Freebies and other Non-pro Reports

[Aurellius]

Hi!

Anyone know where can I find a mature woman for a simple, private exotic dance? I'm not looking for a model!

I tried CL but I just get a bunch of bots, flakes, and flagged ads. I'm out of ideas!

Appreciate your advice!

[Editit]

I know that this is probably not the right place for this, but I'm kind of at a loss. I have a friend that wants to start selling her panties. She's in a bind, working a full time job and it's hard for her to make ends meet.

I told her I would help her as much as I could, and she has sold a couple of pairs but, she can't keep an ad up on Craigslist. It gets flagged soon after its put up. I know this is not everyone's cup.

Of tea, but damn, why flag the ad every time?

We have discussed venturing a little deeper in the entertainment world of adults, but for now, she wants to stick this out. Any suggestions as to how to get the work out?

She is smoking hot by the way.

So she just wants to sell them? No other activities or things on display?

[Starliner63]

I know that this is probably not the right place for this, but I'm kind of at a loss. I have a friend that wants to start selling her panties. She's in a bind, working a full time job and it's hard for her to make ends meet.

I told her I would help her as much as I could, and she has sold a couple of pairs but, she can't keep an ad up on Craigslist. It gets flagged soon after its put up. I know this is not everyone's cup.

Of tea, but damn, why flag the ad every time?

We have discussed venturing a little deeper in the entertainment world of adults, but for now, she wants to stick this out. Any suggestions as to how to get the work out?

She is smoking hot by the way.

[Righton1960]

Righton. Can you please share some tips on getting pictures where you are not recognizable. Can the face be blurred or do women tend to swipe left on them?

BTW you're the first person to spell "discreet" correctly in all the online posts / profiles I have come across!

Artsy shots are good. Like some kind of vista picture taken of you from behind. It'll show your body type and some minor physical characteristics but it's just the back of your head. At one point I just took four pictures of me all wearing masks. That got some really interesting replies. Again, the key is being interesting and thought-provoking. We go for GFE providers instead of hooking up with some rando at a bar. Think of yourself as another kind of provider looking for a service you can provide.

I don't get spelling mistakes. Not when our browsers put dotted red lines under the words and will automatically fix them for us.

Do you have any constraints on your availability I. E. Can only meet certain days / times? I can play only during the day so I am not getting my hopes high with Tinder.

I have a fairly flexible schedule, but have done most playing during the day. I work at one of the local universities and have had some good times getting myself into safe fantasy-play with girls from other schools that want to fuck their TAs or professors. Good for everybody, because it gets it out of our system.

[PghGuy2005]

I've never put a recognizable picture of my face on it. Need to be discreet myself.
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Righton. Can you please share some tips on getting pictures where you are not recognizable. Can the face be blurred or do women tend to swipe left on them?

BTW you're the first person to spell "discreet" correctly in all the online posts / profiles I have come across!

[PghGuy2005]

...I've gotten the best lays from girls where the dialogue goes something like:
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This took me 2-3 minutes to write out and it's about that much effort of the app. Keep low expectations but stay on top of it, something will hit. I'm in Durham so only meet people in CH / Ral / sometimes go.

Do you have any constraints on your availability I. E. Can only meet certain days / times? I can play only during the day so I am not getting my hopes high with Tinder.

[Righton1960]

Does your Tinder profile have no pictures at all or clever pictures that make identification from the picture difficult.

I will give Tinder a whirl!

I've never put a recognizable picture of my face on it. Need to be discreet myself. The key to Tinder is being interesting. So I will either make or grab some crazy shots. Things that someone might like you so they can ask about it. There are a TON of girls out there that want to get laid. Lots of them want some strange too but seem to not want to feel skuzzy because of it. I go with being a little weird, into interesting music / books / movies, and super-duper sex positive / GGG. I'm not interested in drama, so the non-specific pictures and being upfront about "just looking to hang out right now" or "looking for some fun adventures" kinds of stuff, then I end up with the right match. I've gotten the best lays from girls where the dialogue goes something like:

Me: Tinder is totally weird, but I'm totally into (insert something from profile or her pics) and couldn't help but write you".

Her: yeah, it's weird.

Her: what's your story.

Me: cut to the above stuff and ask something non-personal about her (what are you listening to / reading right now).

Her: I'm reading XXXX book.

Me: I loved that book, how far are you? (quickly figure out what I need to about the book as needed, google has everything).

Me: so, I'm into talking to you but don't like being on this app, do you want to meet up for a drink or something?

Her: yes.

This took me 2-3 minutes to write out and it's about that much effort of the app. Keep low expectations but stay on top of it, something will hit. I'm in Durham so only meet people in CH / Ral / sometimes go.

[PghGuy2005]

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I'm here to tell you that Tinder is a beautiful thing (provided you are under 40. I think it gets tough after that or you need to be able to lie about your age). Even if you are married, it's still a gold mine. You just have to be a normal person that is straightforward about what you are looking for and have that sort of mesh with what she is looking for. I had one Tinder profile that set me up with four different on-off FWBs and never once had my face showing in the profile. I can give you tons more details on how to work it, but I can't recommend it enough.
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I was on OKC briefly and left when it appeared to be a regular dating site than a hookup site! Moreover I have to be discreet and OKC users expect pictures. Does your Tinder profile have no pictures at all or clever pictures that make identification from the picture difficult.

I will give Tinder a whirl!

[Righton1960]

Long time lurker here, but post oTHEr places. I wanted to chime in on the Ashley Madison stuff. At this point I would think AM is dead in the water after the hack controversy. Also, the analysis of the hacked data suggests that a minimal number of the female profiles were real. While the vast majority were fake ones created by the company.

I've been in and out of the hobby for while. I got sucked in by a friend when she started dancing and doing porn. She told me it was a "moral obligation" to validate sex workers in all possible ways. That was just the slippery slop I needed to get me started. In the last couple of years I've gone almost completely freebie, though.

I'm here to tell you that Tinder is a beautiful thing (provided you are under 40. I think it gets tough after that or you need to be able to lie about your age). Even if you are married, it's still a gold mine. You just have to be a normal person that is straightforward about what you are looking for and have that sort of mesh with what she is looking for. I had one Tinder profile that set me up with four different on-off FWBs and never once had my face showing in the profile. I can give you tons more details on how to work it, but I can't recommend it enough.

After trying to hook up on CL Casual for a decade and it only resulting in some sad and kinda gross situations, I've had sex with 13 new people around the state in the last year. That's lots of STD tests. But all totally worth it!

[PghGuy2005]

...Also, it's important that you learn to spot the bits and don't waste your credits on them.

Are they the ones with an empty profile and no pictures .

[HoganMike04]

What do you mean by "sting"? Like std? Cops?

I have had very little luck with freebies, only a few times at the Hill and Pegasus. Unless your Brad Pitt or hung like a horse, freebies are rare. If you get them, they usually have a sting. NO THANKS. However, after many years of playing with pros my new game is non pros, they are much better GFE and enjoy sex, with a "its not just a job, its an adventure" attitude. Here I have been having a lot of success.

This blog is only for free pussy so I won't contribute further other than to say stay away from the Korean bars, they are not worth the price. Much better value in Fayville.

Play safe,

PH.

[SailorSam]

I have been on it since the beginning of the year and spent $130 for 300 credits so far only been able to instant message and email with a couple who have gone silent.

Thinking of getting the affair guarantee for $250 - good idea? Considering that I am in my 50's.

It worked for me. It really helps if you like fat girls. I sent dozens of messages, meet three gurus in person, and fucked two of them. One turned into an affair that lasted almost a year, until I got careless and my wife caught me.

Both of the women I fucked were fat. The skinny one was very flaky and wasted a lot of my time.

Also, it's important that you learn to spot the bits and don't waste your credits on them.

[PghGuy2005]

Since so many guys post it is important that my ad does not appear far down the list when the women log in so is there a time of day / day of week to post?

[PghGuy2005]

I have been on it since the beginning of the year and spent $130 for 300 credits so far only been able to instant message and email with a couple who have gone silent.

Thinking of getting the affair guarantee for $250 - good idea? Considering that I am in my 50's.

[Alswell]

I met a nice sex obsessed BBW on the craigslist and she has already had me escort her to a hotel party but it was a little sketchy just in a room with a lot of dudes not couples. I saw a place in Raleigh called the house. Is it a good place for newbies? Any info would be appreciated. BTW freebies on craigslist is like fishing 95 percent nothing but when she strikes be ready beacause she might not strike again.