CL mining / Hooking up with real civilians

[Deori]

Hey guys, just had to pop on and share this / brag. I finally found a hot girl off of Craigslist. She responded to a hookup ad that I had posted under Casual Encounters. At first I thought she was spam as she sent me a hot, faceless body pic and short response. Nope. She's real. Cute, petite, mid 20's Asian chick. We exchanged face pics, then numbers, texted a bunch and set something up for the weekend. We met for lunch which went really well, then back to her place to "watch a movie", but that quickly led to her taking me to the bedroom. I ended up banging her all week. She's only in Vegas half the time and supposedly going through a divorce. She texts me all the time while she's out of town and is sweet as could be. Don't know where it's going to go, but the universe has been truly kind to me! This has turned into a sweet little FWB situation. I actually like this chick and I'm going to enjoy it while it lasts. Hopefully I don't get gunned down by a jealous husband! Just wanted to share that there are occasionally hot chicks on good 'ole CL.

Oh, I was also contacted off that same ad by a pretty decent looking 18 year old. Same thing, few e-mails, pics, and then texting. Her communication wasn't as good and I had a sure thing with the Asian girl, so I never got to follow through with her. Pretty confident she was real, but I might have missed the boat on her. Got a few other mixed responses, also some dudes like always. I've also talked with some young chicks (18,19) off of Women Seeking Men that are fine with dating older guys. I'm in my late 20's. I feel too old to date those young chicks at this point, but I'll sneak a fuck in with them if an easy opportunity presents itself. I've mostly had better luck with chicks responding to the ads that I post rather than responding to girls' ads. I always say that girls choose the guy. I've played around with it a bit and the key with CL hookups is quick, steady communication. Keep a line on them, take it to text quickly, and set something up within a few days max to meet up or you'll lose them. Happy hunting fellow scoundrels!

[Rbt3444]

Are they cool with you being from out of town or do you have to put a spin on it?

The spin I put on it is that I'm thinking about opening an office in what ever city I'm going to, and am looking for a pretty woman to show me around this way when I leave, the company changed its mind.

[Scorpio22]

The two chicks I had flaked on me so I took a break from it for a while, I think I need to work on my pictures the most I an average looking guy but skinny. I'm 32 but could pass for 18 early 20's, been trying to work on my body to make myself more attarctive and give myself more of a manly look instead.

I managed to find those guys youtube channel so anybody wanting to see and hear them can now do so. I'll try and get back into this some more and focus on it in the summer, I determined to get at least 1 chick off POF for a one night stand. If anybody has any more resources they found post them or whatevers been working for you I want to hear how this paid off for somebody LOL.

https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCFH...7nn9GqSpgwu1kQ

[Brit Guy]

I'm thinking about delving into this world a little if I make it out to Vegas this summer, so thanks for those links, Scorpio!

Some homework to be done there, and hopefully some fun to be had if I don't just go the lazy route.

[Joesun1]

Scorpio mad props I don't know where you found those sites but thanks for posting them I'm sure they will help guys who are in the POF, CL game I'm going to make good use of them.

P.S. I met this girl off of CL kinda clingy type but sure is a good FUCK!! Not BBW at all but proportionally built will continue to see her until she figures out I'm just there to get laid.

P.S.S. Deori check your inbox I'm sending you a PM.

[Deori]

Scorpio,

If you're just looking for girls that are going to come to your house and fuck you, I think you're better off trolling craigslist. There will be some on POF too, but I don't think you're going to ever get a hot chick from POF to just come to your house and bang you amigo. First or second date, sure. Drive to your house and suck your cock? No. Not a hot girl. It's BBW highway. I do get the whole "have a stranger come to your house and fuck them" bucket list thing. That's why I was getting my jollies off on craigslist too.

I read the first article posted by that guy...and oh my god man, I can see why you're not having much luck if you're following his advice. Ditch the jersey shore routine man. Maybe that guy does get hot girls from there, but a) he is totally shredded and b) he's a complete douche bag. I can't ever imagine trying to emulate that. The one point I thought was valid on there was that if you're seeing a bunch of girls, you're less available and it makes girls want to sink their teeth into you, for better or worse. When you're banging a steady stream of women you don't have that stink of desperation on you either. Makes a big difference. I found it easy to go on tons of dates from POF, but the whole routine got stale to me after a few months. I popped on my old account recently and I just can't do it right now man. I'm just not feeling it this go around. Best of luck to you man really, but if you want to land some girls you wouldn't be embarrassed to be seen with, consider taking them on a date or two. Pussy costs money. Period.

[Zman429]

I see what your saying and if it works for you that's all that matters. I'm trying to screen for girls that are ready to fuck as quickly as possible, and today I managed to get a bbw (hey got to start somewhere right) that's down to fuck this Sunday. .

I've done POF and gotten some girls after 3 dates but I'm a bit shy. I'm just getting back on it but I'd suggest going on some dates and seeing how far you can get and improving your screening from there like the good looking loser site says. I'm learning albeit it slowy that girls like it when you take a shot at them it shows interest and some will flake if you don't. They also like for you to set up and in person meeting fairly quickly, although every girl is a bit different but again it's better to let them say hold on let's email, text, talk on phone a bit more instead of just emailing back and forth, ie they want you to make a move so make it just go one step at a time.

[Scorpio22]

I see what your saying and if it works for you that's all that matters. I'm trying to screen for girls that are ready to fuck as quickly as possible, and today I managed to get a bbw (hey got to start somewhere right) that's down to fuck this Sunday. Told her to check out my profile and let me know if she was still interested and she was. Two, or three text later and she's sending me pics of her pussy, so hopefully she doesn't flake out. I just want to say I was able to fuck someone of POF the first time meeting them and scratch that off the bucket list! I have another possible pulled off of "Tagged" as soon as she messages me back her number.

I going to play the numbers game and just practice hitting up multiple girls and chatting with them to feel them out and see If notice any patterns in girls profiles that show their more likely to fuck fast, I'm not interested in goin out on dates. Oh yeah I also came across two UTR providers that I'm going to smash when I get the chance. Started talking to them normally at first then they spring the P4 P routine on me LOL.

I'm going to list some resources I came across looking up the subject, take from them what you will, give your opinions on them as well I'd like to hear what works for anybody doing this so I can incorporate it into my gameplan.

http://www.goodlookingloser.com/2013...lenty-of-fish/ begginers guide- about plenty of fish, profile tips, messaging, dates, etc.

http://www.goodlookingloser.com/2012...lenty-of-fish/ basic guide-talks about usernames, themes, pictures, more profile tips, plus links to more stuff.

http://the3bromigos.com/category/okcupid-2/ Little bit of stuff about okcupid mostly just trying to sell his ebook about it maybe someone will buy it and share the tips it's only 5 bucks.

But yeah that's what I got hopefully that can help get the ball rolling and other people sharing info on this subject here and keeping a steady stream of pussy rolling in from an unlimited amount of girls popping up everyday on these dating sites.

[Deori]

Scorpio,

I would just suggest you put some good effort into your page. My About Me section is long and frankly well-written haha. The best girls that I've met off of there have contacted me and it's based on something I wrote. My step-brother got on there for a little while when he saw the success I was having. He's taller and probably a little better looking than me, but he was having no luck. I don't really write chicks in general, as I've done fine with the ones that write me, but also keep in mind that the hottest girls on there have hundreds if not thousands of messages coming at them. On POF, as in life, the girl picks the guy. I went out with a girl once, who had contacted me, who showed me her POF app and her inbox had like 300 unread messages in it and she was like a 7/10, LOL. The best girl I ever met on there (the masseuse) had a hidden profile and she contacted me. I've had two or three hot girls do that. I'm fit and handsome enough, but I'm not very tall or big which is my kryptonite haha, especially online. Just work on your About Me and present yourself well, like a gentleman. And no douchey pictures of you with your shirt off or anything. Not saying you have them, but it's a big complaint I hear from girls. Good luck!

Any chance you could get your friend to give out some tips I just started trying it out myself and it is work, alot of girls just don't respond I'm not a bad looking guy but it seems they won't hit you up if you don't have model looks.

[Scorpio22]

Not working girls, just girls I'll see on a regular basis. Maybe once every week or two for a couple months. Usually go out to eat somewhere first like pollo loco or something. Usually theyre a little on the thicker side. I've had a couple mopeds that were fun to ride but I wouldn't let my friends see me on them. I have gotten lucky with a couple of real pretty ones. I've been on it for probably 3 or 4 years and have pulled off maybe 10 to 15 girls... My friend is much better at it than me, but he doesn't mind letting them think there's going to a relationship out of it. I'm upfront, so a lot of the prettier girls don't go for it.

Any chance you could get your friend to give out some tips I just started trying it out myself and it is work, alot of girls just don't respond I'm not a bad looking guy but it seems they won't hit you up if you don't have model looks.

[Deori]

Depends on the girl. A lot of girls do say "don't contact me if you're from out of town". Those chicks that have the "Casual Dating / No Commitment" status probably don't care.

Are they cool with you being from out of town or do you have to put a spin on it?

[Zman429]

I live in nj, but travel around the country often. I went to check out Las Vegas because I'll be there in 3 weeks.

I've found that POF, ok cupid and date hookup are great for finding civilians it takes a bit of time before you get to town, but the hunt is more than worth it.

Are they cool with you being from out of town or do you have to put a spin on it?

[Joesun1]

What does POF stand for?

Means Plenty of Fish google that and you can get some free rides.

[OCMyke]

What does POF stand for?

It's a dating website. Just google POF, and you'll find it.

[DeadIsland]

Pollo Loco Rabid Squirrel? You're spoiling these girls! Mopeds, haha...

What does POF stand for?