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Same experience
My experience is similar. 500 firm. There is definitely better looking out there for 500.
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Info
Anyone hook up with this girl? She seems cool but is holding firm at 500 and refuses to budge: https://members.seeking.com/member/4...1-a3de9a970f64.
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Intel
Anyone have experience with this one? She seems interesting.
https://members.seeking.com/member/5...6-61ff61ce3527
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Originally Posted by
SirWilliam
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I'm not sure if Secret Benefits really works, like technically. I subscribed a few years back and either wouldn't get responses or responses seemed not real. But then I met a woman on another site who was also on Secret Benefits and asked to have her message me on SB. Over several tries we never saw each other's messages! So maybe women aren't even seeing what you send, or you never get a response.
I had way better luck with SA in terms of getting messages back, and actually meeting a few women. I decided that approach wasn't right for me at the time but maintain an SA account and will probably try there again.
I have often thought that site was a scam. I met a girl off WYP a couple years back and we were talking about the sites. I mentioned to her that I saw her profile on SB and she told me she never signed up for that site. I had a few credits left and we decided to test it out and I sent her a message. She was still with me that night when I received a response from her 'account' even though she had not touched her phone in the hour or two between me sending the message and getting a reply.
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Secret Benefits may be just broken
Originally Posted by
ScottPete
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I've tried the Secret Benefits site and I was lucky to even get replies from messages sent. I see girls online for days in a row but no response. I get responses from messages on seeking. I just don't understand that. I do see many that are also on the Seeking site but never had much luck on the site due to the lack of response.
I'm not sure if Secret Benefits really works, like technically. I subscribed a few years back and either wouldn't get responses or responses seemed not real. But then I met a woman on another site who was also on Secret Benefits and asked to have her message me on SB. Over several tries we never saw each other's messages! So maybe women aren't even seeing what you send, or you never get a response.
I had way better luck with SA in terms of getting messages back, and actually meeting a few women. I decided that approach wasn't right for me at the time but maintain an SA account and will probably try there again.
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Summer
I hate a great summer with sa. Seems like my luck has run out. I had 2 freebies, 1 who stayed that night and 1 who spent multiple days with me and another a few hours. Out of he 5 I only stay in contact with one of them. The others have moved on with their lives and weren't looking for anything long term. The most expensive sb was 4* but well worth it. Might renew my membership next month when the ladies need some extra holiday money.
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I messaged her my usual offer. No reply. No surprise,
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Potential
Texted some with this one, she said she "starts" at 400 per hour. I did not partake. She seemed very mechanical in our texts, just a vibe I picked up.
https://members.seeking.com/member/2...d-c674e751c861
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Spiraling
Originally Posted by
CallMeTater
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"Two years ago. " time has not been good to her lately. She's traded ditzy for high and even when she's awake she's still half out. I just saw her a couple weeks ago (just gave her a quick ride somewhere) and she was looking haggard as fuck. She keeps sending out her glory day pics like she just took them yesterday.
I'm not saying you might not have a good time with her, but I doubt you'll get that fun party girl in those pictures. She definitely has more off days than on.
Sounds as though she is spiraling down quickly. I may have caught her as she began her downward descent. Thanks for the update and cautionary advice for others. I didn't mean to invite others to partake in what sounds like has became a train wreck.
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Secret benefits
Originally Posted by
ScottPete
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I've tried the Secret Benefits site and I was lucky to even get replies from messages sent. I see girls online for days in a row but no response. I get responses from messages on seeking. I just don't understand that. I do see many that are also on the Seeking site but never had much luck on the site due to the lack of response.
The same thing happened a few years or so back when I tried them. I figured out that was the danger of buying "credits" as they seem to get used up really fast. Makes me wonder if the ads are really legit and just a scam to get you to buy more credits.
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Jenna
Originally Posted by
JimRob
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This one has had at least four different profiles on SA.
Two years ago, she messaged me on SA (we had never spoken before nor had I ever seen her profile) on a Sunday morning about 11 AM and said she wanted to get fucked really hard. No mention was made of $. 45 minutes later she was at my place and we were making out like teenagers and tearing each other's clothes off. She has a banging body, but even with makeup face is about a 6 to low 7. We fucked like animals for a couple hours, she left and never asked for any money.
She reached out to me 2-3 times after that and wanted $700 to hook up. Even at half that price, I struggle with paying for what she gave up for free. She is a stripper and a little crazy.
She is a complete ditz, but if you can get her for $$$ or so, would be worthwhile.
https://members.seeking.com/member/6...9-432dce524c6d
"Two years ago. " time has not been good to her lately. She's traded ditzy for high and even when she's awake she's still half out. I just saw her a couple weeks ago (just gave her a quick ride somewhere) and she was looking haggard as fuck. She keeps sending out her glory day pics like she just took them yesterday.
I'm not saying you might not have a good time with her, but I doubt you'll get that fun party girl in those pictures. She definitely has more off days than on.
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Agreed
Originally Posted by
EagleLuver
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The funny thing about seeking girls is if you ASK for BBFS most will say NO or ghost you. However if you just show up and don't mention a condom they won't bring it up.
I never bring any of that up before meeting. I don't think I've ever had a SB ask me to put on a rubber. Can't remember the last time one asked me to pull out either. Getting a vasectomy was the best thing I ever did as far as worry free fucking goes.
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Try your luck
This one has had at least four different profiles on SA.
Two years ago, she messaged me on SA (we had never spoken before nor had I ever seen her profile) on a Sunday morning about 11 AM and said she wanted to get fucked really hard. No mention was made of $. 45 minutes later she was at my place and we were making out like teenagers and tearing each other's clothes off. She has a banging body, but even with makeup face is about a 6 to low 7. We fucked like animals for a couple hours, she left and never asked for any money.
She reached out to me 2-3 times after that and wanted $700 to hook up. Even at half that price, I struggle with paying for what she gave up for free. She is a stripper and a little crazy.
She is a complete ditz, but if you can get her for $$$ or so, would be worthwhile.
https://members.seeking.com/member/6...9-432dce524c6d
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Originally Posted by
JimStark
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I'm not super familiar with Secret Benefits, but on seeking, it's my experience that most of them are BBFS friendly. I haven't used a condom with a girl from seeking in years and most of the time I don't even have to bring it up. If they bring it up, I say I'd rather not and then they are either ok with it or I pay a little more. I do stay away from the girls that look like obvious pros though.
The funny thing about seeking girls is if you ASK for BBFS most will say NO or ghost you. However if you just show up and don't mention a condom they won't bring it up.
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Originally Posted by
JimStark
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I'm not super familiar with Secret Benefits, but on seeking, it's my experience that most of them are BBFS friendly. I haven't used a condom with a girl from seeking in years and most of the time I don't even have to bring it up. If they bring it up, I say I'd rather not and then they are either ok with it or I pay a little more. I do stay away from the girls that look like obvious pros though.
I've tried the Secret Benefits site and I was lucky to even get replies from messages sent. I see girls online for days in a row but no response. I get responses from messages on seeking. I just don't understand that. I do see many that are also on the Seeking site but never had much luck on the site due to the lack of response.