Sugarbabies?

[JLZ61]

With extremely rare exceptions (I think twice in 4 years), I will not pay for a MnG, period. For me, at least, it sets the wrong tone for the kind of relationship I want. I know I've lost lots of dinners with a number of hotties, but I'm pretty sure things would not have evolved to my satisfaction anyway, so I'm OK with that.

A recent exchange with a very attractive SB-2-be with whom there was an immediate rapport illustrates my approach. The following was her response to my initial suggestion for dinner after some fun and engaging PMs, followed by my response to her request for cash.

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SHE: Thank you! Well I always do a first time coffee / quick bite meet up first to see if we even get along, we can discuss terms depending on how that goes. I also request $150 for that because I have met many potential SD's all of but one who have been a complete waste of my time meaning, they are either super weird, are fake from their profile online, or say one thing but mean another. If you're not okay with that then all the best!

ME: I, too, like to meet first to see if there's compatibility since the vast majority of SA women I've met are a complete waste of my time. E. g. , are escorts, don't look like their photos, etc. Literally 99%.

I usually take the girl to dinner because I'm pretty comfortable with people and can have a great conversation with almost anybody. Sometimes I end up investing some good money because we go to nicer restaurants where the meals plus drinks are well over $200. I consider that as my investment in finding the right person.

The bottom line is we're both risking the same thing. Time. But I'm also taking on the additional cost of dinner. I'm in a very different financial place than you so I'm fine with shouldering that. (Plus, my mom taught me that a gentleman always, always pays! LOL).

Given all of this, yes, I'm interested to meet you and learn about you. No, I will not pay for time since, for all of the above reasons, we are both investing. If you're fine with this, let's make a date. We will 100% have a blast. You pick the restaurant. Any in town! If you're not, you're a pretty girl and many men would be willing to pay just to be seen with you. But I'm looking for more than a pretty face and nice body. I'm looking for substance and vitality and growth and fun. A friend. Are you ready for that? .

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The result? We are slated to meet after she returns from her upcoming trip abroad. I'm still uncertain if this will happen but there's a decent chance it will in my experience.

As context, there are SBs I just want to meet and fuck and there are SBs with whom I'd like to see if I can get to a different place. This one is the latter. She interests me and I want to see if I can get her to hang out just to hang out, no direct sugar for sugar. Most of the time I don't offer much more than a drink at a local bar as an initial MnG. This one could be worth more so I'm willing to invest more. I know we'll have a great time.

By the time I reach this point in the game, I can get to where I want to go about 10% of the time. That may seem low but what I get out of it is just about perfect. A hottie that actually likes me, that I do fun stuff with, that I fuck and with whom I develop a solid friendship. My current stable of active fun numbers 4, the most I've had at one time. I have an additional 4 with whom I have developed strong, real friendships, some of which have lasted several years.

It takes time and effort but I love the chase and the friendships are very much worth it for me.

So have this one who wants 200 mng then 250 for meetups. The MNG fee seems high because she could never meet again. Do you wait to pay after MNG or lay it out at beginning?

https://www.seeking.com/member/d958c...f-8123063ef71a

This one is in Monroe and her photo looks fake or photoshopped. Just makes one wonder who the fuck you're talking with. Appreciate any intel.

https://www.seeking.com/member/d2fd7...8-f75f1a85254a

Thanks Vinny.

[Vinlmp]

So have this one who wants 200 mng then 250 for meetups. The MNG fee seems high because she could never meet again. Do you wait to pay after MNG or lay it out at beginning?

https://www.seeking.com/member/d958c...f-8123063ef71a

This one is in Monroe and her photo looks fake or photoshopped. Just makes one wonder who the fuck you're talking with. Appreciate any intel.

https://www.seeking.com/member/d2fd7...8-f75f1a85254a

Thanks Vinny.

[SDaddy9]

First time going premium with SA.
Talking up Alexia.
She's asking how much to meet and just wondering how this should safely proceed.
Thanks Vinny.
https://www.seeking.com/member/e1726...b-d23462cce88c

Go to the Richmond Va Sugarbaby thread and study up. It's all there.

[Herr Doktor]

First time going premium with SA.

Talking up Alexia.

She's asking how much to meet and just wondering how this should safely proceed.

Thanks Vinny.

https://www.seeking.com/member/e1726...b-d23462cce88c

You can talk about her needs and what she wants, but I don't talk about about support until the MnG.

[Vinlmp]

First time going premium with SA.

Talking up Alexia.

She's asking how much to meet and just wondering how this should safely proceed.

Thanks Vinny.

https://www.seeking.com/member/e1726...b-d23462cce88c

[Poksman]

This was my first SB 2 years ago. After being a long time monger, I made the switch. Thanks to Sudy and SA. I thinks she's married now but it was fun and I never turned back. Thanks for the memories.

[MikeStud513]

Headed for Florida so leaving you with this information. Amount is allowance ask per meet. Have not met any of these people.


Needsomesuggaa 22 SB $400 Aggressive to meet.

https://www.seeking.com/member/79cc5...2-9eba126f9667

Can you provide anymore insight into your conversation with her? P2 p? Any limits she mentioned? I was going to send a message to her but was looking for more info if possible on what she is like.

[TheWolverineJP]

Met her a few times, she is legit. We had a great time but I didn't really find myself turned on by her after the initial newness wore off. Nothing up top. Literally, like only nipples. Some tats, piercings etc. She is pretty and in great shape and clean. Has a day job.

https://www.seeking.com/member/7c9d0...2-9fa52dba464c

[Herr Doktor]

Chatted about 4 months ago. Lived at the time in Columbia Tusculum. She got herself into some trouble about half a year ago with a DUI. Had a long distance SD for about a year. Loves cats. Never met, though.

Seemed open to both transactional as well as LTR.

Not as hot in person, but fun time.

Very flaky. Or just not a good communicator.

Either way, if you have other options, give this one a miss.

[TheWolverineJP]

Chatting with this woman, initially wanted money before meeting, told her no and that its the earmarks of a scam, now is asking for $250 to have lunch. LOL Told her she is insane and good luck.

https://www.seeking.com/member/6c897...b-dcc3f90c6992

[WanderingAbout]

Headed for Florida so leaving you with this information. Amount is allowance ask per meet. Have not met any of these people.

Carlieeboo 25 SB Escort. $250. P4 P. Aggressive in wanting to meet.

https://www.seeking.com/member/78a32...f-2dde1963235c

Collegebbg 21 SB Pro SB Escort. $700 Bi BDSM Greek available GPS tho.

https://www.seeking.com/member/2138c...9-5a06186d3b05

Yolo787 18 SB Newbie $300. West sider. Check I'd for age verification.

https://www.seeking.com/member/452c0...5-616dd6651bfd

Pbandjelly505 24 SB Escort $300 She was on Backpage few years back. Player so you won't game her but she may you.

https://www.seeking.com/member/61676...8-6ea93396099f

Lizzygirll 22 SB Fake Says will sell you pics and vids them maybe meet after you prove you will pay her. SB BS.

https://www.seeking.com/member/6c897...b-dcc3f90c6992

Avoidtheworld 26 SB Pro Been on site since 2015 $300 don't look under the mask. Not attractive at all.

https://www.seeking.com/member/06ac4...8-40141859872f

Sunshinny 25 SB $500.

https://www.seeking.com/member/ef3bc...a-3b340ccebae0

Tiny 26 Dayton SB Escort $700 Bi.

https://www.seeking.com/member/996fc...3-8f21996cb72a

Needsomesuggaa 22 SB $400 Aggressive to meet.

https://www.seeking.com/member/79cc5...2-9eba126f9667

B4 rbieGirll 23 Dayton SB Former Stripper Likes Greek Kinda weird personality.

https://www.seeking.com/member/4dbe2...a-6345f8056160

[JLZ61]

Chatted about 4 months ago. Lived at the time in Columbia Tusculum. She got herself into some trouble about half a year ago with a DUI. Had a long distance SD for about a year. Loves cats. Never met, though.

Seemed open to both transactional as well as LTR.

Any info on this one? Seems to be fairly new but just want to be sure.

https://www.seeking.com/member/b6fe4...d-2341650aaa0e

[Frakka00]

Any info on this one? Seems to be fairly new but just want to be sure.

https://www.seeking.com/member/b6fe4...d-2341650aaa0e

[MisforMaster]

It's a private discussion. This is a public board. Some people would like to disclose more but don't for that reason.

It is *well known* that certain SB's monitor this forum. At least, well known to me.

Speaking of.

I'm not going to shame just yet, but, there's a good reason why I hesitate on dating (or seeing) women with kids:

I have a work thing this week out of town. For the most part it's fairly tame, but, there are certain things that I need to be there for.

Text someone, "Hey, are we still on for Wednesday? To which I received an good "yes" in return.

I fly to Cincy Tuesday night to spend time with this person, only to be told, "Sorry, son's baseball game." So, instead of spending the week where I need to be and playing hooky on Wednesday without spending 5 hours on a place, I make a round-trip flight to Cincy only to be stood up by someone who doesn't have good availability in the first place.

Look -- I don't give a fuck about the money -- I can make more money -- I'm pissed because you've wasted my time.

Seriously, this is two chicks who have had "unexpected" kid issues in the last month-ish or so who I've basically blocked / put on the will-not-see-no-matter-what list.

The whole premise of this is: we hang out, we fuck, I make your life easier. I'm not asking to go get married. I'm not asking to be your steady fuck. I just fucking ask that you're honest with me and provide a true representation of your time. Yes, I realize that some women have kids -- and that will NEVER be in the cards for me -- but, for fucks sake, communicate with me and tell me when things come up.

College is out for the year, so, it's back to local chicks with local issues. I can't wait for August to roll around.

MM.

[Herr Doktor]

Once had a great conversation with her. She was looking for 350 PPM, but didn't say whether that included her friend. Found that a bit expensive so passed at that time.

CFG.

She is a great person.

We had a solid arrangement until I said no to starting an arrangement with her gf.

They were fun to play with, but only because we were really drunk. We were doing 1 k per month. Targeted meeting twice per week.