The Morality of Prostitution

**Sporadic** · 01-12-05 07:53

PZ: While I appreciate your concern for my psychosocial development, I was simply looking for collective wisdom. My, we have progressed greatly since the topic was felching!

I define the terms thus...

Ethics: A set of principles of right conduct.
In this case, how to be a decent John.

Morals: Of or concerned with the judgment of the goodness or badness of human action and character.
In this case, to each their own.

Where is RN when we need her most?

Cheers,

Sporadic

**PsyberZombie** · 01-12-05 06:56

In the Rock·Climbing World , there is frequent talk about Ethics , just like you guys are discussing here

... but Cynics in that little sub·culture wisely point out that 'Ethics' is just another word for Rules , but that rock climbers are way too cool and 'un·conventional' to ever agree to follow 'Rules' , so they call them 'Ethics' instead

As Sporadic notes = What , exactly , is Ethical about leading a Secret Double Life , which is what every Monger is basically doing ??

I'll bet you guys thought you were leading this Secret Double Life mainly because you were Horny or just wanted a little Variety in your life , right ??

**WRONG** !!!

Psychiatrists now know that , in fact , YOU are a much more Complex Person than you ever imagined !!

Just read this for furthur details =

http://*******.com/53jex

**Sporadic** · 01-12-05 04:25

Rock Dog

What amorality are you talking about?

Well, without getting into sematics here, I think that most people and societies would describe prostitution as an immoral act. Compounded by the fact that many punters are also married.

I am not defending the hypocritical attitudes of society as a whole, and this is hardly the only example of stunning hypocriticality in modern society, but since our topic is prostitution, it is where I will hang my hat.

Cheers,

Sporadic

**Daddy Rulz** · 01-12-05 03:17

Pay after the act always:

I know in sex prison this is hardly the norm. However I will always believe that it is us, not the provider that holds the Aces. Ultimatly this market is driven by demand not supply. If nobody agreed to pay until after the act rip off's would become a thing of the past. If we "the johns" simply refused to pay until the service was given quickly the norm would change.

**Joe Zop** · 01-11-05 13:53

Ok, following your lead:

Boundaries. If a provider specifies a particular sexual act is off-limits (anal, kissing, whatever) then the option is either to call the encounter off or to respect the provider's limits. In addition, unless it's something directly agreed to by the provider, rough handling, striking, or verbal abuse is unacceptable. (Note that this is different from dirty talk or vigorous sex, but one should also be clear that the provider is ok with these.)

**Sporadic** · 01-11-05 12:55

JoeZ: A question sir. Do you mean sexual, behavioral boundaries? or more in a privacy context?

While I think I know exactly what you intended to say, there are lots of folks here who speak English as a second language. I was going to expound upon my two suggestions (everyone has there own definitions,) Could I ask you to elaborate on yours?

Cheers,

Sporadic

Ps. Hopefully, when everyone has weighed in, we can post a compilation.

Pay the agreed price. Failing an early bailout, or complete non-performance (this does NOT include "not clicking") this point should be self evident.

Privacy: This includes respecting names (if they want to be called "Breezy" then so be it) Not prying, and above all, not posting personally identifiable material (text or photos) that could prejudice the provider. Included here would be not passing on the contact without permission from the provider. Any more to add here folks?

Obviously, a complete rip-off artist deserves a write up as fair warning to others, but I am talking about normal service here.

**Joe Zop** · 01-11-05 11:12

Nice idea, Sporadic:

Suggestion 3: Respect Boundaries.

**Rock Dog** · 01-11-05 10:45

Sporadic,

What amorality are you talking about? Why does P4P have to be immoral? That's the real question here. It's funny how "society" (as a whole) tries to impose it's values on certain issues when privately everyone (as an individual) tries to do the exact opposite.

Rock

**Sporadic** · 01-11-05 07:52

Lady and gentlemen,

Anyone game for crafting a "Code of Ethics for mongering?" While it is rather difficult to truly apply morality to this question, certainly we can be ethical in our amorality?

We have had some cute suggestions in the past, but I would be interested in the collective opinion.

Suggestion 1: Pay the agreed price.

Suggestion 2: Respect Privacy.

Cheers,

Sporadic

**Gorilla69** · 01-10-05 01:19

http://www.guardian.co.uk/spain/arti...271301,00.html

Seems Spanish women are setting themselves up for this one...

**Gorilla69** · 01-10-05 01:16

http://www.smh.com.au/articles/2003/...035012641.html

Australia seems to be quite a place to live...

**Gorilla69** · 01-10-05 01:14

http://www.editorandpublisher.com/ea..._id=1000742061

This reporter posed as a SW as part of a sting...

**My Alias** · 01-08-05 00:58

Broward County pro turns in a man after noticing child porn on his computer, http://www.azcentral.com/offbeat/art...rTip07-ON.html.

**My Alias** · 01-06-05 00:02

Be careful, guys, that SW you pick up may be more than advertised, http://www.weeklyworldnews.com/features/aliens/61245

**PsyberZombie** · 01-05-05 19:50

Here's the Dictionary Definition =

1. Felch

(1) verb. The act of sucking or licking ejaculate (or other
substances mixed with ejaculate) out of the orifice in which they
were deposited. Most commonly used to refer to sucking out semen
after anal sex, but technically sucking the semen out of your
girlfriend's pussy is also felching

(2) Noun, referring to the substance ingested during the act of
felching--generally a mixture of semen and other bodliy fluids
(feces, sweat, vaginal fluid, etc.)

Usage:

I couldn't believe it. After Nigel packed my ass, he felched me!

Dude, you've got felch all over your face.

2. felch

(1) verb. to suck your own cum out of another persons ass.

Usage: i felched your mom.

If you wish to substitute a 'benign' Word in place of 'FELCH'
[ as in using the terms 'Frick' or 'Fork' for F**k ] , use the verb
'FLENSE'