Tips, Tricks, Arguing, and Bullshit

[LayenLow]

You need a room so you can have a little more control of the situation. If you had a room you could just tell them not to smoke and you could stay close to where you live and save time shower etc etc. And instead of negotiating just book a hh appointment and when the provider gets there you can let her know how you want to spend your time. If money is the issue then you should try to find a provider that does QV's or a street walker. Also if you have a significant other you should probably be doing CBJ not BBBJ just my opinion.

Sorry Throttle you are way off track.

You don't go into Ruth's Chris and ask for a Mcdouble cheeseburger and expect to pay Mcdonalds price for it. There are plenty of providers that advertise QV or even BJ for discounted rates and that is were you need to look. Instead your trying to negotiate a QV from a provider that doesn't want to do that. I don't know about all the girls, but for some a BBBJ is way more involved / personal / difficult then a FS visit where they lay down or take a ride and some of them even enjoy FS as to were they don't enjoy BBBJ. I don't know what you do for a living but it pisses me off when a client tries to figure out what I should make for giving up my time and my life to do what I do. I give them a price and I understand that negotiation is part of all our lives I don't expect to be bad mouthed if we can't agree. What something is worth is always about what one person is willing to pay for it and what one person is willing to sell it for. That is just economics. JMTC.

[The Load2]

I contacted a well reviewed girl recently (who shall remain nameless) and had a discussion that has stirred a debate in this country boy's head. Maybe a few mongers and providers can chime in. I have a SO, so play time is limited and if I'm going home and she is going to be there, I have to be particular about what provider I see and what I do w / them. Therefore, more often than not I try to seek out non smokers and opt for a BBBJ over full service.

Anyhow, during our exchange I was quoted price for her time. Me, being difficult as always, told her I was looking for full service and asked about a BBBJ. I was told it would be the same price (over $100) for a blowjob since I was paying for her time. Needless to say, this didn't happen and the conversation ended shortly afterward.

I know one, maybe both of us may be a little naive in our way of thinking. I realize that she could have easily made more with another client rather than seeing me at the time. But wouldn't you think it would be more beneficial to have a rate for a lesser service? I'm very interested to her a providers perspective on this, although I know from experience that several on the board are more in line with my logic.

You need a room so you can have a little more control of the situation. If you had a room you could just tell them not to smoke and you could stay close to where you live and save time shower etc etc. And instead of negotiating just book a hh appointment and when the provider gets there you can let her know how you want to spend your time. If money is the issue then you should try to find a provider that does QV's or a SW. Also if you have a significant other you should probably be doing CBJ not BBBJ providers that advertise qv's or sw can be high volume just my opinion. Me personally would just call one of the DR's. Loves 2 please or Connie

[Throttle]

Yes, VERY naive, and it has NOTHING to do with the amount of money she stands to make for her time. She already has that issue resolved in her rate.

It has to do with you, if I'm reading this right, you breaking the cardinal rule. You should NEVER EVER negotiate a sex act for money.

Escorting (time / companionship for money) is legal. Prostitution (sex for money) is not.

She seems to have tried to reel you back in, re-iterating that it is TIME for money, but you didn't seem to get it.

She was gracious. I would have ended your screening right there. Not because I stood to make more money elsewhere, but because I have safer options. Which allow me to offer my hospitality without interruption.

Sorry to jump in on this conversation so late, it's just too important an issue. Particularly in the heat of winter. And no one was addressing it.

Actually, I did get it. It was a pleasant conversation between verified provider and verified monger where a deal couldn't be made, and that's fine, I'm not bitter. We (mongers / providers) can sugar coat it all we want, but fact is the activities we're engaging in is not legal regardless of how much or how little it's discussed beforehand. That's why you screen, that's why any provider should. I may have broken a cardinal rule & I'll continue to do so as long as myself and the provider are verified, but that's irrelevant. Each of us were willing to break the law, but price / service couldn't be agreed upon. Which, therefore, in my eyes had everything to do with money. Breaking any "rule" wasn't a factor in why the deal wasn't made. I know this first hand, because I was involved in that conversation, and you weren't. I don't mean to sound combative whatsoever, but these are the facts and the points I wanted to get across.

But my question was, would it not be beneficial to have a rate for a lesser service? Obviously the provider didn't stand to make as much on me at that time, but the alternative was no money from me at that time, therefor not so beneficial. That being said, I hold nothing against this provider for that dream that never happened. In fact, once I have the free time I plan to dream with her among others. . .

[Noelle]

Anyhow, during our exchange I was quoted price for her time. Me, being difficult as always, told her I was looking for full service and asked about a BBBJ. I was told it would be the same price (over $100) for a blowjob since I was paying for her time. Needless to say, this didn't happen and the conversation ended shortly afterward.

I know one, maybe both of us may be a little naive in our way of thinking.

Yes, VERY naive, and it has NOTHING to do with the amount of money she stands to make for her time. She already has that issue resolved in her rate.

It has to do with you, if I'm reading this right, you breaking the cardinal rule. You should NEVER EVER negotiate a sex act for money.

Escorting (time / companionship for money) is legal. Prostitution (sex for money) is not.

She seems to have tried to reel you back in, re-iterating that it is TIME for money, but you didn't seem to get it.

She was gracious. I would have ended your screening right there. Not because I stood to make more money elsewhere, but because I have safer options. Which allow me to offer my hospitality without interruption.

Sorry to jump in on this conversation so late, it's just too important an issue. Particularly in the heat of winter. And no one was addressing it.

[SixftFourmFer]

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[SubDude69]

I'm kind of the opposite. I switched to a flat rate because I was having guys scheduling for an hour so I wouldn't be able to schedule anyone else and they'd only stay for like 15 mins and only expecting to pay like 20 $. So in short- I would give up 150 $ hour appointments for lowballers. If that makes sense. So I feel like 100 $ for up to an hour is more than fair. If they want an hour, its still low price and if they want half, its still right in the normal price range.

Better not be any of the guys on here pulling that nonsense! .

Throttle. Sorry I can't think of anyone on the east end. I am in OR almost to Oliver Springs so Tonya's move to Karns was good for me. Sorry dude.

[Throttle]

I'm kind of the opposite. I switched to a flat rate because I was having guys scheduling for an hour so I wouldn't be able to schedule anyone else and they'd only stay for like 15 mins and only expecting to pay like 20 $. So in short- I would give up 150 $ hour appointments for lowballers. If that makes sense. So I feel like 100 $ for up to an hour is more than fair. If they want an hour, its still low price and if they want half, its still right in the normal price range.

And that's a very fair rate with logic behind it. Somewhat similar to the logic used by the provider I had mentioned: time equals money. Which I'm not bitter about BTW, it was just a discussion worth having.

[Throttle]

For those who have recommended her, I agree. I was a regular when she was located in Halls, since I live nearby. I can't say a bad thing about her.

Anything west of downtown would really dig into what little free time I usually have so Karns is a bit of a stretch for me these days.

[Bezee2012]

I'm kind of the opposite. I switched to a flat rate because I was having guys scheduling for an hour so I wouldn't be able to schedule anyone else and they'd only stay for like 15 mins and only expecting to pay like 20 $. So in short- I would give up 150 $ hour appointments for lowballers. If that makes sense. So I feel like 100 $ for up to an hour is more than fair. If they want an hour, its still low price and if they want half, its still right in the normal price range.

Well with you miss elaine I could talk to you for ever and actually I believe I spent 3 times as much time talking than actually dreaming! Which in my book is great.

[MissElaine]

I understand your position completely. I have similar issues and time constraints. When I just have a short time, I look for (and have established relationships) with a few ladies who specifically advertise for 'quick visits' or BJs. I typically find that ladies with a half hour rate will only allow one shot on goal, so it's effectively a quick visit (at least for me, LOL). Thus, I either meet someone who has a quick visit donation specifically or I make time for an hour with someone who allows refills. I've never been so bold as to ask any of the other ladies I regularly meet for a quick visit donation if I don't have time for a full visit, but I have a feeling some of them would be willing to do that off the record. It doesn't hurt to ask.

I think the problem with some providers is there's a stigma associated with offering the single service (like it's a SW thing or something) so they just advertise for the half hour. I don't see it that way at all. It's just the reality of my schedule some time. If I can make a recommendation for your consideration, a super go-to for the quick visit has a handle including the letters 'LTP. '.

Ladies? Any thoughts?

I'm kind of the opposite. I switched to a flat rate because I was having guys scheduling for an hour so I wouldn't be able to schedule anyone else and they'd only stay for like 15 mins and only expecting to pay like 20 $. So in short- I would give up 150 $ hour appointments for lowballers. If that makes sense. So I feel like 100 $ for up to an hour is more than fair. If they want an hour, its still low price and if they want half, its still right in the normal price range.

[SubDude69]

I understand your position completely. I have similar issues and time constraints. When I just have a short time, I look for (and have established relationships) with a few ladies who specifically advertise for 'quick visits' or BJs. I typically find that ladies with a half hour rate will only allow one shot on goal, so it's effectively a quick visit (at least for me, LOL). Thus, I either meet someone who has a quick visit donation specifically or I make time for an hour with someone who allows refills. I've never been so bold as to ask any of the other ladies I regularly meet for a quick visit donation if I don't have time for a full visit, but I have a feeling some of them would be willing to do that off the record. It doesn't hurt to ask.

I think the problem with some providers is there's a stigma associated with offering the single service (like it's a SW thing or something) so they just advertise for the half hour. I don't see it that way at all. It's just the reality of my schedule some time. If I can make a recommendation for your consideration, a super go-to for the quick visit has a handle including the letters 'LTP. '.

Ladies? Any thoughts?

[Throttle]

I contacted a well reviewed girl recently (who shall remain nameless) and had a discussion that has stirred a debate in this country boy's head. Maybe a few mongers and providers can chime in. I have a SO, so play time is limited and if I'm going home and she is going to be there, I have to be particular about what provider I see and what I do w / them. Therefore, more often than not I try to seek out non smokers and opt for a BBBJ over full service.

Anyhow, during our exchange I was quoted price for her time. Me, being difficult as always, told her I was looking for full service and asked about a BBBJ. I was told it would be the same price (over $100) for a blowjob since I was paying for her time. Needless to say, this didn't happen and the conversation ended shortly afterward.

I know one, maybe both of us may be a little naive in our way of thinking. I realize that she could have easily made more with another client rather than seeing me at the time. But wouldn't you think it would be more beneficial to have a rate for a lesser service? I'm very interested to her a providers perspective on this, although I know from experience that several on the board are more in line with my logic.

Can't seem to edit this, so I'll clarify. I meant to put that I WASN'T looking for full service.

[Bezee2012]

I contacted a well reviewed girl recently (who shall remain nameless) and had a discussion that has stirred a debate in this country boy's head. Maybe a few mongers and providers can chime in. I have a SO, so play time is limited and if I'm going home and she is going to be there, I have to be particular about what provider I see and what I do w / them. Therefore, more often than not I try to seek out non smokers and opt for a BBBJ over full service.

Anyhow, during our exchange I was quoted price for her time. Me, being difficult as always, told her I was looking for full service and asked about a BBBJ. I was told it would be the same price (over $100) for a blowjob since I was paying for her time. Needless to say, this didn't happen and the conversation ended shortly afterward.

I know one, maybe both of us may be a little naive in our way of thinking. I realize that she could have easily made more with another client rather than seeing me at the time. But wouldn't you think it would be more beneficial to have a rate for a lesser service? I'm very interested to her a providers perspective on this, although I know from experience that several on the board are more in line with my logic.

If all you want is BBBJ at a affordable price then you need to visit loves to please. She is a very personable woman and rates are VERY VERY affordable. You can't go wrong seeing her.

[Throttle]

I contacted a well reviewed girl recently (who shall remain nameless) and had a discussion that has stirred a debate in this country boy's head. Maybe a few mongers and providers can chime in. I have a SO, so play time is limited and if I'm going home and she is going to be there, I have to be particular about what provider I see and what I do w / them. Therefore, more often than not I try to seek out non smokers and opt for a BBBJ over full service.

Anyhow, during our exchange I was quoted price for her time. Me, being difficult as always, told her I was looking for full service and asked about a BBBJ. I was told it would be the same price (over $100) for a blowjob since I was paying for her time. Needless to say, this didn't happen and the conversation ended shortly afterward.

I know one, maybe both of us may be a little naive in our way of thinking. I realize that she could have easily made more with another client rather than seeing me at the time. But wouldn't you think it would be more beneficial to have a rate for a lesser service? I'm very interested to her a providers perspective on this, although I know from experience that several on the board are more in line with my logic.

[Lexie]

Luscious Lexie here just bored and wanting to complain about the snow! Ya'll stay safe and warm. Hopefully all of us can get back to doing whatever it is that we do on a daily basis pretty soon. Good night and be Safe. LL.