Sugar Babies

**Toocan 3** · 05-18-21 09:58

Originally Posted by Aruba1234 [View Original Post]

https://www.seeking.com/member/51747...4-03f45b396bab

Tall as advertised. Beautiful face with great smile And eyes.

Long legged. Talks a good game so be on guard. Was great conversationalist on meet and greet.

However became a little hard to get on the second meeting. Wanted $$ fir rent and more $$ for phone.

Then wanted more bills paid but didn't want to do her part to earn it so it Was very frustrating.

The deed was finally done but not very into it.

Nor wanting a second attempt. But was quick to ask for more $$$ by text the next day. Heck no! Moving on and will not repeat.

Seniors Pm if more details about greed needed. Let's just say not trust worthy on the follow up of the agreement.

This gal hit me up yesterday and like you say talked a good game. Then comes the normal bs from the greedy. Just like you say, needed rent money or was going to be thrown out. Phone money or she couldn't talk to me and get hooked up. Then the pic sales on which I told her the net was full of it free. Why I even responded to her I have no idea, hell it's about a 5 hour drive for me and had no intentions of meeting, so I just ended the conversation by telling her she would see me before she saw any cash of mine. NOW the kicker, be warned, she reported me for soliciting and the site banned me. I sent an email to ***** and after about an hour got it reversed. Just thought I would jump over here and leave a warning to travel at your own risk. Ya'll be safe over there. Toocan.

**MK0111** · 05-18-21 07:37

Originally Posted by Golf9979 [View Original Post]

Calling you Daddy is an immediate turnoff for me. It also screams pro and or scam. I never deal with anyone after I'm referred to as Daddy.

Agree! "Baby", "Love", "Hun", "Daddy" are all pro terms and scream scam and turnoff to me as well. Are these girls simply that stupid to not realize it??

**Member #6042** · 05-17-21 20:35

Originally Posted by LikeMike1963 [View Original Post]

https://www.seeking.com/member/35b72...6-a6cc7f1a50e9

Trying to get this up before I get blocked. LOL. So here is the conversation below.

After I reached out to her.

HER That's fine with, I will like to start with sharing my nudes for a little $$$ then later meet up for FWB NSA.

About 10 minutes ago.

ME Thats awesome. 'cause I was wondering what you would pay for mine!. So lets just call it even and exchange them for free but of course I am open to meeting for a bite sometime and I would not even expect any allowance on our first meeting. Would you be buying dinner though or would we go dutch?

HER we go to dutch and I'm going to share you my nudes for $50, are you okay with that daddy?

ME Unfortunately I do not send money to anyone before meeting.

Calling you Daddy is an immediate turnoff for me. It also screams pro and or scam. I never deal with anyone after I'm referred to as Daddy.

**LikeMike1963** · 05-17-21 10:12

https://www.seeking.com/member/35b72...6-a6cc7f1a50e9

Trying to get this up before I get blocked. LOL. So here is the conversation below.

After I reached out to her.

HER That's fine with, I will like to start with sharing my nudes for a little $$$ then later meet up for FWB NSA.

About 10 minutes ago.

ME Thats awesome. 'cause I was wondering what you would pay for mine!. So lets just call it even and exchange them for free but of course I am open to meeting for a bite sometime and I would not even expect any allowance on our first meeting. Would you be buying dinner though or would we go dutch?

HER we go to dutch and I'm going to share you my nudes for $50, are you okay with that daddy?

ME Unfortunately I do not send money to anyone before meeting.

**Aruba1234** · 05-14-21 17:25

https://www.seeking.com/member/51747...4-03f45b396bab

Tall as advertised. Beautiful face with great smile And eyes.

Long legged. Talks a good game so be on guard. Was great conversationalist on meet and greet.

However became a little hard to get on the second meeting. Wanted $$ fir rent and more $$ for phone.

Then wanted more bills paid but didn't want to do her part to earn it so it Was very frustrating.

The deed was finally done but not very into it.

Nor wanting a second attempt. But was quick to ask for more $$$ by text the next day. Heck no! Moving on and will not repeat.

Seniors Pm if more details about greed needed. Let's just say not trust worthy on the follow up of the agreement.

**MattChavan23** · 05-11-21 01:00

Recently renewed my SA membership and already regretting. Luckily I had 30% off email promo. So met this bish 28 yr ol (presumably 35) and mommy of 2, at Mexican diner seems dtf and quoted 500. Shocked! , after negotiations came down to 350. Oh well, what a waste of Mexican food. Blocked.

https://www.seeking.com/member/de0f9...d-f9cc3da5fc92

Another bish stripper at some club in indiana met at diner, talked good game, did some quick fun in car, which raised my hope's pretty high. Promised good game for next day and then ghosted. Hair in pics is fake and flat chested.

https://www.seeking.com/member/92034...-7debf04d27f3.

You guys might have better luck than me. Both are dtf.

**Member #6575** · 05-10-21 09:18

Originally Posted by DyerMan [View Original Post]

Maybe in the last 8 months. If you have dm me. Have info to share about her as well.

You have asked the same question in 6 places the last week.

Louisville KY.

Greensboro NC.

Ashville NC.

Charlotte NC.

Columbia NC.

Charleston SC.

You are a non SM that claims to have had a broken marriage in Dec last year. Why the sudden interest to find this girl? You even PMed me about her.

Is she your ex and you are after creating trouble for her?

This board is not for such a use. Please stop.

SA.

**DjangosTigerr** · 05-10-21 08:34

Originally Posted by DeChamps [View Original Post]

Wow. Excellent advice and I already made the mistake of helping out one off SA in many many different ways. I did sleep with her quite a few times and there was never an arrangement or allowance, so this probably wasn't the norm. I only saw one other one off SA and it was a PPM and we talked after the fact, but for some reason she decided not to meet with me again. I wish I had asked this question a long time ago and appreciate the insight. I'm thinking of renewing my premium subscription again now. On further note I have seen 3, I forgot about Faith who disappeared for a time, but returned with a new set of boobs. Anyway thanks for your words of wisdom.

As always, Be Safe.

DE.

Honestly, I don't know what normal is on there yet. My best experience was a girl I met in her late 20's that lives 5+ hours away. A few times she has come up on a weekend and we spent the whole weekend together both times. Lots of sex obviously but we went to dinner, saw things around town, etc. I think she just likes to just get out of town on occasion and not be bothered with immediate family. She really never asked me for money but I did help her with a security deposit on an apartment. Definitely money well spent. She has a boyfriend now and we still chat, while I keep hoping they break up for selfish reasons LOL. Of course, I have had some bad experiences too but I just keep plugging at it.

**PokerMack** · 05-09-21 22:00

https://www.seeking.com/member/b989d...3-3068e827a66e

Anyone have any interaction with her? I have a serious thing for spicy Latinas. Any input would be appreciated.

**DyerMan** · 05-09-21 20:44

Maybe in the last 8 months. If you have dm me. Have info to share about her as well.

**DeChamps** · 05-09-21 11:35

Originally Posted by DjangosTigerr [View Original Post]

These notes are just what I have learned during my time with SBs based on my experience.

There is no secret. What girls are looking for on there are vast and unpredictable. I personally use a shotgun approach. Just send out messages to as many that even mildly interest you and let them know you would like to chat with them if they are interested. In your profile be honest but be funny. Be clear in what you are looking for. Ask them what they are looking for and fine tune yours for each girl and don't be overly eager. I have been lucky to find a few more interested in sex and someone to go to dinner with than money. (rare). The hot ones I REALLY wanted I have never had any luck with but have ended up finding some cute ones worth the time on occasion.

Back to messaging: Some will disappear, some will get back to you eventually, some will view your profile and pass (fine. Whatever). Some will bite and follow thru, most won't.

I once met a hot little 20 something for coffee. She said she was surprised it went so well. We text back and forth for weeks. She was busy with work and school before the holidays. She ended up deciding not to be an SB. I graciously understood and wished her well and if she changed her mind contact me (she didn't) but I left the door open. Keep talking to as many as you can and keep talking UNTIL you meet one to your liking you want to see again. So the ones that are 'on the fence' will most likely be a waste of time but still worth a shot but I have not convinced one to come to the dark side so.

One thing I learned not to do. Allowances. It is like unemployment COVID money. Takes away the incentive to see you. PPM or nothing with me. Something else someone said about helping them out with money. I will do that here and there AFTER I have seen them a few times. Sometimes people get in a pinch, job change, car issues, etc. But if they make it a habit cut them lose, it will only get worse and they will come to expect it. Above all DON'T get emotionally attached. I learned both of these lessons the hard way a few times over the years. I just ended seeing my SB because she supposedly found 'the one' and we can be platonic. Pass. As Gordon Gecko said, if you want a friend buy a dog.

If anyone has any additional insight pass it along. I am always willing to learn a few things.

Wow. Excellent advice and I already made the mistake of helping out one off SA in many many different ways. I did sleep with her quite a few times and there was never an arrangement or allowance, so this probably wasn't the norm. I only saw one other one off SA and it was a PPM and we talked after the fact, but for some reason she decided not to meet with me again. I wish I had asked this question a long time ago and appreciate the insight. I'm thinking of renewing my premium subscription again now. On further note I have seen 3, I forgot about Faith who disappeared for a time, but returned with a new set of boobs. Anyway thanks for your words of wisdom.

As always, Be Safe.

DE.

**ItsAllFun57** · 05-07-21 18:46

Thank you Djangos, excellent words of wisdom.

Originally Posted by DjangosTigerr [View Original Post]

These notes are just what I have learned during my time with SBs based on my experience.

There is no secret. What girls are looking for on there are vast and unpredictable. I personally use a shotgun approach. Just send out messages to as many that even mildly interest you and let them know you would like to chat with them if they are interested. In your profile be honest but be funny. Be clear in what you are looking for. Ask them what they are looking for and fine tune yours for each girl and don't be overly eager. I have been lucky to find a few more interested in sex and someone to go to dinner with than money. (rare). The hot ones I REALLY wanted I have never had any luck with but have ended up finding some cute ones worth the time on occasion.

Back to messaging: Some will disappear, some will get back to you eventually, some will view your profile and pass (fine. Whatever). Some will bite and follow thru, most won't.

I once met a hot little 20 something for coffee. She said she was surprised it went so well. We text back and forth for weeks. She was busy with work and school before the holidays. She ended up deciding not to be an SB. I graciously understood and wished her well and if she changed her mind contact me (she didn't) but I left the door open. Keep talking to as many as you can and keep talking UNTIL you meet one to your liking you want to see again. So the ones that are 'on the fence' will most likely be a waste of time but still worth a shot but I have not convinced one to come to the dark side so.

One thing I learned not to do. Allowances. It is like unemployment COVID money. Takes away the incentive to see you. PPM or nothing with me. Something else someone said about helping them out with money. I will do that here and there AFTER I have seen them a few times. Sometimes people get in a pinch, job change, car issues, etc. But if they make it a habit cut them lose, it will only get worse and they will come to expect it. Above all DON'T get emotionally attached. I learned both of these lessons the hard way a few times over the years. I just ended seeing my SB because she supposedly found 'the one' and we can be platonic. Pass. As Gordon Gecko said, if you want a friend buy a dog.

If anyone has any additional insight pass it along. I am always willing to learn a few things.

**DjangosTigerr** · 05-07-21 18:38

Originally Posted by DeChamps [View Original Post]

Appreciate the information Mojo. Have to ask how does anyone approach these ladies? Lots of hits but no follow thru. I offer lunch, dinner, drinks. And get I'm interested only to not here from them again. Is there a secret?.

These notes are just what I have learned during my time with SBs based on my experience.

There is no secret. What girls are looking for on there are vast and unpredictable. I personally use a shotgun approach. Just send out messages to as many that even mildly interest you and let them know you would like to chat with them if they are interested. In your profile be honest but be funny. Be clear in what you are looking for. Ask them what they are looking for and fine tune yours for each girl and don't be overly eager. I have been lucky to find a few more interested in sex and someone to go to dinner with than money. (rare). The hot ones I REALLY wanted I have never had any luck with but have ended up finding some cute ones worth the time on occasion.

Back to messaging: Some will disappear, some will get back to you eventually, some will view your profile and pass (fine. Whatever). Some will bite and follow thru, most won't.

I once met a hot little 20 something for coffee. She said she was surprised it went so well. We text back and forth for weeks. She was busy with work and school before the holidays. She ended up deciding not to be an SB. I graciously understood and wished her well and if she changed her mind contact me (she didn't) but I left the door open. Keep talking to as many as you can and keep talking UNTIL you meet one to your liking you want to see again. So the ones that are 'on the fence' will most likely be a waste of time but still worth a shot but I have not convinced one to come to the dark side so.

One thing I learned not to do. Allowances. It is like unemployment COVID money. Takes away the incentive to see you. PPM or nothing with me. Something else someone said about helping them out with money. I will do that here and there AFTER I have seen them a few times. Sometimes people get in a pinch, job change, car issues, etc. But if they make it a habit cut them lose, it will only get worse and they will come to expect it. Above all DON'T get emotionally attached. I learned both of these lessons the hard way a few times over the years. I just ended seeing my SB because she supposedly found 'the one' and we can be platonic. Pass. As Gordon Gecko said, if you want a friend buy a dog.

If anyone has any additional insight pass it along. I am always willing to learn a few things.

**Aruba1234** · 05-04-21 09:59

Essence in Louisville

As much as I hate to admit it, I thought too much with my little head and met “essence” for a meal and 200 with her "promise" to meet me later for fun. Well, we all know what happened. She blocked me on sa and my digits and I never saw her again. Oh well, it's the third time for me in 3 years, my once a year lesson LOL.

Beware and remember.

**BoneDaddy** · 05-03-21 13:47

Originally Posted by Milkman [View Original Post]

Been chatting with a few of these ladies, all seem dft. Anyone have any positive / negative experiences.

1991 Tiffany, askig 350.

https://www.seeking.com/member/0b4b9...e-fc41654140ca

Dharvey877, asking 300.

https://www.seeking.com/member/333dc...3-a5fb599175d8

Alissasky. Super flaky.

https://www.seeking.com/member/5b1f8...2-22d910173767

Girlsjustwannafundz. Asking 300.

https://www.seeking.com/member/62e75...8-e63617a84fd7

LoveLife822.

https://www.seeking.com/member/43089...d-11b9860926e7

Mmcall01 asking 250.

https://www.seeking.com/member/78f42...6-5e69a100176e

I have seen Tiffany. I thought she was pretty dull. Not much enthusiasm and we didn't connect. I can't recall the $ damage, but it wasn't worth it. I chatted with Alissasky off and on for probably 6 months. We discussed meeting for a drink, etc. , but she would never commit. I finally asked her why she wouldn't meet with me, and her answer was that she "didn't want to get involved with a married man". My profile on SA is clear that I am married, so not sure why she didn't say that up front. So yeah, flaky.