Tips, Tricks, Arguing, and Bullshit

[AcquaDeJim]

On another note, obits are notorious for revealing a plethora of family info that could be used by scammers, manipulators, and anyone looking to exploit the info for nefarious purposes. I have relatives mad at me when I demand not to be included in any of that and will do whatever necessary to have it removed if it is posted. It's a difficult discussion at an even more difficult time.

Stay vigilant,. ,. ,

Milfman.

These days, you got to be careful with those air tags. Little bastards are so small they can be put into anything. Bought a decent camera a few years ago. About a year ago was cleaning some of the guts and found an air tag. Pretty sure I bought a stolen canera

Hell, i have an arrangement with a young lady who is not mechanically inclined (and poor). I change her oil for her every few months and I get a roll in the hay as payment. Last time I did this, I found an airtag under her car presumably placed by an ex bf.

In terms of obituaries, sometimes I guess there is a benefit of having a
name that is fairly common. For instance, when phone books were still a thing, there were 125 people in Knoxville alone with either my name or a slightly different spelling or nickname variation. If your name of Skullbreaker Osmosis, yeah probably not be hard to track you down.

[MilfMan865]

So, I will file this report under "Tips".

So, I am writing all this to say that if you are trying to be discrete, then don't give out one shred of information about yourself. I use a burner phone, lie about where I live, park so my license plate isn't easily visible, but I still got busted. But from now on I will lie about my occupation, first name, whatever. This girl has no intention of using this information against me I believe, but I have met girls in the past that were blackmailers, and I personally suffered monetary damage as a result of one awful gal that I had met on Seeking. So, let this be a friendly reminder to be careful if you are trying to remain anonymous.

Mule out.

I'd like to add a couple of more tips to remain anonymous.

I spent some time with one a few years back. She didn't want an allowance, just wanted to spend time with someone that could pick up the check. After about 6 months, she started to consider us in a relationship. I grew tired of her and started making excuses to not see her. She then decided to research who I was and let me know who all she could spill the beans to, work, family, wife, etc. She then demanded an allowance. I stood my ground, but it didn't end well. I had a lot of explaining to do. Not fun!

Ouch, I hate that you esteemed gentlemen had to endure such inconveniences. I've been there, done that as well. ,. , definitely feel your pain. Just an anecdote and not a Tip. ,. , when still dabbling in stripper takeout. When in the club, they'd show me how they are tracking their men using the Eye-Phone and how they share their location since they have nothing to hide. Well, when hanging out, it would be during a day they told their man that they were taking an extra shift. They'd park and leave their phone in their car, I'd pick them up and take them back to my place to hang out until their shift was over. I never had any issues related to their coming by unannounced, but I often thought about if their man had attached some other tracking device to their stuff and would pay me a visit at some point. I've since moved on to women in professional careers who claim not to need the money, but just like someone to hang out with for some adult fun. All of the woman are from SA, so it's still like a Tinder alternative for them without using Tinder. The professional career women can be trouble too, but I haven't had any issues so far.

On another note, obits are notorious for revealing a plethora of family info that could be used by scammers, manipulators, and anyone looking to exploit the info for nefarious purposes. I have relatives mad at me when I demand not to be included in any of that and will do whatever necessary to have it removed if it is posted. It's a difficult discussion at an even more difficult time.

Stay vigilant,. ,. ,

Milfman.

[Member #6269]

So, I will file this report under "Tips".

I met a gal in Nashville on Seeking, and we had a meet and greet that went very well. She was married, and in the end she chickened out on meeting for adult fun. She subsequently deleted her profile, but we continued to text for a day or two.

During our meet and greet I told her that I did not want to discuss personal information as a protective measure for both of us. During the course of conversation, I did acknowledge that I gave her my real first name, which is one of the most common first names ever. And I did discuss a bit about the nature of my work but was very nonspecific. She was, however, very open to telling me who she was (and she did).

So, on the day she told me that she had decided to not pursue a relationship, I told her that it was fine and that the sugar bowl was not for everyone. And all was well, no hard feelings (no pun intended.).

Then, she sent another text saying that "oh by the way" she figured out who I was in real life. And dammit, she did. I asked her how. First of all, she made an educated guess of where I might have worked (and it was a good guess, I had worked there sometime in the past) and using my first name she did a search and got some hits, and some of those were LinkedIn profiles, including mine. It is the only social media platform that I am on other than Seeking. And my profile has my picture. So, finding my profile and learning my name, she searched again and found my dad's obituary, which was another mother lode of information.

So, I am writing all this to say that if you are trying to be discrete, then don't give out one shred of information about yourself. I use a burner phone, lie about where I live, park so my license plate isn't easily visible, but I still got busted. But from now on I will lie about my occupation, first name, whatever. This girl has no intention of using this information against me I believe, but I have met girls in the past that were blackmailers, and I personally suffered monetary damage as a result of one awful gal that I had met on Seeking. So, let this be a friendly reminder to be careful if you are trying to remain anonymous.

Mule out.

I'd like to add a couple of more tips to remain anonymous.

If you're out with an SA gal, don't use your credit card. Cash only.

If you end up in a more private setting, ie hotel room, don't have your wallet on you. Make sure you book the room and check-in alone. The hotel should protect your privacy in the event the gal trys to get info from the front desk.

I use a little piece of tape to modify my tags. Previously a little piece of black electrical tape easily made an O a Q. Now I use white tape to make a C an O. This won't work for every tag and make sure you don't leave it on after the meet.

Perfect your Bullshit skills. I recommend under underselling yourself. All they care about is can you cover a few drinks, a place to play, and whatever allowance you agree on.

Remember who we're dealing with. They need money. They don't care about you. They all have mastered some skills in internet research. And who knows what else pressures them to play the game.

There are those rare ones that just want to play and enjoy some fun money in their pocket. Learn to read them as much as they read you. If they have a sob story about deadbeat dads not paying or something similar. Be aware.

I spent some time with one a few years back. She didn't want an allowance, just wanted to spend time with someone that could pick up the check. After about 6 months, she started to consider us in a relationship. I grew tired of her and started making excuses to not see her. She then decided to research who I was and let me know who all she could spill the beans to, work, family, wife, etc. She then demanded an allowance. I stood my ground, but it didn't end well. I had a lot of explaining to do. Not fun!

[Plow Mule]

So, I will file this report under "Tips".

I met a gal in Nashville on Seeking, and we had a meet and greet that went very well. She was married, and in the end she chickened out on meeting for adult fun. She subsequently deleted her profile, but we continued to text for a day or two.

During our meet and greet I told her that I did not want to discuss personal information as a protective measure for both of us. During the course of conversation, I did acknowledge that I gave her my real first name, which is one of the most common first names ever. And I did discuss a bit about the nature of my work but was very nonspecific. She was, however, very open to telling me who she was (and she did).

So, on the day she told me that she had decided to not pursue a relationship, I told her that it was fine and that the sugar bowl was not for everyone. And all was well, no hard feelings (no pun intended.).

Then, she sent another text saying that "oh by the way" she figured out who I was in real life. And dammit, she did. I asked her how. First of all, she made an educated guess of where I might have worked (and it was a good guess, I had worked there sometime in the past) and using my first name she did a search and got some hits, and some of those were LinkedIn profiles, including mine. It is the only social media platform that I am on other than Seeking. And my profile has my picture. So, finding my profile and learning my name, she searched again and found my dad's obituary, which was another mother lode of information.

So, I am writing all this to say that if you are trying to be discrete, then don't give out one shred of information about yourself. I use a burner phone, lie about where I live, park so my license plate isn't easily visible, but I still got busted. But from now on I will lie about my occupation, first name, whatever. This girl has no intention of using this information against me I believe, but I have met girls in the past that were blackmailers, and I personally suffered monetary damage as a result of one awful gal that I had met on Seeking. So, let this be a friendly reminder to be careful if you are trying to remain anonymous.

Mule out.

[Member #6269]

Damn. Does she have a sister?

Lmao.

That's hot.

She does have a sister. I've wanted to bang the sister for a long time. Just haven't got the moves to make it happen. The sister is two years older, but looks two years younger. Good genes in that family. Strange thing is, the mother is uglier than a bucket of bloody assholes.

[KnoxWorkingMan]

I think they should make this an option on STG, SA, or any site for that matter.

I've been fucking a gal for 15 years off and on. She's not a pro, or even a UTR for that matter. Just a gal that is in an unhappy marriage that appreciates a little attention that she's not getting at home. Which is why most of us are in hte hobby ourselves. I've helped her a few times, and I mean very few times, over the years when she's been in a pinch. But that's not the point to my pointless post. At 43, she has the body of a 25 year old, even after three kids. Due to childbirth, she has a prolapsed uterus. Google it if you need further understanding. Why do I discuss this? Her lower abdominal anatomy has changed, so for me, it's like someone is inside her playing Wack-A-Mol and my dick is the Mol! It's like she has a built-in sex toy. We all know every pussy is a little different. So my advice is, if you're in search of something special, find a gal with a prolapsed uterus.

Damn. Does she have a sister?

Lmao.

That's hot.

[Member #6269]

I think they should make this an option on STG, SA, or any site for that matter.

I've been fucking a gal for 15 years off and on. She's not a pro, or even a UTR for that matter. Just a gal that is in an unhappy marriage that appreciates a little attention that she's not getting at home. Which is why most of us are in hte hobby ourselves. I've helped her a few times, and I mean very few times, over the years when she's been in a pinch. But that's not the point to my pointless post. At 43, she has the body of a 25 year old, even after three kids. Due to childbirth, she has a prolapsed uterus. Google it if you need further understanding. Why do I discuss this? Her lower abdominal anatomy has changed, so for me, it's like someone is inside her playing Wack-A-Mol and my dick is the Mol! It's like she has a built-in sex toy. We all know every pussy is a little different. So my advice is, if you're in search of something special, find a gal with a prolapsed uterus.

[DonHomes]

I don't want to be that dude, but I need to issue a few reminders for those with whom I share information directly. ,. ,. ,.

When this forum went dark, offline for a while (it may have been in 2018), we had established alternate communication means in case this forum never came back online again. Those alternate communication streams have persisted just for a bit of fault tolerance in case the site goes dark again.

Here are my issues (seriously, don't do this bullshyt and if you are doing it, please stop):

- When I share a provider's information directly with you, I will have already let the gal know that I referred you based on some already agreed upon characteristic between me and you (for example, you'll reach out to her as Perry the Pilot). This is what I don't need when you reach out to her: "Hey *Provider* . I'm *your name* . I was referred to you by milfman on USASG. His name is *my actual name* . He said that you were cool and we should hang out". I will deny the existence of this forum until my last breath. I never need you to mention this board, my handle, my name or anything of that nature. Seriously, don't do that bullshyt and if you are doing it, please stop.

- Whenever I refer an SA find to you, this is a female I will never spend see again. If I didn't pay her a dime, that doesn't mean that she won't charge you something. She may have like to come over and grill out, going bar hopping together, perhaps she liked to hide away from her kids or significant other at my pool house all to herself, or maybe she just liked using my wifi. It doesn't matter. She may have enjoyed some of the perks which did not necessitate direct payment. This is what I don't need when you reach out to her: "I'm *your name*. Milfman said that you're tired of Tinder, have a high sex drive, and you didn't charge him. ,. ,. ,. , you simply enjoy sex." Even if it's a gal on SA who charges you, we don't all pay the same to the same providers. Seriously, don't do that bullshyt and if you are doing it, please stop.

- If I or any other member of the board say something about a gal you're considering seeing, no need to send her a screenshot and interrogate her about it. Those acts are not gaining you brownie points, it making you look more like a dyck. Nothing worse than serving as a White Knight than being rejected by a gal when you're attempting to White Knight. Seriously, don't do that bullshyt and if you are doing it, please stop.

- If a gal tries to use this site to screen potential clients, she's out of luck with me. As a caveat, when USA Adult Classifieds was a thing, I relaxed my view on this vetting process considering the gals who posted there were held more accountable by the brethren (I really really really miss having USA Adult Classifieds as a resource for finding providers). The purpose of this Forum is "to facilitate the exchange of information between men who are looking for sex with women. " Sharing information about other members with her, as she shouldn't even know about this site anyway, goes counter to Fight Club Rules. It gets even worse when newbies try to namedrop members of the board to hopefully move to the front of the line. I get lots of PMs from gals looking to use this site to screen and I hit them with "no hablo ingles". Seriously, don't do that bullshyt and if you are doing it, please stop.

Any time that you can help us help you is a win-win situation, so please abide by Fight Club Rules.

Stay vigilant,. ,. ,

Milfman.

Touché Milfman. I totally agree with you. Been at this game a long time. Don't have the amount of posts as you but understand how the game is played.

[MilfMan865]

I don't want to be that dude, but I need to issue a few reminders for those with whom I share information directly. ,. ,. ,.

When this forum went dark, offline for a while (it may have been in 2018), we had established alternate communication means in case this forum never came back online again. Those alternate communication streams have persisted just for a bit of fault tolerance in case the site goes dark again.

Here are my issues (seriously, don't do this bullshyt and if you are doing it, please stop):

- When I share a provider's information directly with you, I will have already let the gal know that I referred you based on some already agreed upon characteristic between me and you (for example, you'll reach out to her as Perry the Pilot). This is what I don't need when you reach out to her: "Hey *Provider* . I'm *your name* . I was referred to you by milfman on USASG. His name is *my actual name* . He said that you were cool and we should hang out". I will deny the existence of this forum until my last breath. I never need you to mention this board, my handle, my name or anything of that nature. Seriously, don't do that bullshyt and if you are doing it, please stop.

- Whenever I refer an SA find to you, this is a female I will never spend see again. If I didn't pay her a dime, that doesn't mean that she won't charge you something. She may have like to come over and grill out, going bar hopping together, perhaps she liked to hide away from her kids or significant other at my pool house all to herself, or maybe she just liked using my wifi. It doesn't matter. She may have enjoyed some of the perks which did not necessitate direct payment. This is what I don't need when you reach out to her: "I'm *your name*. Milfman said that you're tired of Tinder, have a high sex drive, and you didn't charge him. ,. ,. ,. , you simply enjoy sex." Even if it's a gal on SA who charges you, we don't all pay the same to the same providers. Seriously, don't do that bullshyt and if you are doing it, please stop.

- If I or any other member of the board say something about a gal you're considering seeing, no need to send her a screenshot and interrogate her about it. Those acts are not gaining you brownie points, it making you look more like a dyck. Nothing worse than serving as a White Knight than being rejected by a gal when you're attempting to White Knight. Seriously, don't do that bullshyt and if you are doing it, please stop.

- If a gal tries to use this site to screen potential clients, she's out of luck with me. As a caveat, when USA Adult Classifieds was a thing, I relaxed my view on this vetting process considering the gals who posted there were held more accountable by the brethren (I really really really miss having USA Adult Classifieds as a resource for finding providers). The purpose of this Forum is "to facilitate the exchange of information between men who are looking for sex with women. " Sharing information about other members with her, as she shouldn't even know about this site anyway, goes counter to Fight Club Rules. It gets even worse when newbies try to namedrop members of the board to hopefully move to the front of the line. I get lots of PMs from gals looking to use this site to screen and I hit them with "no hablo ingles". Seriously, don't do that bullshyt and if you are doing it, please stop.

Any time that you can help us help you is a win-win situation, so please abide by Fight Club Rules.

Stay vigilant,. ,. ,

Milfman.

[JoeKnox555]

I think that is why skip seems to only have a bunch of fat or older overpriced providers. SA isn't what it was a few years ago.

It's taking the smart ones out of the game but there's not enough room for all the STG and SA girls there. If they want money they will have to get on their knees once uncle Sam cuts them off.

[Member #6269]

If a girl can sell flashing her boobs on Instagram, why go to the trouble of actually a GFE or any physical contact? I've wondered why Knox is so dead. They don't need to meet, they have TikTok, IG and OF that require no actual physical interaction.

But I thought they liked to fuck?

[InFromBehind]

They can make a shit ton of money on IG and OF. They use TikTok to advertise. Steer them to IG and OF, where they make a small amount from numerous guys at the same time but never actually have to meet anyone. I'm convinced it is killing the game.

It's taking the smart ones out of the game but there's not enough room for all the STG and SA girls there. If they want money they will have to get on their knees once uncle Sam cuts them off.

[JoeKnox555]

I see a lot of the girls posting about these things. Are they making a good living by selling these things? Seems like they are trying to get away from actually meeting and physically doing the things we want and are trying to go this route.

My goal is to actually have one touching me and there with me with I pop. Otherwise I feel like I can get what I want for free on the Hub.

I can't be the only one feeling this way.

They can make a shit ton of money on IG and OF. They use TikTok to advertise. Steer them to IG and OF, where they make a small amount from numerous guys at the same time but never actually have to meet anyone. I'm convinced it is killing the game.

[JoeKnox555]

If a girl can sell flashing her boobs on Instagram, why go to the trouble of actually a GFE or any physical contact? I've wondered why Knox is so dead. They don't need to meet, they have TikTok, IG and OF that require no actual physical interaction.

Those gals, rated 6-7 on the looks scale, are getting major bank for selling their worn panties. Buying a basic pack of panties from walmart, wear them, get them good and sticky, and sell them on something like AllThingsWorn dot com or similar sites. I'm talking Fruit of the Loom panties and not Vicky's. Invest $15 into a pack of 5 panties and sell said panties for 100 bucks a piece (so, invest 15 bucks, get 500 in revenue from that investment). The questions is not why aren't they meeting any more. ,. , you should be skeptical of a gal who actually needs (or wants) to meet these days. I'm pretty sure the guys buying pics or vids (or any of their digital content like on OF), worn garments, and not actually requiring meets with the gals. ,. ,. , may be considered "simps". Like you gentlemen, I'll never pay for those gals' digital content.

Stay vigilant,. ,. ,

Milfman.

[AcquaDeJim]

Those gals, rated 6-7 on the looks scale, are getting major bank for selling their worn panties. Buying a basic pack of panties from walmart, wear them, get them good and sticky, and sell them on something like AllThingsWorn dot com or similar sites. I'm talking Fruit of the Loom panties and not Vicky's. Invest $15 into a pack of 5 panties and sell said panties for 100 bucks a piece (so, invest 15 bucks, get 500 in revenue from that investment). The questions is not why aren't they meeting any more. ,. , you should be skeptical of a gal who actually needs (or wants) to meet these days. I'm pretty sure the guys buying pics or vids (or any of their digital content like on OF), worn garments, and not actually requiring meets with the gals. ,. ,. , may be considered "simps". Like you gentlemen, I'll never pay for those gals' digital content.

Stay vigilant,. ,. ,

Milfman.

It's not my thing either, but I.- at least personally have seen a benefit from OP. I don't even have an account, so no way that I could spend any money on them if I wanted to. I have seen a few girls start out as OP girls and then kind of move into IRL SW when they weren't making any money. Had a very good time in Memphis with one recently as a matter of fact.

Of course the opposite is also true. You have girls like Kallie who seem to think that because they have an OP, they are entitled to more money. Doesn't make a great deal of sense to me.

To this point, I have always been a big believer in the market when it comes to SW. Girls may dip their toe in with OP. Some may make it, most don't. Some of them that don't make it then move on to become strippers and escorts. The invisible hand at work.

These days though, the market just makes no sense. Spending hundred of $$ on some chick playing video games in a bikini top? I mean I just don't get it.

Are these kids so socially inept that they are unable to communicate unless video games are there as a portal? I just don't get it.