Sugarbabies?

[TheGenteelMan]

Took the plunge (again) on SA. Looks like they removed the search filter for hair color (e.g., I can't just pull up blondes) - that sux.

After various methods of searching, I realized there is no search filter for "Only display hot sexy buxom chics that like old, farty, fat, balding and poor guys".

And I noticed that all the chics that were hitting me up with messages and favoriting me are all gone or profiles locked now that I've paid to see what they were trying to say LOL. As you might have gathered, only the paying guys can actually see message the ladies send them.

Live and learn I guess. ... And learn, and learn some more, get pissed because you forgot the first three times, then re-learn over again.

TGM

[FarFarAway]

Lets face it some girls have self worth and won't budge from the number they set. My theory is they set the amount and its either yes or no for me. Now once I pass if they want to initiate a negotiation session I'm down. If your claiming to be a sd and have a certain amount listed as income, dressed to kill, oozing money and try to talk a girl down a few bucks puts them in the WTF mode. Just another splenda daddy. Oh any girl found on CL in my opinion is utr and a sex worker which isn't a sb in my book.

I see this point, but it neglects the intangibles that can only come out if you M&G. So as many have already posted, it is crucial to get her to do that. I've had women in civi dating say things like 'I like the way you move' - there's no way I can get that info to a POT unless she meets me. A splenda daddy has no sugar, but of course, if you advertise that you have a lot, or more than you have, agreed, she's going to expect full price. On the other hand, girls are going to want to fuck you more if they are attracted to you. Put your best foot forward. Go in there clean, neat, well-groomed, and sure, try to look nice. The girl I found on CL definitely isn't an escort, I've really looked into her. She has been doing webcam shows and other class nude modeling, which I guess is a sex worker of sorts, but she's now owns the business and girls work for her. I'd say better than a stripper equivalent.

[John HandCock]

Agreed on that. It's one thing to give it voluntarily when they aren't expecting it and it does something for them. I found the FB of my current baby before the M&G and knew she loved a particular makeup. Having a gift card for that exact makeup melted her at the end of the M&G. If it hadn't gone well, I could just keep it in my pocket, use it some other time, and just be out the $ for coffee. I hate it when a girl asks for $ to M&G, perhaps w / the exception of gas $ if she really did have to drive a ways. That seems only fair. Some of these girls literally are broke.

I have been dealing w / a very hot 23 YO girl I met off CL. She's got a business that is in trouble and she was $396 overdrawn at the bank. I was trying to get her to the FC at 350, and she was saying 500. I came up to 400 as I knew that would make her whole, and she still wouldn't take it. I'll repeat something I posted a while back. Women are very mercenary in evaluating their attractiveness and matching that up w / the men they will be with. I think this is why so many girls are difficult to get off their numbers. Yeah, I know a lot call it GPS. I happen to be a beauty snob, and don't want to compromise, so I often am paying top dollar. But getting top looks, anyway. You can't buy a BMW cheap, unless it's broken down. Don't pay 20% above the market for a BMW either, though.

Lets face it some girls have self worth and won't budge from the number they set. My theory is they set the amount and its either yes or no for me. Now once I pass if they want to initiate a negotiation session I'm down. If your claiming to be a sd and have a certain amount listed as income, dressed to kill, oozing money and try to talk a girl down a few bucks puts them in the WTF mode. Just another splenda daddy. Oh any girl found on CL in my opinion is utr and a sex worker which isn't a sb in my book.

[JLZ61]

Anybody connect with this lissome lass?

[Big Sug]

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[FarFarAway]

I have several babies making around $300-$500 a week for once a week meetings. I know most aren't willing to pay that, but I enjoy the routine and security of an ongoing arrangement. Plus I'm pretty picky. I don't know about this specific girl though, she isn't one of mine.

I know lots hate it, but I also pay a meet and greet of $100. Yes, I'm that guy. I don't do many M&Gs and I don't let them know they will get it most of the times. I've just found the most desirable babies respond well to unsolicited sugar.

Agreed on that. It's one thing to give it voluntarily when they aren't expecting it and it does something for them. I found the FB of my current baby before the M&G and knew she loved a particular makeup. Having a gift card for that exact makeup melted her at the end of the M&G. If it hadn't gone well, I could just keep it in my pocket, use it some other time, and just be out the $ for coffee. I hate it when a girl asks for $ to M&G, perhaps w / the exception of gas $ if she really did have to drive a ways. That seems only fair. Some of these girls literally are broke.

I have been dealing w / a very hot 23 YO girl I met off CL. She's got a business that is in trouble and she was $396 overdrawn at the bank. I was trying to get her to the FC at 350, and she was saying 500. I came up to 400 as I knew that would make her whole, and she still wouldn't take it. I'll repeat something I posted a while back. Women are very mercenary in evaluating their attractiveness and matching that up w / the men they will be with. I think this is why so many girls are difficult to get off their numbers. Yeah, I know a lot call it GPS. I happen to be a beauty snob, and don't want to compromise, so I often am paying top dollar. But getting top looks, anyway. You can't buy a BMW cheap, unless it's broken down. Don't pay 20% above the market for a BMW either, though.

[Pasture Finder]

she then informs me that she has been offered 500-600 a week for a once a week meeting. Who the fuck is offering this shit??
https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...5-b8447ce926da

I have several babies making around $300-$500 a week for once a week meetings. I know most aren't willing to pay that, but I enjoy the routine and security of an ongoing arrangement. Plus I'm pretty picky. I don't know about this specific girl though, she isn't one of mine.

I know lots hate it, but I also pay a meet and greet of $100. Yes, I'm that guy. I don't do many M&Gs and I don't let them know they will get it most of the times. I've just found the most desirable babies respond well to unsolicited sugar.

[Steve Dupont]

Being blocked before she views your profile doesn't make sense unless you sent her a message that she deemed offensive right off the bat. Some have no sense of humor and some can be offended pretty easy. To be blocked without any contact is a first.

She has blocked my main profile and I had never even seen her profile. I was able to look at her using a second, unpaid profile. I wonder why she blocked me without ever seeing my profile?

Bam.

Actually, I thought of another reason: It was just a mistake. On another sugar site, I have had three women later lift their blocks and tell me it was a mistake. If she's using her phone app, then I bet hitting the tiny block button is done easily enough. You might try emailing support and asking that she lift the block. I know one site that will forward a message for you and that has worked at least once for me.

[EuroInCincy]

There are girls who aren't going to fuck you for what you thi k they are worth. Some not going to fuck you because of looks, attitude or numerous other reasons. To many girls to be upset over one so just move on to next. There are guys who pay that so if they got the money to spend and she can get it its win win.

I know a SB who gets 1500/ meeting from a guy, she meets him twice a month, yet from me she only wants dinner. As usual Your mileage WILL vary.

[John HandCock]

So, I had some exchanges with this young girl, we were doing some negotiating. I made her a very reasonable offer for a continual sd / sb relationship. (I am willing to pay more to girls who aren't in the industry and a bit younger). Anyway, she then informs me that she has been offered 500-600 a week for a once a week meeting. Who the fuck is offering this shit?? I can have a damn good time with multiple gals for that on a weekly basis. Am I crazy? Or is she? None of my past sugarbabies expected anywhere near that, but that seems to be what a lot are expecting now.

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...5-b8447ce926da

There are girls who aren't going to fuck you for what you thi k they are worth. Some not going to fuck you because of looks, attitude or numerous other reasons. To many girls to be upset over one so just move on to next. There are guys who pay that so if they got the money to spend and she can get it its win win.

[SimonPieMan]

So, I had some exchanges with this young girl, we were doing some negotiating. I made her a very reasonable offer for a continual sd / sb relationship. (I am willing to pay more to girls who aren't in the industry and a bit younger). Anyway, she then informs me that she has been offered 500-600 a week for a once a week meeting. Who the fuck is offering this shit?? I can have a damn good time with multiple gals for that on a weekly basis. Am I crazy? Or is she? None of my past sugarbabies expected anywhere near that, but that seems to be what a lot are expecting now.

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...5-b8447ce926da

My guess is she's possibly testing the waters. If she can get that rate, good for her. However, in the few short weeks that I've been a member, I have far more contacts than I can handle. And I'm just an average guy.

SP.

[JD3972]

So, I had some exchanges with this young girl, we were doing some negotiating. I made her a very reasonable offer for a continual sd / sb relationship. (I am willing to pay more to girls who aren't in the industry and a bit younger). Anyway, she then informs me that she has been offered 500-600 a week for a once a week meeting. Who the fuck is offering this shit?? I can have a damn good time with multiple gals for that on a weekly basis. Am I crazy? Or is she? None of my past sugarbabies expected anywhere near that, but that seems to be what a lot are expecting now.

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...5-b8447ce926da

[John HandCock]

She has blocked my main profile and I had never even seen her profile. I was able to look at her using a second, unpaid profile. I wonder why she blocked me without ever seeing my profile?

Bam.

Being blocked before she views your profile doesn't make sense unless you sent her a message that she deemed offensive right off the bat. Some have no sense of humor and some can be offended pretty easy. To be blocked without any contact is a first.

[JoeBogus]

Natalia Preytonie Met her. Tight body, great tits. Reasonable cost.

https://www.seekingarrangement.com/m...8-a8ce039db658

[Steve Dupont]

She has blocked my main profile and I had never even seen her profile. I was able to look at her using a second, unpaid profile. I wonder why she blocked me without ever seeing my profile?

Bam.

I am not on that site, and I don't know the girl, but I can you something. A lot of the top girls on those sites get so much attention that they use the blocking feature as a filter. Otherwise they would never be able to wade through their messages. I thought it was cruel the first four or five times it happened to me, then I figured it out.