stuff when she asked, but she could probably be had at a lower price point ($300) if she finds you attractive and you are well endowed.

She's of middle eastern decent, has a lot of tattoos, and chin length purple hair. I loved her body, but I'm sure guys that are used to younger, tighter bodied women are not going to be as happy as I was. She did have a bit of a paunch, and some boob sag, but I was fine with that (honestly kinda preferred it). She did go to the gym a lot though, and has good muscle tone. Her face was gorgeous, and always smelled great.

She's very sensual, but also hot and cold. She wants a lot of attention, but also doesn't want to bothered half the time. It drove me nuts towards the end. She never flaked on me though, just pushed me away after "love bombing" me. If you can keep your emotional distance, and be submissive to what she wants, she can be a lot of fun.

[Itfcd]

https://members.seeking.com/member/c...9-03533b07c6d0

Anyone seen this one? She's too particular in the looks department to be mistaken for anyone else, so it's pretty obvious to me that she also used to have an ad on Tryst:

https://web.archive.org/web/20200925...ophiedevereaux

The weird thing is that she uses a fake name based on a character from the show "Leverage". I don't really think it's the best idea to reference blackmail, however obliquely, when participating in these things, but whatever.

[Max #01]

https://members.seeking.com/member/2...3-fbdd8141c9e7

Anyone seen this girl? Appreciate any info. You can PM me.

"Heavy drinker" First I've seen that.

[Emesdee]

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...a-7a0e53aea172

Photos are stolen. The girl in the photo is Spanish, not Brazilian.

[Dimples572]

Do gift cards / prepaid cards no longer work on SA? The other day I received notification that my account that I've had for almost 3 yrs got shut down for some bullshit, but about a yr ago I created another account that I would use just to check to see if a gal closed her account and / or blocked me. So I went to try to pay for a premium account under that login by using a prepaid Visa, when I was entering the first 6 digits of the card # I got a little popup message that said something about the number of approval's with a prepaid card is kinda low yada yada yada. So I hit submit, the page refreshed and when I tried to log back in it told me that the account is temporarily suspended. So I checked the card balance and nothing's been deducted from the card so I thought does this have to do with that they're tracking my IP address from another account they've already shut down and they're going to come back and tell me this dummy account is shut down too? So I tried to create another profile on my cell without using WIFI, tried to enter the prepay card info and I got the same response that its temporarily suspended. So at this point idk if its getting flagged due to my main account being shut down, or if its because I'm trying to use a prepaid card.

[Decadentme]

So a couple of people wanting help. After being an SD for many years I can tell you that some of it just comes with a bit of experience dealing with crazy situations but I'll try to provide a short list.

1. Never pay in advance, do not send dick pics especially with your face unless you want extorted. Either situation will leave you alone on a date with Rosie.

2. Within your profile just try to be normal, something like "Just an average, chill guy, looking to have fun with one lady, who appreciates a successful man. Looking for discretion, and one on one time with the right lady. " Avoid words like "intimacy, sex, ppm, etc. " just state "I prefer to discuss this stuff off line, if you'd like to text to work out specifics, I'm down for that. " Always speak like you're chill and cool.

3. Hide all Live in Indiana, Indiana. They don't live in Indiana and / or live too far away and have zero good intentions.

4. Just hide the ones that say that they are looking to sell pics and videos or meet in person eventually, there is no eventually.

5. If they text you, don't assume all is good, talk to them like normal, if they say times have been tough (red flag, ask more questions. Chances are it'll lead to asking you for money for a baby sitter, money for their sisters meds, money for groceries, or gas ahead of meeting. Just wait for it, I promise, 90% of the time, they'll reveal that to you and then you'll just end up blocking them, therefore refer to rule number 1.

6. Never pay for a meet and greet. If a woman needs to be paid to simply meet for drinks, she doesn't like you anyway and you aren't getting anywhere but a boner for some hot chick being a * to you and checking her watch.

7. Ignore the "My last SD paid me" or "I usually get" because remember, they just said "I'm new to this". So stick to your guns, the average is 2-3 $4 these days, or 4 $$ for top of the line, hosting, no hotel, babes. Fat, ugly chicks, maybe $1.

8. If their first and last call is todays date, feel free to reach out and let us know how it goes. But chances are they are dudes who robbed instagram photos so might as well wait a day or two to see if they get banned or not.

9. Some women despite what I said are real, and just on drugs, so ask for current photos and look for obvious signs of pharma use -- track marks, rotten teeth, extremely skinny, etc. At that point its up to you, just please use a condom with the real women on that site that the rest of us may choose to date. I don't want what you catch from the crackster.

10. Be nice, be real, be sincere. While they are all hooking, basically, some do like to see one guy at a time (most lie but some no) so be cool to them. If they want to meet you and you click with them in text, they probably do find you attractive for your age so be even more nice to them. Just don't start offering stupid money to make them think that's the norm, because they likely aren't just seeing you and our replies will just piss them off and your price will go up as a result (just sayin' Consider your hourly worth and never offer more then that as you surely aren't getting your value at that point. Also consider their hourly rate if they have a job, and meet somewhere in the middle. Mutual means mutual. Last point here. If you meet a good one, stick with her for a while, until things wear off for both of you, as the good ones are more rare these days and as long as I've been on I've had the luxury of once knowing great ones who are still on every single day that are now just bitter and cold.

11. Don't discuss price. I've gotten laid for free simply for being successful and charming the hell out of a woman many times. Just agree to meet, and avoid Starbucks, those dates suck and usually just create uncomfortable situations. Somewhere comfortable for both of you. Also, you don't want to be entrapped for solicitation. So stick to the "we can discuss that once we know chemistry exists on both sides as I want you and I to both be comfortable with one another. " If you meet in person the price normally cuts down considerably.

12. It's best to discuss "weekly until I know you better allowance" and focus the energy on how many times per week, better value that way. Many will want a ball park, just throw it back in their lap and ask them what their ball park is and say "Ok, sounds cool, we can discuss that in person. ".

13. If they need to know price upfront without even getting to know you, just tell them you aren't on Ebay, you're on a dating site, do you want to get to know me or not? If not, then move on, that or fuck with them but caution. You could get reported and banned from the site.

14. I'll stop on an even number. I don't care if a lady is a pro hooker or a lady who is trying to get through college, or a lady just wants a slightly older man to marry, the site is becoming very diverse and is full of crazy ass liberals. So I guess the best suggestion I could give is to not rush the conversation to What, how much, when, and where. Just get to know them as if you wanted to date them, or had interest in considering so. It'll get you further with more incredible experiences then if you treated someone like a peace of meat; as you probably don't want treated like an ATM.

Hope some of this is helpful and I'm sure others will have useful advice.

P.S. -- if you want to know about someone, I only block those that fall into the unsafe category and most of the time when you guys are asking about someone with plans to meet, I've long ago blocked them because either a: they wanted money up front, b: were on drugs c: sent nasty photos compared to their profile, or d: were super GPS (like over 5 $$ . Which I'd pay for a dream chick I must admit but never more). I'll try to do better by just hiding them so I can give advice but will be sure to let you know if I blocked them for those reasons. I never block someone over just being an ass, as they usually forget about me within a couple of weeks and like Ground Hog Day I can attempt a better approach the next time. Just PM me as I don't check in here often enough to reply. Also I would say, trust Mr. P. He's a good dude and knows his shit.

JaX.

[JonFisher]

https://members.seeking.com/member/2...3-fbdd8141c9e7

Anyone seen this girl? Appreciate any info. You can PM me.

[GMarts018]

That's probably her best pic on the profile. So she's more than likely to be a cow and at 34 probably all haggard looking. Typically, hoes that think they're good looking post their shit out there.

And is that a turd laying on the ground behind her? 😂.

[Jackbenimble17]

This one clearly has GPS. Reached out, quickly went to text and then drops that she has been gifted 2500 in the past. Said no thanks and she quickly blocked me. Who is paying this for a 30 something (looks early 40's).

[Dimples572]

Anyone taken a run at this one? Would love to motorboat those things LOL.

https://members.seeking.com/member/2...6-c1ae35e85db7

[JonFisher]

Avoid this profile on SA: https://members.seeking.com/member/a...9-e3ca68d57283.

Not sure if the link works, I blocked her before posting this. I won't write too much because it would be a huge wall of text, but at best she's extremely restrictive with rules. At worst she's an in-person scammer. DM me if you're talking to her and want details.

I am talking to her. Any intel is most appreciated.

[TomFordModel]

https://members.seeking.com/member/0...c-e5ec4b588da4

Asking way too much $500 at 34 years old, covered full service, no anal. She preferred to be a domme (LOL). She wouldn't budge on it either. Wouldn't send real pics. Couldn't tell if it was a scam, but she didn't ask for money up front. Just a time waster.

That's probably her best pic on the profile. So she's more than likely to be a cow and at 34 probably all haggard looking. Typically, hoes that think they're good looking post their shit out there.