Swingers

**Big Red50** · 01-10-07 15:31

Originally Posted by Cun Cook

Are there any decent places in El Paso for anyone that lives there?

Yeah, walk across the Mexican border to Juarez. Latina Pussy will find you in the first 1000 meters.

Ravens will crush the Colts T-3 and counting

Balmer Big Red

**No Limit** · 01-10-07 15:24

I have never posted in her, but I was wondering if there were any swing clubs near Toledo for a single male to go to.

Sorry if I have wasted anyones time with this post.

Be safe out there!

NL

**Cun Cook** · 12-31-06 03:51

Are there any decent places in El Paso for anyone that lives there?

**Member #5605** · 04-16-06 12:13

Finally found a swing place, that is "close to home" (10 miles from me!). Its "Gary and Margarets" in Mira Loma. They can be reached via: nasca.com

They are part of the "Inland Empire Clubs" category. While the accomadations were 5 stars on a 4 star scale, the crowd was overwhelmingly (and nauseatingly!) BBW's, and SICKENINGLY OBESE ONES at that (garyandmargarets.com web-site states: "BBW's welcome". Judging by the number I saw last night, I thought it was a REQUIREMENT as 8 out of 10 couples there were pushing maximum density, and the women (along with a few men!) were definetly WIDER THEN THEY WERE TALL!). I will go again, as it is average priced ($50.00 for couples, and $60.00 for single men!). I hope I can catch them on a "non-whaling" night, cause I did not have a harpoon last night, and should have had one!

**Richie Sambora** · 02-19-06 16:37

I think it is hard to get in to a swing situation .

Most times it is for the guy who is a closet queer wife is a front Or they want to use you fucking to sell you photo and you get a 2 second bj or hand shake . Sometime the guy can't get it up or no longer works , then it is for real

I have been to a place where i was asked if i would like to fuck his wife .

I asked which one is she , so i looked at her , i said sure.

This dude layed on his side while i was fucking the shit out of his wife and he proceded to jerk himself off .

His mouth was near her thighs ,while i was pounding into her i was watching this guy closely as i thought he was a nuts .

He then slides up closer to her face and he is still jerking off he is about to blow a load i pulled out ,he shoots all over her snatch and belly .

I was like what the fuck ..DUDE

I grab a wipe poured some beer on my cock and washed it off pulled off the condom washed it off again ,took a piss , put my clothes on, got the fuck out of there .

TALK about a memory to stick in your head ,could not consentrate .

This dude would of tried to put it up my ass ,if i did not watch him.

Not that there's anything wrong with being GAY ((not my cup of tea))

I have been to many swing clubs it is definetly hit or miss

Let me ,let you in on a new trend ,i am following .

I stumbled across some pay site ,come to find out that they have what are called Members meets OR BAR MEETS .

YOU GET TO MEET THE GIRL AND OR GIRLS AND THE HUBBIES WHO LIKE TO SWAP AND FUCK THE MEMBERS take the photo's and sell them .

Case point : need to be carefull here .. some of the girls are for hire ! , but if your black you have a higher chance of getting with them .( nothing against black)).

if your white you will get a peice of ass TOO

I have been to a few parties with a friend and have gotten laid and blown from a few of the women , if you like being in the open in a hotel room with 40 guys (((several rooms strung together ))),
who are definetly not atractive most were out of shape .

When you know, you look like FABIO but the blacks and ugly dudes are getting all the ass ????? then , have at it ..

do a search and you will find ,the crack of dawn , is one and
my hottie wife, is another just to name a couple there are about 6 that i know of in florida ... ((i have nothing against Blacks ))

just the prefered choice of the ladies who your going to meet there

I understand this may be slightly typical but not happen on all occasions.
This was one of my experiences .

I did manage to get a hj to completion while the chick rubbed her titis all over me and spoke nasty ..
Theres lots of cock sucking but not to completion ..((white guy <))

My guess is that they want to treat all the member fairly so they stay members ..

Also some guys just pop when a chick looks at them in a certain way ,BECAUSE he has been jerking himself off with the anticipation of getting her mouth on him when she drops and sucks it a little he pops ..

Those are the ones that make for good photo's .

there is lots of cum flying around ,,,nasty ..........Stay Safe RDD

**Swing Club** · 01-09-06 23:39

Try not chain smoking while at the club. There are a lot of women who can't stand it. Try being polite. Alwayys ask the man for permisssions with his wife. When getting with the wife knock the bottom out of that. Its usually for her enjoyment anyway. Ask the husband for any special request, and exchange phone numbers and email address with them.

**Best Tx Monger** · 01-09-06 11:10

Is it just me, or is there discrimination agains the single men in this industry ? Maybe I am ugly, period !

-007

**Member #5605** · 01-02-06 01:56

Anybody found any places in the IE (Riverside/San Bernardino, CA) worth visiting that is not anti-single male?

**PsyberZombie** · 12-28-05 18:17

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**Cephlapod Love** · 12-17-05 19:08

Hey, posted this sometime back on the Philly board, but just found this section of USASG so thought it might be of use to repost it here.

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Swinging IS exciting and erotic, however, it is highly unusual, especially for a single male. Swinging or the 'lifestyle' is not like it is portrayed in the movies; it's not one big orgy where everyone plays with anyone, at least not in my experience.

As a single male you face a tremendous up hill battle. Granted it can be won but, usually only by a few and with careful planning and action. The problem is there are TONS of other guys out there in competition. In my experience most guys that get into the lifestyle do so because they think it is easy sex. It can be. However, I have talked to a lot of women & couples in the lifestyle and the same recurrent themes come out: Guys are jerks! Guys are a dime a dozen! So if you venture into this you need to be on your best behavior, use your best manners and treat the ladies in a way you'd want a boyfriend to treat your sister. Bad behavior by single males only reinforces the negative stereotypes and makes it harder for those that try to behave. DO NOT venture into the lifestyle thinking that the women there are ******, sluts or prostitutes and they treat them on that level. They may want to behave as a wh**e for a few hours on the weekend but they still want to be treated right!

If a married lady wants a single guy, she usually finds him, not vice versa. The politics are quite interesting. One would think that this 'beyond the norm' lifestyle would bring a highly liberal group, not necessarily. This can be highly conservative. Guys will be very protective of their lady and tend to fend off single males, so one has to pass that hoop first. Then of course never be fooled, the woman is in ultimately in charge and final decisions are hers. Of course then there are the couples with issues and getting in the middle of that can bring lots of drama.

So why not find a single lady to be a couple in the lifestyle? Good approach, but know this: Single females in the lifestyle sit at the top of the food chain! EVERYONE wants them and wants attention from them: couples, other bi-single ladies and of course single males. These gals, when they sign up on a swinger's website, get 100 e-mails in the first two days, are immediately over-whelmed and have lots to pick and choose from. Again, standing out from the crowd as polite, sincere and drama free gentleman is a good tactic. Rest assured, bad behavior, or the perception of such, is a death knell. Most single females in the lifestyle run in packs and you better believe, when a new guys shows up they trade information. A good reputation is hard to earn, but a bad reputation is hard to live down.

The guys that I have seen that are long-term successful in the lifestyle are truly amazing. It has nothing to do with looks, though nice equipment doesn't hurt, but being able to make a lady multi-orgasmic can over come tool size. But the successful, long-term guys, are that because they always seem available. I have seen these guys go off with ladies that are either too large for my liking, not attractive or just not my taste. However their willingness to play with these ladies gets them a good reputation and the chance to be around when better targets are available. I asked a guy how he got it up after he had just wandered off with a lady I would not touch with a 10 foot pole. He said, 'Sometimes you just have to think of something else or close you eyes and imagine you are with Tara Banks."

All of that said, not to be discouraging, (just wanted to project a bit of reality) the best thing to do is start with an education on what the lifestyle is and what it is not. Read, several websites on this issue and try to get an understanding of the people that choose this and their orientation, their views on single males, etc. Then head to a club a few times to do some research. I you go with NO EXPECTATIONS, are polite, and ask a lot of questions (show interest in people) about the lifestyle and folks orientation in such you will learn a lot and start to learn how to fit in as a single male. As far as clubs go many limit the ratio of single males to couples or just plain ban them. In somecases single males are welcome only one night a week and couples only on the others. I know one club that lets SMs in on Friday night, action there if it happens, tends to be a gang-bang type; a bunch of horny guys lined up to take a 'turn' with some lady who wants multiple partners. Check on the policies about SMs before you venture out!

Now as far as getting an education, I have always had a soft spot for Patty, she has a book and runs one of the biggest swingers publications.

http://www.connectiononline.com/home.php

Her book is here:

http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/t...=glance&s=books

Here is another resource on the topic recommended by one of the clubs:
http://www.sexuality.org/mgswing.html

Good luck!

**Member #4064** · 11-26-05 19:06

I hope you find someone hunter. I am in the same situation. Florida has some hot clubs. I went to one near Tampa, but it was rough being single. Since then I have been to a few more but generally speaking a single guy is needed at a swinger club like a dollar is needed to a millionaire. Many clubs will let you in but beware of some couples as they can get pretty snotty. It is a hit and miss game as I have also been lucky.

**Pussy Hunter** · 05-15-05 23:49

This is a board for mostly AMP, SW, and others, but I would like to find someone to take me to a swingers group in S. Florida. This is an area that I'd love to partake in if there is a way to get introduced! PLease send me a note if there is someone who can get me introduced!

Thanks,

Pussy Hunter

**Reno Dude** · 12-29-04 20:40

Probably the largest swingers party for New Year's will be at Club Erotica because they'll be at a hotel in Grandview, Missouri. I'll most likely go to that party since they accept single males. Club Erotica runs an ad in a paper called Night Shift locally in Kansas City.
There is another club called The Hideaway on the Kansas side of Kansas City, but it doesn't allow single people.

Reno Dude

**Zidaho** · 11-29-04 23:11

I guess this is my month to post on this board. Frankly I can hardly contain my excitement about going to Brazil next week. Anyway, here are a couple of pics swinging with married women. I met one on AFF, the other on SLS, and the best one on Match. I guess the effort was worth it but wow, it did take a lot of effort.

Have fun

**Zidaho** · 11-28-04 22:56

Hey Mongers,

Can not add much about international swinging clubs. I think i have talked about my Rio swing club experience which was not that great due to my lack of conversational ability.

However, I have had a few good Vegas experiences the past year. THere are about 3-4 good swing houses in Vegas, generally I recommend going with the attitude that most of the individuls you encounter do not have a clue about how to approach or talk up another couple or a man or woman. I would only go in with a female in tow, and preferrably one who wants to be there. Be prepared for a lot of voyer types, and basically they have no conversational skills or in some kind of internalized state that I have been in before, that is unable to loosen up and have fun. So, I strongly recommend taking a partner.

Laurie and I had a great time we chatted up several couples and Laurie was working on a guy she found attractive. I working on two couples, and we were able to all swing together. However, best for one person in the group to be in charge of the environment, that is kind of like a Lietenant, somewhat gregariously holding the horny single guys at bay and graciously inviting certain couples into your semi-private space, otherwise the ambience is too weird and insecure for women. I also noticed couples who would easily get carried away forgetting to insist using condoms. Without going back too many years, generally the swing environment I have experienced the last several years seems rushed, uncertainity and isolation easily prevail particularly in a group absent a focal point, a shade of . . . I don't know creeping oblivious shame??? However, occassional, in memory (that is 20 years ago) the right mix came together and it was a lot of FUN!!! I hope to do more swinging, maybe I will give Laurie a call and see when she will be back in the area. Ha, ha.

I think Swinglifestylecom has swinger meetings every couple of months. Might want to check that out if you want to pursue swinging, though again, preferably with a female as that initially opens up way more doors.