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[Uncountable]

I know most members here are wise and will not make the stupid mistake I made today, but I was extremely horny today and I gave in to the little guy, so I made a terrible mistake. I booked an outcall escort from callescort dot org for an hour. I invited her to my damn apartment! Dumb, dumb, dumb mistake. A few seconds before she arrived, I went to dispose of the trash outside.

As I was about to go back into the compound, she pulled over beside me and she instantly identified me, probably because I told her my race and age. She had a big belly and messed up teeth. I wanted to run away but she looked like the type to make a scene. We went inside and the moment I handed her the money, she took her bag and slowly made her way to the exit. Almost like she knew that I hadn't the balls to do anything. There is nothing in this world that terrifies me more than public confrontations or making a scene in public.

I also paid a deposit of $40 by cashapp for gas. All in all, I suffered a loss of $340 for my stupidity. Even as I was making these decisions, I knew what I was doing was reckless and foolish, but I soldiered on like a retard.

Normally with my SBs, I always paid after the deed, never before, but escorts have different rules. Never, ever invite an escort into your house! If you must, let her be a well reviewed one from a reputable site.

[PantyPatrol1]

Familiarize yourself with all of the different diseases. In particular, these panels include Herpes simplex type I. This is the virus that causes cold sores, among many things. It is easily transmitted, by kissing, drinking from a dirty glass, etc. Therefore, about two-thirds of the US population is seropositive for this one. So don't get freaked out when you see you are +, and don't let your SB give you any crap about it.

I have never had a positive test using this service, other than HSV I, so IDK if I would be tracked down by public health authorities. I can just say that it seems these days every business is trying to stress you out with some terrible thing might be lurking out there to get you to spend more $ on their services.

This is good info-thanks. The herpes strain that affects genitals is HSV 2 I believe. It seems with POT SB's 1/3 are hard core condom only, 1/3 will tell you BB OK if you look clean and the other 1/3 will do BB only with a test like this.

[FarFarAway]

IDK why this is so hard for folks. I have posted about this before, many others already know about it. Use the stdcheck.com website. I believe that is the right URL, I don't have current access to my sugar jump drive where I keep all those records. Anyway, the site I use, you can go on there and pay for a STD panel, including all the viral and bacterial diseases, but I think perhaps not chlamydia. You can do that with the same sort of prepaid debit card we are always using for our SA membership. You can establish an account w / a fake sugar name, and all contact info fake. You are given a selection of local clinics (Quest, etc.) where you can go give your samples (blood and urine).

I find a lab in the back of a grocery store local to my work, no one knows me in that city. I make an appointment, print out the paperwork from the website, take it in, and get the samples taken. No muss, no fuss. In a day or two I get an email from the site that my results are ready. I can download a nice official-looking PDF file, it lists all of the tests done and that they were negative, it gives all of the fake sugar info I gave the site originally. This would be satisfactory for absolutely any SB who was worried about the cleanliness of her SD.

Familiarize yourself with all of the different diseases. In particular, these panels include Herpes simplex type I. This is the virus that causes cold sores, among many things. It is easily transmitted, by kissing, drinking from a dirty glass, etc. Therefore, about two-thirds of the US population is seropositive for this one. So don't get freaked out when you see you are +, and don't let your SB give you any crap about it.

I have never had a positive test using this service, other than HSV I, so IDK if I would be tracked down by public health authorities. I can just say that it seems these days every business is trying to stress you out with some terrible thing might be lurking out there to get you to spend more $ on their services.

[Shampoo55]

A lot of posts here stress the need for opsec with regard to communications, burner phone, photos, payments, etc.

But what about STD testing? Is there a way to do that anonymously / securely?

Probably can avoid some part of a paper trail by paying cash, but the real issue is I believe most (all?) testers want to see I'd?

Nightmare scenario would be a positive result. I believe some are notifiable, I. E. SO would potentially be informed, if you give real info?

I know this is a stale topic, but one thing I ran into while doing Anon testing is this. Bought a test kit off Ebay or Amazon. Registered it to my Sugar I'd. All good. But then a week or two later, here comes fast and furious emails from the testing site. They said I had something! WTF! So within hours I was in a redi-Clinic getting retested and treated for said disease.

Now here is where the fun begins. Right away the some Nimrod from the State Health Department starts texting my GV number. The dude was like a dog with a bone and would not let up. He wanted to see to it that I got treated. He would not take my word for the fact that I went and got treated and retested. This debate went on for DAYS and eventually I got the test results back from a real lab and it was NEGATIVE. So the dumb at # from the HD was working with a False Positive. Plus I had been needlessly treated. The dude pressed on and would not quit, stating that I should have waited for him and then I could have gotten treated for FREE at the HD. Genius!

Obviously I couldn't wander into the State HD for treatment without proper I'd. And since the testing was done under the Sugar I'd I had no way to do that. Might have been able to get the clinic to treat me anyway, but that would mean linking the Sugar I'd to IRL info. So eventually the HD guy told me he knew where I lived. It was the Sugar I'd address and I think he sent an agent or something there to "find me" and get me treated.

But the Sugar I'd worked, they never found me, BUT there were consequences. Plus no doubt if they could every match the Sugar I'd to IRL they could do something dumb like impersonation charges.

So yeah, Anon STD testing can be done, but if you pop Positive for anything, there are consequences!

[HollywoodGuy]

Met up with her in the FC long time ago, less ink back then. Same tricks with the multiple profiles. Picked her up from some apartment complex, did the deed, and dropped her off somewhere else at her request. It was BBFS no CIP as she wasnt on BC. From what I can gather, she's a single mom with "issues" and isn't quite right in the head. Was spewing off conspiracy theories and shit on the ride back. I'd repeat for the 150 sugar we agreed on, but she blocked me after and reestablished contact recently and won't budge below 300. I'll pass.

This is how you get them for less. When they are early on in their seeking career.

[Alkalinedio]

Damn! Sketch ballz.

Thanks for the heads up.

You did the right thing, not worth the drama if that escalated.

Stay safe.

AD.

Spare me the info about what I should have done please. Just posting this so no one else goes through what I did.

This girl seemed innocent enough. We had good convos over text. No red flags or areas of concern that stood out. Decided to meet this morning at a hotel. Sent her $$$ through an app. As soon as the money came through she started screaming for help and bee lined to the door. I fought with her for a second but then my brain took over and I just pushed her out through the door and let her go.

Lesson learned. Just beware of this ***** so you don't get caught up like I did. Unfortunately I can no longer access her profile but her username was miumiu_99 pics I posted are of her. Goes by Daysia or Lala. Phone ended in 1112.

[Anontt6]

This girl sets up a new profile every few days.

https://members.seeking.com/member/a...7-61458de7b561

I have run across a few others who do the same.

Met up with her in the FC long time ago, less ink back then. Same tricks with the multiple profiles. Picked her up from some apartment complex, did the deed, and dropped her off somewhere else at her request. It was BBFS no CIP as she wasnt on BC. From what I can gather, she's a single mom with "issues" and isn't quite right in the head. Was spewing off conspiracy theories and shit on the ride back. I'd repeat for the 150 sugar we agreed on, but she blocked me after and reestablished contact recently and won't budge below 300. I'll pass.

[HappyJob]

Met up with sb I intially started talking to like 2 months ago but never met up, text her 2 days ago she said she wanted to meet yesterday so we met at a bar she was a real ditz so could only do one drink to handle that conversation, went to the room started with BBBJ for a while she seemed really into it, told her to sit on it she didn't say anything about a cover and she just jumped on, she had mentioned earlier she was on bc so I just unloaded in her, overall ok time she's got a great curvy body, on her profile one of her pics is really her the other ones are fake, I'll post link once I'm done.

[CumInPussy]

This girl sets up a new profile every few days.

https://members.seeking.com/member/a...7-61458de7b561

I have run across a few others who do the same.

She is super flaky too. I tried to setup meeting with her, agreed on time and texted her like one hour before meet to confirm, no response. Few hour later she responded and said just woke up and insisted to meet but I was busy. Tried again next time and same thing happened. She sounds desperate for money but can't manage her time and commit to the meeting.

Interestingly I met her in person, while meeting other girl that apparently her friend. She was driving her friend to meet me at Starbucks then left. I didn't say anything to her that time. Her fried use screen name Nikki. I met her for $300 early this year and she blocked me, so I don't have her seeking's link but see her profile before she blocked me. Idk if she is still around, that was earlier this year.

[FarFarAway]

This girl sets up a new profile every few days.

https://members.seeking.com/member/a...7-61458de7b561

I have run across a few others who do the same.

[PussyDestroyr]

Looks like she's back on the site under a different name now. We just started chatting but glad I saw this.

https://members.seeking.com/member/a...b-0f6d9d5437a7

You probably dodge an STD bullet.

[JackMiles]

Mongering in Tokyo is a bit challenging if you don't speak Japanese. Some places accept foreigners but usually limited to BJ joint. FS join like soapland most of the time requires some Japanese knowledge. There are few that foreigner friendly but the girl selection usually on the older side. Your best bet is book them from Asian Mystique (google asian mystique japan).

You can also try Seeking. Girls there range from 30-80 k yen and less GPS compare to LA / OC here. On average you can get someone for 40-50 k yen. About 50% are not Japanese, but varies from neighboring countries. Japanese one tends to ask over 50.

Check International Sex Guide page for Japan or you can also PM me as this is not the right forum to discuss.

Thanks just PMed you!

[Murrican]

Mongering in Tokyo is a bit challenging if you don't speak Japanese. Some places accept foreigners but usually limited to BJ joint. FS join like soapland most of the time requires some Japanese knowledge. There are few that foreigner friendly but the girl selection usually on the older side. Your best bet is book them from Asian Mystique (google asian mystique japan).

You can also try Seeking. Girls there range from 30-80 k yen and less GPS compare to LA / OC here. On average you can get someone for 40-50 k yen. About 50% are not Japanese, but varies from neighboring countries. Japanese one tends to ask over 50.

Check International Sex Guide page for Japan or you can also PM me as this is not the right forum to discuss.

I'm a white guy and I mongered in Tokyo. Let me say 3 things.

First, the best stuff is off-limits to you. Accept it. Japan has huge sex culture. Kinky shit. Crazy shit. Look it up. I'm talking like pay to grope a girl on the subway crazy. But it's only for native Japanese. They see foreigners as interesting but dirty.

Second, you can still get stuff. I got room service escorts. But they weren't the premiums. One girl was Filipina and one was Japanese but clearly had seen better days.

Third, it's still worth goign. Japan is one of the most unique and amazing places. I'd go there even without mongering. I spent 3 nights just wandering the alleys of Golden Gai and talking to people. Amazing place.

[CumInPussy]

Wrong site, I know, but if anyone has any good Intel on the monger scene in Tokyo, let me know. Heading there next week.

Mongering in Tokyo is a bit challenging if you don't speak Japanese. Some places accept foreigners but usually limited to BJ joint. FS join like soapland most of the time requires some Japanese knowledge. There are few that foreigner friendly but the girl selection usually on the older side. Your best bet is book them from Asian Mystique (google asian mystique japan).

You can also try Seeking. Girls there range from 30-80 k yen and less GPS compare to LA / OC here. On average you can get someone for 40-50 k yen. About 50% are not Japanese, but varies from neighboring countries. Japanese one tends to ask over 50.

Check International Sex Guide page for Japan or you can also PM me as this is not the right forum to discuss.

[Uncountable]

Sugar baby recounts her experience on SA.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pnNz8pKis38

Watching the full session really gave me some insights into how we are viewed:

* Lonely men.

* Creepy.

* Sad.

* Willing to pay premium just to grab the attention of pretty young girls.

No wonder so many of these girls get mad at the thought of putting out. They actually do not see themselves as selling their bodies.