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[Bigtlvr]

What's going on with this knee? Is it a shadow? A bad Photoshop? Deformity?

https://members.seeking.com/member/9...a-6bb96fa86604

[Nocturne]

It is just whatever you negotiate for. Mine is basically PPM but if I know them for awhile it becomes more of a hybrid. Meaning, if we are unable to get our schedules aligned and they need a few bucks for whatever I help them out. As long as they don't take advantage of the situation.

I have cut a few lose when it became obvious.

The reason I started doing that is my last one wanted to switch to an allowance but I didn't see her enough to justify that but it was a good way to pacify her. By giving her a few funds. She rarely asked for much Sometimes life just happens, flat tire, oil change, etc in they need just a little.

Most of these girls, seem to me, to have minimal support or contact with family and oddly enough want someone who is more a father figure. The ones I have had their father was either deceased or a piece of garbage.

I just met one recently and we have not yet had those exact discussions but a few general conversations. She has had SDs before which makes it much easier. But so far so good. We will see each other again soon, but we text here and there.

I admit it is hard to find a good one. When I search for them I weed out the ones who have 'Platonic' listed and / or really looking to be spoiled. Waste of time. You have to treat them with respect and not make intimacy the most important thing (it is of course). But most young guys already treat them like objects, hence, why a number of them like older respectful men. So act accordingly.

This is how I normally approach these girls. Be honest and funny in your profile. Tell them exactly what you are looking for. A handful of girls have complemented me on this. Just let them know that you would like to chat with them if they are interested. Sure I have had a number of them who look at my pics and profile and don't respond. That is fine. Their loss. I know what I have to offer. Don't concentrate too much on one girl. More of a shotgun effect. Talk to a bunch of them and don't get your hopes up on a particular one. You most likely will be disappointed.

I have had a few who I set up lunch or coffee with who bailed / ghosted on me. It sucks but it happens. Both were newbies. It I see one I REALLY want to meet I end up offering her like $ just to meet. Remember these girls, some single moms, a few bucks is really helpful. That usually increases your chances to let them at least get to know you and let them know you are safe.

I met a smoking hot Redhead once for coffee. She said she was surprised it went so well but eventually she decided she did not want to be an SB. Which is fine, she never had one before. A year later she must have had a change of heart and she was on that site again. I spoke with her briefly and she remembered me but I didn't offer, just wished her luck. Fool me once.

The ones who have never had an SD before are more work. Veterans are easier to deal with because they know what to expect.

Anyway, I hope this helps.

Excellent post!

[DbUSA]

It is just whatever you negotiate for. Mine is basically PPM but if I know them for awhile it becomes more of a hybrid. Meaning, if we are unable to get our schedules aligned and they need a few bucks for whatever I help them out. As long as they don't take advantage of the situation.

I have cut a few lose when it became obvious.

The reason I started doing that is my last one wanted to switch to an allowance but I didn't see her enough to justify that but it was a good way to pacify her. By giving her a few funds. She rarely asked for much Sometimes life just happens, flat tire, oil change, etc in they need just a little.

Most of these girls, seem to me, to have minimal support or contact with family and oddly enough want someone who is more a father figure. The ones I have had their father was either deceased or a piece of garbage.

I just met one recently and we have not yet had those exact discussions but a few general conversations. She has had SDs before which makes it much easier. But so far so good. We will see each other again soon, but we text here and there.

I admit it is hard to find a good one. When I search for them I weed out the ones who have 'Platonic' listed and / or really looking to be spoiled. Waste of time. You have to treat them with respect and not make intimacy the most important thing (it is of course). But most young guys already treat them like objects, hence, why a number of them like older respectful men. So act accordingly.

This is how I normally approach these girls. Be honest and funny in your profile. Tell them exactly what you are looking for. A handful of girls have complemented me on this. Just let them know that you would like to chat with them if they are interested. Sure I have had a number of them who look at my pics and profile and don't respond. That is fine. Their loss. I know what I have to offer. Don't concentrate too much on one girl. More of a shotgun effect. Talk to a bunch of them and don't get your hopes up on a particular one. You most likely will be disappointed.

I have had a few who I set up lunch or coffee with who bailed / ghosted on me. It sucks but it happens. Both were newbies. It I see one I REALLY want to meet I end up offering her like $ just to meet. Remember these girls, some single moms, a few bucks is really helpful. That usually increases your chances to let them at least get to know you and let them know you are safe.

I met a smoking hot Redhead once for coffee. She said she was surprised it went so well but eventually she decided she did not want to be an SB. Which is fine, she never had one before. A year later she must have had a change of heart and she was on that site again. I spoke with her briefly and she remembered me but I didn't offer, just wished her luck. Fool me once.

The ones who have never had an SD before are more work. Veterans are easier to deal with because they know what to expect.

Anyway, I hope this helps.

Thank you for the advice, it helps.

[DjangosTigerr]

Thank for sharing. I haven't been that successful with SB, many don't commit, but I haven't been back on the site for years.

Do you suggest PPM instead of allowance? I used to do PPM only, but it started to have more and more girls asking for allowance.

Stay safe.

DBUSA.

It is just whatever you negotiate for. Mine is basically PPM but if I know them for awhile it becomes more of a hybrid. Meaning, if we are unable to get our schedules aligned and they need a few bucks for whatever I help them out. As long as they don't take advantage of the situation.

I have cut a few lose when it became obvious.

The reason I started doing that is my last one wanted to switch to an allowance but I didn't see her enough to justify that but it was a good way to pacify her. By giving her a few funds. She rarely asked for much Sometimes life just happens, flat tire, oil change, etc in they need just a little.

Most of these girls, seem to me, to have minimal support or contact with family and oddly enough want someone who is more a father figure. The ones I have had their father was either deceased or a piece of garbage.

I just met one recently and we have not yet had those exact discussions but a few general conversations. She has had SDs before which makes it much easier. But so far so good. We will see each other again soon, but we text here and there.

I admit it is hard to find a good one. When I search for them I weed out the ones who have 'Platonic' listed and / or really looking to be spoiled. Waste of time. You have to treat them with respect and not make intimacy the most important thing (it is of course). But most young guys already treat them like objects, hence, why a number of them like older respectful men. So act accordingly.

This is how I normally approach these girls. Be honest and funny in your profile. Tell them exactly what you are looking for. A handful of girls have complemented me on this. Just let them know that you would like to chat with them if they are interested. Sure I have had a number of them who look at my pics and profile and don't respond. That is fine. Their loss. I know what I have to offer. Don't concentrate too much on one girl. More of a shotgun effect. Talk to a bunch of them and don't get your hopes up on a particular one. You most likely will be disappointed.

I have had a few who I set up lunch or coffee with who bailed / ghosted on me. It sucks but it happens. Both were newbies. It I see one I REALLY want to meet I end up offering her like $ just to meet. Remember these girls, some single moms, a few bucks is really helpful. That usually increases your chances to let them at least get to know you and let them know you are safe.

I met a smoking hot Redhead once for coffee. She said she was surprised it went so well but eventually she decided she did not want to be an SB. Which is fine, she never had one before. A year later she must have had a change of heart and she was on that site again. I spoke with her briefly and she remembered me but I didn't offer, just wished her luck. Fool me once.

The ones who have never had an SD before are more work. Veterans are easier to deal with because they know what to expect.

Anyway, I hope this helps.

[DbUSA]

I personally preferred having an SB over everything else. Escorts are really inconsistent but I have discovered AMPs lately so will dabble in that some more. I have met 6 girls off Seeking. Only 1 I didn't see more than once (sex was just bad). The rest I saw anywhere from 6 months to 3 years.

For me the best site has been Seeking. I tried Secret Benefits but out of maybe 20 to 50 messages I only got 1 reply. WhatsyourPrice looks OK but.

You have to verify with a pic I believe. No thanks.

You have to expect a lot of these girls to ignore you and not reply back. Just like you have certain tastes and types they did also. Most of these girls are not full time escorts though you will see some on there. They just want extra money to do things or be taken places but I got lucky with 2 who were more interest in sex with older guy over money (Unicorns). Haven't had an SB in over a year but after dealing with the frustration and time consuming efforts with escorts I decided to jump back in. I had a great SB until she decided to get a serious bf, I feel like the pandemic helped extinguish that relationship. I always expect them to get a 'vanilla' bf eventually.

I have spoken with 4 (out of the 20+ messages I sent this past few weeks) on Seeking. First one was interested but she met someone else who wants to be exclusive so good luck to her. One wants 1500. LOL. Sure. Hot little 20 yr old but would rate 7/10 at best next. One looks promising cute 20 something college student. Was suppose to meet this week but she is in school and working her Sr year so meeting her next week. Another is hot, thick girl. Spoke a little recently. Getting ready to have a few discussions. She is open for PPM (pay per meet). Some want allowances, which I don't personally do. If neither of these 2 pan out my stick to AMPs for awhile.

I like SBs but it is nice to have someone you can see consistently I like that allows GFE, BBBJ and DATY and I can build a rapport with.

In closing, It takes a lot of work and patience to find a good SB who isn't a gold digger and worth your time. Sometimes it is worth it sometimes it isn't LOL.

Thank for sharing. I haven't been that successful with SB, many don't commit, but I haven't been back on the site for years.

Do you suggest PPM instead of allowance? I used to do PPM only, but it started to have more and more girls asking for allowance.

Stay safe.

DBUSA.

[DjangosTigerr]

I personally preferred having an SB over everything else. Escorts are really inconsistent but I have discovered AMPs lately so will dabble in that some more. I have met 6 girls off Seeking. Only 1 I didn't see more than once (sex was just bad). The rest I saw anywhere from 6 months to 3 years.

For me the best site has been Seeking. I tried Secret Benefits but out of maybe 20 to 50 messages I only got 1 reply. WhatsyourPrice looks OK but.

You have to verify with a pic I believe. No thanks.

You have to expect a lot of these girls to ignore you and not reply back. Just like you have certain tastes and types they did also. Most of these girls are not full time escorts though you will see some on there. They just want extra money to do things or be taken places but I got lucky with 2 who were more interest in sex with older guy over money (Unicorns). Haven't had an SB in over a year but after dealing with the frustration and time consuming efforts with escorts I decided to jump back in. I had a great SB until she decided to get a serious bf, I feel like the pandemic helped extinguish that relationship. I always expect them to get a 'vanilla' bf eventually.

I have spoken with 4 (out of the 20+ messages I sent this past few weeks) on Seeking. First one was interested but she met someone else who wants to be exclusive so good luck to her. One wants 1500. LOL. Sure. Hot little 20 yr old but would rate 7/10 at best next. One looks promising cute 20 something college student. Was suppose to meet this week but she is in school and working her Sr year so meeting her next week. Another is hot, thick girl. Spoke a little recently. Getting ready to have a few discussions. She is open for PPM (pay per meet). Some want allowances, which I don't personally do. If neither of these 2 pan out my stick to AMPs for awhile.

I like SBs but it is nice to have someone you can see consistently I like that allows GFE, BBBJ and DATY and I can build a rapport with.

In closing, It takes a lot of work and patience to find a good SB who isn't a gold digger and worth your time. Sometimes it is worth it sometimes it isn't LOL.

[DjangosTigerr]

In short. I have had little to no response with these either. I will add. That I have in my initial message that I am willing to spoil but I do NOT spoil for pics or videos. This has reduced "girls" responding to me by maybe 80%. But guess what. That is the 80% that have basically been pic / vid sellers.

The first one, Lucy, pretty sure she is on an escort site for like 1200. You have to expect a lot of them not to respond. Every girl has different taste and everyone different wants.

[LikeMike1963]

In short. I have had little to no response with these either. I will add. That I have in my initial message that I am willing to spoil but I do NOT spoil for pics or videos. This has reduced "girls" responding to me by maybe 80%. But guess what. That is the 80% that have basically been pic / vid sellers.

I've been chatting with a few and curious if anyone has any knowledge of these. They all seem DTF and I'm generally ok with allowance amounts. Thank

you!

Lucy222 xo.

https://members.seeking.com/member/2...6-ef9bd5cdc482

Sam.

https://members.seeking.com/member/f...1-8b74f6a84b0e

Gradschoolhottie.

https://members.seeking.com/member/1...b-807d3163eea8

Misslace.

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...8-15ee79ae2af2

Innocent Gamer.

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...d-647bd6962996

[Bigtlvr]

Thanks for the intel. But you've verified these are legit profiles? The lesbian is DTF?

Sort of why I'm posting. I've chatted with all, but was looking for insight before spending more time chatting with them.

[JoeThighsMan]

I've been chatting with a few and curious if anyone has any knowledge of these. They all seem DTF and I'm generally ok with allowance amounts. Thank you!

Lucy222 xo.

https://members.seeking.com/member/2...6-ef9bd5cdc482

Sam.

https://members.seeking.com/member/f...1-8b74f6a84b0e

Gradschoolhottie.

https://members.seeking.com/member/1...b-807d3163eea8

Misslace.

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...8-15ee79ae2af2

Innocent Gamer.

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...d-647bd6962996

Thanks for the intel. But you've verified these are legit profiles? The lesbian is DTF?

[Bigtlvr]

I've been chatting with a few and curious if anyone has any knowledge of these. They all seem DTF and I'm generally ok with allowance amounts. Thank you!

Lucy222 xo.

https://members.seeking.com/member/2...6-ef9bd5cdc482

Sam.

https://members.seeking.com/member/f...1-8b74f6a84b0e

Gradschoolhottie.

https://members.seeking.com/member/1...b-807d3163eea8

Misslace.

https://members.seeking.com/member/e...8-15ee79ae2af2

Innocent Gamer.

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...d-647bd6962996

[BamBam]

Here is your WTF profile of the week.

https://members.seeking.com/member/9...8-f0f80da813fc

I think he is trolling for lesbians or other non-binary profiles.

BAM.

[Bigtlvr]

Here is your WTF profile of the week.

https://members.seeking.com/member/9...8-f0f80da813fc

[Bigtlvr]

https://members.seeking.com/member/9...a-b8581db873dd

Scammer, what's money sent before meeting.

[DjangosTigerr]

https://members.seeking.com/member/1...4-bbdfdea5e268

Sucking on this chick's toes is probably an episode of Fear Factor.