Sugarbabies?

[CinMiner]

Can you give us the screen name / handle of who we need to be aware?

So I was hit with the band wagon as well. In my scenario though, it is from someone on there trying to do it intentionally. I received a message from them that then I progressed to chat with off site. Prior to that their language was heavy with the innuendo for a p2 p on the site. After not coming to an agreeable term as I'm not forking over 1 k per meet they filed the complaint. SA confirmed which user it was that did the complaint and sited the conversation as being inappropriate on the site. Afterwards I received a follow-up text saying to enjoy being banned. So watch out guys, there is at least one asshat on there intentionally fucking with us. At least imo.

[TheWolverineJP]

This will go along with my reply to Cincy, I created a dummy profile and found the girl that ghosted me:

https://www.seeking.com/member/c00e7...6-14a8e7a8517d

[TheWolverineJP]

Hmmmm, I wonder if I pissed someone off. I was chatting with a girl in Dayton, she was a blonde around 30 ish, 5'2', pretty face, nursing student. She and I went to text and planned a meet and greet. She had sent me several pics and we were getting along great. The day of the planned meet she had texted me a couple hours ahead of time and told me she was good to go. I leave work early to meet her at a Starbucks and she went silent, I waited the normal amount of time, 20-30 minutes and after several texts never received a reply. Logged on to SA and sent her a note asking why she ghosted me, it was immediately read but no reply. Sent her another note and told her I told her I was going to report her ass as a fraud which I did and withing 30 minutes her profile was either "inactive or I was blocked", two days later my account was banned. Maybe a coincidence, maybe not.

Could be someone filing a complaint against you, either legitimately or as vengeance for not doing what some GPS wanted. I got a warning on my old account (I retooled and did a new account last year) and I knew I had not violated any rules as I was being super careful to move all of that kind of talk to text or Kik. When I followed up they said it was based on a complaint and that they would review my account. I never heard back from them after that.

[SstevenEvets]

Could be someone filing a complaint against you, either legitimately or as vengeance for not doing what some GPS wanted. I got a warning on my old account (I retooled and did a new account last year) and I knew I had not violated any rules as I was being super careful to move all of that kind of talk to text or Kik. When I followed up they said it was based on a complaint and that they would review my account. I never heard back from them after that.

So I was hit with the band wagon as well. In my scenario though, it is from someone on there trying to do it intentionally. I received a message from them that then I progressed to chat with off site. Prior to that their language was heavy with the innuendo for a p2 p on the site. After not coming to an agreeable term as I'm not forking over 1 k per meet they filed the complaint. SA confirmed which user it was that did the complaint and sited the conversation as being inappropriate on the site. Afterwards I received a follow-up text saying to enjoy being banned. So watch out guys, there is at least one asshat on there intentionally fucking with us. At least imo.

[TheWolverineJP]

She asked for 1700 monthly, I told her I wanted to see her 5 times a month and she settled for 300 to spend the afternoon and evening together. She has a career and makes good money so there is some flexability with her. We hit it off well and had a lot of fun.

Never hurts to share.

[LogJammin18]

I don't wait till they ask. No matter what they say. I use protection. Way too dangerous.

To me, Sugaring rather than seeing a true escort is about getting to BB. If my social media research on a girl tells me she is a legit college girl and not 3 guy a day provider, I pay for her to get tested. I found a site that you can create an account, pay for it and have the results sent to you: http://myprivatelabs.com.

She just has to show up at local lab for 15 minutes. I provide a test to her as well.

[Cincy]

IDK, the message never said, also I was never warned to stop using any certain language, seems weird to me. Typically if I messaged someone it was a normal hello, small talk and then ask if they want to discuss an arrangment via text. I rarely had a long running convo on the site. Its really not a big deal, just have to make a new profile at some point.

Could be someone filing a complaint against you, either legitimately or as vengeance for not doing what some GPS wanted. I got a warning on my old account (I retooled and did a new account last year) and I knew I had not violated any rules as I was being super careful to move all of that kind of talk to text or Kik. When I followed up they said it was based on a complaint and that they would review my account. I never heard back from them after that.

[Herr Doktor]

One of my sb's got banned for the same reason.

I am assuming there was no refund either, right?

[JjSlim]

I got an email this morning me that I have been permanently banned for using too much "Escort Language". I would recommend having detailed conversations via another means, they obviously monitor conversations.

One of my sb's got banned for the same reason.

[FarFarAway]

Has anyone achieved an "Attractive" membership status on Seeking? Supposedly if you post a picture, have a complete profile and get verified you become an Attractive member and can communicate for free. I've done all those things and nothing has changed.

JJ.

There are two types of members now. Attractive or successful. You can't be attractive b / c you are short an X chromosome. That deal only applies to SBs. You note that lots has changed at seeking.com, it is all b / c of FOSTA. They are taking away anything and everything related to the financial aspect of the deal. No more 'lifestyle expectation' either.

[Zcochran00]

I got an email this morning me that I have been permanently banned for using too much "Escort Language". I would recommend having detailed conversations via another means, they obviously monitor conversations.

Yeah, I took a hint when they started putting up that one-time "Agree you'll comply with site policies" dialog. As soon as the discussion of allowance comes up, I ask them to email me (or text / kik, if that's better). Besides, that lets you keep the conversation going even if premium time runs out.

In general, if it seems like they're a potential, it's worth moving the conversation off SA as fast as possible.

[TheWolverineJP]

IDK, the message never said, also I was never warned to stop using any certain language, seems weird to me. Typically if I messaged someone it was a normal hello, small talk and then ask if they want to discuss an arrangment via text. I rarely had a long running convo on the site. Its really not a big deal, just have to make a new profile at some point.

Specifically. What kind of language? Could you share?

[WarlockKy]

Met her a while back and had a great time. She is legit, sweet, "normal' and fun to be around. We spent a few hours in a hotel after having lunch, drank some wine and had a great time, she is awesome.

https://www.seeking.com/member/46cdc...d-f8915ab46a48

Never hurts to share.

[Herr Doktor]

I got an email this morning me that I have been permanently banned for using too much "Escort Language". I would recommend having detailed conversations via another means, they obviously monitor conversations.

Specifically. What kind of language? Could you share?

[RogerOver]

I got an email this morning me that I have been permanently banned for using too much "Escort Language". I would recommend having detailed conversations via another means, they obviously monitor conversations.

Well, it's pretty much become an "escort" site. So it has that going for it.