Sugarbabies?

[MiscWrite]

I've had the best success on SA and SD. My 2 longer term arrangements came from those sites. I've got a few SBs that turned friends and they don't like WYP, say they feel like its a scam and m&g rarely happen from that site. Maybe it's just them tho, idk.

I don't really care if I see people I know while out, never had anyone ask any questions when I did. Well once, I was asked if my sugar date was my daughter and I just rolled with it and we laughed about it after.

My current SB wants a lot of discretion. If we go out around town, it's usually some hole in the wall, low key bar where we can melt away into the background. Because of that we take day trips and some overnights to cities we can quickly drive too. She doesn't mind going out then, loves to get dressed up for me, and have fun. Otherwise we hang out at my house or her apartment, order doordash, watch a movie and just have a lot of fun.

As for connections, my longer term arrangements were more like SBF / SGF after a few months. We went out regularly for dinner, drinks, idk, throw axes or whatever crazy idea we came up with. We also went on vacations. I also surprise them with little gifts too. I found when I treat them right they are so much more appreciative to me. But this is just me and what I look for in a SR.

I always do a M&G initially for coffee or drinks, tell them its unpaid, that sorts out the girls that aren't interested and just after money. After the m&g, if it went well, I'll give them some cash. I'm picky, so my ratio is about 30% I m&g, I go out with again.

This is your SR, do as much as you want. And the best part of this is you don't really need a lot of game to have a lot of fun in the bowl.

I've been watching for quite a while but haven't pulled the trigger on anyone or any site. I understand SA is more reliable and has better results that SB, and WYP seems to be completely unreliable.

My question is how do you guys USE the connections. For example, how many of you actually go on dinner dates, walks on the beach, jet off to Cancun, Vegas, or anything and how many use the connections like upper-class escorts; just dropping in for a little hey-hey?

I'd be interested in the social aspect but know too many people around different parts of town so I'm worried about being seen and it getting back to the SO.

With an escort its easy: show up at the hotel, have a little chit-chat, and get what you came for. I'd like something a little more than that, maybe a little hanging out, but don't have bandwidth to have an entire side-girlfriend.

Just asking the experiences of you guys who've been at this for a while.

Do you usually meet for drinks / coffee the first time then move to your / her place? What's the ratio of 1st dates that just don't work out? I've been married 25+ years so my game is probably a little out of date.

[SstevenEvets]

She is on four different sites. I have chatted with her but disengaged when I got a very pro vibe. IIRC, she was good to go for $300 PPM. Let us know how it goes.

BAM.

Have seen her. Definitely pro attitude. I won't repeat. Reeked of smoke which is an absolute no fly zone for me. However, was good to go but couldn't suck dick well, and at least for me wouldn't catch. YMMV.

[Ginzo666]

I'm currently out of the game, but here goes.

I would usually try to meet for lunch at a moderately expensive restaurant to show seriousness of intent. Yes, I would go out to dinner, drinks, movies, etc. With the SBs that I liked. Sometimes it would just be DoorDash at their place. Also, just chilling and watching TV sometimes. It depended heavily. I also did gifts for the one or two SBs that I really liked. Think of it like being forever stuck in the early, casual phase of dating.

I'd say it's 50-50 as to whether a M-and-G would translate to an f-close. Over time, I got increasing picky with SBs and had fewer M-and-Gs. As for actual high quality SBs, I've only had 2 of those. Most are girls you smash a few times, then lose interest.

It seems the quality on SA is pretty low right now on average, and there are a ton of scammers on there. I advise taking absolutely NO bullshit from these girls. Don't pay for a M-and-G. Don't buy pictures. And don't accept flakiness. If they flake on the first meet, block and move on. If they get even slightly rude, block and move on. You'll get less action, but have infinitely less drama.

Just asking the experiences of you guys who've been at this for a while.

Do you usually meet for drinks / coffee the first time then move to your / her place? What's the ratio of 1st dates that just don't work out? I've been married 25+ years so my game is probably a little out of date.

[BamBam]

https://members.seeking.com/member/a...e-e33b9c214572

Anyone have any information on Shaybae? Feel free to pm me.

She is on four different sites. I have chatted with her but disengaged when I got a very pro vibe. IIRC, she was good to go for $300 PPM. Let us know how it goes.

BAM.

[AlphaTek1]

I've been watching for quite a while but haven't pulled the trigger on anyone or any site. I understand SA is more reliable and has better results that SB, and WYP seems to be completely unreliable.

My question is how do you guys USE the connections. For example, how many of you actually go on dinner dates, walks on the beach, jet off to Cancun, Vegas, or anything and how many use the connections like upper-class escorts; just dropping in for a little hey-hey?

I'd be interested in the social aspect but know too many people around different parts of town so I'm worried about being seen and it getting back to the SO.

With an escort its easy: show up at the hotel, have a little chit-chat, and get what you came for. I'd like something a little more than that, maybe a little hanging out, but don't have bandwidth to have an entire side-girlfriend.

Just asking the experiences of you guys who've been at this for a while.

Do you usually meet for drinks / coffee the first time then move to your / her place? What's the ratio of 1st dates that just don't work out? I've been married 25+ years so my game is probably a little out of date.

[AlphaTek1]

https://members.seeking.com/member/a...e-e33b9c214572

Anyone have any information on Shaybae? Feel free to pm me.

She's almost too hot to be real but for your sake I hope she is, although I think the 2 shots in the car (mostly the one with slight acne) is the "real" one she's still pretty attractive.

Being late 40's and a larger (not disgusting, just overweight) gentleman I worry about the early 20-somethings myself. Some days are good, some are bad, if you know what I mean so I'm concerned about unexpected performance issues. Also personally the Duck Lip thing (which seems to be a requirement for Millennials) is a turnoff, but her other assets would make up for that.

Happy hunting and I'd also love to hear any experiences.

[Goo3215]

https://members.seeking.com/member/a...e-e33b9c214572

Anyone have any information on Shaybae? Feel free to pm me.

[Zeotch2]

I've had excellent results with Seeking over the years but just for grins, I recently signed up on Secret Benefits, and I've been inundated with messages. I haven't responded to any of them due to the pay per message thing and pay to view extra pics. I almost get the feeling that the girls get points for getting guys to respond. I'm skeptical. So my questions to the group:

1. For those of you who have experience with both Seeking and SB, which do you find better?

2. What's the best way to pay on SB, do they allow anonymous credit cards? Suggestions?

Thanks!

CFG.

Scroll down this thread to see how to pay on Seeking. Not sure about SB, I've never tried it.

Maybe check the other thread "Alternate Sugar Sites: Secret Benefits, WYP, Etc. Not Seeking or SA". There may be some mention of that.

[Cincyfunguy]

I've had excellent results with Seeking over the years but just for grins, I recently signed up on Secret Benefits, and I've been inundated with messages. I haven't responded to any of them due to the pay per message thing and pay to view extra pics. I almost get the feeling that the girls get points for getting guys to respond. I'm skeptical. So my questions to the group:

1. For those of you who have experience with both Seeking and SB, which do you find better?

2. What's the best way to pay on SB, do they allow anonymous credit cards? Suggestions?

Thanks!

CFG.

[Wielic]

She can do a qv for 200 and can also host in the NKY area. 300 for 2 hours and multiple pops.

Pm for digits or more info.

She is also on seeking. Takes you off site quickly. Moves fast, wants to arrange meetups or loses interest talking. Mulling it over, I do like the red ones.

https://members.seeking.com/member/5...b-189f18ec9e58

[Goo3215]

She can do a qv for 200 and can also host in the NKY area. 300 for 2 hours and multiple pops.

Pm for digits or more info.

Sent you a PM.

[TroublePlay]

I received a message on seeking from someone I want to talk with. Need to renew my membership; does anyone know if the discount codes from March still work? I've got a few in my inbox that might make it worth my dollars if I re-up. Thank you.

Just try them. They should work.

[Wielic]

I received a message on seeking from someone I want to talk with. Need to renew my membership; does anyone know if the discount codes from March still work? I've got a few in my inbox that might make it worth my dollars if I re-up. Thank you.

[CooperTown]

Has anyone seen Emily_1988 on SB? https://www.secretbenefits.com/next/...d085e979984275.

I would appreciate any information you might have.

She can do a qv for 200 and can also host in the NKY area. 300 for 2 hours and multiple pops.

Pm for digits or more info.

[TroublePlay]

Hey all, I know it's been answered before but how are you currently able to get a monthly membership without using your own cc? I tried with a couple different prepaid and green cards from wallgreens etc but it's not accepting the payment for me.

Anyone able to confirm what cards work? DM me or respond to this world be great.

I use Netspend. After loading the card it is ready to use in 30-60 minutes. You do need to use I'd and address to get card. I use my work address and quarterly receive junk mail with no payment info. I also use it to make Hotwire hotel reservations.